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"Do they make you pant(s)? " Lol they do something that's for sure | |||
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn. I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit. L x" I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know. | |||
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn. I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit. L x I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know. It's strange though,my mums best friend was black and preferred coloured,its more in how it is said than the simple label attached. " | |||
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn. I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit. L x I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know. " Fuck ...everything is a slur these days you don't know what you can say or not from 1 day to the other ..however I believe it should be how n what context certain things are said ..some people are far to quick in jumping down people's throats for really no reason but that they want to be offended | |||
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn. I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit. L x I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know. Fuck ...everything is a slur these days you don't know what you can say or not from 1 day to the other ..however I believe it should be how n what context certain things are said ..some people are far to quick in jumping down people's throats for really no reason but that they want to be offended " x | |||
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge " Definitely. I once had to ask a policeman when he was taking a statement from me on which word was best to use. I was told “black” and therefore have used that since. People need to educate themselves on what is “politically correct” nowadays. Naivety and ignorance is not an excuse. | |||
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge " Hard to stay up to date with this knowledge at times. Not just with addressing people by their race or colour, just putting a friendly hand on someone's shoulder can be offensive these days as well. Sometimes feel it's all gone totally over the top x | |||
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn. I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit. L x I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know. " | |||
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge Hard to stay up to date with this knowledge at times. Not just with addressing people by their race or colour, just putting a friendly hand on someone's shoulder can be offensive these days as well. Sometimes feel it's all gone totally over the top x" | |||
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge Hard to stay up to date with this knowledge at times. Not just with addressing people by their race or colour, just putting a friendly hand on someone's shoulder can be offensive these days as well. Sometimes feel it's all gone totally over the top x" Okay but with this particular subject, it's been seen as an antiquated, offensive term for a long time, it's not been a recent thing. If it takes you longer to catch up than others then fair dos, but don't say people are jumping down your throat by politely educating you. The world has moved on and it will continue to do so, try to see it as a positive thing | |||
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"Why does it have to be a colour at all? Can you not say the guy with the big nose or the chick with the funky hair? " That's how it worked back in primary school for us | |||
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho " Get a grip, This is what’s wrong with the world. How can someone’s personal preferences be classed as racist. Some people prefer chubby some prefer thin. Some like male some like female. Basically what your saying is it is a bit sexist that a lesbian only prefers women and not men. It’s exactly the same just a different base. | |||
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho Get a grip, This is what’s wrong with the world. How can someone’s personal preferences be classed as racist. Some people prefer chubby some prefer thin. Some like male some like female. Basically what your saying is it is a bit sexist that a lesbian only prefers women and not men. It’s exactly the same just a different base. " Erm you cant say ' female ' any longer . Apparantly. Before you ask , talk to the forum police and im sure they will explain all. | |||
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"Have to admit....I feel the same about watching a black and white woman together " Face paint at the ready, will give you a shout when im home and me n MSD are gonna have a quicky. Between all my Fab women , ive penned her in for 2 weeks on Friday. | |||
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"I didn't say it was wrong i said i understand people have preferences i have them aswell its just not skin colour i can see how it looks racist tho is all i was trying to put across not that the op or any other woman on here was a racist racism bigotry and prejudice is everywhere and its a sad fact of life why do we need to categorise everything rather than enjoy it " Well I don’t like pale skinned gingers as a rule but have over the years met one or two that broke the mould and were actually pretty hot ! But as a rule pale and pasty makes me think of dying and rotten corpses !! Too many Patricia Cromwell books perhaps lol | |||
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn. I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit. L x" Said this to someone else today Using the terminology coloured today is deemed offensive and racist Black or African American is the appropriate language | |||
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"Noone is saying that it's racist for white people to find black people attractive. That's not at all the issue here. What -is- worth discussing is the underlying reasons when white people specify that they want a black sexual partner, because those fetishes are often rooted in the idea that there's something degrading about a white woman having sex with a black man, or the stereotype that black men are more brutal or animalistic. RACEPLAY IS AN OKAY THING TO EXPLORE BETWEEN CONSENTING PARTNERS. But please take good care of everyone's emotional health and make sure you all know why you're doing what you're doing, and watch your own behaviour to ensure that it doesn't spill over into treating people of colour as disposable outside of those scenes. " chill...most chicks want a black guy cause they think they are very well endowed...it's like a guy wanting to shag a porn star..just because they are perceived in a certain way...dosn't actually mean they are that way. | |||
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"Noone is saying that it's racist for white people to find black people attractive. That's not at all the issue here. What -is- worth discussing is the underlying reasons when white people specify that they want a black sexual partner, because those fetishes are often rooted in the idea that there's something degrading about a white woman having sex with a black man, or the stereotype that black men are more brutal or animalistic. RACEPLAY IS AN OKAY THING TO EXPLORE BETWEEN CONSENTING PARTNERS. But please take good care of everyone's emotional health and make sure you all know why you're doing what you're doing, and watch your own behaviour to ensure that it doesn't spill over into treating people of colour as disposable outside of those scenes. chill...most chicks want a black guy cause they think they are very well endowed...it's like a guy wanting to shag a porn star..just because they are perceived in a certain way...dosn't actually mean they are that way." For me it would be the contrasting skin colours that would attract me since I am so white (apart from the freckles ) Just never met someone of darker skin I am particularly attracted to however that would all change if Idris Elba was in the bar!! | |||
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho " Nothing rascist at all with what I posted. Like someone said it's a very pc world. I simply stated that I've been watching alot of bbc porn so I'd like to try it out. Some of u might wanna give me my head back I wasn't trying to be offensive at all get a grip | |||
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho Get a grip, This is what’s wrong with the world. How can someone’s personal preferences be classed as racist. Some people prefer chubby some prefer thin. Some like male some like female. Basically what your saying is it is a bit sexist that a lesbian only prefers women and not men. It’s exactly the same just a different base. " Thank you x | |||
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"I'm not black, but am "coloured" lol. "Black" or "afrocarribean" is probably the more accepted term. In South Africa, a "coloured" person means something completely different." Thanks x | |||
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"What about brown lol " Quite happy with brown. Like I 've said I'm not fascist in any way shape or form. Just fancy giving it a go. Not alot of black brown or any other in my area. | |||
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"What about brown lol Quite happy with brown. Like I 've said I'm not fascist in any way shape or form. Just fancy giving it a go. Not alot of black brown or any other in my area. " Do I get classed as coloured if I’m out in the sun too long and get a nice red shade going. | |||
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"What about brown lol Quite happy with brown. Like I 've said I'm not fascist in any way shape or form. Just fancy giving it a go. Not alot of black brown or any other in my area. Do I get classed as coloured if I’m out in the sun too long and get a nice red shade going. " Oooh I wouldn't rule it out. I am pastel white on the bottom half and a nice brown on top. Kinda like a fab lolly without the sprinkles lol x | |||
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"IC3 Male s the term you’re looking for " Oh? | |||
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"IC3 Male s the term you’re looking for Oh?" Should you be looking for guys off police reports? | |||
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"IC3 Male s the term you’re looking for Oh? Should you be looking for guys off police reports?" Lol no... haha | |||
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