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By *ilkysatin OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I love guys ogling my mrs but ive tried for years to get her to try another man any suggestions

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Does she know you are on fab?

R

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No means no. If she does not want to then respect her wishes.

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By *ilkysatin OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

All feedback appreciated its nice to get a females perspective thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personaly wouldnt keep pushing her on the matter, if you have said multiple times and she still doesn't want to then you have to respect her answer.

And as above said IF she knows your on here and happy with that then you are best accepting that as a win and not to push it

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting comfortable to watch this thread unfold........

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

“The Mrs won’t swing”.

Well that’s the end of that then.

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well leave her and find a woman who will swing with you.

She doesn’t deserve someone trying to sexually exploit her but she does deserve someone who will respect her boundaries and wishes

How would you like it your partner kept trying to push you into a situation you didn’t like?

Any swinger worth his or her salt knows that No means NO!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Show her your profile on here ...she'll soon come round to finding another fella

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

That's her choice.

Do hope you're not giving back her knickers before washing other guys' cum off them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's her choice.

Do hope you're not giving back her knickers before washing other guys' cum off them "

Aye, nothing worse than when I go to get a clean pair from the drawer and they're crispier than a Ryvita.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"That's her choice.

Do hope you're not giving back her knickers before washing other guys' cum off them

Aye, nothing worse than when I go to get a clean pair from the drawer and they're crispier than a Ryvita."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From there verification you've got, I get the feeling she hasn't a clue you're on here and it's only a matter of time until she finds out. If she does know you're on here, respect her wishes not to swing and carry on. Good luck either way OP x

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"That's her choice.

Do hope you're not giving back her knickers before washing other guys' cum off them

Aye, nothing worse than when I go to get a clean pair from the drawer and they're crispier than a Ryvita."

Boak. Thanks for that.

Good catch Pringles. Boak

OP might need to make some life decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor woman. She doesn't deserve u meeting men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't Forse or pressure a female into the swinging scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No means no. If she does not want to then respect her wishes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know about other guys but I wouldn’t enjoy a meet if the female wasn’t interested and was only there to please their partner.

She’s said no leave it at the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try get another man? Just send her a screenshot of that verification of urs shel find another man no bother....

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By *ilkysatin OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"From there verification you've got, I get the feeling she hasn't a clue you're on here and it's only a matter of time until she finds out. If she does know you're on here, respect her wishes not to swing and carry on. Good luck either way OP x"
thank u for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your wife has unknowingly been wearing a random mans cum stained knickers? Wow......that’s fucked up bro!

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Honesty no?

Explain the situation in full then leave it up to her then leave it as you both agree. It’s not rocket science.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"That's her choice.

Do hope you're not giving back her knickers before washing other guys' cum off them "

Eww.

Dude, just no.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Your wife has unknowingly been wearing a random mans cum stained knickers? Wow......that’s fucked up bro!"

It would probably fall under a type of sex crime too, I'd imagine.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Your wife has unknowingly been wearing a random mans cum stained knickers? Wow......that’s fucked up bro!

It would probably fall under a type of sex crime too, I'd imagine. "

It sounds like one of those scandal magazine articles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorce her!Lifes to short

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope "

I've had similar thoughts about my ex husband ....... he actually called me a prude not that long ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope "

The noose is slipped around the neck the moment you take those vows.

Marriage is for losers.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope

The noose is slipped around the neck the moment you take those vows.

Marriage is for losers."

Really? I took my marriage vows seriously. It's just a pity my ex husband didn't.

R

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope

The noose is slipped around the neck the moment you take those vows.

Marriage is for losers."

Just because it doesn’t suit you doesn’t mean it’s just for losers

I have friends married a long time and are perfectly happy. It didn’t work for me but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope

The noose is slipped around the neck the moment you take those vows.

Marriage is for losers.

Just because it doesn’t suit you doesn’t mean it’s just for losers

I have friends married a long time and are perfectly happy. It didn’t work for me but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for others. "

My opinion is that I don't need a moral and legal gig like marriage to declare my love for someone to face the possibility of a legal and financial cluster fuck somewhere down the road.Lifes complicated enough in my humble opinion.

Marriage is an ideology that is synonymous with religion and will find it's self dated if not already a bit farcical.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Divorce her!Lifes to short "

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also suggest that those who swing and are married have made a bit of a mockery of those vows.

The act of marriage is a farce

Plain and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him "

No sympathy for either of them

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'd also suggest that those who swing and are married have made a bit of a mockery of those vows.

The act of marriage is a farce

Plain and simple."

To be fair you do not know what vows they made to each other so you cannot judge and say they made a mockery of those vows

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

No sympathy for either of them "

Swinging brick for a heart

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope

The noose is slipped around the neck the moment you take those vows.

Marriage is for losers.

Just because it doesn’t suit you doesn’t mean it’s just for losers

I have friends married a long time and are perfectly happy. It didn’t work for me but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for others.

My opinion is that I don't need a moral and legal gig like marriage to declare my love for someone to face the possibility of a legal and financial cluster fuck somewhere down the road.Lifes complicated enough in my humble opinion.

Marriage is an ideology that is synonymous with religion and will find it's self dated if not already a bit farcical.

"

All relationships can have legal and financial fucks somewhere down the line, that isn’t restricted to married couples only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd also suggest that those who swing and are married have made a bit of a mockery of those vows.

The act of marriage is a farce

Plain and simple.

To be fair you do not know what vows they made to each other so you cannot judge and say they made a mockery of those vows "

Fair enough,I'd have a wee stab in the dark but and say it was something along the lines of love,sickness health n until death do us part blah blah ,awe that Jazz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Marriage is an ideology that is synonymous with religion and will find it's self dated if not already a bit farcical'- proper philosopher we have here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give up"

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'd also suggest that those who swing and are married have made a bit of a mockery of those vows.

The act of marriage is a farce

Plain and simple.

To be fair you do not know what vows they made to each other so you cannot judge and say they made a mockery of those vows

Fair enough,I'd have a wee stab in the dark but and say it was something along the lines of love,sickness health n until death do us part blah blah ,awe that Jazz "

But you don’t know for sure and what part of those vows you mentioned are being made a mockery of by being on a swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

No sympathy for either of them

Swinging brick for a heart "

Buy the ticket take the ride the guys on a swinging site asking advice to strangers on how to convince his wife into swinging if that's marriage im out,don't buy awe that shite either on how swinging saves marriages,If your happily married you only need both of yous,not Rita ,Bob n sue from down the road.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope

The noose is slipped around the neck the moment you take those vows.

Marriage is for losers.

Just because it doesn’t suit you doesn’t mean it’s just for losers

I have friends married a long time and are perfectly happy. It didn’t work for me but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for others.

My opinion is that I don't need a moral and legal gig like marriage to declare my love for someone to face the possibility of a legal and financial cluster fuck somewhere down the road.Lifes complicated enough in my humble opinion.

Marriage is an ideology that is synonymous with religion and will find it's self dated if not already a bit farcical.

"

the problem is thats an opinion and everyone has one for most marriage is something they want for religeous or security reasons its something id never enter into again but i understand mines is the minority opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh good god this is a mick take, whattime is it? is it post pub closing time???

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I'd also suggest that those who swing and are married have made a bit of a mockery of those vows.

The act of marriage is a farce

Plain and simple.

To be fair you do not know what vows they made to each other so you cannot judge and say they made a mockery of those vows

Fair enough,I'd have a wee stab in the dark but and say it was something along the lines of love,sickness health n until death do us part blah blah ,awe that Jazz

But you don’t know for sure and what part of those vows you mentioned are being made a mockery of by being on a swingers site? "

my vows didnt have those lines in it you can chose your own "commitments" to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

No sympathy for either of them

Swinging brick for a heart

Buy the ticket take the ride the guys on a swinging site asking advice to strangers on how to convince his wife into swinging if that's marriage im out,don't buy awe that shite either on how swinging saves marriages,If your happily married you only need both of yous,not Rita ,Bob n sue from down the road.

"

i have "death us do parted" and now i am ready to party.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I wished my mrs would have swung........from a rope

The noose is slipped around the neck the moment you take those vows.

Marriage is for losers.

Just because it doesn’t suit you doesn’t mean it’s just for losers

I have friends married a long time and are perfectly happy. It didn’t work for me but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for others.

My opinion is that I don't need a moral and legal gig like marriage to declare my love for someone to face the possibility of a legal and financial cluster fuck somewhere down the road.Lifes complicated enough in my humble opinion.

Marriage is an ideology that is synonymous with religion and will find it's self dated if not already a bit farcical.

the problem is thats an opinion and everyone has one for most marriage is something they want for religeous or security reasons its something id never enter into again but i understand mines is the minority opinion"

I’m the same I wouldn't get married again but I don’t think it’s just for losers either

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

No sympathy for either of them

Swinging brick for a heart

Buy the ticket take the ride the guys on a swinging site asking advice to strangers on how to convince his wife into swinging if that's marriage im out,don't buy awe that shite either on how swinging saves marriages,If your happily married you only need both of yous,not Rita ,Bob n sue from down the road.

"

Not everyone swings to save a marriage, if you're doing it for that reason its not going to work. You need a solid marriage/relationship to be able to swing or it will cause a hell of a lot more problems

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

No sympathy for either of them

Swinging brick for a heart

Buy the ticket take the ride the guys on a swinging site asking advice to strangers on how to convince his wife into swinging if that's marriage im out,don't buy awe that shite either on how swinging saves marriages,If your happily married you only need both of yous,not Rita ,Bob n sue from down the road.

"

You will find most married couples on here say that it doesnt save your marriage and you need a solid marriage to start swinging

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I love guys ogling my mrs but ive tried for years to get her to try another man any suggestions "

As has been said above, your wife isn't interested. So as I see it, you have two choices;

You continue to betray her and risk getting caught and potentially ruining lives

Or,

You respect her wishes and the commitment you made and you forget the whole thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or you buy her a new car if she'll go airtight with 3 of your mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

No sympathy for either of them

Swinging brick for a heart

Buy the ticket take the ride the guys on a swinging site asking advice to strangers on how to convince his wife into swinging if that's marriage im out,don't buy awe that shite either on how swinging saves marriages,If your happily married you only need both of yous,not Rita ,Bob n sue from down the road.

Not everyone swings to save a marriage, if you're doing it for that reason its not going to work. You need a solid marriage/relationship to be able to swing or it will cause a hell of a lot more problems "

I've not been there so couldn't possibly comment from experience,read alot on it and seen it glamorised in main stream media,to me it just comes across as all a bit shallow and farcical,almost like a fashion a trait that runs its cycle and people look back and cringe

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him

No sympathy for either of them

Swinging brick for a heart

Buy the ticket take the ride the guys on a swinging site asking advice to strangers on how to convince his wife into swinging if that's marriage im out,don't buy awe that shite either on how swinging saves marriages,If your happily married you only need both of yous,not Rita ,Bob n sue from down the road.

Not everyone swings to save a marriage, if you're doing it for that reason its not going to work. You need a solid marriage/relationship to be able to swing or it will cause a hell of a lot more problems

I've not been there so couldn't possibly comment from experience,read alot on it and seen it glamorised in main stream media,to me it just comes across as all a bit shallow and farcical,almost like a fashion a trait that runs its cycle and people look back and cringe "

Or it's just a bit of fun to laugh and talk about when we're papped off to the nursing home.

Of course it will be glamourised in the media, they have to sell stories and sex sells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Marriage is an ideology that is synonymous with religion and will find it's self dated if not already a bit farcical'- proper philosopher we have here!"

had me chuckling also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find If I hold the wife tight by the ankles in clear space I can usually get her to swing, it starts off a bit hard but once the momentom builds up its gets easier

Just don't let go last time I did she landed four blocks away she was raging

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By *ilkysatin OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Divorce her!Lifes to short

It should be the other way around, she should be divorcing him "

cheers for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... going back to the OP's question... speak to her about it seriously, there's no reason you can't nowadays, there's lots of programmes on the TV for example that would allow an opportunity to discuss it. If she says no, it's NO. What you do about that is up to you, however my concern from what you say (do please let me know if I've picked you up wrong ) is that you want her to swing for YOUR sexual interest not hers... if you were to tempt her into trying it, it's about both of you exploring your sexuality not just you

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

His Mrs could not have another man. Her pussy is raw from the constant pounding she gets from the guys he doesn’t know about.

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