FabSwingers.com forum: Random friends invites

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.

3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.

My question why?

Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?

Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?

I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.

Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd chat to someone first before sending a request.

Think some guys just have a scatter gun approach and hope their requests will be accepted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fire 20 hope 1 accepts lol

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By *rjaffa33Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Simple fact is that there are a huge number of guys on here that dont seem to have a clue how to interact with a lady.

Whether it be-

Friends requests before chatting

Sending one liners saying wanna fuck now

Sending pics of their dicks

They dont have a clue and cant think of anything else other than their own horniness. Suspect friend requests is a scattergun approach in the hope they might get a brief glimpse of a pic they can get their load off to.

Unfortunately it really does spoil things for any decent guys on here. But we persevere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But what about females? Do any of you fire friends requests off to guys As an opener?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I think it's a certain type who do it. They send out as many as they can in the hope that someone replies. The same ones who think that 'free now?' is a valid first message.

It's on my profile that I don't respond to random friend requests, they still do it. Because they either haven't bothered to read the profile, or they think it doesn't apply to them because they're special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a certain type who do it. They send out as many as they can in the hope that someone replies. The same ones who think that 'free now?' is a valid first message.

There are a few "special" folk on here to be fair!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol .

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.

3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.

My question why?

Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?

Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?

I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.

Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?."

You not accepting it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes then deleted

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Simple fact is that there are a huge number of guys on here that dont seem to have a clue how to interact with a lady.

Whether it be-

Friends requests before chatting

Sending one liners saying wanna fuck now

Sending pics of their dicks

Unfortunately it really does spoil things for any decent guys on here. But we persevere

It certainly does not spoil it for the decent guys , it just helps highlight that they are decent and know how to chat with a female.

Not me though, treat em mean keep em keen works best.

Right bitches who wants ta be ma bestie. Oops sry, quite a few of you are already on my friends list.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Sry oldie i couldny resist, no prizes for guessing what i just requested.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I only accept friend invites from those I have met or those I am likely to meet.

I generally let the other party invite me first. There are exceptions of course.

MHD, wanna be friends?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I only accept friend invites from those I have met or those I am likely to meet.

I generally let the other party invite me first. There are exceptions of course.

MHD, wanna be friends?

LMFAO Mrs She Devil thought you meant her and got all excited, shes not smiling now though when i pointed out it said MHD lol

You gotta random send me an invite Portland, so i can not accept and block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great filter. We clearly state it's an insult, they are only wanting pics, and we will block them. We still get several a day.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I only accept friend invites from those I have met or those I am likely to meet.

I generally let the other party invite me first. There are exceptions of course.

MHD, wanna be friends?

LMFAO Mrs She Devil thought you meant her and got all excited, shes not smiling now though when i pointed out it said MHD lol

You gotta random send me an invite Portland, so i can not accept and block you.

She should be so lucky!!

Wait till I'm asleep though, perv my friends only pics first, then block. Standard rules, innit!

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"I think it's a certain type who do it. They send out as many as they can in the hope that someone replies. The same ones who think that 'free now?' is a valid first message.

There are a few "special" folk on here to be fair!"

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.

3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.

My question why?

Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?

Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?

I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.

Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?."

If one of the profiles ticked all your boxes. Had a fantastic profile and you liked the pics. Would you still delete and ignore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry to disappoint devil lol

Yip I only accept them once iv actually met them

Hence iv not alot of friends lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.

3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.

My question why?

Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?

Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?

I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.

Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?.

If one of the profiles ticked all your boxes. Had a fantastic profile and you liked the pics. Would you still delete and ignore "
of course.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

The amount of winks and friends requests are few usually from “ straight “ guys too .

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Sorry to disappoint devil lol

Yip I only accept them once iv actually met them

Hence iv not alot of friends lol

In that case i will check my diary and get back to you shortly.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Yes then deleted

Haha I tried but only site supporters allowed. Not buying anymore of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha!! Discounted price lol

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By *itznBobz2018Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We randomly get friends request and yes mostly from single guys we delete without looking. We never send friends request without chatting or meeting and chatting at socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?"

Only 1 that i havnt met, not for the lack of trying though. The banter is enough to keep her on my friend list though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept random friend invites from people I've never met or spoken to. I do state that in my profile but there are a lot who don't read the profile. I myself have never done that and never would

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?"

I have several, but I do chat with them even if not met

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So why have them if youv not met them surely you can still chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new to this but I should imagine you would need to have a social first after chatting and if that went well you could be friends even if nothing else ..

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?

I have several, but I do chat with them even if not met

Same i have a few friends that I haven't met before but we chat often so I am comfortable with that.

To be honest my profile is hidden so they don't benefit from being my friend but I tell them before I accept their request.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Its easier to find them if you want to chat . Just click on friends.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Never done it myself and it absolutely gets on my wick when I get sent them from ransoms. Especially when the same ones keep sending

they usually get blocked

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

My friends list is for people I meet and stay in touch with.

There are a lot of people on here who just collect friends though and will accept them all. They're probably the ones who like their pictures fabbed and keep track on how high they are in the rankings of "hot pics" x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?

I have several, but I do chat with them even if not met

Same i have a few friends that I haven't met before but we chat often so I am comfortable with that.

To be honest my profile is hidden so they don't benefit from being my friend but I tell them before I accept their request.

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So you can see theirs but they can't see yours?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its easier to find them if you want to chat . Just click on friends.

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hotlist? Lol

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"So why have them if youv not met them surely you can still chat?"

Simply because I see them as friends, may meet at some point, but as long as we chat that’s cool

Hotlist has some that I don’t chat too very often but they have hot pics and I enjoy a wee look now and again

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?

I have several, but I do chat with them even if not met

Same i have a few friends that I haven't met before but we chat often so I am comfortable with that.

To be honest my profile is hidden so they don't benefit from being my friend but I tell them before I accept their request.

So you can see theirs but they can't see yours?"

Yip

but I do tell them this before I accept their request. To be honest I don't have that many on my friends list but I do chat to those that are on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv only more face pics in my private gallery so think some think iv got some naked or porn pics that they are missing out on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wake up to them . Sometimes I accept to sneak a look at the friends only pics before removing them again.

I think it funny they assume that friends pics are somewhat raunchier. Mine are all my face!

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't even bother looking at the friends invites bit and I've never sent a random friends request without having met or arranged to meet.

I've 2 people on my friends list at the moment, that's more than enough friends for me on here, the anti social bugger that I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the scattergun approach of the desperado lol

We ignore everyone we don't know and only have 4 on ours from actual meets.

Imagine the crap we would all end up in if we accepted them all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?"

I have 3 people on my friends list and haven't met any of them

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Its easier to find them if you want to chat . Just click on friends.

hotlist? Lol"

Never used the hotlist for anything or anyone.

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't accept random friends request partly because its laziness send a mail and chat for goodness sake, and partly because I have face pics on friends only

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I have friends I haven't met and will probably never meet, good patter is good patter

I've people I've met yet aren't friends too Goody though would consider them friends.

I get your point though Goody, its probably blokes wanting to see random bollock women. I'm sure for every 20 sent 1 accepts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bollock women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took friends pics off and still get random want to be friends

I rarely add anyone unless I've met them first

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I took friends pics off and still get random want to be friends

I rarely add anyone unless I've met them first

Alright. Nice holiday?

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

There are only one person on friends list I've never met, but I speak to them pretty much every day.

It would be strange to me using this site daily and spending any reasonable amount of time here and not forming friendships of some degree. I wouldn't waste my time otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took friends pics off and still get random want to be friends

I rarely add anyone unless I've met them first

Alright. Nice holiday?

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add.....Mr accepts most of our requests from couples....purely so he can ogle scuddy pics of the wives.

I tend to ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely don't send friend requests or accept them without chatting first... I don't get it, but I suppose its being hopeful, but its a no from me

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Dornoch

Definitely receive the occasional friends request, usually straight men.

I wonder why they would want to be friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?

Maybe I'm too cynical lol

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?

Maybe I'm too cynical lol"

Yeah I'm struggling to believe that one too. I would if I was a guy

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?

Maybe I'm too cynical lol"

Course we accept them

...have an oogle then delete them from friends...anyone who says they dont is telling wee porkies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?

Maybe I'm too cynical lol

Course we accept them

...have an oogle then delete them from friends...anyone who says they dont is telling wee porkies "

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?

Maybe I'm too cynical lol

Course we accept them

...have an oogle then delete them from friends...anyone who says they dont is telling wee porkies "

Do guys even get them? Well apart from ones from fab straight guys

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Simple fact is that there are a huge number of guys on here that dont seem to have a clue how to interact with a lady.

Whether it be-

Friends requests before chatting

Sending one liners saying wanna fuck now

Sending pics of their dicks

Unfortunately it really does spoil things for any decent guys on here. But we persevere

"
lol bit of downplay the masses to appear like the golden oneim aure fems wont have seen that one.

Nobody spoils nothing for me im my own person.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Iv only more face pics in my private gallery so think some think iv got some naked or porn pics that they are missing out on lol

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ive got porn in mine choclate pudding carmel cake and maria brizzard

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?

Maybe I'm too cynical lol

Yeah I'm struggling to believe that one too. I would if I was a guy "
i sincerly dont if i get random friend invs i mostly delete them (some i keep so they cant resend as they have priviously)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Iv only more face pics in my private gallery so think some think iv got some naked or porn pics that they are missing out on lol

ive got porn in mine choclate pudding carmel cake and maria brizzard

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Carmel cake you say??

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Iv only more face pics in my private gallery so think some think iv got some naked or porn pics that they are missing out on lol

ive got porn in mine choclate pudding carmel cake and maria brizzard

Carmel cake you say??"
ya know me better i dont share carmel cake

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I rarely notice requests or winks I just go in and delete all

I’m fussy about who I add as friends but tbh it’s not like I’ve got any friends only pics

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