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By *ill67 OP   Man
over a year ago

alloa

sometime ago had loads of hassle and threats from women who can only be described as a lunatic after 1 meet from stealing pictures going to out you for being on the site naming guys on Facebook this was my first experience of this type why join a site to cos hassle and grief I know ladys on here can get lots of hassle which is bang out of order any guys experienced this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you just telling your story now?

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Why are you just telling your story now?"

Probably cause it balances up with the recent one about males disrespecting women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you just telling your story now?"

Maybe he was emotionally scared or embarrassed by it and took him a while to have the confidence to speak about

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"sometime ago had loads of hassle and threats from women who can only be described as a lunatic after 1 meet from stealing pictures going to out you for being on the site naming guys on Facebook this was my first experience of this type why join a site to cos hassle and grief I know ladys on here can get lots of hassle which is bang out of order any guys experienced this"

Always a risk when meeting someone particularly when it’s a no commitment meet as some people can’t cope with no strings part and may have been hurt before so act erratically. The danger is they rationalize their actions.

Of course I’m not like that- I am a friendly stalker

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

We have met lots of people and never experienced this or experienced the accusations on the other thread that's running at the moment. Im wondering as there is lots of friends on here between people , the people that experienced this picture sharing and outing threats etc, did they warn their friends of the people or person responsible. I know if someone threatened MSD or myself with any of this shit id be sending about 30 messages out warning people about it.

OP how many people have you given the heads up to . ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fear that she stole the ability to use basic punctuation from him as well.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I got a ton of abuse via message on here yesterday from someone I’d never met and who doesn’t know me, the things said meant they definitely didn’t know me personally as they weren’t even accurate.

In that instance I blocked and reported, but if it was some one I had met/knew then I’d be sure to warn others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think because this can be a free site, it can attract the wrong type (sometimes)

Having said that, abuse can and has happened to lots on here from site supporters...

Sorry to hear op, best advice is block and move on as there is more nice folk on here than nasty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately abuse and just being downright nasty is something that you get on here. I have my messages heavily filtered and I still get it.

Fingers crossed not had a stalker.

But there are also some lovely folks on here that make it worthwhile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn’t be the first or last person to experience this, it comes from both sides Male and female, lots of people can’t handle rejection and jealousy, they really shouldn’t be on a site like this but the only thing you can do is block and move on, if they have stole pics and threaten to out you then report it to the police and at the very least report it to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as us chicks get some crazy messages the stories I hear from some males getting so mych hassle from bunny boiler fems is as scary

Hubby met a chick for a social said after it no thanks was waking up next day with 10/20 messages from her on fab obviously pissed then sober lol

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I just honestly don't get why people verbally abuse others, real life is challenging enough, this is a bit of escapism from that.

Absolute small minded and small intellectually challenge dicks

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"As much as us chicks get some crazy messages the stories I hear from some males getting so mych hassle from bunny boiler fems is as scary

Hubby met a chick for a social said after it no thanks was waking up next day with 10/20 messages from her on fab obviously pissed then sober lol

"

Thats terrible oldie, ask hubby to pm me her details so i can "avoid" her . Also what she looks like in case i bump into her in the street, actually ask him to pop over her number in case i get some random call from her.

I NEVER want to meet that type of woman.

Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody likes to fell rejected or unattractive but people need to have a wee bit of self respect. If somebody doesn't fancy me I've far too much pride to pester them or make a tit of myself hounding them for attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool."

What a tit.

You don't like me or find me attractive so I'm going to stalk you and sit outside your house to intimidate you.

Aye, fair do's hen...won me over now. Faf?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool."

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of people are you all meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

"

And a drone too

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

And a drone too "

Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

And a drone too

Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house. "

Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

And a drone too

Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house.

Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs? "

Would you like me to. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

And a drone too

Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house.

Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs?

Would you like me to. ? "

Only if you stick a wee toy gun in a holster too

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

And a drone too

Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house.

Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs?

Would you like me to. ?

Only if you stick a wee toy gun in a holster too "

Ache youve spoiled the moment, dont do toys, leave those for MSD.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind...you'll still be more Don Estelle than Don Corleone

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire


"Never mind...you'll still be more Don Estelle than Don Corleone "

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Never mind...you'll still be more Don Estelle than Don Corleone "

And you more like Mary Whitehouse than Amy Winehouse

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By *ill67 OP   Man
over a year ago

alloa

telling it now 1 thought she had fucked off turns she hadn't and she abused a couple I know last week hence the post now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never mind...you'll still be more Don Estelle than Don Corleone

And you more like Mary Whitehouse than Amy Winehouse "

You denied yourself the Mary Whitehouse experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.

Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.

Not cool.

Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.

Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .

Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.

"
hell no...jas gave no information out.he only spoke through here.but other guys have more fool them yes but it shouldn't happen at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell anyone my real name

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"As much as us chicks get some crazy messages the stories I hear from some males getting so mych hassle from bunny boiler fems is as scary

Hubby met a chick for a social said after it no thanks was waking up next day with 10/20 messages from her on fab obviously pissed then sober lol

"
Ive heard of similar to this about a female many times,it sounds like the same person if they are told no to meeting again or if u take to long to reply to her messages she goes off on one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to stalk me lol x

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Feel free to stalk me lol x"

you might be sorry you said that

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I don't tell anyone my real name "

Jason your name is on your profile

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Why are you just telling your story now?"

Court case is finally over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just being threatened by a couple from biddulph...unprovoked...sick of knobheads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's not good that this site let's it happen it's about time they do something about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what the block and report buttons for

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why are you posting this in the Scottish forum?

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be helpful to block folk on the forum that are on your personal block list, in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be helpful to block folk on the forum that are on your personal block list, in my opinion. "

Helpful in what way?

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"It would be helpful to block folk on the forum that are on your personal block list, in my opinion.

Helpful in what way?"

It would make threads confusing if you cannot follow the conversation because you can’t see a blocked persons posts and they can be confusing enough at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to track convos on the chat sometimes because you can’t see what blocked folks are typing and the conversation doesn’t make sense the same would happen with forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a supposedly adult sex site I think folk should be adult enough to avoid folk they have blocked if they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a supposedly adult sex site I think folk should be adult enough to avoid folk they have blocked if they want."

Now, now....that's far too sensible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Some people have problems, can have a front that shows an hot sexy free spirited swinger but delve deeper and you might have someone with mental health problems, anxiety and feeling let down by someone can trigger some terrible reactions

Did you start a relationship of sorts, how did she know your details to be able to do that?

It’s kinda scary tbh but this can easily happen

I once gave a taxi driver my phone number after a night out and was harassed non stop by phone calls years ago, it wasn’t nice and I didn’t know what to do

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