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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly sex but iv about 4 folk on here I'd consider friends and have met up purley on a social level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have collected great male friends from it as well as sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex? "

I like to be friendly at least with those I have sex with

But looking for actual real world friends on here? No

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex? "

We have made quite a lot of friends from Fab. Never been a crossover to mixing outside Fab friends though. There is 1 or 2 that would we could trust to be discreet enough to mix though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real friends nah I think your all a shower of cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex? "

Friends?? What are those ??

Sex?? What is that ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made a couple of "real" friends on here and I've kept in touch with them over the past few years. They know who they are x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We're friends with quite a few people, just kinda happened n quite happy to have them amongst any part of our life

K x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I'm quite open minded of the dynamics. It's nice to be friends so that the sex is even better.

I'm open to social friends from here though.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sex but I’m antisocial anyway.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Quite a lot of people I’ve made friends with, without any sexual activity

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

There will always be a huge difference between my Fab friends and real world friends but that does not mean i use my Fab friends purely for sex. They mean so much more to me than that.

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've never made the crossover with fab and real world but still have made some good friends in my time on here

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I have people who would consider friends but they never get mixed with real world friends.

Some fab friends I have had sex with and some I've not but they are still friends all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both.

Kept in touch with some girls after we've stopped meeting. Converse regularly. All happened naturally. Never planned.

Think fun and friendship can go hand in hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel like we could quite happily just go for a meal or a few drinks with the couples we’ve met so far, doesn’t always have to be naughty! Think because we’ve always been in group chats and want to get to know people a bit first before anything happens so we guess it’s easier for people to feel like more than naughty playmates

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Just sex isnt in my makeup everything flows from friendahip for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be friends as well, I've got 2 ppl on here that I consider as friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to meet people and then they decide not to be friends as the 20 odd restraining orders verify but at least I have their autograph

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

theres two people on here I've done the naughty with, and now don't for various reasons,but are definite friends..

A handful of people who while not close friends remain fairly pally with and share the odd message, chat to if out and it's all fine..

and a couple of folk id happily watch if on fire..

bit like real life really.

*except the casual acquaintances on fab are more liberal than real world casual acquaintances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one person on fab I count as a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person over the years has become a really great 'real world' friend. To the point we know families etc too. She was my absolute rock when my mum passed away a few months ago.

In general most people I'm friends with on here are separate to my real life, although we may talk in depth about real life stuff , it's unlikely to be more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex? "

Easier making friends first and see where it goes i personally could not jump into bed without knowing about someone first and have done in the past admitting although nowt to do with Fab but one night stand which I’m sure we have done before I’m judged but don’t feel happy about that and feel better knowing the individual first makes life sweeter regardless if you click chemistry wise or not ! At least you respect each other

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Dornoch

Happy enough to make friends if the occasion arises

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I've only had one social meet, which I didn't want to take any further, so I've not made any connections here. I'm not really looking for new friends, but I'm not dead set against the idea. Funnily enough I am chummy with a couple of my husband's playmates, he prefers playing with people who have the propensity to become friends.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you're a decent person and treat people well, you'll make friends wherever you go and whatever site you are on, if you're not, you won't.

As the saying goes; you can tell a lot about a person by their friends.

If they don'thave any or many, there's generally a good reason.

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"If you're a decent person and treat people well, you'll make friends wherever you go and whatever site you are on, if you're not, you won't.

As the saying goes; you can tell a lot about a person by their friends.

If they don'thave any or many, there's generally a good reason.

"

That's a bit harsh, has someone woken up grumpy?

Like people have said they don't and aren't looking to make friends on here so you can't judge them on the amount they have if that's not something they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex?

Easier making friends first and see where it goes i personally could not jump into bed without knowing about someone first and have done in the past admitting although nowt to do with Fab but one night stand which I’m sure we have done before I’m judged but don’t feel happy about that and feel better knowing the individual first makes life sweeter regardless if you click chemistry wise or not ! At least you respect each other "

I'm not sure I need to be friend's with everyone I have sex with . I want lust and attraction at those moments. Friendship doesn't come in to it .

I've had many a repeat encounter with people who I have plenty mutual respect with, but I wouldn't necessarily want to be their friend outside of that scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex?

Easier making friends first and see where it goes i personally could not jump into bed without knowing about someone first and have done in the past admitting although nowt to do with Fab but one night stand which I’m sure we have done before I’m judged but don’t feel happy about that and feel better knowing the individual first makes life sweeter regardless if you click chemistry wise or not ! At least you respect each other

I'm not sure I need to be friend's with everyone I have sex with . I want lust and attraction at those moments. Friendship doesn't come in to it .

I've had many a repeat encounter with people who I have plenty mutual respect with, but I wouldn't necessarily want to be their friend outside of that scenario.

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By *issxxx73Woman
over a year ago

my own world

I’m a pretty easy going person I’ve been fortunate enough to meet a very good fem friend from here..

Been through so many highs & lows in vanilla world which I’d say has brought us closer together so I’d like to think that people do make friends as well as sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open to the possibilities of friendship from here on any level.

Truth be told but its not something I go out my way to find,I'm here for sexual experiences and a connection on a level to make the sex that little bit more enjoyable is fine by me,like to keep fab and my private life separate but I'm open minded and you just don't know how things turn out.

Its a bit like when you meet people on holiday get along great then they want to be pals after,just doesn't work,leave that at the airport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The less folk on a sex site know about my real life.

The safer I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're a decent person and treat people well, you'll make friends wherever you go and whatever site you are on, if you're not, you won't.

As the saying goes; you can tell a lot about a person by their friends.

If they don'thave any or many, there's generally a good reason.

"

I have none. I’m in a land filled with serpents. Your judgemental post is a solidifying reminder of why that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like to make real world friends on fab or do you prefer keeping it purely as sex?

I like to be friendly at least with those I have sex with

But looking for actual real world friends on here? No"

Same, I tried to have real life friends in my early fab years but it brought norhing but drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last weeks or so I think I've definitely made some long term friends. Just hope they think the same lol

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If you're a decent person and treat people well, you'll make friends wherever you go and whatever site you are on, if you're not, you won't.

As the saying goes; you can tell a lot about a person by their friends.

If they don'thave any or many, there's generally a good reason.

I have none. I’m in a land filled with serpents. Your judgemental post is a solidifying reminder of why that is. "

Haha, I don't believe that for a second Byron, I've seen the way you work a room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets get one thing clear.I was put on this earth to make love and pleasure lady's,not make friends.But if you all want to be pals.

Hairy Muff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're a decent person and treat people well, you'll make friends wherever you go and whatever site you are on, if you're not, you won't.

As the saying goes; you can tell a lot about a person by their friends.

If they don'thave any or many, there's generally a good reason.

I have none. I’m in a land filled with serpents. Your judgemental post is a solidifying reminder of why that is.

Haha, I don't believe that for a second Byron, I've seen the way you work a room!

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I had meant that it is more by choice, opposed to a lack of being able to find any. I’ve been stung once too many by those that were supposed to be “friends”.

P.s. I apologize for my post being rather snappy, I never looked at your user name. I just find the reasoning used to be similar to what many say of bachelorhood. (‘if you’re not married by 30 yada yada’)

I guess that’s a second beer lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're a decent person and treat people well, you'll make friends wherever you go and whatever site you are on, if you're not, you won't.

As the saying goes; you can tell a lot about a person by their friends.

If they don'thave any or many, there's generally a good reason.

I have none. I’m in a land filled with serpents. Your judgemental post is a solidifying reminder of why that is. "

In a world of possibilities why shackle yourself to the weight of stereotypes,fly high and shit hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did Portland and Byron just become the maverick and goose of fab?

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Did Portland and Byron just become the maverick and goose of fab?"

We have an understanding. We'll need to have a third fight about which one is who!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did Portland and Byron just become the maverick and goose of fab?

We have an understanding. We'll need to have a third fight about which one is who! "

Haha

(I’ve claimed maverick )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had the mix both ways introduced long term friends to fab and introduced a few fab friends to non fab life, I suppose it depends how much you’re open about your life on fab with your everyday life, I’ve always been an over sharer and most friends and some family know about my alternative socialising and they accept that and don’t judge, I guess I’ve been lucky the people I have in my life are the non judgemental and accepting kind. I guess it depends on your own personality more than anything and how many non sexual ducks you give about what folk think of you

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By *ohn and KerryCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

we'd love to make some friends that we could have fun with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met one or two that I'd definitely like to call friends, but mostly I like to keep this life separate from my vanilla life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did Portland and Byron just become the maverick and goose of fab?

We have an understanding. We'll need to have a third fight about which one is who!

Haha

(I’ve claimed maverick )"

Well I guess that leaves Iceman up for grabs!

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