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Who believe you have to build a repore before jumping in the sack for fun???

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By *r lovejoy OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Who agrees here or are we expecting too much?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It makes the fun so much better if your all on the same page

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"No. It makes the fun so much better if your all on the same page "

Def agree (fem)

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

For me personally it’s a must

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Def think with couples especially, there 2 personalities to get across and everyone has to feel they are comfortable with everyone that’s playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.

Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.

Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out. "

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

A good rumble is sexy, but can have its ridiculous moments (or is that just me ) and rapport makes it funny rather than awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way , chat , have a laugh and if everyone gets on then social or fun x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Wouldn't fuck anyone I couldn't have a conversation with, that's just weird

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Its gotta be the chat and laughter rapore thing. If it was based solely on looks id be joining the ranks of the ' why cant i get a meet' brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a spark or theres no point in meeting has to be a connection. But then too much talk and it fizzled out and you become friends

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.

Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out. "

This!

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.

Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out.

This!

K"

Defo I’m really bad for this at times lol I friend zone far too many great guys, it’s alwaya great to build a good rapport up with someone before hand if I wouldn’t date you I wouldn’t fuxk you, but in the fwb zone the physical stuff has to happen fairly early in or I’ll start to see you as one of the boys x a few chats a coffee date and then the next time fun to be had, endless weeks or months of chatting to some folk might build sexual tension for some but as a female who doesn’t do sex chat nah

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Wouldn't fuck anyone I couldn't have a conversation with, that's just weird "

Unless they’re gagged

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By *uriojohnMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you have built up a bit of rapport the sex is always better! And funnier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.

Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out. "

Agreed, nothing wrong with a little conversation 1st but days or weeks just becomes a general "hi how are you today"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to have that click! Love chatting and getting to know how that person works, clicks and then when you meet it is just an explosion of what you have been talking about. Gotta have this for me, if don’t click then sod off!! PLENTY MORE FISH

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Need to have that click! Love chatting and getting to know how that person works, clicks and then when you meet it is just an explosion of what you have been talking about. Gotta have this for me, if don’t click then sod off!! PLENTY MORE FISH "

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.

Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out.

This!

K

Defo I’m really bad for this at times lol I friend zone far too many great guys, it’s alwaya great to build a good rapport up with someone before hand if I wouldn’t date you I wouldn’t fuxk you, but in the fwb zone the physical stuff has to happen fairly early in or I’ll start to see you as one of the boys x a few chats a coffee date and then the next time fun to be had, endless weeks or months of chatting to some folk might build sexual tension for some but as a female who doesn’t do sex chat nah "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You so need to click ..,,......

I was going to meet a couple once then they refused to have a social with me as it was wasting their time.............right

You can then build up the anticipation, the teasing, the imagination goes wild so when you do meet for fun..........

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Not always necessary, nobody here ever met someone in a bar at the end of the night and enjoyed a few hours together, without messaging for yonks and having a social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, I like to have my cake and eat it.

Had some amazing meets when I have just exchanged one or to messages but also enjoyed getting to know the person I am going to shag and the build up with flirting can add to the excitement

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By *andystudMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

I agree you get better action on pof or tinder

Far to many ppl want a life story. It’s sex folks it all comes naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who agrees here or are we expecting too much?? Xx"

Definitely have to agree there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think it essential . Now I think someone to just use at will without needing to make an effort could be fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.

Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out. "

Agree completely. You need to grab the moment or its difficult to get back.. Folks lose interest even subconsciously.. Thats why so many complain of lots of chat then nothing.. Just didn't get over the line quick enough. Its also why some guys appear 'pushy'.. They just know that if a meet doesn't happen soon its a gonner.. :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree you get better action on pof or tinder

Far to many ppl want a life story. It’s sex folks it all comes naturally "

Also true. Its like a hurdle race on here.. tinder is far quicker to the chase in my experience.

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By *r lovejoy OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Good to hear us too xx

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By *r lovejoy OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Agreed haha

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By *r lovejoy OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Well there's a mixed review to think about still can't help but think it wouldn't be right for us meeting someone shagging and then finding out the guy was a prick and didn't deserve the chance to have fun with us and my lovely woman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

I have had amazing times with people I have built up a rapport with but also amazing times with spontaneous occasions. Even the couple of times I have met some stranger at a bar on a saturday night were good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can build rapport very quickly but a meet needs to happen within a week or 2 max, after that no matter how sexy the build up it naturally fades, you can't keep a text based message tennis rapport going, just doesnt work unless you meet. Regular online dating is the same.. Folk dont meet at anything like the rate they used to.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Can build rapport very quickly but a meet needs to happen within a week or 2 max, after that no matter how sexy the build up it naturally fades, you can't keep a text based message tennis rapport going, just doesnt work unless you meet. Regular online dating is the same.. Folk dont meet at anything like the rate they used to. "

I found this when trying the online dating if we chatted for too long I got bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree but if the chat goes on for weeks or months without arranging any meets it gets boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There needs to be some connection there. Unless you literally want to have a half assed orgasm with no excitement ha ha

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Yep

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