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"We are finally getting the opportunity to head along ![]() I'll be late arrival at CJs as well. Going to the social first | |||
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"Would love to try Cjs Never plucked up courage to go Maybe 1 day" Just think of it as a pub type environment. Go along, meet some new people. Mndy | |||
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"Wont be there this week, but have fun everyone (? ![]() You not coming Hunni? I'll miss you. C xx | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone?" Always lots of single females going alone, single males however the numbers are limited, always folk happy to meet beforehand if you’re nervous and everyone’s always very friendly and welcoming | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? Always lots of single females going alone, single males however the numbers are limited, always folk happy to meet beforehand if you’re nervous and everyone’s always very friendly and welcoming" Thanks, that’s reassuring to hear ![]() | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone?" I went myself the first couple of times I went ![]() | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? I went myself the first couple of times I went ![]() Thanks for the tip. I’ve gone to bars myself many times, but cj’s is not quite the same as that i’m guessing | |||
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"What do u wear x" No experience, but guessing something that is easy to slip off x | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? I went myself the first couple of times I went ![]() In my experience (I have only been twice) cjs is very cliquey. Although lots on the forum deny this. The people wgi run it are approachable and happy to show you round but it's the same folk go all the time so they tend to stick together. Try and see if anyone meeting for pre drinks first? | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? I went myself the first couple of times I went ![]() You say you've been twice, your very knowledgeable, did you try talking to people or did you sit in a corner being judgemental as you are here? You sound like youve been scorned | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? I went myself the first couple of times I went ![]() The first time I went with someone abd yes of course I chatted to people. The team who run it are happy to answer any questions or give advice. The second time I went alone. Not scorned at all. I just find it amusing that you appear to be unable to give critical feedback on here without being jumped on. The Lady asked for advice and I gave her mine. If you are nervous about going the first time then meeting up for drinks first is good advice,I think. ![]() | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? I went myself the first couple of times I went ![]() ![]() Thanks. I know a couple who are going but might be less daunting if I arrange pre cjs drinks. I have heard of the clique culture but guess that’s human nature. X | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone?" I went alone the second and third time I went. There is always plenty of people willing to chat. It can be daunting initially but Once you’re chatting you’ll be fine. As for attire, wear what you would usually wear on a night out to a club.x | |||
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" Thanks for the tip. I’ve gone to bars myself many times, but cj’s is not quite the same as that i’m guessing" We went for the first time on Friday, very relaxed atmosphere, felt like a cross between a house party and a local pub. | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? I went alone the second and third time I went. There is always plenty of people willing to chat. It can be daunting initially but Once you’re chatting you’ll be fine. As for attire, wear what you would usually wear on a night out to a club.x" So dusting off my Wham! T shirt and buying some new day glow socks. Awesome. | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone? I went alone the second and third time I went. There is always plenty of people willing to chat. It can be daunting initially but Once you’re chatting you’ll be fine. As for attire, wear what you would usually wear on a night out to a club.x So dusting off my Wham! T shirt and buying some new day glow socks. Awesome. " You look like you’d be a wham fan! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Wont be there this week, but have fun everyone (? ![]() Cant afford it till payday now ![]() | |||
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"I’m thinking about going. How far in advance do you have to book? And do people often go alone?" I never partner up with anyone to go, means I'm not inclined to put out if I dont like them Haha, never had an issue going myself, as it's what you make of it | |||
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"Thanks for the reassurance about going in my own. I will be at the bar. Prob nervous looking but happy to chat to everyone & anyone x" Look out for us ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thanks for the reassurance about going in my own. I will be at the bar. Prob nervous looking but happy to chat to everyone & anyone x" I have always attended on my own, and by going regular I have gotten to know alot of folk that attend, the bar's always great for a chat to people as everyone is very welcoming especially to new folk's...hope you have a great night ![]() | |||
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"Thanks for the reassurance about going in my own. I will be at the bar. Prob nervous looking but happy to chat to everyone & anyone x I have always attended on my own, and by going regular I have gotten to know alot of folk that attend, the bar's always great for a chat to people as everyone is very welcoming especially to new folk's...hope you have a great night ![]() Don't worry your not the only one going alone looking like a newbie .lol | |||
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