FabSwingers.com forum: Looked at you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done for a host of reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Look or message or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know who has looked at me as I haven't paid the entrance fee but if I did I'd definitely have a wee noisy at who was looking at me

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

No ..can't say I do

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

Yes if the person is what im looking for and i am what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look or message or both?"

I thought the question was have I messaged them if they have looked.

I have, but not just to say I see you have viewed my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only 2 reasons I pay a fiver ..the looked at me and the ability to see if iv spoken to folk before.

Oh and maybe being able to use my notes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

Yes if the person is what im looking for and i am what they are looking for.

How do you know what each other are looking for without some chat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look or message or both?

I thought the question was have I messaged them if they have looked.

I have, but not just to say I see you have viewed my profile "
my post I can ask more than 1

lol was it to have a pop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

If I like the look of their pics and profile then yes, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only 2 reasons I pay a fiver ..the looked at me and the ability to see if iv spoken to folk before.

Oh and maybe being able to use my notes lol"

I might pay the £5 for a month just to see who on my hot list keeps looking at my profile

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Most ninja perv anyway so doesn't show up on the list ..either that or no fecker looks at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look or message or both?

I thought the question was have I messaged them if they have looked.

I have, but not just to say I see you have viewed my profile my post I can ask more than 1

lol was it to have a pop lol"

If they have a dodgy sounding status or something then I might ask them about it.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

Yes if the person is what im looking for and i am what they are looking for.

How do you know what each other are looking for without some chat?"

Normally by reading the part that says what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not interested who's looked at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only 2 reasons I pay a fiver ..the looked at me and the ability to see if iv spoken to folk before.

Oh and maybe being able to use my notes lol

I might pay the £5 for a month just to see who on my hot list keeps looking at my profile "

If they view in stealth mode your fiver won't do you any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

Yes if the person is what im looking for and i am what they are looking for.

How do you know what each other are looking for without some chat?

Normally by reading the part that says what they are looking for.

So a woman looking for a man then. That's basic criteria

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have read a status and messaged on the base of that before tho.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

Yes if the person is what im looking for and i am what they are looking for.

How do you know what each other are looking for without some chat?

Normally by reading the part that says what they are looking for.

So a woman looking for a man then. That's basic criteria "

No, most have on their bio, what they want and what they dont want.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I generally tend to have a look back at women who look at me.

Will only message if they are what I'm looking for and might fit what they are looking for though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I don't look at it. Think most folk ninja perv these days anyway. Would be interesting if they got rid of that feature!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah is sorta defeats the purpose of having it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ninja perv anyway so doesn't show up on the list ..either that or no fecker looks at me

Proud perv here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ninja perve myself but on occasion if I found a profile I liked I would turn it off and look and see if it got a reaction lol and in past if someone viewed me and I liked what I saw I’d message

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would and have messaged people that interest me but I don't check the looked at me very often

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I need to start messaging more folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how many guys are looking at the OP thinking they may now get a message

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I rarely look at "whose looked". It only shows something like the last 30 anyway? I've also never messaged anyone first

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I message someone if i like the look of them or they interest me in some way. Life is too short to sit on the fence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t usually message anyone that’s looked at me tbf as you’d need to be an absolute crackpot to check my profile out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t usually message anyone that’s looked at me tbf as you’d need to be an absolute crackpot to check my profile out

Nowt wrong with crackpots takes all kinds to make the world go round

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Most ninja perv anyway so doesn't show up on the list ..either that or no fecker looks at me

Proud perv here

Blatant perv here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t usually message anyone that’s looked at me tbf as you’d need to be an absolute crackpot to check my profile out

Nowt wrong with crackpots takes all kinds to make the world go round "

I’m included in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t usually message anyone that’s looked at me tbf as you’d need to be an absolute crackpot to check my profile out

Nowt wrong with crackpots takes all kinds to make the world go round

I’m included in this "

Some of the worlds best inventors and creators well all a bit mentally unstable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t usually message anyone that’s looked at me tbf as you’d need to be an absolute crackpot to check my profile out

Nowt wrong with crackpots takes all kinds to make the world go round

I’m included in this

Some of the worlds best inventors and creators well all a bit mentally unstable

I normally just create mayhem does that count

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By *rjaffa33Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

All the time..... see I dont get that many looks anyway....

So i tend to send a polite thanks for looking when someone does.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"All the time..... see I dont get that many looks anyway....

So i tend to send a polite thanks for looking when someone does."

It takes me all my time to reply to messages. If I replied to every wink or who's looked I'd have to give up work

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

I always look if someone's looked at me. If I fit them, and they fit me, AND they are online, then I'll message. Doesn't happen often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope..I rarely look at it .

I also rarely message anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has ever looked at me so far

* A single tear rolls down my cheek*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t usually message anyone that’s looked at me tbf as you’d need to be an absolute crackpot to check my profile out

Nowt wrong with crackpots takes all kinds to make the world go round

I’m included in this

Some of the worlds best inventors and creators well all a bit mentally unstable

Show me a mentally stable person and I will show you a complete bore!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"No one has ever looked at me so far

* A single tear rolls down my cheek*

Im sure they do look but probably you wont know as alot of females hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time..... see I dont get that many looks anyway....

So i tend to send a polite thanks for looking when someone does."

This is one of the reasons to look in secret

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"All the time..... see I dont get that many looks anyway....

So i tend to send a polite thanks for looking when someone does.

This is one of the reasons to look in secret

Me too. What men dont realise is that everyone you looked at then messages. Its so much less stressful to hide.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

To be fair the ninja mode works well for two reasons - one, if I knew someone looked at me and then decided to jog on I’d be a little gutted they’d not sent a message. Two, as stated, if they look and say nothing but I knew they’d looked but really liked them, I’d be tempted to message and become a pest.

I know if I wasn’t in ninja mode, saw a profile and thought “not a match” I’d be pissed if it turned into an uninvited correspondence.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I don't think any woman has messaged me first, except in response to forum posts.

I have received a wink or a fab, only to find I can't message them due to their filters. Their loss??

I nosey at a lot of profiles though.

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By *rjaffa33Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"All the time..... see I dont get that many looks anyway....

So i tend to send a polite thanks for looking when someone does.

This is one of the reasons to look in secret

Me too. What men dont realise is that everyone you looked at then messages. Its so much less stressful to hide."

Point taken...

From this point on I will refuse to send messages to ladies that have looked at me.....

Instead I will just get excited that they have checked me out....then depressed at how bad I must look because they havent messaged me.....

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I always check the profile out that has looked at me

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ninja perve here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one has ever looked at me so far

* A single tear rolls down my cheek*

Im sure they do look but probably you wont know as alot of females hide."

How did you know a lot of females hide from me!

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Yea I would and do say hello if someone who looked at me caught my eye....dont think anyone has ever replied though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think id be embarrassed getting caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if they catch my eye.

More recently I’m getting more views from Home Counties and South of England.

I generally thank them for stopping by and send a quick message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely look at "whose looked". It only shows something like the last 30 anyway? I've also never messaged anyone first

Liking the colours in your pictures, deep purpled and crimson reds. Very tasteful x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I rarely look at "whose looked". It only shows something like the last 30 anyway? I've also never messaged anyone first

Liking the colours in your pictures, deep purpled and crimson reds. Very tasteful x"

Thank you

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I don't really bother, avoids the 'I saw you looked at me' messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look till something like this reminds me, then I look and think ecklefeckinbeejaysuswhitdafuq... ish thoughts

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I never look till something like this reminds me, then I look and think ecklefeckinbeejaysuswhitdafuq... ish thoughts

There was a beejay in there so that sounds good to me.

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I look ,but never message as i see it as if they looked and never messaged they were not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look ,but never message as i see it as if they looked and never messaged they were not interested

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I think I agree with this lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I look ,but never message as i see it as if they looked and never messaged they were not interested

I think I agree with this lol

Some of us are just shy

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"I look ,but never message as i see it as if they looked and never messaged they were not interested

I think I agree with this lol

Some of us are just shy perves

Sorted for you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged someone who had looked at me and it's turned into a very good friendship with quite a few meets

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I look ,but never message as i see it as if they looked and never messaged they were not interested

I think I agree with this lol

Some of us are just shy perves

Sorted for you .

Thanks

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’d message probably just along the lines of peekaboo I see you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

I hardly send a message ! Normally a wink would mean I would consider sending a message

Normally would wait for someone to message me. Probably why not had a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my filter not to show who iv looked at.

But I always have a look at the profiles that have looked at me.

Would I message them? no so no clue why I look? Lol

So my question is..

Would you or do you message folk 1st purely because they have looked at your profile?

I hardly send a message ! Normally a wink would mean I would consider sending a message

Normally would wait for someone to message me. Probably why not had a meet!

Also would read the profile to see if I fitted their criteria

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have messaged someone who had looked at me and it's turned into a very good friendship with quite a few meets

so it can happen lol

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