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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s everyone’s next tine waster stories? Mine was being sent to a wrong house. Had to pretend I was selling insurance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s everyone’s next tine waster stories? Mine was being sent to a wrong house. Had to pretend I was selling insurance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha.....sorry but that's funny af

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Ha ha ha.....sorry but that's funny af "

Would not have been funny if they had wanted to buy insurance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha.....sorry but that's funny af "
was it you he was trying to sell insurance tae doggy

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I've been sent to a house that didnt exist, sent to another that was actually a Chinese take away. Its single men that are the problem on here though apparently.

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

London - till 25th

Standing out side a tenement close, being laughed at down the intercom?

Not nice, not nice at all.

Hence why I only meet in clubs now.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What’s everyone’s next tine waster stories? Mine was being sent to a wrong house. Had to pretend I was selling insurance. "

At 9pm on a Saturday night with a suitcase comprising cock rings and sex aids!

Sorry to hear it OP, funny story though!

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By *innettMan
over a year ago

scotland


"Standing out side a tenement close, being laughed at down the intercom?

Not nice, not nice at all.

Hence why I only meet in clubs now."

That's fucking awful. Sorry that happend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be a way to stop or filter all time waisters

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"There must be a way to stop or filter all time waisters "

But you do not know they are timewasters until the time arrives to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If by time wasters you mean folks that will flake when it comes to actually meeting once arrangements have been made, then I think there are usually some pretty clear signs beforehand

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By *innettMan
over a year ago

scotland


"If by time wasters you mean folks that will flake when it comes to actually meeting once arrangements have been made, then I think there are usually some pretty clear signs beforehand "

Sometimes but not always so

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By *usan patentTV/TS
over a year ago

falkirk

Sometimes “ real life” does get in the way but when it’s the same excuse, more than once or you’ve driven from Falkirk to Ayr only for a telephone number to dissapear then that does get a bit grating! I did however have to leave a very pleasant meet because my phone started ringing, often ! My son had crashed his car ! No injuries but it does sometimes happen !

Anyway , I am off to build a boat an imminent tsunami means I can’t play today .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes “ real life” does get in the way but when it’s the same excuse, more than once or you’ve driven from Falkirk to Ayr only for a telephone number to dissapear then that does get a bit grating! I did however have to leave a very pleasant meet because my phone started ringing, often ! My son had crashed his car ! No injuries but it does sometimes happen !

Anyway , I am off to build a boat an imminent tsunami means I can’t play today ."

The joy of being a parent often means having to change plans last minute, yesterday my daughter took really unwell and I had to rush out to pick her up and take her to hospital, usually always happens when I’m doing something, and my own health sometimes I have to cancel plans very last minute

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

The only time wasters I've had is a few single guys who've bottled a social meet, either because they're too nervous or were only looking for a quick fuck and weren't getting it

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Had few times turn up meets no one there just stick meet people at after eight club lots safe for both party's

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Think some blokes just do it for a laugh and some women do it to feed their egos.

People waste other peoples time in a number of ways, this is just another way.

Their loss at the end of the day.

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By *anon6dMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sorry I'm still laughing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course things can change. Kids or family trouble is a perfectly good reason and not time wasting. The time wasters are the ones that disappear when they say they will meet. Or the ones that put statuses up that are all talk.

I’ve had people steal my photos before and make fake profiles. I say to people I will send a live pic but I expect one back. The amount of people that disappear at that stage is incredible.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Standing out side a tenement close, being laughed at down the intercom?

Not nice, not nice at all.

Hence why I only meet in clubs now."

Thats horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years of using fab and never had a time waster, other more main stream sites however is a whole different story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s everyone’s next tine waster stories? Mine was being sent to a wrong house. Had to pretend I was selling insurance. "
just as well they didn’t say come in the door is open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think it’s rubbish and really bad manners when I hear that, may the fleas of a thousand camels infest their armpits (and other bits). I must be lucky, I’ve never experienced it personally.

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere


"Ha ha ha.....sorry but that's funny af

Would not have been funny if they had wanted to buy insurance."

Go on compare the market...get them a deal...and get meerkat movies for a year....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS "
sounds like ye dodged a bullet there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS "

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?"

Would have saved everyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?

Would have saved everyone's time"

Had no reason to doubt them tbh... Just took them at their word. Under normal circumstances you wouldn't expect someone to pull a stunt like that and expect someone to take them on... That's drugs I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?

Would have saved everyone's time

Had no reason to doubt them tbh... Just took them at their word. Under normal circumstances you wouldn't expect someone to pull a stunt like that and expect someone to take them on... That's drugs I suppose "

There's very little on here that's normal

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I always think it’s rubbish and really bad manners when I hear that, may the fleas of a thousand camels infest their armpits (and other bits). I must be lucky, I’ve never experienced it personally. "

I’m the same Jane never experienced it, the worst I’ve had is cancelling a couple of hours beforehand but at least I never left the house. Thankfully if they decide they don’t want to meet me they usually just stop chatting which is fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?

Would have saved everyone's time

Had no reason to doubt them tbh... Just took them at their word. Under normal circumstances you wouldn't expect someone to pull a stunt like that and expect someone to take them on... That's drugs I suppose

There's very little on here that's normal "

There's a few good people I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?

Would have saved everyone's time"

What do you mean?.. Do you think I was wasting their time by trusting them to be genuine and not some crazed druggie.

I'll be more cautious in the future that's a given.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?

Would have saved everyone's time

What do you mean?.. Do you think I was wasting their time by trusting them to be genuine and not some crazed druggie.

I'll be more cautious in the future that's a given. "

It's more that unless you've actually spoken to the lady, and they have veris to back up the fact she exists, probably best to be very wary.

Which is unfortunate, as one of the things G would like to do is have a profile where he can select guys for me and when they meet me I'm blindfolded. But how many people would believe its genuine? Very few.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"Made arrangements with what I thought was an attractive couple last week for daytime fun.. Swapped numbers and spoke with the hubby on the phone and arranged to make my way to their place at lunch time.. When I arrived I was greeted at the door by a dodgy looking guy who looked nothing like the pics and was clearly out of his face on cocaine with a bloody snot trail dripping down his face.. No sign of the Mrs!! He tried to assure me that she was on route and that I should come in and let him suck me till she arrives.. Aye right pal.. I left and reported the profile.. How's that for a waste of time lol.... True story BTW.. No BS

Were you not even a bit suspicious that you hadn't had any chat with the woman?

Would have saved everyone's time

What do you mean?.. Do you think I was wasting their time by trusting them to be genuine and not some crazed druggie.

I'll be more cautious in the future that's a given.

It's more that unless you've actually spoken to the lady, and they have veris to back up the fact she exists, probably best to be very wary.

Which is unfortunate, as one of the things G would like to do is have a profile where he can select guys for me and when they meet me I'm blindfolded. But how many people would believe its genuine? Very few."

That’s very kinky !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatted to a guy for a month, Mrs really liked, chat was great, all got on then week of meet... silence , luckily we managed to get a last min meet (something we have never done) and Mrs had so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatted to a guy for a month, Mrs really liked, chat was great, all got on then week of meet... silence , luckily we managed to get a last min meet (something we have never done) and Mrs had so much fun "

Well dunno why folk do that looked like it was certainly his loss though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatted to a guy for a month, Mrs really liked, chat was great, all got on then week of meet... silence , luckily we managed to get a last min meet (something we have never done) and Mrs had so much fun

Well dunno why folk do that looked like it was certainly his loss though lol "

It was Mrs had an amazing night

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By *eachy400Woman
over a year ago

Muiravonside

Was stood up last night, been chatting on & off for months & arranged a last minute social in a pub, luckily across the road from me but he didn’t know that. He messaged saying he was there so I headed over then he messaged saying just nipping out for cash. I waited outside for 15 min but never heard from him again. What a dick!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Was stood up last night, been chatting on & off for months & arranged a last minute social in a pub, luckily across the road from me but he didn’t know that. He messaged saying he was there so I headed over then he messaged saying just nipping out for cash. I waited outside for 15 min but never heard from him again. What a dick! "

Yes totally. What a rotten thing to do to somebody.x

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By *cfun100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had my fair share:

Chatting away on fab with one person, seemed to get on well, arranged to meet and set a day and time. On the day of the meet I messaged where to meet up and then I immediately got blocked.

Another person told me location and time to meet up and she gave her phone number too. Half an hour drive, reached the place, knocked on door and I got no answer. Sat in the car waiting for a bit and messaged and called but no response so I drove away. About an hour after, I receive a text asking where I am and then I was branded as a timewaster on their fab status later.

One more for you, chatting to a "couple", talked about a mmf, I notice on their profile the male is bi whereas I am not (and it says on my profile) so I made sure in mentioning it'd be a straight mmf. "They" were keen on asking for pics of me even though I sent some, I asked for some of them specifically the female and they had some excuse for not having more than one pic - a red flag there. Then I get asked if I was interested in a bi 3sum , I reiterated the conversation earlier and then they say "probably not for us then".

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

The ones that get me are when you chat and make arrangements (I always message on day of supposed meet) then when they dont answer that message I assume it's not happening

Then they have the nerve to message you a few days later like nothing happened

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"The ones that get me are when you chat and make arrangements (I always message on day of supposed meet) then when they dont answer that message I assume it's not happening

Then they have the nerve to message you a few days later like nothing happened "

They dont message me a few days later as by this time they are well blocked.

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"The ones that get me are when you chat and make arrangements (I always message on day of supposed meet) then when they dont answer that message I assume it's not happening

Then they have the nerve to message you a few days later like nothing happened

They dont message me a few days later as by this time they are well blocked."

Yes I do this now but the first couple of times I didnt but now learnt my lesson

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