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By *TBS OP   Man
over a year ago

close enough

When they receive mail saying someone likes their photos.

I have always had a habit of mailing someone to say something nice and put something like "I know I'm not what looking for" or similar if I have 'fabbed' a photo and although I never expect a reply 99% of the time I don't receive one anyway.

Do you think 'yeah yeah' what you after or do you think 'thats nice'.

This is not a what should I do post as I will continue to send the mail as I always have anyway.

M.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say thanks.

If someone appears to be paying me a genuine compliment then no need to be sarky or a smart arse.

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By *TBS OP   Man
over a year ago

close enough


"I just say thanks.

If someone appears to be paying me a genuine compliment then no need to be sarky or a smart arse."

Bravo. Ps, I still wonder what sound those pants make when slapped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Providing I have time I always reply to messages such as this and for the majority of the time. I think it's nice to get such messages provided they are courteous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just say thanks.

If someone appears to be paying me a genuine compliment then no need to be sarky or a smart arse."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply thank you.

Compliment is a compliment.

Nice to be nice.

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By *ifeCouple66Couple
over a year ago

Fife

We blocked single makes from messaging because although it's nice to recieve a compliment, they're few and far between the normal "wanna fuck" messages. So the dicks have ruined it for the decent guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just say thanks.

If someone appears to be paying me a genuine compliment then no need to be sarky or a smart arse.

Bravo. Ps, I still wonder what sound those pants make when slapped "

A lovely spanking sound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the yelp I like to hear no the spanking sound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in saying thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to do anything as I don't know how to start a conversation from there

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

In my head I think to myself 'why you bothering to message if you aren't what I'm looking for'. I have a nosy at the profile of course, then I carry on with my day. This is all without opening the message

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

I fab and pay lots of compliments to some photos that I think outwith the norm of some on here ,Like you 80 percent of the time it not because I want to meet them because it not what I looking for but nice to be nice and manners cost nothing ,Of course on the flip side some of the photos I see literally make me want to boak and question if I ever want sex again but wouldn't mail them saying that ,as I say manners and respect cost nothing even on a sex site

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I say thanks but you are not what we are looking for (just so I don’t give mixed signals)

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"I just say thanks.

If someone appears to be paying me a genuine compliment then no need to be sarky or a smart arse."

Exactly!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I always replying saying 'Ty'.

It's only an issue when the occasional follow up message comes along with 'I know you're not looking for single guys but...'

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I always replying saying 'Ty'.

It's only an issue when the occasional follow up message comes along with 'I know you're not looking for single guys but...' "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always replying saying 'Ty'.

It's only an issue when the occasional follow up message comes along with 'I know you're not looking for single guys but...'

This "

Then I become a sarky wee boot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they receive mail saying someone likes their photos.

I have always had a habit of mailing someone to say something nice and put something like "I know I'm not what looking for" or similar if I have 'fabbed' a photo and although I never expect a reply 99% of the time I don't receive one anyway.

Do you think 'yeah yeah' what you after or do you think 'thats nice'.

This is not a what should I do post as I will continue to send the mail as I always have anyway.

M."

Why do you say your not what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would reply to say thank you. If he wasn't who I was looking for and he replied instigating more, like a chat with a view to meeting then I would just say no thanks and hope he found someone x

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By *TBS OP   Man
over a year ago

close enough


"When they receive mail saying someone likes their photos.

I have always had a habit of mailing someone to say something nice and put something like "I know I'm not what looking for" or similar if I have 'fabbed' a photo and although I never expect a reply 99% of the time I don't receive one anyway.

Do you think 'yeah yeah' what you after or do you think 'thats nice'.

This is not a what should I do post as I will continue to send the mail as I always have anyway.

M.

Why do you say your not what they are looking for "

Out of age range, not looking single guys etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally say Thanks.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"When they receive mail saying someone likes their photos.

I have always had a habit of mailing someone to say something nice and put something like "I know I'm not what looking for" or similar if I have 'fabbed' a photo and although I never expect a reply 99% of the time I don't receive one anyway.

Do you think 'yeah yeah' what you after or do you think 'thats nice'.

This is not a what should I do post as I will continue to send the mail as I always have anyway.

M.

Why do you say your not what they are looking for

Out of age range, not looking single guys etc etc. "

Try sending the same message but ask politely if what they are looking for is set in stone. Worse case scenario is they reply thx for the compliment still, but add yes you are not what we are looking for. Best case scenario, they check out your profile say thx for compliment and they might make exceptions in your case.

Follow up messages are very bad though if your not their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply with a thank you, and hubby leaves it up to me x

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By *TBS OP   Man
over a year ago

close enough


"When they receive mail saying someone likes their photos.

I have always had a habit of mailing someone to say something nice and put something like "I know I'm not what looking for" or similar if I have 'fabbed' a photo and although I never expect a reply 99% of the time I don't receive one anyway.

Do you think 'yeah yeah' what you after or do you think 'thats nice'.

This is not a what should I do post as I will continue to send the mail as I always have anyway.

M.

Why do you say your not what they are looking for

Out of age range, not looking single guys etc etc.

Try sending the same message but ask politely if what they are looking for is set in stone. Worse case scenario is they reply thx for the compliment still, but add yes you are not what we are looking for. Best case scenario, they check out your profile say thx for compliment and they might make exceptions in your case.

Follow up messages are very bad though if your not their type. "

Thanks for advice but I've done ok for the last 10 yrs on here doing what I do.

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