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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do we straight guys keep getting messages from other guys asking to meet up? Their profiles sometimes say they're gay or bi, or even straight!

I hope this doesn't sound too bad. I'm just fed up with getting these messages every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys from messaging you on your privacy page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your filters to stop guys contacting you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only answer is to block all men. There seems to be a thing for gay and bi guys to want to shag 'straight' men. A real arrogance about it. Simply block even if that means you can't PM guys on other matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on a week??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have only been on a week??????"

And? If he's straight I don't think giving it a bit longer will change his mind about the boaby.

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Those messages will keep coming. Lots of people list themselves as straight even though they will play with their own gender (so the bi-phobes won't discount them), and some of those folk will message straight-listed people in the hope they're secretly the same. If you're really not interested in single guys at all, simply block them from contacting you, problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats arrogant about wanting to fuck a guy? I think you are on the 'self righteous swinging site'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only answer is to block all men. There seems to be a thing for gay and bi guys to want to shag 'straight' men. A real arrogance about it. Simply block even if that means you can't PM guys on other matters. "

I never understood it neither, my profile clearly states “bi” yet they still refer to me as a straight male. I guess what they mean as straight is, not a sub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats arrogant about wanting to fuck a guy? I think you are on the 'self righteous swinging site'"

Flip it round. If was to approach a lesbian on here and message her for sex to 'convert her' how would that sound?

If the guy is straight and looking to play with women only - a man messaging him to convert him is arrogant in thinking he can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have only been on a week??????

And? If he's straight I don't think giving it a bit longer will change his mind about the boaby. "
this made me giggle lol.

Least if you block guys you stop them messaging you I personally don't meet bi guys but iv no Filter for that So I either block all guys or put up with bi guys not reading my profile and messaging me anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, everyone for the replays. I'll have a look at the privacy page.

Sorry, I deleted my reply. I'm still getting used to this site.

Thanks again everyone for the reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, everyone for the replays. I'll have a look at the privacy page.

Sorry, I deleted my reply. I'm still getting used to this site.

Thanks again everyone for the reply. "

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have only been on a week??????

And? If he's straight I don't think giving it a bit longer will change his mind about the boaby. this made me giggle lol.

Least if you block guys you stop them messaging you I personally don't meet bi guys but iv no Filter for that So I either block all guys or put up with bi guys not reading my profile and messaging me anyway? "

I’ll convince you otherwise one of these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol bring it on "

I’ll bring chocolates and let you peg me

Then we can be naughty on the forums, whilst passionately playing with each sensitive spots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spots?

You still going through puberty like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spots?

You still going through puberty like? "

Why did you have to check mate me so soon into the discourse. You need to at least give me the illusion of getting somewhere, so that I feel good about myself, for a short while at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok sorry...il bring the clearasil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok sorry...il bring the clearasil "

Does it double as lube? I had absolutely no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day no matter your sex, sexual orientation or preference, no matter what you put on your profile... “people” still message you... I think they might be called the “if you don’t ask you don’t get” brigade. Nowt like folk and definitely nowt like Fab folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok sorry...il bring the clearasil

Does it double as lube? I had absolutely no idea "
hey...whatever floats your boat my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok sorry...il bring the clearasil

Does it double as lube? I had absolutely no idea hey...whatever floats your boat my dear "

I see the idea of pegging me has taken your fancy

alas, you already have a pet name for me also. We're going places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we straight guys keep getting messages from other guys asking to meet up? Their profiles sometimes say they're gay or bi, or even straight!

I hope this doesn't sound too bad. I'm just fed up with getting these messages every day. "

Can relate to this and have said in passed their is a bi plus gay Fab so surely more successful in joining rather then emailing straight guys , does not make sense to me at all .Be what you want and sure you do agree with statement, live and let be by why waste your time emailing straight guys ? Makes them sound desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats arrogant about wanting to fuck a guy? I think you are on the 'self righteous swinging site'"

If the profile says it clearly that you have zero interest in guys then it’s pretty arrogant/ nippy.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Because you’re just so goddamn attractive?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Because you’re just so goddamn attractive? "

Yea if you’re ever feeling ugly just unblock single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok sorry...il bring the clearasil

Does it double as lube? I had absolutely no idea hey...whatever floats your boat my dear

I see the idea of pegging me has taken your fancy

alas, you already have a pet name for me also. We're going places "
straight to hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok sorry...il bring the clearasil

Does it double as lube? I had absolutely no idea hey...whatever floats your boat my dear

I see the idea of pegging me has taken your fancy

alas, you already have a pet name for me also. We're going places straight to hell "

That has always been my desired location

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