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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I have been on here for a while now under different profile names ( change when bored ) but what I have noticed within these times that people have a misconception to what this site is about now that Covers All , so I wonder if there is others out there like me who like to talk there mind or forever hold there peace , it's beyond me .yae or nae .

Naughty step awaits

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Now I have been on here for a while now under different profile names ( change when bored ) but what I have noticed within these times that people have a misconception to what this site is about now that Covers All , so I wonder if there is others out there like me who like to talk there mind or forever hold there peace , it's beyond me .yae or nae .

Naughty step awaits "

Huh?

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Now I have been on here for a while now under different profile names ( change when bored ) but what I have noticed within these times that people have a misconception to what this site is about now that Covers All , so I wonder if there is others out there like me who like to talk there mind or forever hold there peace , it's beyond me .yae or nae .

Naughty step awaits "

What you smokin there mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I have been on here for a while now under different profile names ( change when bored ) but what I have noticed within these times that people have a misconception to what this site is about now that Covers All , so I wonder if there is others out there like me who like to talk there mind or forever hold there peace , it's beyond me .yae or nae .

Naughty step awaits

Huh? "

I’d also like clarification on the question OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what he means is some folk see it as a hook up sex site rather than a swingers site. I think so anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42!

Do I win? Is that the right answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what he means is some folk see it as a hook up sex site rather than a swingers site. I think so anyway "

An oft discussed topic... the internet has exploded since fab started so yes it’s changed. Some still use it as was (swinging as a lifestyle) others as a hook up site... everyone uses it for their needs, horses for courses I’m sure you’ll agree. (Still would like the OP to clarify though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42!

Do I win? Is that the right answer? "

It’ll do for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban "

There’s been lots of threads the same so would hope you don’t get a ban... see above my response

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban "

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R "

yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang "

And how long ago was that?

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang

And how long ago was that?

R "

why all the interest I said I had been on the Naughty step is that not enough

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang

And how long ago was that?

R why all the interest I said I had been on the Naughty step is that not enough "

Just being nosy. Wasn't aware you'd been using the forums long enough to get a ban ..... or say anything that bad.

R

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban "

Everyone uses fab for different reasons! Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42!

Do I win? Is that the right answer?

It’ll do for me "

What's my prize? Only thing I've ever won was a bucket and a mop at bingo. And my Maw claimed it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang

And how long ago was that?

R why all the interest I said I had been on the Naughty step is that not enough

Just being nosy. Wasn't aware you'd been using the forums long enough to get a ban ..... or say anything that bad.

R "

been here a good few years now and if you had been here as long you might have remembered the member I mentioned in my post what a person straight taller no Arse n Grace's ,

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang

And how long ago was that?

R why all the interest I said I had been on the Naughty step is that not enough

Just being nosy. Wasn't aware you'd been using the forums long enough to get a ban ..... or say anything that bad.

R been here a good few years now and if you had been here as long you might have remembered the member I mentioned in my post what a person straight taller no Arse n Grace's , "

You have no idea how long I've been here for. I just choose not to name drop.

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang

And how long ago was that?

R why all the interest I said I had been on the Naughty step is that not enough

Just being nosy. Wasn't aware you'd been using the forums long enough to get a ban ..... or say anything that bad.

R been here a good few years now and if you had been here as long you might have remembered the member I mentioned in my post what a person straight taller no Arse n Grace's ,

You have no idea how long I've been here for. I just choose not to name drop.

R "

ah well at least we av something in common cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no misconception if people are using the site in a way that suits them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm using it to wank my brains out while reading the veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youll only get out of it, what you put into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no misconception if people are using the site in a way that suits them "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42!

Do I win? Is that the right answer?

It’ll do for me

What's my prize? Only thing I've ever won was a bucket and a mop at bingo. And my Maw claimed it!"

I’ll babysit the sprogs for a night so you and Mr can go on a date night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man above is correct in his assumption off what I mean and covers all means I am not picking on one sex so open to all sexes .

Naughty step awaits as usually these post get you a ban

Have you ever even had a ban op?

R yip and that was for speaking my mind let's say it was a gagging order . I always mind The View saying totally agree but don't see this going far . Bang

And how long ago was that?

R why all the interest I said I had been on the Naughty step is that not enough

Just being nosy. Wasn't aware you'd been using the forums long enough to get a ban ..... or say anything that bad.

R "

You can also get bans for discussing bans

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

OP, just forget you asked the question, as proven by one of the replies if you are not an hourly poster in the Scottish forums those whom unofficially police and believe they are the king/queen of forums will berate you with passive agressive replies.

And yes; the member you mentioned did indeed speak his mind as did his sadly missed female friend.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I have been on here for a while now under different profile names ( change when bored ) but what I have noticed within these times that people have a misconception to what this site is about now that Covers All , so I wonder if there is others out there like me who like to talk there mind or forever hold there peace , it's beyond me .yae or nae .

Naughty step awaits "

I think people use the site in different ways, and I don’t think there’s necessarily a ‘wrong’ way (unless it breaks site rules obviously)

Just you do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I have been on here for a while now under different profile names ( change when bored ) but what I have noticed within these times that people have a misconception to what this site is about now that Covers All , so I wonder if there is others out there like me who like to talk there mind or forever hold there peace , it's beyond me .yae or nae .

Naughty step awaits

I think people use the site in different ways, and I don’t think there’s necessarily a ‘wrong’ way (unless it breaks site rules obviously)

Just you do you "

For example, people use it for dating, and to begin with I thought ‘well that’s odd’ but I guess it makes sense - if you’re looking for a swinging type relationship, what better place to look than a swinging site? I know of a few couples who have met on here.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"OP, just forget you asked the question, as proven by one of the replies if you are not an hourly poster in the Scottish forums those whom unofficially police and believe they are the king/queen of forums will berate you with passive agressive replies.

And yes; the member you mentioned did indeed speak his mind as did his sadly missed female friend.

M "

First time I've ever been given that title! And those that really know me would definitely not describe me as such.

R

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough


"OP, just forget you asked the question, as proven by one of the replies if you are not an hourly poster in the Scottish forums those whom unofficially police and believe they are the king/queen of forums will berate you with passive agressive replies.

And yes; the member you mentioned did indeed speak his mind as did his sadly missed female friend.

M

First time I've ever been given that title! And those that really know me would definitely not describe me as such.

R "

You have chosen to believe that reply was aimed at yourself,there are numerous people whom have replied to the OP's initial post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm with the OP on this. Its a swinger's site not a dating site unless you find a date then want to have some swinging fun lol . Its affiliated with cjs and other swinger's clubs NO ? Not as many swinger's sites compared to 1000s of dating sites. So it's understandable why the swinger's get annoyed that there's people on here only looking to date straight and not want the fun to which it is intended by the name in which this site belongs .

Its called fab swinger's for a reason. Correct me if I'm wrong but come on. Daters have loads more options and meeting grounds than swinger's do. Thus reason why swinger's are getting frustrated .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to say I don't understand a word of this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm with the OP on this. Its a swinger's site not a dating site unless you find a date then want to have some swinging fun lol . Its affiliated with cjs and other swinger's clubs NO ? Not as many swinger's sites compared to 1000s of dating sites. So it's understandable why the swinger's get annoyed that there's people on here only looking to date straight and not want the fun to which it is intended by the name in which this site belongs .

Its called fab swinger's for a reason. Correct me if I'm wrong but come on. Daters have loads more options and meeting grounds than swinger's do. Thus reason why swinger's are getting frustrated ."

It's a site for people to use in a way that suits them.

If swingers are getting frustrated then perhaps they should reflect on how they go about things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm with the OP on this. Its a swinger's site not a dating site unless you find a date then want to have some swinging fun lol . Its affiliated with cjs and other swinger's clubs NO ? Not as many swinger's sites compared to 1000s of dating sites. So it's understandable why the swinger's get annoyed that there's people on here only looking to date straight and not want the fun to which it is intended by the name in which this site belongs .

Its called fab swinger's for a reason. Correct me if I'm wrong but come on. Daters have loads more options and meeting grounds than swinger's do. Thus reason why swinger's are getting frustrated .

It's a site for people to use in a way that suits them.

If swingers are getting frustrated then perhaps they should reflect on how they go about things "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm with the OP on this. Its a swinger's site not a dating site unless you find a date then want to have some swinging fun lol . Its affiliated with cjs and other swinger's clubs NO ? Not as many swinger's sites compared to 1000s of dating sites. So it's understandable why the swinger's get annoyed that there's people on here only looking to date straight and not want the fun to which it is intended by the name in which this site belongs .

Its called fab swinger's for a reason. Correct me if I'm wrong but come on. Daters have loads more options and meeting grounds than swinger's do. Thus reason why swinger's are getting frustrated .

It's a site for people to use in a way that suits them.

If swingers are getting frustrated then perhaps they should reflect on how they go about things

This. "

+1

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Well I'm with the OP on this. Its a swinger's site not a dating site unless you find a date then want to have some swinging fun lol . Its affiliated with cjs and other swinger's clubs NO ? Not as many swinger's sites compared to 1000s of dating sites. So it's understandable why the swinger's get annoyed that there's people on here only looking to date straight and not want the fun to which it is intended by the name in which this site belongs .

Its called fab swinger's for a reason. Correct me if I'm wrong but come on. Daters have loads more options and meeting grounds than swinger's do. Thus reason why swinger's are getting frustrated .

It's a site for people to use in a way that suits them.

If swingers are getting frustrated then perhaps they should reflect on how they go about things

This.

+1"

+2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating sites aren't something people keep private unlike swinger sites , swinger's if you have noticed want discretion well most I've come across do ,where as when you mix both there is more chance that descretion becomes void and can become a topic for conversation.

Just don't think the two should be mixed . As it is there is already so many fake people on here .

The two should be seperate as people are looking for different aspects of things in the swinging world and I can guarantee alot of straight singles only looking to date opposite sex are and have been shocked at some messages and this again becomes up for discussion in open world .

Maybe all should take the descretionary option off their profiles because you just can't mix the two.

My opinion and I can assure you its not only me who thinks this.

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Dating sites aren't something people keep private unlike swinger sites , swinger's if you have noticed want discretion well most I've come across do ,where as when you mix both there is more chance that descretion becomes void and can become a topic for conversation.

Just don't think the two should be mixed . As it is there is already so many fake people on here .

The two should be seperate as people are looking for different aspects of things in the swinging world and I can guarantee alot of straight singles only looking to date opposite sex are and have been shocked at some messages and this again becomes up for discussion in open world .

Maybe all should take the descretionary option off their profiles because you just can't mix the two.

My opinion and I can assure you its not only me who thinks this. "

So your saying singles can’t be swingers and aren’t discreet... rather rude actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dating sites aren't something people keep private unlike swinger sites , swinger's if you have noticed want discretion well most I've come across do ,where as when you mix both there is more chance that descretion becomes void and can become a topic for conversation.

Just don't think the two should be mixed . As it is there is already so many fake people on here .

The two should be seperate as people are looking for different aspects of things in the swinging world and I can guarantee alot of straight singles only looking to date opposite sex are and have been shocked at some messages and this again becomes up for discussion in open world .

Maybe all should take the descretionary option off their profiles because you just can't mix the two.

My opinion and I can assure you its not only me who thinks this. "

There are thousands of profiles on here so I honestly don't understand the frustration. Scanning through profile blurbs, verifications and the club reviews (which could all be shite), I'd argue that couples looking for other couples (I.e genuine swingers) have the most choice and options on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird thread.

And also highlights folk with multiple profiles they come and go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeh on this site I would agree there are more options for couples as that is what it was intended for. What I'm saying is for dating purposes there is more dating sites out there for that reason but for swinger's definitely not as many. So swinger's couples choose a site such as thins for that reason . Fab swinger's draws you in thinking this site is for swinger's . Why else look up swinger's clubs. So can't understand why some who are not swinger's would actually join a site for swinger's.

Not having a go at anyone I'm staying facts of matter here. Its in the title of the site. Or maybe the site name should be changed to "all welcome".

I do get single people have fantasies etc and maybe they want to meet someone and then go swinging together that's not what I'm talking about as that would still be classed as swinging. I'm talking about singles on here that are only for opposite sex dating/ relationship seeking with no intentions to swing whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No singles with no intentions of swinging . The ones who only want a relations with no intentions to swing.

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"No singles with no intentions of swinging . The ones who only want a relations with no intentions to swing. "

I don’t think that’s very common though? Any singles I have met have no interest in dating.. neither do I, if I did I would go to pof or tinder tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes exactly I totally agree . I've come across a few and spoke to other who have also come across those who just want a relationship with opposite no intentions of swinging . Not their cup of tea. Obviously I don't think there is hundreds but there are few out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately people can and should use this site however they choose to . I've never seen myself as much of a swinger. Mainly because group fun isn't high on my list of wants and also because I don't ever want to be in a swinging couple. Therefore I'd be a hypocrite.

I have masses of respect for those that are though.

I've been on and off this site for many years. A lot of that time I've actually made it clear I had no intentions of meeting.

I don't see anything wrong with this . If someone's profile doesn't fit with what you're looking for,just pass it by.

I never understand the need to criticise people for looking for something different from you.

There's room for us all here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No singles with no intentions of swinging . The ones who only want a relations with no intentions to swing.

I don’t think that’s very common though? Any singles I have met have no interest in dating.. neither do I, if I did I would go to pof or tinder tbh"

Why shouldn't single people seek a relationship here? After all having open conversations about sexual interests and needs is important to a relationship. A lot of people are unhappy in relationships because that element is missing?

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"No singles with no intentions of swinging . The ones who only want a relations with no intentions to swing.

I don’t think that’s very common though? Any singles I have met have no interest in dating.. neither do I, if I did I would go to pof or tinder tbh

Why shouldn't single people seek a relationship here? After all having open conversations about sexual interests and needs is important to a relationship. A lot of people are unhappy in relationships because that element is missing?"

I never said they shouldn’t? Just I don’t know anyone that wants to ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well when myself and hubby discussed swinging . We decided to look for a site that would enlighten us and give us opportunities in the swinging world. So search swinger's groups and Fabswingers came up. Its a swinging site!!! . Not a dating site and it's affiliated with swinging clubs . So thought great , descretion, fun bonus. But discover it's not just a swinger's site its also a dating site for singles who don't swing lol.so got to understand some unease for us . There are singles and it's no wonder some couples feel uneasy as can cause alot of insecurities with husband's or wives as there is potential for the singles who are not into swinging to actually approach a couple ( say for instance the wife who is in chat and single guy wants to chat without hubby present ) and disrupt the couple by causing issues . These things have been known to happen

This is not me I'm secure as hell in my marriage but in general . So those couples who came to join a swinging site find out it not actually just that , yea there is disappointment in that aspect of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when myself and hubby discussed swinging . We decided to look for a site that would enlighten us and give us opportunities in the swinging world. So search swinger's groups and Fabswingers came up. Its a swinging site!!! . Not a dating site and it's affiliated with swinging clubs . So thought great , descretion, fun bonus. But discover it's not just a swinger's site its also a dating site for singles who don't swing lol.so got to understand some unease for us . There are singles and it's no wonder some couples feel uneasy as can cause alot of insecurities with husband's or wives as there is potential for the singles who are not into swinging to actually approach a couple ( say for instance the wife who is in chat and single guy wants to chat without hubby present ) and disrupt the couple by causing issues . These things have been known to happen

This is not me I'm secure as hell in my marriage but in general . So those couples who came to join a swinging site find out it not actually just that , yea there is disappointment in that aspect of it. "

Yet there are many couples looking for a male or female to join them, surely a single person works in that scenario?

It's a shame that some couples have this elitist attitude that their way is the only way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when myself and hubby discussed swinging . We decided to look for a site that would enlighten us and give us opportunities in the swinging world. So search swinger's groups and Fabswingers came up. Its a swinging site!!! . Not a dating site and it's affiliated with swinging clubs . So thought great , descretion, fun bonus. But discover it's not just a swinger's site its also a dating site for singles who don't swing lol.so got to understand some unease for us . There are singles and it's no wonder some couples feel uneasy as can cause alot of insecurities with husband's or wives as there is potential for the singles who are not into swinging to actually approach a couple ( say for instance the wife who is in chat and single guy wants to chat without hubby present ) and disrupt the couple by causing issues . These things have been known to happen

This is not me I'm secure as hell in my marriage but in general . So those couples who came to join a swinging site find out it not actually just that , yea there is disappointment in that aspect of it. "

also when the husband just wants to chat to the single female when wife is out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when myself and hubby discussed swinging . We decided to look for a site that would enlighten us and give us opportunities in the swinging world. So search swinger's groups and Fabswingers came up. Its a swinging site!!! . Not a dating site and it's affiliated with swinging clubs . So thought great , descretion, fun bonus. But discover it's not just a swinger's site its also a dating site for singles who don't swing lol.so got to understand some unease for us . There are singles and it's no wonder some couples feel uneasy as can cause alot of insecurities with husband's or wives as there is potential for the singles who are not into swinging to actually approach a couple ( say for instance the wife who is in chat and single guy wants to chat without hubby present ) and disrupt the couple by causing issues . These things have been known to happen

This is not me I'm secure as hell in my marriage but in general . So those couples who came to join a swinging site find out it not actually just that , yea there is disappointment in that aspect of it. "

At the risk of sounding like an argumentative wee boot (yes...me...shockeroonie) I've heard the exact same story between 2 couples. When one partner approaches another half of the couple to pursue some extra curricular activities. Being a "bona fide" swinger guarantees fuck all in terms of discretion or anything else. Where sex is involved, there is always there is always the potential for things to go tits up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No singles with no intentions of swinging . The ones who only want a relations with no intentions to swing.

I don’t think that’s very common though? Any singles I have met have no interest in dating.. neither do I, if I did I would go to pof or tinder tbh

Why shouldn't single people seek a relationship here? After all having open conversations about sexual interests and needs is important to a relationship. A lot of people are unhappy in relationships because that element is missing?

I never said they shouldn’t? Just I don’t know anyone that wants to ..."

While I'm not particularly looking for a relationship on here or in general, my experience is that the men on here are more interesting, more intelligent, more appealing than any I've ever encountered on a traditional dating site. That in itself makes it a good place to look if I was seeking something more . Combined with my previous comments about that open communication about sex , hopefully without judgement, why wouldn't you?

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

It's the swing olympics or Strictly Come Swinging some should be looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dating sites aren't something people keep private unlike swinger sites , swinger's if you have noticed want discretion well most I've come across do ,where as when you mix both there is more chance that descretion becomes void and can become a topic for conversation.

Just don't think the two should be mixed . As it is there is already so many fake people on here .

The two should be seperate as people are looking for different aspects of things in the swinging world and I can guarantee alot of straight singles only looking to date opposite sex are and have been shocked at some messages and this again becomes up for discussion in open world .

Maybe all should take the descretionary option off their profiles because you just can't mix the two.

My opinion and I can assure you its not only me who thinks this.

There are thousands of profiles on here so I honestly don't understand the frustration. Scanning through profile blurbs, verifications and the club reviews (which could all be shite), I'd argue that couples looking for other couples (I.e genuine swingers) have the most choice and options on the site.

"

I would say ..Couples looking for Couples must be really difficult ..Im sure theres 4 people needing to hit it aff or its a dead parrot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously i can see it from both prospectives , singles meets someone who is especially open about things rather than closed about certain fantasies etc. Can be a great starting point in a relationship instead of keeping things like that to themselves and yes I have noticed alot of men are very intelligent on here.

But still stick by the name of the site and it's meaning and it's what swinging couples are drawn to and that's the heading fab swinger's. Not a dating site like "fab dating". If it's for all then the name should be changed as it's misleading.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So what happens if you originally join as a couple then become single? Should you give up swinging then?

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely , that would be classed as swinging. If single wants to mingle with the couple. Ffm/ mmf / mfmf ffffmmmmm all swinging or comes under same umbrella but singles not wanting to mingle.

There are many singles male and female who love a challenge of stealing a married man or woman. Its appealing to some. It obviously doesn't apply to all but most definitely some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I was not saying that. I said singles who have intentions of swinging ofcorse . Its a swinging site whether partnered up or not . What I was refering to was singles with NO INTENTIONS of swinging

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Absolutely , that would be classed as swinging. If single wants to mingle with the couple. Ffm/ mmf / mfmf ffffmmmmm all swinging or comes under same umbrella but singles not wanting to mingle.

There are many singles male and female who love a challenge of stealing a married man or woman. Its appealing to some. It obviously doesn't apply to all but most definitely some."

Seriously???!!

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are misreading what I'm saying if you joined as couple but now single . That's totally different to joining single with no intentions of swinging whatsoever.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I think you are misreading what I'm saying if you joined as couple but now single . That's totally different to joining single with no intentions of swinging whatsoever. "

I was more shocked at your generalisation that a lot of singles are out to break up relationships.

R

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By *issxxx73Woman
over a year ago

my own world


"I think you are misreading what I'm saying if you joined as couple but now single . That's totally different to joining single with no intentions of swinging whatsoever.

I was more shocked at your generalisation that a lot of singles are out to break up relationships.

R "

I'm with you on this littlemiss the generalisation on people looking to break up marriages.

My understanding I see quite alot people won't meet attached/ married males..

But as a married women & being bi couples disregard that because they are looking for their fantasies being fulfilled..

I had I was a married woman it didn't stop said people contacting me.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Dating sites are full of people from fab including married couples looking for threesomes and one half of a couple just looking for sex so it certainly won’t be the singles fault if that breaks up their marriage.

If swingers are using dating sites why can’t singles use fab for what they want.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I think you are misreading what I'm saying if you joined as couple but now single . That's totally different to joining single with no intentions of swinging whatsoever.

I was more shocked at your generalisation that a lot of singles are out to break up relationships.

R "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you noticed I said doesn't apply to all but definitely to SOME not meaning alot but some .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single female and have been in the lifestyle for 3 year's now, I am not on here to steal husband's or split up relationships so you can't say singles are here to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please read what's said. Not all singles have that intention but for some it is a thrill for them not all but some !!!

Geezo people going way off the topic here, its what the title of what the website is called FABSWINGERS. It should be renamed to a different names of all welcome and not just swinger's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had plenty married men in my time and it is not my intention to break up relationships. Infact I've probably kept them together!

I'm still offended by your comment that single people are out to break up marriages. Maybe you've had a bad experience that's left you bitter? Or is it that you've approached a single person and they have turned you down?

I think your arguments are pretty flawed.

Regardless of the name of the site , people will use it to meet their own needs. Rather than moaning about it, use it as a filter to find what you are looking for. It's not like it's not obvious if it's a single profile or a couple profile? Set your filters and use the tools of the site.

There are far too many people obsessed with what others are doing , then wonder why they are missing out? Go figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had plenty married men in my time and it is not my intention to break up relationships. Infact I've probably kept them together!

I'm still offended by your comment that single people are out to break up marriages. Maybe you've had a bad experience that's left you bitter? Or is it that you've approached a single person and they have turned you down?

I think your arguments are pretty flawed.

Regardless of the name of the site , people will use it to meet their own needs. Rather than moaning about it, use it as a filter to find what you are looking for. It's not like it's not obvious if it's a single profile or a couple profile? Set your filters and use the tools of the site.

There are far too many people obsessed with what others are doing , then wonder why they are missing out? Go figure!"

That last paragraph though...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Some bobby dazzlers of misconceptions here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen the thing is, and I'm no expert on the subject cause I've no had any luck here, that there is no other good site for what us singles are looking for as far as I know. There's too many sites only set up as money traps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what happens if you originally join as a couple then become single? Should you give up swinging then?

R "

Not unless you want to. Deleting the Couples profile and creating a Singles profile would be a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had any bad experiences nor have I or would I contact a man without hubby knowing about it not my thing lol. So you are totally wrong there especially since we are new to the swinging and I am definitely not that easy .

The filters are on but before they went on it was crazy , singles male and females messaging due to new meat even though I was clear with my preference on profile but regardless I had over 260 read messages from single guys and females only about half interested in joining in the other wanting one on one meets.

Not sure why you are taking it as a personal dig at you , it a general dig at the ones who don't pay attention to others needs and preferences and try their luck and it's no wonder so many couples leave and are put off by this site that was intended for the swinger's.

New swingers want to ease their way into swinging no be bombarded by singletons pretending to want to join but see your pictures then have no regards to the fact it's a couple they talking to not just one of the couples.

I have had numerous couples whom I'm in contact with all express this to me. Not all as secure as myself and hubby but want to have fun in the swinging world but are put off by it due to some single people. Some not you but others.

And I have no doubt couples can be the same sneaky too by contacting singles for one on one without the partner but because that option is there . Swinger couples get put off. I haven't but speaking from what I've heard about this site.

Oh and I have absolutely no problems finding couples to join myself and husband that for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notice how it's all the singles who all up in my comments . Go figure .

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So what happens if you originally join as a couple then become single? Should you give up swinging then?

R

Not unless you want to. Deleting the Couples profile and creating a Singles profile would be a good start. "

Exactly what I did do. & it's worked well for me & still does.

R

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Notice how it's all the singles who all up in my comments . Go figure .

"

Maybe because some of us singles have been here for a number of years & are absolutely nothing like the singles you have encountered.

R

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I'm with the OP on this. Its a swinger's site not a dating site unless you find a date then want to have some swinging fun lol . Its affiliated with cjs and other swinger's clubs NO ? Not as many swinger's sites compared to 1000s of dating sites. So it's understandable why the swinger's get annoyed that there's people on here only looking to date straight and not want the fun to which it is intended by the name in which this site belongs .

Its called fab swinger's for a reason. Correct me if I'm wrong but come on. Daters have loads more options and meeting grounds than swinger's do. Thus reason why swinger's are getting frustrated ."

not being funny you are entitled to your opinion but yet you are looking for single guys !

This site has evolved over the years and people join for a multitude of reasons all looking for something different.

Just because it doesnt suit certain members needs doesnt mean certain groups of people shouldnt be here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a forum where people come to discuss their opinions, concerns etc.... This happens to be mine and quite a few couples issues and fears. However I don't fear this but others do.

Facts say while still single people are unknown commodities , the food on someone else’s plate always looks tastier. If someone else wants them, they must be worth wanting. Plus married people are more experienced reason for the attraction to married people.

The site is not what it says it is . Misleading to say the least due to people who are not into swinging and only use it as a dating site to meet the opposite sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes so then my comments wouldn't apply to you. So no need whatsoever to take what I say personally .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry wrong person we are not looking for single guys. I think you'll notice on my profile it's states no single guys, only single females who are into swinging / threesomes. Big difference

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Sorry wrong person we are not looking for single guys. I think you'll notice on my profile it's states no single guys, only single females who are into swinging / threesomes. Big difference "
you are right my apologies but the rest of my comment still stands plenty room on here for all kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes plenty room for all kinks. That's not what I'm saying . But straight dating for relationship isn't a kink of any sort it's just the norm. All kinks yes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a forum where people come to discuss their opinions, concerns etc.... This happens to be mine and quite a few couples issues and fears. However I don't fear this but others do.

Facts say while still single people are unknown commodities , the food on someone else’s plate always looks tastier. If someone else wants them, they must be worth wanting. Plus married people are more experienced reason for the attraction to married people.

The site is not what it says it is . Misleading to say the least due to people who are not into swinging and only use it as a dating site to meet the opposite sex .

"

The site isnt misleading.Its a swinging site for consenting adults.Its the people who change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know. Are the stars just pinholes in the curtain of night?

Obscure answer to an obscure question.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Its a forum where people come to discuss their opinions, concerns etc.... This happens to be mine and quite a few couples issues and fears. However I don't fear this but others do.

Facts say while still single people are unknown commodities , the food on someone else’s plate always looks tastier. If someone else wants them, they must be worth wanting. Plus married people are more experienced reason for the attraction to married people.

The site is not what it says it is . Misleading to say the least due to people who are not into swinging and only use it as a dating site to meet the opposite sex .

"

nonsense i cant believe your trying to pin singles as marriage wreckers theres only two folk can wreck a cpl and thats the cpl.

Married are more experienced lol sorry some of the most sexually repressed folk ive met are married you need to take if those rose tinted glasses im single through choice and i certaily aint intrested in feeding of anothers plate as you put it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Sorry wrong person we are not looking for single guys. I think you'll notice on my profile it's states no single guys, only single females who are into swinging / threesomes. Big difference "
the old single fems are swingers single males are chancer line classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a forum where people come to discuss their opinions, concerns etc.... This happens to be mine and quite a few couples issues and fears. However I don't fear this but others do.

Facts say while still single people are unknown commodities , the food on someone else’s plate always looks tastier. If someone else wants them, they must be worth wanting. Plus married people are more experienced reason for the attraction to married people.

The site is not what it says it is . Misleading to say the least due to people who are not into swinging and only use it as a dating site to meet the opposite sex .

nonsense i cant believe your trying to pin singles as marriage wreckers theres only two folk can wreck a cpl and thats the cpl.

Married are more experienced lol sorry some of the most sexually repressed folk ive met are married you need to take if those rose tinted glasses im single through choice and i certaily aint intrested in feeding of anothers plate as you put it "

Agreed Kola ...

Anyway.. i wouldnt let anyone eat Macaroni n Cheese aff my plate..

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I am extremely confused reading this thread

I am a single female

Not looking to date

Actually not meeting anyone new atm as I have a fwb (I met him here)

When I do meet it's for NSA

I am interested in clubs/parties

I am not interested in married men because they are married or apparently more worth having because they are married (because SOME married men even their wives aren't shagging them)

I am straight so not interested in joining couples for mff

Not sure now why I wrote a reply because I just confused myself even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh deer. Why taking it so personal. Let's speak on a percentage basis 45% of singles men and woman are more attracted to a married person. Now this doesn't apply to ALL but a percentage of the population in UK , so absolutely no need to take it as a direct personal attack you probably won't be in that 45% .

You are now having an opinion on married people who you've met being more repressed,so basically generalising , but thats what you think and ofcorse it's your opinion which you are entitled to but Isn't that a bit double standards.

Don't know what married couples you've been meeting

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You've been here 6 weeks & are making a very sweeping judgement on many of us singles have been here for years!

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your point is , so basically those who are newbies have no rights to say what they think or feel, so we've to shut up and have no opinion. I'm 42 not 16 .

And I have no idea why you think I'm having a go or pointing fingers at your your profile clearly states your bi curious and open to meeting FF/ mf/FF so again does not apply to swinger's or those interested in swinging.

6 weeks or 6 years makes no difference . I didn't realise that the longer you are on a sex site the more authority you have over others

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Oh deer. Why taking it so personal. Let's speak on a percentage basis 45% of singles men and woman are more attracted to a married person. Now this doesn't apply to ALL but a percentage of the population in UK , so absolutely no need to take it as a direct personal attack you probably won't be in that 45% .

You are now having an opinion on married people who you've met being more repressed,so basically generalising , but thats what you think and ofcorse it's your opinion which you are entitled to but Isn't that a bit double standards.

Don't know what married couples you've been meeting

"

nobodys taking it personal you cant just make up percentages to suit what you say.

Ive not seen one singleton agree with what you say.....i will correct that one single person. Thats along way short of the 45% your claiming.

Your attempting to push your opinion as fact otherwise show us how wrong we are with the source of your data.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not have Google. Fair enough some sites on stats say 36% other 60% and 51% and so on but that's based on different areas in UK so overall average was 45% in whole UK .

I take it you maybe skipped the part I said 45% of UK not fab swingers lol. Not needing anyone to agree with me. Single or not. Wouldn't expect single people to agree based on what I've said anyway.as I said everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I actually looked up on it , I don't pull out shit from fresh air.

Unfortunately I can not copy past on here so you will have to do the hard work and research yourselves. Make sure you have a calculator .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I seriously doubt any site says 45% of singles want to break up married cpls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's certainly got to be an aspect of "you always want what you can't have" but I think this is more of a misunderstanding that's been blown out of proportion. Now about 50% of guys will sleep with anyone who's willing, the other 50% want to aim for the hottest chick they can find and statistically the hottest chick is going to be already claimed. I think that's where this idea might stem from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you seperate single woman from single men . You have The eight reasons 90% of women are attracted to a man who is taken (and why only half avoid acting in it)

The percentage is lower for men attracted to married woman ,( some refuse to act on impulse due to the drama and upset it may cause all involved) however the more narcissistic type male will act on this as a prize of possession , winning trophy .

Study done since 2009 in UK through to present day .

In one study, 60 per cent of men, compared to 38 per cent of women, admitted to attempting to sleep with someone who was already taken.

Men are far less discriminating in their search for sexual partners generally and will pursue women regardless of their relationship status.

So that's been taken directly off not one but 3 different websites based on the physcology of both make and female and studies done to date.

Now just because it doesn't apply to you or half the people on fabswingers doesn't make it untrue because you say so.

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Well if you seperate single woman from single men . You have The eight reasons 90% of women are attracted to a man who is taken (and why only half avoid acting in it)

The percentage is lower for men attracted to married woman ,( some refuse to act on impulse due to the drama and upset it may cause all involved) however the more narcissistic type male will act on this as a prize of possession , winning trophy .

Study done since 2009 in UK through to present day .

In one study, 60 per cent of men, compared to 38 per cent of women, admitted to attempting to sleep with someone who was already taken.

Men are far less discriminating in their search for sexual partners generally and will pursue women regardless of their relationship status.

So that's been taken directly off not one but 3 different websites based on the physcology of both make and female and studies done to date.

Now just because it doesn't apply to you or half the people on fabswingers doesn't make it untrue because you say so."

Yawwwwn! Your just getting really boring now... you do you and us singles will keep on keeping on trying to steal your hubbies ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move alone and don't read or reply it's that simple. And good luck with what you said lol

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Well if you seperate single woman from single men . You have The eight reasons 90% of women are attracted to a man who is taken (and why only half avoid acting in it)"

I believe a study also said it was mostly younger possibly inexperienced girls who felt the most attraction to a married man, and the biggest reason for any woman being attracted to a taken man is because in some way he has been verified as safe

I wonder if the same applies to all the verified men on fab

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Move alone and don't read or reply it's that simple. And good luck with what you said lol"

Um no? You have been talking pish this whole thread and I’m not allowed to? Lol ok, ps I was being a wee bit sarcastic mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly yes but not all. But you are correct.

I think most female think a married man kids etc is their safest bet. Who knows but obviously this isn't always the case.

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Mostly yes but not all. But you are correct.

I think most female think a married man kids etc is their safest bet. Who knows but obviously this isn't always the case.

"

I get the idea behind the attraction just not the logic

Because realistically if you "steal" someone else's man then surely its logical that someone else will come along and "steal" him from you

In my eyes once a cheat always a cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a forum and been replying to comments which has went from name of the site being misleading to others assuming I'm insulting their singleton status because some can't understand or misread things so like to clear things up with facts. I don't talk piss I say things how I see them or from what I've researched or read about or from others points of view . You know those ones who are too scared to voice their opinion incase they get struck down like the majority have tried to do to me on this. I'm just a different keetle of fish and tend to stick my heels in. Some might see that as a flaw but I don't .

But really if you are not interested or fed up with the responses/ replies then it's simple do not read and move to another post or put your two pence worth in.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion without being cheeky and nasty about it. If you don't like my response back to you then you should think about how you responded the way you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone will agree to most things in life but to assume someone is talking pish or making up shit . Can be taken as a direct insult to an well educated person.so have your opinion as is your right and have an arguement over the opinions which is everyones right but without the ignorance and nastiness that comes with it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Mostly yes but not all. But you are correct.

I think most female think a married man kids etc is their safest bet. Who knows but obviously this isn't always the case.

"

put it to a poll on here and I think ul find the numbers differ as most single fems will avoid married or attatched like the plague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't disagree . When I mentioned about percentages it was whole of UK not little old fab swinger's. There is prob only a small percentage on fab swinger's that would come under that umbrella. But still couples will have the fears especially if there is insecurities, body/ relationship issues etc that's why alot don't last , go away and come back years later bit stronger.

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Not everyone will agree to most things in life but to assume someone is talking pish or making up shit . Can be taken as a direct insult to an well educated person.so have your opinion as is your right and have an arguement over the opinions which is everyones right but without the ignorance and nastiness that comes with it"

Well consider me scolded miss! Your not a school teacher by any chance? Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I don't disagree . When I mentioned about percentages it was whole of UK not little old fab swinger's. There is prob only a small percentage on fab swinger's that would come under that umbrella. But still couples will have the fears especially if there is insecurities, body/ relationship issues etc that's why alot don't last , go away and come back years later bit stronger.

"

why mention statistics for the whole of the uk tho when most are replying in responce to the Ops question not outwith fab !

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over a year ago

No I'm not a school teacher lol. To have kids questioning me , can you emagine

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over a year ago

Oh it went way off corse of the OPs post , kinda spiralled from one subject on to another and so forth. And if you go back someone mentioned I was talking piss and pulling numbers out my arse basically so then it went on to percentages and stats . So it spiralled as it usually does in forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I guessed 42 on my first post and you quoted 45% so do I win as I had the closest guess?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Well if you seperate single woman from single men . You have The eight reasons 90% of women are attracted to a man who is taken (and why only half avoid acting in it)

The percentage is lower for men attracted to married woman ,( some refuse to act on impulse due to the drama and upset it may cause all involved) however the more narcissistic type male will act on this as a prize of possession , winning trophy .

Study done since 2009 in UK through to present day .

In one study, 60 per cent of men, compared to 38 per cent of women, admitted to attempting to sleep with someone who was already taken.

Men are far less discriminating in their search for sexual partners generally and will pursue women regardless of their relationship status.

So that's been taken directly off not one but 3 different websites based on the physcology of both make and female and studies done to date.

Now just because it doesn't apply to you or half the people on fabswingers doesn't make it untrue because you say so."

so you want to change the bar to will sleep with them lol yup misconception right enough

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

My head hurts catching up but my answer is it's the ducks fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you were the closest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeezo this is hard going!

Can I just point out that I'm exactly the type of single person that a certain couple have said repeatedly shouldn't be on fab.

I'm also, shock horror that woman that will sleep with a married man. That doesn't make me some cold black hearted cow by the way.

I know I'm repeating myself here

but I ask again, why are people so concerned with what others do on here? Unless of course they are looking for excuses as to why they can't find what they are looking for. How's that for a theory?

Lastly, I'm here and there are many others just like me. And you know what I'm having a great time.

Suck it up buttercups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeezo this is hard going!

Can I just point out that I'm exactly the type of single person that a certain couple have said repeatedly shouldn't be on fab.

I'm also, shock horror that woman that will sleep with a married man. That doesn't make me some cold black hearted cow by the way.

I know I'm repeating myself here

but I ask again, why are people so concerned with what others do on here? Unless of course they are looking for excuses as to why they can't find what they are looking for. How's that for a theory?

Lastly, I'm here and there are many others just like me. And you know what I'm having a great time.

Suck it up buttercups

"

Always thought you were a bad'un

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeezo this is hard going!

Can I just point out that I'm exactly the type of single person that a certain couple have said repeatedly shouldn't be on fab.

I'm also, shock horror that woman that will sleep with a married man. That doesn't make me some cold black hearted cow by the way.

I know I'm repeating myself here

but I ask again, why are people so concerned with what others do on here? Unless of course they are looking for excuses as to why they can't find what they are looking for. How's that for a theory?

Lastly, I'm here and there are many others just like me. And you know what I'm having a great time.

Suck it up buttercups

Always thought you were a bad'un "

Ssssssshhhhh! Only sometimes...

The rest of the time I'm positively angelic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are aware non of what I said applies to you. Your profile states bi curious and open to new adventures , so open minded about things. Totally opposite from what I was saying. I said straight people with absolutely no intentions of swinging or being open-minded in any shape or form.

So no need to defend yourself .but yes you do seem like a bad yin but that's good at least your open minded .

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By *northodox LoversCouple
over a year ago

West Lothian


"Jeezo this is hard going!

Can I just point out that I'm exactly the type of single person that a certain couple have said repeatedly shouldn't be on fab.

I'm also, shock horror that woman that will sleep with a married man. That doesn't make me some cold black hearted cow by the way.

I know I'm repeating myself here

but I ask again, why are people so concerned with what others do on here? Unless of course they are looking for excuses as to why they can't find what they are looking for. How's that for a theory?

Lastly, I'm here and there are many others just like me. And you know what I'm having a great time.

Suck it up buttercups

Always thought you were a bad'un

Ssssssshhhhh! Only sometimes...

The rest of the time I'm positively angelic "

We can confirm your certainly angelic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are aware non of what I said applies to you. Your profile states bi curious and open to new adventures , so open minded about things. Totally opposite from what I was saying. I said straight people with absolutely no intentions of swinging or being open-minded in any shape or form.

So no need to defend yourself .but yes you do seem like a bad yin but that's good at least your open minded ."

I'd say some swingers are the most closed minded people I've encountered if their views on here are anything to go by

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"You are aware non of what I said applies to you. Your profile states bi curious and open to new adventures , so open minded about things. Totally opposite from what I was saying. I said straight people with absolutely no intentions of swinging or being open-minded in any shape or form.

So no need to defend yourself .but yes you do seem like a bad yin but that's good at least your open minded .

I'd say some swingers are the most closed minded people I've encountered if their views on here are anything to go by"

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

People will use dating sites and swinging sites to suit their needs and desires like being on fab but not meeting for fun just enjoying the social side, looking for a regular FWB, looking for a life partner or actual swinging the same as married guys, couples and single guys use dating sites for sex.

I suppose the problem is when people are not honest about what they are looking for but again that is not unique to fab. We have discussed this on the forums where couples lead on singles then let them down, singles letting couples down etc that's just life.

As has been said some couples are wary of single guys/girls because they are insecure however they probably shouldn't be on fab if they don't have a strong relationship. Marriages break down all the time, in some cases it involves a third party and even if that third party did set out to 'steal' a married person it was the married person's choice to be 'stolen' so the singleton should not be given the blame.

I think this has been mentioned but I imagine some marriages survive because a partner is on fab as one partner is being sexually satisfied outside the marriage and the other partner (who presumably isn't interested in sex as much) is not pestered in their marriage. If this marriage then broke down it's not because of fab as there were problems beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree before considering swinging ,Couples definitely need to be secure.Swinging isnt going to fix a marriage /relationship.

I think with most and what I was trying to get across was sometimes swinger's want to go to a place that only swinger's are minus any insecurities that could rear their heads. I also think people should be confident and comfortable with who they are body and mind before doing something like this.

I like to be the voice for people who dont have the courage to have a voice especially with a post like this where all jump on bandwagon and shoot down someone with a difference of opinion , so the couples who agree refuse to comment on fear same thing will happen to them .

So people should agree to disagree because we all have rights to our own opinions on things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42!

Do I win? Is that the right answer? "

42 is my oh atleast until nxt week

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Plenty of singles have disagreed with you, but I don't think I've seen any other couples agree with you!

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ofcorse cause it's aimed at singles who go it straight dating without the swinging . I had 3 messages about this from couples with Thier views . Couples that don't want to be shot down by singles who are closed minded to the fact that they have opinions too about how they feel the site misleadingly drew them in with the assumptions it was for SWINGER'S and then boom it's a site for all !!!!

So quite contradictory when you mentioned swinger's are close minded .

Open minded people choose to see things from both points of view, understanding why people have the views they do . So being open to understanding all opinions and points of views and getting additional information to support ones opinion.

Close minded people think they are always right. Which the majority of singles on this post have suggested .

Please correct me if I'm wrong

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

I'm as lost as a prude in a sex shop over this thread ,but reiterate it's the ducks

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Totally agree before considering swinging ,Couples definitely need to be secure.Swinging isnt going to fix a marriage /relationship.

I think with most and what I was trying to get across was sometimes swinger's want to go to a place that only swinger's are minus any insecurities that could rear their heads. I also think people should be confident and comfortable with who they are body and mind before doing something like this.

I like to be the voice for people who dont have the courage to have a voice especially with a post like this where all jump on bandwagon and shoot down someone with a difference of opinion , so the couples who agree refuse to comment on fear same thing will happen to them .

So people should agree to disagree because we all have rights to our own opinions on things

"

From the discussions here I take it you mean for swingers to be secure in swinging they only want other swinging couples on the site.

Surely there must be cases where couples have separated due to, for instance, the hubby of one couple and the wife of another getting together therefore nothing to do with singles. It’s not just singles that can feel the grass is greener on the other side.

Being the voice for others while can be commendable can also cause your opinions to be misconstrued as you have tended to focus on singles being the negative on fab however are happy for single women to join you. I know you have defended this by saying as long as they are swingers but I’m sure there will be cases of single swingers falling for one half of a couple this can happen in any situation fab related or not.

The comment about your length of time on fab wouldn’t be meaning you have no right to comment more you maybe haven’t experienced as much as some of the others who have been here a long time therefore your comments considered a bit naive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Close minded people think they are always right. Which the majority of singles on this post have suggested .

Please correct me if I'm wrong

"

Open minded people are less likely to be as vocal about how anyone else chooses to go about their way on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree before considering swinging ,Couples definitely need to be secure.Swinging isnt going to fix a marriage /relationship.

I think with most and what I was trying to get across was sometimes swinger's want to go to a place that only swinger's are minus any insecurities that could rear their heads. I also think people should be confident and comfortable with who they are body and mind before doing something like this.

I like to be the voice for people who dont have the courage to have a voice especially with a post like this where all jump on bandwagon and shoot down someone with a difference of opinion , so the couples who agree refuse to comment on fear same thing will happen to them .

So people should agree to disagree because we all have rights to our own opinions on things

"

I know you probably feel like you're getting it from angles here but to be honest the comments about folk being scared to post on here always make me think "wtf".

This forum is moderated with a rather firm hand I would say, especially of late. And if an adult (not you, those others you referred to) can't handle some comments from a bunch of strangers then they've got bigger issues than finding a shag on a swinging site!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Well ofcorse cause it's aimed at singles who go it straight dating without the swinging . I had 3 messages about this from couples with Thier views . Couples that don't want to be shot down by singles who are closed minded to the fact that they have opinions too about how they feel the site misleadingly drew them in with the assumptions it was for SWINGER'S and then boom it's a site for all !!!!

So quite contradictory when you mentioned swinger's are close minded .

Open minded people choose to see things from both points of view, understanding why people have the views they do . So being open to understanding all opinions and points of views and getting additional information to support ones opinion.

Close minded people think they are always right. Which the majority of singles on this post have suggested .

Please correct me if I'm wrong

"

the biggest problem with your argument is what is a swinger.

when the word was first concieved your profile would not be considered a swingers profile.so the first thing you need to accept is that very few share your opinion of what a swinger is.

You cant just claim things and expect folk to agree (i will never agree that singles are out to wreck marriages in the numbers you believe) contrary to popular belief on here you can and should give your opinion and also expect critique on its merits and downfalls.

Lots need to learn to suck it up buttercup and not be butthurt at the slightest disagreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m aware this thread has gotten somewhat confusing along the way but here’s my pennies worth...

Fabswingers.com is over 15 years old now. In its infancy a large proportion of us joined here after being members of some other ‘swinging’ sites. In that time the internet has grown into a gigantic monster and allowed the swinging/sex world to be more accessible. This encouraged an influx of all kinks/fantasies/desires to be sought via Fabswingers. Everyone is welcome and everyone should be made to feel welcome. (As long as they keep it legal lol)

I no longer class myself as a swinger as I think labels can be so unnecessary. I’m very clear with my intentions here currently. I can speak as having been a couple on here previously also.

I’ve ticked all the boxes I wanted to tick along the way and Fabswingers has been a fabulous help :0). It’s a place to enjoy chat, adventures and sex! Oh and admire amazing fit young men!!! It shouldn’t be so complicated really.

Maybe the name should change to fablife xx

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’m aware this thread has gotten somewhat confusing along the way but here’s my pennies worth...

Fabswingers.com is over 15 years old now. In its infancy a large proportion of us joined here after being members of some other ‘swinging’ sites. In that time the internet has grown into a gigantic monster and allowed the swinging/sex world to be more accessible. This encouraged an influx of all kinks/fantasies/desires to be sought via Fabswingers. Everyone is welcome and everyone should be made to feel welcome. (As long as they keep it legal lol)

I no longer class myself as a swinger as I think labels can be so unnecessary. I’m very clear with my intentions here currently. I can speak as having been a couple on here previously also.

I’ve ticked all the boxes I wanted to tick along the way and Fabswingers has been a fabulous help :0). It’s a place to enjoy chat, adventures and sex! Oh and admire amazing fit young men!!! It shouldn’t be so complicated really.

Maybe the name should change to fablife xx"

Love this

K

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I’m aware this thread has gotten somewhat confusing along the way but here’s my pennies worth...

Fabswingers.com is over 15 years old now. In its infancy a large proportion of us joined here after being members of some other ‘swinging’ sites. In that time the internet has grown into a gigantic monster and allowed the swinging/sex world to be more accessible. This encouraged an influx of all kinks/fantasies/desires to be sought via Fabswingers. Everyone is welcome and everyone should be made to feel welcome. (As long as they keep it legal lol)

I no longer class myself as a swinger as I think labels can be so unnecessary. I’m very clear with my intentions here currently. I can speak as having been a couple on here previously also.

I’ve ticked all the boxes I wanted to tick along the way and Fabswingers has been a fabulous help :0). It’s a place to enjoy chat, adventures and sex! Oh and admire amazing fit young men!!! It shouldn’t be so complicated really.

Maybe the name should change to fablife xx

Love this

K"

Me too. Exactly how i feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just because some people think one way has never and never will influence my mind and thoughts on things I'm very open to everyone's thoughts and opinions but trying to put across to one who are not open to why other have the opinions they have can be a massive challenge.

I'm having fun on here and meeting load of people so this is not my perception it's only me understanding from a different point of view.

Yes when hubby and I first joined the fact fabswingers was a swinging site was what interested us even to spite that we were fresh meat for the picking as it felt as we had a more than a few singles not take a telling when I've said no to the interest and continue with pussy and dick pics but to me I know how to use the delete button as the filters don't always work. I don't like to hurt people's feeling but I am straight to the point and direct without being nasty, If I felt like some other couples did on Futuna I would have backed out this very long conversation and gave in but I don't give in as it's good to see what others think and feel and conversation is good whether it be quite intense or not .lol

I may have only been on here a short time compared to some or most but naive I am not ,I'm more intrigued and open minded than most who have been on here longer than I, there's is absolutely nothing in this world that could shock me . Regardless opinions are just that and I can understand why couples in their 40s + would be concerned with it being a site for all especially when they have older children aswell and want descretion. A lot of singles will not see it from a point of view of having older children who might decide fab swingers is a good dating site as it's for all and boom "Mum and dads naked bodies on this site too " for them to see or workmates dating even though decrection is not always Guaranteed on any site, I get this however new couples coming into the world of swingers expecting one thing and it being something different , yes are naive to it all as they are new and it's all unknown territory but everyone gotta start somewhere . So that side of things I totally understand as I have old children 24/21 so could emagine how uncomfortable that could be.

I'm am sure when half or most of the long term swingers started it was a bit unknown and as time went on things became clearer , people just need to have that option to be able to find things out themselves and be able to discuss on forums like these without the "shoot me down police get stuck in" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now Fablife sounds pretty good lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the confusing thing for most newbies is how fabswingers is associated with the swinging lifestyle, swinging clubs , swinging porn and so on and not dating singles so that's why couples are finding it misleading as it's advertising the swinging scene. Kinks, gang bangs, orgies ,fetishes and being sexually adventurous all come under that umbrella but straight one on one dating does not in somes opinion. So when couples first look into swinging side of things it comes up with what they looking for in the swinging sense and not a dating sense so . In eyes of "SOME" (NOT ME ) couples they want to have fun and play ,not date another couple so they seeing it as they've come to the wrong place..

So people got to look at it from all points of view .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway I think couples who want to express or say how they feel, must because I'm trying to plan a few parties here and get organised for a farmhouse party,penthouse party time is ticking and I hate running about like a hot ass chicken last minute.

And my inbox is for meeting and chatting not argueing everyone else's points as it paints a different image on me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant hot ass fly

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Fight the ducks then everyone is on the same page, ducks are evil

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am single, 40+ & I have children too!!!

I have more couples on my friend's list than I do single guys, & I can guarantee that none of them will have ever been concerned that I'm out to split them up. I also only ever message both as a pair & never individually.

I will add too, that I am also a single who absolutely does not "pair up" with single guys to gain them access to couples & single females nights, or access to the couples & single females room.

R

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I am single, 40+ & I have children too!!!

I have more couples on my friend's list than I do single guys, & I can guarantee that none of them will have ever been concerned that I'm out to split them up. I also only ever message both as a pair & never individually.

I will add too, that I am also a single who absolutely does not "pair up" with single guys to gain them access to couples & single females nights, or access to the couples & single females room.

R "

You still also have eyes that look as if they could look into a mans soul and hold it prisoner for eternity, stillman top 3 with those lady

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am single, 40+ & I have children too!!!

I have more couples on my friend's list than I do single guys, & I can guarantee that none of them will have ever been concerned that I'm out to split them up. I also only ever message both as a pair & never individually.

I will add too, that I am also a single who absolutely does not "pair up" with single guys to gain them access to couples & single females nights, or access to the couples & single females room.

R

You still also have eyes that look as if they could look into a mans soul and hold it prisoner for eternity, stillman top 3 with those lady "

I thought I was no.2?! Have I dropped in your league table?

R

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I am single, 40+ & I have children too!!!

I have more couples on my friend's list than I do single guys, & I can guarantee that none of them will have ever been concerned that I'm out to split them up. I also only ever message both as a pair & never individually.

I will add too, that I am also a single who absolutely does not "pair up" with single guys to gain them access to couples & single females nights, or access to the couples & single females room.

R

You still also have eyes that look as if they could look into a mans soul and hold it prisoner for eternity, stillman top 3 with those lady

I thought I was no.2?! Have I dropped in your league table?

R "

1st 2nd 3rd all swap places depending on who on line ha

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am single, 40+ & I have children too!!!

I have more couples on my friend's list than I do single guys, & I can guarantee that none of them will have ever been concerned that I'm out to split them up. I also only ever message both as a pair & never individually.

I will add too, that I am also a single who absolutely does not "pair up" with single guys to gain them access to couples & single females nights, or access to the couples & single females room.

R

You still also have eyes that look as if they could look into a mans soul and hold it prisoner for eternity, stillman top 3 with those lady

I thought I was no.2?! Have I dropped in your league table?

R

1st 2nd 3rd all swap places depending on who on line ha "

Top 3 is still pretty good odds I'd say

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m aware this thread has gotten somewhat confusing along the way but here’s my pennies worth...

Fabswingers.com is over 15 years old now. In its infancy a large proportion of us joined here after being members of some other ‘swinging’ sites. In that time the internet has grown into a gigantic monster and allowed the swinging/sex world to be more accessible. This encouraged an influx of all kinks/fantasies/desires to be sought via Fabswingers. Everyone is welcome and everyone should be made to feel welcome. (As long as they keep it legal lol)

I no longer class myself as a swinger as I think labels can be so unnecessary. I’m very clear with my intentions here currently. I can speak as having been a couple on here previously also.

I’ve ticked all the boxes I wanted to tick along the way and Fabswingers has been a fabulous help :0). It’s a place to enjoy chat, adventures and sex! Oh and admire amazing fit young men!!! It shouldn’t be so complicated really.

Maybe the name should change to fablife xx"

Well said x .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad to see this topic was something that people could get there teeth into

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