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By *eestar38 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

So what's better pre arranged sexual meets or random spare of the moment sex.

For me I like a bit of both but then again find random spare of the moment no time to think sex.

Could be when hubby comes home or I do and next minute he's kissing my neck and we are ripping each others clothes off.

Or random meet on holiday or at cjs

I do like pre arranged but think random wins more. It's the excitement of it all that is such a turn on

Which do you all prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random is exciting and out off the blue which is always good. But I do enjoy the build up to a pre-arranged meet. Especially if it's going to be for a long session

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Pre-arranged every time with lots and lots of build up.

Not a fan of spur of the moment unless it was with a partner or someone I had previously met.

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By *eestar38 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Agree with what you have both said with lots of build up it can be good but sometimes there is an expectation that doesn't meet what the meet has built up and can be a disappointment

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By *parklingGrey.xWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So what's better pre arranged sexual meets or random spare of the moment sex.

For me I like a bit of both but then again find random spare of the moment no time to think sex.

Could be when hubby comes home or I do and next minute he's kissing my neck and we are ripping each others clothes off.

Or random meet on holiday or at cjs

I do like pre arranged but think random wins more. It's the excitement of it all that is such a turn on

Which do you all prefer? "

I think it depends on the setting and the mood! For someone new I do like a bit of build up and excitement. If however we were to meet someone on say, a night out and there was chemistry, that would be equally hot

I'd say.. Circumstance

N x

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Agree with what you have both said with lots of build up it can be good but sometimes there is an expectation that doesn't meet what the meet has built up and can be a disappointment "

In answer to your original question, random club meets or fun after a few meets to me are equally as good perhaps leaning more to a slow build up though, a coffee meet or 2 first. Its perhaps just me but i would never be in any situation where i would be expecting sex though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do randoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the build up to the point when you do finally see each other the chemistry is off the scale. It's intense and that need to just have each other is so good.

Spontaneous is something I've only really done once . I think it was a fantastic experience but I don't think I'd be that lucky again.

That said, I do like the thought of it even if I'm not brave enough to go for it.

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By *eestar38 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Agree with what you have both said with lots of build up it can be good but sometimes there is an expectation that doesn't meet what the meet has built up and can be a disappointment

In answer to your original question, random club meets or fun after a few meets to me are equally as good perhaps leaning more to a slow build up though, a coffee meet or 2 first. Its perhaps just me but i would never be in any situation where i would be expecting sex though. "

Don't think I would like to feel pressured into any situation where sex is expected.

I do like to have a build up to meets as well. Where you get a feel for the other person what you both like what you would like out of meet and then the build up of finally meeting them. That can go either way everyone has an amazing time or it ends up a disappointment.

Me being the female half of couple I like a bit of excitement but always keep myself safe wouldn't just be a person of the street for random sex it would always be someone I knew. The random part of that is that you meet unexpectedly and one thing leads to another

E the male part likes the build up of chat getting to know the person and being comfortable in the situation. As a couple we have always enjoyed being random scheduled sex wouldn't work for us as a married couple it would kill the relationship we have but we do respect each other if one of us are not feeling it at moment

Kind of different setting in clubs as that can also be classed as random meets not always prearranged

Get chatting and if we all click can be just as exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I have only had 3 random hook ups and they were on a night out. I did enjoy them but I do prefer meeting and chatting.

Nothing should be expected I agree.

That works both ways tho lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Best kind of sex"

Consensual

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


""Best kind of sex"

Consensual "

Sets the scene for a good night

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


""Best kind of sex"

Consensual

Sets the scene for a good night "

Much better than sitting at home waiting for the local constabulary chapping your door afterwards ...I'd imagine

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


""Best kind of sex"

Consensual

Sets the scene for a good night

Much better than sitting at home waiting for the local constabulary chapping your door afterwards ...I'd imagine "

Or a couple of brothers with baseball bats

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


""Best kind of sex"

Consensual

Sets the scene for a good night

Much better than sitting at home waiting for the local constabulary chapping your door afterwards ...I'd imagine

Or a couple of brothers with baseball bats "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a partner that you know inside out so you know how to push their limits and them yours.

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hotel sex and tipsy sex

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By *eestar38 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *eestar38 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


""Best kind of sex"

Consensual "

As it should always be

Even if it's a fantasy it's still done with consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre arranged, with lots of good filthy build up before. Then when you finally meet you too each others clothes off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pre-arranged every time with lots and lots of build up.

Not a fan of spur of the moment unless it was with a partner or someone I had previously met. "
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