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By *avy42 n jaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

due to some people that do not understand

NO PLAYING AT ALL, have screwed it up big time,

if someone does a social night and words say no playing,

if you do not understand these words we will explain to you what it means,

as you just not ruin it for the people holding them buck screw it up for everyone else that makes arangements to stay in hotels,

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By *az n davy42Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

Maybe this should be trf to the social forum davy hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh, are you saying there was a social and the rules were no playing but someone decided to play and they ruined the whole night for everyone?

I'd have thought that when there's a social then that is the case but if a few folk decide to play why does that ruin it for others?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"eh, are you saying there was a social and the rules were no playing but someone decided to play and they ruined the whole night for everyone?

I'd have thought that when there's a social then that is the case but if a few folk decide to play why does that ruin it for others?"

Maybe because most socials are held in private function rooms and pubs hence the bartenders do not know they are swingers... hence why they called SOCIALS get togethers for fabbers.... the comback always comes back to the organisers if it goes wrong with the venue...

Maybe ive not caught right what th OP has said thou lol but i think thats what he means....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"due to some people that do not understand

NO PLAYING AT ALL, have screwed it up big time,

if someone does a social night and words say no playing,

if you do not understand these words we will explain to you what it means,

as you just not ruin it for the people holding them buck screw it up for everyone else that makes arangements to stay in hotels,

"

Ive seen you posting this several times in the past to be honest not really sure why tho ..ive done socials on here for many years and never once came across anyone playing at a social venue not sure about any others that have been arranged tho ..

But yes for those who have never attended a social nite its purly drinks a dance and getting to know ppl and if ppl want fun then it happens back at hotels or ppl homes afterwards ....play only usualy happens at private social gatherings at ppls house partys .

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By *avy42 n jaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

well due to last ayrshire social and people playing at it, word got around and we are finding it hard as no one wants swingers near there pub, prices for halls go up,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah, right, got you now, I maybe misunderstood and thought you meant anything at all. I was thinking if someone was snogging or having a wee fondle, well you'll find that in any pub/club. I didn't realise you were meaning playing as in playing

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

As the name suggests, a social is purely that.

However, if I caught anyone playing at one of our socials then they would be out on their ear and not invited back.

At the end of the day, it is your name against the lease of the venue so it is you that gets it in the neck.

On another note, are you saying that you have arranged a social and now cannot get a venue??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a cpl who attend most socials we have seen some bad behaviour at some and to be blunt its shocking that some adults do not know how to behave in public! Not just the venue but also back at hotels? How embarresing is it when u can hear folk running up and down corridors shouting at all hours and stuff that bring unwanted attention to the swinging scene.as i said these folk are ment to be adults! auds. X

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"as a cpl who attend most socials we have seen some bad behaviour at some and to be blunt its shocking that some adults do not know how to behave in public! Not just the venue but also back at hotels? How embarresing is it when u can hear folk running up and down corridors shouting at all hours and stuff that bring unwanted attention to the swinging scene.as i said these folk are ment to be adults! auds. X"

Auds i have heard a few stories about behaviour at hotels and have to agree with you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well due to last ayrshire social and people playing at it, word got around and we are finding it hard as no one wants swingers near there pub, prices for halls go up, "

How does word get around…. has the original venue put out an all ports alert on your name and address and issued a mug shot to every venue in the area?

Anyway, when we sent details out for our social, we put it in black and white that it was just a social.

"This is purely a social gathering of like minded adults. The venue do not know the full nature of the gathering, other than its ‘social networking’. Remember that there is to be NO play at the venue and please be discrete. Just because you live 100 miles away from the venue and will never see the bar staff again doesn’t mean people standing next to you are the same."

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are always gonna get one or two that break rules and take things too far... Seen a few peeps doing things at socials that I have found to be tottally out of order.....

If we do another ball there's one or two people we wouldn't allow due to their behaviour...Some may say its harsh but at the end of the day it saves embarrassment etc.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Jo....didn't mean to embarrass everyone..... lol xx

kidding btw....x

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Always behave

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Can I just add my 2 wee pence I have been to a few parties not swinging related and ppl have got frisky and been caught so it doesn't just happen at socials. That said ppl should abide by the rules set out by the organiser its just common respect!! xx

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

think its all been said already. we have witnessed the behaviour at a social and left a bad taste in the mouth. we may be into the swinging scene but that does not make us slappers. we give it tight to anyone in the chatroom who isnt repectful and this behaviour disrespects us all at the social

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