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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"

No not at all, you give out your name in your own time. You were actually very complimentary on the message i sent you a while back

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Na. Its your information to pass to whomever you wish.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I do answer alot of messages but feel that first names are not really necessary when conversing with people you dont intend meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"
here whitsyurname nothing to add apart your totally gorgeous and your straight into my bank

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Not at all ...nothing wrong with that ..only ever give out info if n when you feel comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want to give it out it's your choice xx

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

No one should feel the need to apologize for anything (within reason) on an anonymous internet site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one should feel the need to apologize for anything (within reason) on an anonymous internet site. "

Well said that man!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"
just do whats right for you.

There are many on this site who would use personal stuff about you in a not so nice way so only give out what personal infirmation you want to as we all know this site is full of spiteful & nasty people

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By *rs She DevilWoman
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"

No you're not wrong in any way. I prefer not to give my name until I've been chatting for a while. It's your rules and you give or don't give your details as you see fit. X

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Some names brake trade descriptions laws

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"

I wouldn’t say so, many people on here have a fab name and their real name, just out of a desire for privacy. You’ve chosen to call yourself bluebell and that’s what I called you when I first messaged. In time, if you’ve met someone a few times, you might chose to share your real name. I don’t see any problem with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give folk my real name once I’ve met them in person until then most folk will call me elle or violet actually quite a lot of fab friends still refer to me as both

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Doesn't matter who I tell my real name to they all still call me _unkie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ever give my real name to anyone whether I have met them once or a dozen times. Fab life is my secret.. A million miles away from my other life

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Doesn't matter who I tell my real name to they all still call me _unkie "
I prefer bumpkins lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fairly unusual name, so definitely don't like giving it out unless I'm very interested.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I have a fairly unusual name, so definitely don't like giving it out unless I'm very interested."

Now you've made me curious

We could have a game like Rumplestiltskin to see if anyone can guess it

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im always afraid its someone who knows me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fairly unusual name, so definitely don't like giving it out unless I'm very interested."

Boatymcboatface is unusal, is it something like that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 or 2 know my real name on here as I have known them a long time NEED TRUST BEFORE i GIVE IT OUT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"

No you are well within your rights to keep your real name to yourself. Everyone is a stranger on here and until you meet someone and you are comfortable with them, only then you should say what your real name is. I have never given my real name to anyone unless I've met them so don't feel bad about it honey x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Your info your choice no need to feel you owe anyone anything

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Only 1 or 2 know my real name on here as I have known them a long time NEED TRUST BEFORE i GIVE IT OUT "

Jason your name is quite obvious since it's you user name!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the question is there definitely but it's more of a what we you like to be known as ,i wouldn't give mine out and sure don't expect to hear it back after a few messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your name is Fanny isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind sharing my name after a while of knowing someone

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Only 1 or 2 know my real name on here as I have known them a long time NEED TRUST BEFORE i GIVE IT OUT "

Really, not just Batman

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By *ub-seekerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s entirely up to you OP just how much or how little personal info you want to share with anyone

If they get arsey about it then it tells you all you need to know

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By *endo888Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

Can you guess my name lol

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"

And when they ask do they say who they are?

By that I mean their name?

Their real name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?"

If I'm asked I usually say Shorty!

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Quite often i get first messages from men introducing themselves and asking what my name is. I feel bad but do not like giving out my name to men i have never chatted to before. Am i wrong to feel this way?

And when they ask do they say who they are?

By that I mean their name?

Their real name?

"

They start off by introducing themselves but yes you are right, it may be a false name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 1 or 2 know my real name on here as I have known them a long time NEED TRUST BEFORE i GIVE IT OUT

Jason your name is quite obvious since it's you user name!! "

Not my real name cab but you could probably guess my real name from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 1 or 2 know my real name on here as I have known them a long time NEED TRUST BEFORE i GIVE IT OUT

Really, not just Batman "

Batman knows everything he watching you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at all.

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