FabSwingers.com forum: single bi fems wanted

By *iz 1969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *iz 1969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

over the past couple of years ive often seen posts from couples who cannot find a single bi fem to allow the fem half of the couple to explore her sexuality with another fem i dont understand what role a guy would have with a fem expoloring her sexuality with another fem just my own opinion and not aimed at anyone on the site

liz x

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Well if the guy gets to join in or observe, surely the gal is still exploring her bisexuality? If she had no interest in guys and wanted to explore only her homosexuality, surely there would be no couple?

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By *iz 1969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

no i dont think so if the cpl want a fem as ive already said to let the fem explore her fem sexuality why the guy???????

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I can't talk for couples, but i reckon couples, in general, tend to like sharing, and if they can share the experience of exploring their sexualities, and it is mutually beneficial, then why not do so? Sexuality is not, and does not have to be, black and white.

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By *iz 1969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

your right you cant talk for cpls only assumption. there is nothing wrong with a cpl sharing an experience but as my post says if you want to revisit it and digest the post im stating i dont understand the need for a guy to be involved if she is wanting to explore her fem sexual side not as you put it on your last post fem on fem with no males is homosexual try to get the proper definitions correct please and i agree totally sexuality should never be black and white possibly thats why there are so many different terms for people now

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Ok. In short - ur correct, there is no need, only desire. I'll leave this one to folk qualified to give an opinion and not just assumptions. X

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By *iz 1969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

thanks it was not a dig at you but you seem to have missed the point of the post

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Wanna hug and make up? *hug*

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By *iz 1969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

hey

hug back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are a couple and always will come as a couple but i dont want to have sex with another woman (male half) im happy with my parnter dont need another woman but we have joined here as none of the both of us have had a threesome so wanna spice it up abit so it would only ever be girl/girl i dont wanna touch another woman im happy for my partner do enjoy her bi side as i have sex with her and im ok with couples being with us as long as they know i dont do anything with the woman and she doesnt do anything with the guy it would only be girl/girl

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

i know exactly what you mean - i've had couples contact me starting saying the mrs wants to hook up with a girl, then it moves to the guy will be present and then the guy will join in

i appreciate most couples will want to play together but its not really exploring your sexuality if your just doing it so your fella can live a fantasy if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Security maybe? They're a couple and so meet as a couple, maybe the fem feels more confident with her partner there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Security maybe? They're a couple and so meet as a couple, maybe the fem feels more confident with her partner there"

for us this is true, its a security issue.

if i knew my man was there (whether to watch or join in ) i would be more comfortable with being a bi virgin so to speak. i would also prefer an experienced bi fem .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"over the past couple of years ive often seen posts from couples who cannot find a single bi fem to allow the fem half of the couple to explore her sexuality with another fem i dont understand what role a guy would have with a fem expoloring her sexuality with another fem just my own opinion and not aimed at anyone on the site

liz x "
so the guy could

1,,sit n tug away with the thought of his mrs with another chick..

2,so that the guy can work his way into a ffm

i have played with girls in a mmff role and a mff role prob will do again if i feel i like the fem and she likes me lol but if i wanted to explore my bi side as so many put it,,id have wanted a fem and just me,,no guy in the middle?

just my take on it xx

auds xx

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I agree, that if you are wanting to explore your bi-side, then it should be FF meet; I am well past the exploring stage and that was done FF; with no man present. However, as one half of a couple, we now would both enjoy the company of a female for a 3some. That special woman woudl be teased and pleased for hours.

On our profile I state that we only meet as a couple, and I would have a single profile if I wanted to play alone.

Cream xx

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By *iz 1969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

thank you all for your comments fabby range of answers and opinions thank you all soooooo much

kisses and smiles to the girls and smiles to the guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to explore my bi side more, but seems only possible if it's a show for a man because of what your saying, the girls messaging start off saying just meet them, then the man will be in the house, then they can't do hotel meets just FF, then the man watching, then the man joining in. Not really exploration more a show and I'm not an actress! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why the couples say it's for the fem of the couples security .

That would mean you outnumber the single bi-fem ,where is her security with 2 of you and only one of her ???

I would say to most bi/bicurious fems who want to explore they should do so on a 1-1 basis not with the guy sitting there getting a show .

That is obviously my opinion -others may vary .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say to most bi/bicurious fems who want to explore they should do so on a 1-1 basis not with the guy sitting there getting a show .

That is obviously my opinion -others may vary ."

Ours vary greatly.

Mrs K is fully bi, not curious, doing it for me, likes a male there for security or any other reason you may like to use.

The simple fact of it is she doesn't like 1 on 1 female meets and prefers male contact to be involved, whether it's me or the male half of another couple. She's certainly not doing it to put on a show for the males or anyone else.

Not all bisexual women want to meet on there own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have missed the point of the question the OP asked - which is what I was replying to .

It was about if couples want a bi female for the female of the couple to explore her bi-side what is the need for the guy ?

Surely alot of single bi/bicurious fems would prefer a 1-1 meet rather than go in the deep end for her own safety if she doesn't know either of the couple .That way there is no pressure as it is just the 2 of them and not a guy sitting watching.

Afterall it is the lady who wishes to test the waters apparently .Surely this is better done on a 1-1 basis .

Also alot of single bi-fems are not performing seals for some guy from a couple to sit and watch whilst his other half tests the waters.

I don't know how the OP's post is diffcult for some to understand .

I would say to most bi/bicurious fems who want to explore they should do so on a 1-1 basis not with the guy sitting there getting a show .

That is obviously my opinion -others may vary .

Ours vary greatly.

Mrs K is fully bi, not curious, doing it for me, likes a male there for security or any other reason you may like to use.

Not all bisexual women want to meet on there own."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im so glad so many have commented on this.

i am so curious and want to explore but a lot of the couple i have spoke to who also have a curious fem say they interested but then the guy has to be there also. dont get me wronga 3some etc doesnt bother me in the right circumstances but in this instance the idea is for her being curious and me to try to get to know each other and have some fun so why should the guy be there??

i have a very good male friend on here and have considered setting up as couple with him so i can meet as mmff and do it that way and see how they feel having another male there to watch. im sure they would soon changemind lol

its so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Absolutley hate a girly show for the men.... It's akward and false....

I am a female that would meet alone and have my own profile for this.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I Absolutley hate a girly show for the men.... It's akward and false....

I am a female that would meet alone and have my own profile for this..... "

love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely this is better done on a 1-1 basis ."

Only if that's the preference of the female looking to explore, which in some cases it isn't.

We fully understand the question liz asked and we gave our honest answer which was not all bi females want a 1 to 1 meet.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

"I don't see why the couples say it's for the fem of the couples security .

That would mean you outnumber the single bi-fem ,where is her security with 2 of you and only one of her ???

I would say to most bi/bicurious fems who want to explore they should do so on a 1-1 basis not with the guy sitting there getting a show .

That is obviously my opinion -others may vary ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might be slightly off topic, but I find it incredibly frustrating when a 'couple' says they were a looking for a bi female for the lass, and it's the guy doing all the looking. Seems to me if a lass wanted to have an encounter with another woman then surely she'd want to see the girl she'd be playing with? :S

As for the wanting the guy there for security bit, I find that a bit odd. Surely if a single lass is coming to meet a couple it's more dangerous for her, since she's outnumbered?

In saying all of this, I did meet a delightful couple where the lady had never been with another woman. When I arrived she was very nervous. We had a wee drink then she asked if we could go and get naked. He was going to come through and join in when she'd explored me a little more. What actually happened was he fell asleep and she had to spend about 20 mins waking him up when we eventually wanted him to join in. But I was quite happy in that arrangement, as I knew it wasn't just for show

Though he was very embarrassed he'd fallen asleep!

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