FabSwingers.com forum: Types of fabber

By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

So I’ve been on fab about 4 years now though only really 18 months ish of actively using the site and I’ve come to realise that there are 3 main types of fabber

1. Those that use it socially only

2. Those who like to have a social then play

3. Those who want to simply fuck

I am in the main the second one - though have slipped into two other categories at times - mainly the third one

What are you here for ? And has that changed since you originally joined

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By *tephen_cambusMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Inverness

Prob fall into categories 2 and 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here about 11yrs or more...

1 folk that just want to chat about sex

2 folk that want to just socialise

3 folk that want to have sex.

When myself and hubby 1st joined it was for the sex

Then got into the social side which was really fun now we are more back to the just for the sex part.

Way too many fantasists about.

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By *YKellyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Are you from Sydney University? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined as number three and have found that I prefer number two.

I use this website mainly for the forums, I am yet to find someone from the website alone, that is after either though.

Happy Friday

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Ideally 2, though have done 3 and seen to have 1 thrust upon me as an older single male!

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

When I originally joined it was as part of a couple so it was only meeting just to fuck. Now I only ever arrange to meet socially first then if it goes well, will proceed to meeting for sex at a later date.

I also enjoy meeting friends here socially too.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Number 2 please

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By *heekybarstewardMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

You missed out

4. Wanks in the corner....crying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off fab for years. I tend to take long breaks without deleting my profile. When active I fall mainly into category 2. I’ve slipped into 1 and 3 though aswell. My mood changes and the way I use fab changes. That’s half the fun of it for me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined with the intentions of being number 2 but have recently found ourselves in number 3,there must be something in the air cause we are well and truly worked up these days and sometimes can't help ourselves x

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm more type 2, with occasional dips into using it strictly socially.

As Oldie said, there are some absolute fantasists on here claiming to be something they are not.

Whatever your use of Fab, just be true to yourself.

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Been all three but now mostly in the 2 category

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By *r_hamishMan
over a year ago

Rutherglen (ish)

Mostly 2, with some 3. And the odd 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on and off fab for years. I tend to take long breaks without deleting my profile. When active I fall mainly into category 2. I’ve slipped into 1 and 3 though aswell. My mood changes and the way I use fab changes. That’s half the fun of it for me. X

This is me to a tee

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Mainly 3

Don't have the time for the others

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

2 and 3. Depends on where i and who i am with.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Always been a 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want yo be a 2 or 3 but only seam to manage a 1, which is probably the same for most males on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly 2 when I’m single but at the moment very happy to be no 1, have been known on occasion to slip into no3

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Mainly 3 but with a regular partner

I find socialising too much blurs the lines of fwb and boyfriend

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

I'm a 3 and a 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a 3. Only do 'socials' first as a safety check for both parties.

Zero interest in socialising from Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined as a 3 changed to a 2 and tried a 1 but settled with the 2 safest way .

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Always been a 2. I find the guys who are only here for the sex tend to be more concerned with their needs rather than both our needs.

For me a social is essential because if I don't get on with them I wouldn't enjoy the sex

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Are you from Sydney University? Lol"

I feel like I am, only ever observational.

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

2 for us, tho now we have been here for years with people we have already met we just arrange a fun night.

But for strangers we always do a social meet first.

Tho it’s not the first time we all got on really well and it has all happened on the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no 4... A bit of a time waster but honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have added a fourth, those who are here for a nosey, that's me!

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"You should have added a fourth, those who are here for a nosey, that's me!

Haha it’s good to see who neighbors are shagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been on fab about 4 years now though only really 18 months ish of actively using the site and I’ve come to realise that there are 3 main types of fabber

1. Those that use it socially only

2. Those who like to have a social then play

3. Those who want to simply fuck

I am in the main the second one - though have slipped into two other categories at times - mainly the third one

What are you here for ? And has that changed since you originally joined "

I set up a couple profile with a male friend i met on be-naughty in 2010 but we separated within a couple weeks of setting it up as he bottled it lol so I set up a single profile called silver-star, I had that for a few year and used it to play in various scenarios loved most of what I did but then met someone who played soft swing

for a few year and I broke it of with him I then put too much weight on so Iv went from

Lol

but who knows when Iv lost the weight maybe I will go 123 again

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Generally number 2, occasionally I can be persuaded to be a 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have added a fourth, those who are here for a nosey, that's me!

Haha it’s good to see who neighbors are shagging."

Lol I just like to check certain things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 mostly I like the social side aswell as the fun times!

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By *ust say hiMan
over a year ago

All over

Is there a 4th those that are only on here to chat lol.

I'd say I am a number 1 just don't get the chance much lol.

2 be nice but need 1 first lol.

3 nah think I would need to get along with some one have a laugh

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By *eachy400Woman
over a year ago

Muiravonside

Mostly 2 for me, 3 on the rare occasion depending on the situation

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

Would love to be a 2 but as time is so scarce I am mostly a 3.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Used to be a 2 now mainly a 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly 3....although we aren’t against socialising so do dip into 1 and 2 every now and again

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Currently a 1, with previous and future trips to point 3.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

2 for me although 1 suits as well as enjoy meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Currently at 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here 7 years I'd say I'm at number 2 a lot of lessons learnt on my swinging adventure

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Been all three x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 2 so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No 2 works best with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 yrs here now. Started as a 3 (but specifically non vanilla meets) but soon realised that there are too many wannabe kinksters here.

Last 2 3 years it's been for online social contact when my health has been shitty (my immune system is slowly killing me - constant pain in muscles and joints).

If I'm not here Im well and living a real life. If I'm here, I'm not.

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By *atureshywifeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

iam a 3 but chat and check out verifications and the if the vib not right it a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on here for 9 years on and off...

Joined as a 3..

More a 2 now..

You see so many statuses of people leaving...

Its just not the same place anymore..

The old fab was brilliant..

The influx of media exposure and timewasters. Dreamers and fantasists has sent the place in a spiralling decline..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly been a 3 for me .. now going for the 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been on here for 9 years on and off...

Joined as a 3..

More a 2 now..

You see so many statuses of people leaving...

Its just not the same place anymore..

The old fab was brilliant..

The influx of media exposure and timewasters. Dreamers and fantasists has sent the place in a spiralling decline.."

Looking for the 'like' or '+1' button for this post.

100% spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Type 4: sit at kitchen table and pretend you’re a swinger!

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Stuck on No1 but want to experience 2 & 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I’m mostly a 2 or 1 with the occasional 3. Defo number 4 too (wank in the corner lol). Been on and off fab like a hoors drawers over the years but it’s got a special little place on my heart.

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Ive been on here for 9 years on and off...

Joined as a 3..

More a 2 now..

You see so many statuses of people leaving...

Its just not the same place anymore..

The old fab was brilliant..

The influx of media exposure and timewasters. Dreamers and fantasists has sent the place in a spiralling decline..

Looking for the 'like' or '+1' button for this post.

100% spot on. "

Or maybe you are simply becoming cynical in your dotage x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Category 2 for me. Enjoy meeting new people, the banter and chat. But also enjoy the adult side too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or

Type 4: sit at kitchen table and pretend you’re a swinger!"

haha 100% people like that. I try and fall into cat 2 and 3 but a lot of time wasters on here

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