FabSwingers.com forum: Regular?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking for regular is what im seeing on most folks profiles.

So what's regular to you?

Singles is it 1 or 2 times a week meeting the same person?

Cpls same?

I honestly think I'd get bored pretty quick meeting the same person that much?

Me personally I don't do regular lol

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Its similar to looking for , just a normal guy/ woman. What is normal ?

We all have different ideas of this and your question OP.

Im pretty much of the same opinion as you though OP

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

It’s hard enough to find a female to meet on here as a one off...so regular must be even worse!!..personally I think it all depends on how all parties get along, some it may be a one off thing and some might find that connection and enjoy each other’s company more than once and spark that friendship

keeping our minds open to any possibility on here is the way forward, you never know where it’s going to lead

(fem)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

Oh def agree with you there, we dont play alone but I know In that situation I would feel the same as you, and hubby would feel the same too..I suppose that then changes the dynamics?..for us a regular thing would be a relationship with both of us not as an individual and the other person would have to respect that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But how regular is regular?

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"But how regular is regular?

Regular for me would be every couple of weeks/month being able to catch up and have that familiarity and fun

as a couple I think regular such as weekly then becomes a sort of boyfriend/girlfriend thing and possibly changes How the couple swing and what they look for maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree I think anything weekly is taking things to a dangerous level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

I think that too.

It must be a very fine line...regular enough that you build up the connection and trust but with that comes the possibility that one person will always be expecting or needing a wee bit more ....exactly as occurs in non Fab relationships.

Pump n go

Unless you're a mega ride

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

Shoosh you

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

I think that too.

Pump n go

Unless you're a mega ride

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"I agree I think anything weekly is taking things to a dangerous level."

Def...and suddenly it’s not so fun anymore

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

I think that too.

Pump n go

Unless you're a mega ride

Out of innocent curiosity and kinda fishing too.

What would be a kind of acceptable level of meets for hubby, oldie and doggy, that question goes to you 2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

Shoosh you

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So you have someone you meet regular devil?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

I think that too.

Pump n go

Unless you're a mega ride

Out of innocent curiosity and kinda fishing too.

What would be a kind of acceptable level of meets for hubby, oldie and doggy, that question goes to you 2.

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I'd say once a month no more than that if it's with the same person that is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy "
if it's with the same guy isn't that more like dating someone tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

I think that too.

Pump n go

Unless you're a mega ride

Out of innocent curiosity and kinda fishing too.

What would be a kind of acceptable level of meets for hubby, oldie and doggy, that question goes to you 2.

As per my pm....you are a "dodgem".....no a "mega ride"

Depends on the person. I'm having regular, good, dirty sex at home....so not looking for any novelty or outside fun. If and when I am....every few months perhaps. Any more than that would be too regular for me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

The word regular on someones profile or update would put me off meeting them.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Reugular for me would be once a month but not an exclusive playmate .

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.

Shoosh you

So you have someone you meet regular devil? "

No im only joking kinda, i agree if it was happening once a week with someone the as 1 half of a couple you would need to be worried. Your definition of regular is about right i would say . Once a month with the same person or different persons but more than that might be dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong iv met the same guy a cpl times in a few weeks but was only because we were both free but that only happened once if he asked again it would be a time lapse lol Good things come to those who wait

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"Don't get me wrong iv met the same guy a cpl times in a few weeks but was only because we were both free but that only happened once if he asked again it would be a time lapse lol Good things come to those who wait

Very true and I’m patiently waiting lol

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I met my fwb on here see him on average once a fortnight, and its definitely not boring

I occasionally see other people too, as does he, it was just more convenient for me to have a regular partner than lots of different random people, but I have to say I'm changing my mind about that my random encounters have been really good so far

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I met my fwb on here see him on average once a fortnight, and its definitely not boring

Well helloooooo ( in some italiano french creepy accent)

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I saw someone from fab last year almost fortnightly for quite a while because we were both child free the same weekend each fortnight.

It was good in that fab was new to me and it let me feel comfortable enough to push boundaries

In saying that if I had things on with friends that took priority so it definitely didn’t become more than a fab relationship.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

*Quickly checked own profile content there*

I enjoy repeat fun with someone rather than calling it regular as I personally find that sex gets better as you get to know someone. I'm not sure regular fits around family & work commitments.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I saw someone from fab last year almost fortnightly for quite a while because we were both child free the same weekend each fortnight.

It was good in that fab was new to me and it let me feel comfortable enough to push boundaries

In saying that if I had things on with friends that took priority so it definitely didn’t become more than a fab relationship. "

Mmmm Perhaps not on this thread but that is definitely a topic for discussion, what is a Fab relationship to YOU ? .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a month/6weeks is ideal for me

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I think its used as a buzz word

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I saw someone from fab last year almost fortnightly for quite a while because we were both child free the same weekend each fortnight.

It was good in that fab was new to me and it let me feel comfortable enough to push boundaries

In saying that if I had things on with friends that took priority so it definitely didn’t become more than a fab relationship.

Mmmm Perhaps not on this thread but that is definitely a topic for discussion, what is a Fab relationship to YOU ? .

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just that a relationship...2 people dating each other on here.

That's my take on a fab relationship

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

All depends tou could be meeting socially a few times in between sexual meets, therefore regular could just mean meeting and having a gab.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"*Quickly checked own profile content there*

I enjoy repeat fun with someone rather than calling it regular as I personally find that sex gets better as you get to know someone. I'm not sure regular fits around family & work commitments.

totally agree

. (Fem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy if it's with the same guy isn't that more like dating someone tho?"

Yeah it can be hence I usually prefer more than one guy on the go as it can be too easy to fall into

The trap and let feelings get involved but the guys tend to have had more or a problem than me in my personal

Experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on 'regular' is maybe a little different.

I've always said my goal from Fab is a small group of likeminded friends who are available to meet as and when opportunities arise for each other. That may be once a year or maybe every few months. The key point is that it's more than once as opposed to trying to meet new randoms all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many once a month

deck that it would be chewing my leg off lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

When I say regular I mean not 1 offs ..if we get on have a great time then why stop at once ...let's do that again n maybe again etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?

Absolutely. Sharing is caring!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?

Absolutely. Sharing is caring!"

You're so kind

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"So many once a month

deck that it would be chewing my leg off lol "

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

That’s not something that would bother me, I think I’d more likely be the opposite, and turned on by a playmate being naughty with someone else.

I have however experienced some discomfort from girls I’ve met when I’ve asked what they’ve gotten up to. Hadn't considered that would be perceived as jealous or stroppy though, more that I was being too nosey

My idea of ‘regular’ would be seeing someone again within 2-3 months. I think that’s long enough for the anticipation of meeting again to build up enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not something that would bother me, I think I’d more likely be the opposite, and turned on by a playmate being naughty with someone else.

My idea of ‘regular’ would be seeing someone again within 2-3 months. I think that’s long enough for the anticipation of meeting again to build up enough

Oooft fuxk lol maybe I was a bit more of a greedy girl than I thought lol once I’m in

The horny mood o want it several times a day even once a week is depressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reg to me is every 4-6 weeks. It becomes the norm otherwise. boring.

2 or 3 options is better to the 1

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?

I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?

I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok

Well I would need someone to fit it first.

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?

I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok

Well I would need someone to fit it first.

Ok pm me what yiu need done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder about this "regular" thing I see too. I thought I'd found a regular fwb, he had that on his profile, looking for regular friend. We were so sexually compatible. He told me recently I was there all the time and I should go annoy someone else. Wtf!! He still says he's looking for a regular fb. So I'm still stumped when I see this phrase "looking for a regular"

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By *ornyhousewifedundeeWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I’m married and allowed to play, hubby doesn’t play. I have two regulars and I’ll meet them both alone one a week if they want and time works out. Regular to me is much better, you build up trust and they know what works. Great fun

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I wonder about this "regular" thing I see too. I thought I'd found a regular fwb, he had that on his profile, looking for regular friend. We were so sexually compatible. He told me recently I was there all the time and I should go annoy someone else. Wtf!! He still says he's looking for a regular fb. So I'm still stumped when I see this phrase "looking for a regular" "

So you haven’t to meet him again??

Does he want a regular and others maybe or did he think you were getting too close?

Nowt as queer as folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..

Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too

Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?

I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok

Well I would need someone to fit it first.

If you’re merely wanting someone to

For a shower I may be able to help if you want a perve also your outta luck lol

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

That’s not something that would bother me, I think I’d more likely be the opposite, and turned on by a playmate being naughty with someone else.

My idea of ‘regular’ would be seeing someone again within 2-3 months. I think that’s long enough for the anticipation of meeting again to build up enough

Oooft fuxk lol maybe I was a bit more of a greedy girl than I thought lol once I’m in

The horny mood o want it several times a day even once a week is depressing "

Oh well when you put it like that, it would be rude not to offer to help out

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