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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are the out going type when out or the very shy person standing in the background

1 to 10

1 being the life and soul and talking to everyone

10 the person in the corner being shy

score yourself honestly

Me I am more a 7 or 8 really shy at times

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Are the out going type when out or the very shy person standing in the background

1 to 10

1 being the life and soul and talking to everyone

10 the person in the corner being shy

score yourself honestly

Me I am more a 7 or 8 really shy at times "

At socials I'm about 8 or 9 to start ..by end of night I'm more a 1 or 2 as I get to know folk lol

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don’t know, I’ll be a 1 or 2 with certain folk but I don’t actively go find them. Quite happy in my own company. So a 10 with odd spike to 1 an average of 6?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never that confident I may reach a 5 after talking to people for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Never that confident I may reach a 5 after talking to people for a bit"

Used to be shy but dunno embarrassed myself enough in my 20s to realize there’s no need to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the inside I'm at least 9 or 10. On the outside I'm a 4/5.

I suffer terribly from anxiety, but I know that sometimes I need to give myself a wee push.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most have to give themselves that little push I know I need to come out of my shell a bit more don't have that gift of the gab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 life and soul. I tone it down a bit depending on the company

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

At work: 7

With friends: 1 or 2

On Fab: About a 3

With family: 20

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By *licker77Man
over a year ago

Stirling

I’m probably a 2 or 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a 10 and usually finish at a 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a 1 no matter where I am , where I go. Im first to introduce myself , chat away and start dancing.

Party planner, party entertainer ,life and soul of a part however we will see if I'm same in the swinging scene don't see why not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn't want to talk to everyone

But sometimes I'm gregarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the company - I can vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About the only times I’ve been able to call myself a solid 10!

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

9 when I should be a 2

2 when I should be a 9

Would be sensible to be a 5 most of the time but I am who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a 7 to start. Usually end up around 2 or 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly a 1 but sometimes I can be a 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say usually a 7 or 8, quite happy in my corner doing some people watching

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By *andS_GlasgowCouple
over a year ago

Giffnock

We are 10s, as in really nervous and not good at all trying to break the ice, hence the reason we never do the organised socials,

But 1 to 1s we are bit more relaxed, a 4 or 5 then 8ish after getting to know the other couple.

Boy are we hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing wildly from 2/3 to 7/8 depending on who I'm around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to start off shy , reserved and quiet . Sometimes I remain that way other times I am queen of the dance floor and trying to get everyone else involved.

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By *ance123321Man
over a year ago

Moray & London

Probably a 3/4 at the start moving onto a 7/8 as the night goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm round about the 7 or 8 mark with people I don't really know.

Once I've had a few drinks or I'm comfortable around people the best I'll go is a 2 or 3.

But at work I have no issues at all speaking to people I don't know.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10. I usually don't attend to avoid the nerves

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By *extoy300Man
over a year ago

Brechin

I would say 5 and settle at 2

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

-6 I'm a gobshite Geordie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"-6 I'm a gobshite Geordie. "

We're down your neck of the woods at the moment then x

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central


"1 life and soul. I tone it down a bit depending on the company "

I’m a 1

Doesn’t matter what I do I always seem to be a bleeding 1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 life and soul. I tone it down a bit depending on the company

I’m a 1

Doesn’t matter what I do I always seem to be a bleeding 1! "

Lol I’ve always been 1 as well, but I’m better at it now than when I was younger. We can’t xhange our personalities only make them better

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Depends how much alcohol is involved!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd say I'm a 8

John

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By *andS_GlasgowCouple
over a year ago

Giffnock

We need someone like you to get us out our shell then


"I'd say I'm a 8

John "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm generally a quiet person around strangers. Better once we're acquainted or I've had a few wines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood the OH is the chaty one I tend to be more out going with people I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely 10 for me these days I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 naturally but willing to tone it down for the introverts.....

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

A solid 10.

Although I can interact and have fun (once relaxed) I prefer to listen and watch things going on.

Mandy

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'd say I'm a 8

John "

We haven’t even met yet and I know you are nowhere near an 8!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ish....prefer to see what's going on and who's doing what before I fully engage with a group of peoole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm around a 7-8 myself

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd say I'm a 8

John

We haven’t even met yet and I know you are nowhere near an 8!!

"

7.9?

John

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By *ixteenineMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm a solid 4~

I get why some people are shy, but the worst that can happen is you might embarrass yourself.

They're called social SKILLS for a reason, they can take a bit of practice.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'd say I'm a 8

John

We haven’t even met yet and I know you are nowhere near an 8!!

7.9?

John "

Oh ok then I will give you 7.5 until the babybels are there then apparently you come running out of the shadows!

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm a solid 4~

I get why some people are shy, but the worst that can happen is you might embarrass yourself.

They're called social SKILLS for a reason, they can take a bit of practice."

I don't think it's anything to do with skills.

Although I rate myself as a 10, I can interact in most (if not all) social settings, I'm just more comfortable to not.

By your definition I have the skills, I just chose not to "flex" them.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nothing to do with having or not having social skills , introverts (6-10)and extroverts(1-5) can both have great social skills , be confident in all aspects of life however introverts choose to be quiet, private ,selective on choice of friends and surrounding and tend to take everything in before they interact or come out Thier shell and choose to avoid certain people/ situations or environments.

Extroverts are talkative , very outgoing, choose to befriend and talk to everyone , enjoy most surroundings , feel at ease around most people and tend to care less about what's happening around them and more about enjoying themselves straight off the bat instead of sussing things out.

Its nothing to do with confidence or having social skills, it's just how some people choose to be .

Nothing wrong with either at all.

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Would depend on the company and environment but would say am mostly a 5.

Like to mix with the crowd but also like to sit about and take in what's happening

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By *anon6dMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Depends on time of month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 1 most of the time untill I'm talking to a good looking woman then I'll go to at least a 6. It's like I'm confident in everything I can do but not confident at all in my looks.

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By *attooed gentMan
over a year ago

anywhere everywhere

In all honesty I would have to say middle of the park really depends on mood and atmosphere I can be chatty or shy depending on who's around me but I'm more a shy person when in groups I don't really know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to think ai am 2 or 3 but realy its a 6 or 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10

painfully shy

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

7 for me, shy and retiring type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 to start.

10 when Mr has a glass of rose

10 when Mrs gets that feeling.

Couples work so well when they work on each other’s strengths

Xx

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I range from a 1 to 10. Depends on my mood and the company I’m in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re both shy yeah right although the atmosphere and mood do make a difference.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"We’re both shy yeah right although the atmosphere and mood do make a difference."

That old war cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re both shy yeah right although the atmosphere and mood do make a difference.

That old war cry "

Haha rumbled. Although I think there are certain people on here who lead us astray

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"We’re both shy yeah right although the atmosphere and mood do make a difference.

That old war cry

Haha rumbled. Although I think there are certain people on here who lead us astray "

Yeah! That wee blonde chick! She’s a bad yin!

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s start with him he’s a 1 on here but at meets I’d say 9-10 maybe dropping to a 4 . Me I’m guilty of talking my shadow into submission so a 1 I find it really easy to talk to people xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say honestly I'm probably around a four maybe a three ,I tend to suss a room out and base my outgoingness on that but honestly pretty quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar. "

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar. "

Quite a good system you have there to stop although have you ever got to 3 and not stopped going to the bar?

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar.

Quite a good system you have there to stop although have you ever got to 3 and not stopped going to the bar? "

Lol. Yes. Most times. Didn’t say I listened to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be a 10, normal situations now a 3, comfortable an embarrassing 1, uncomfortable situations a 6 until I get bored.....then I'm a 1 again....

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar.

Quite a good system you have there to stop although have you ever got to 3 and not stopped going to the bar?

Lol. Yes. Most times. Didn’t say I listened to myself. "

I knew there would be a flaw somewhere

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