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Why are folk still playing Russian roulette with their health on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My fb and I were recently a private party which subsequently developed into a full scale orgy. We had chatted to a number of charming couples in the kitchen when it was suggested we all go through to the large playroom. It quickly became obvious condoms were not used so we retreated to the other lounge and had a glass of wine instead.

Is this a common occurrence? .. If so it's worrying and puts me off going to other private parties

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

You done the right thing. If it's not for you then decline and leave.

If other couples and singles are happy to continue without protection then that's their preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me but if that's folk's preference then they crack on.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Id be using the notes facility on theit profiles to remind myself in case they messaged asking for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fb and I were recently a private party which subsequently developed into a full scale orgy. We had chatted to a number of charming couples in the kitchen when it was suggested we all go through to the large playroom. It quickly became obvious condoms were not used so we retreated to the other lounge and had a glass of wine instead.

Is this a common occurrence? .. If so it's worrying and puts me off going to other private parties"

Seen this done previously at parties, personally it has to be safe sex or none at all and if bareback was all that was on offer I’d rather go without

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id be using the notes facility on theit profiles to remind myself in case they messaged asking for a meet "

We did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any party iv been to iv seen the couples themselves not using on eachother....but with other ppl condoms were always! used for whatever reason of their choosing they didnt wear protection..n if thats no for u thrn deffo make a clean break mibbi the next party you attend people will be more uo your street x

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By *atureshywifeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

i have neva been to orga ect but in my point of view [ ino i do ] with any one that swinges ect should in my oppinion get reg health checks not just for yourself but the health of other as iam sure there are many that give recieve oral just the same risks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have neva been to orga ect but in my point of view [ ino i do ] with any one that swinges ect should in my oppinion get reg health checks not just for yourself but the health of other as iam sure there are many that give recieve oral just the same risks "

Precisely why I use a female dam and request guys use a condom during oral. Wouldn't have it any other way. My health comes before pleasure and always will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fb and I were recently a private party which subsequently developed into a full scale orgy. We had chatted to a number of charming couples in the kitchen when it was suggested we all go through to the large playroom. It quickly became obvious condoms were not used so we retreated to the other lounge and had a glass of wine instead.

Is this a common occurrence? .. If so it's worrying and puts me off going to other private parties"

I thi k.this is very common I'd stay clear of that situation too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to a few parties but not seen that happen Condoms always if it’s not your partner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this was indeed the case,why the news to broadcast it? You just don’t attend parties run by the individuals in question again! Is it just me or has Fab lost its way recently? Far too many people trying to set themselves up as paragons of virtue and morality as opposed to finding likeminded people to have mutually satisfying fun with.

If you go to a party and people are not “bagging and tagging” then get the f&£k out of there ASAP but for the love of Christ come on to Forums sermonising about the shady sexual practices of others when you attended the same event. Nothing worse than self righteousness.....it’s vomit inducing

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"If this was indeed the case,why the news to broadcast it? You just don’t attend parties run by the individuals in question again! Is it just me or has Fab lost its way recently? Far too many people trying to set themselves up as paragons of virtue and morality as opposed to finding likeminded people to have mutually satisfying fun with.

If you go to a party and people are not “bagging and tagging” then get the f&£k out of there ASAP but for the love of Christ come on to Forums sermonising about the shady sexual practices of others when you attended the same event. Nothing worse than self righteousness.....it’s vomit inducing"

Lol what are you doing here ?

Your sermonising someones post . Lol.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"If this was indeed the case,why the news to broadcast it? You just don’t attend parties run by the individuals in question again! Is it just me or has Fab lost its way recently? Far too many people trying to set themselves up as paragons of virtue and morality as opposed to finding likeminded people to have mutually satisfying fun with.

If you go to a party and people are not “bagging and tagging” then get the f&£k out of there ASAP but for the love of Christ come on to Forums sermonising about the shady sexual practices of others when you attended the same event. Nothing worse than self righteousness.....it’s vomit inducing

Lol what are you doing here ?

Your sermonising someones post . Lol. "

If you dont like peoples posts , dont read them. Shit now im doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this was indeed the case,why the news to broadcast it? You just don’t attend parties run by the individuals in question again! Is it just me or has Fab lost its way recently? Far too many people trying to set themselves up as paragons of virtue and morality as opposed to finding likeminded people to have mutually satisfying fun with.

If you go to a party and people are not “bagging and tagging” then get the f&£k out of there ASAP but for the love of Christ come on to Forums sermonising about the shady sexual practices of others when you attended the same event. Nothing worse than self righteousness.....it’s vomit inducing

Lol what are you doing here ?

Your sermonising someones post . Lol. "

Perhaps... no in fact I am. Crucifixion it is then....crosses on the right and have a nice day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If this was indeed the case,why the news to broadcast it? You just don’t attend parties run by the individuals in question again! Is it just me or has Fab lost its way recently? Far too many people trying to set themselves up as paragons of virtue and morality as opposed to finding likeminded people to have mutually satisfying fun with.

If you go to a party and people are not “bagging and tagging” then get the f&£k out of there ASAP but for the love of Christ come on to Forums sermonising about the shady sexual practices of others when you attended the same event. Nothing worse than self righteousness.....it’s vomit inducing

Lol what are you doing here ?

Your sermonising someones post . Lol. "

He is! And I'm so dreadfully cut up about it.. Ouch! Ha ha.. But I know exactly where his rant came from anyway....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If this was indeed the case,why the news to broadcast it? You just don’t attend parties run by the individuals in question again! Is it just me or has Fab lost its way recently? Far too many people trying to set themselves up as paragons of virtue and morality as opposed to finding likeminded people to have mutually satisfying fun with.

If you go to a party and people are not “bagging and tagging” then get the f&£k out of there ASAP but for the love of Christ come on to Forums sermonising about the shady sexual practices of others when you attended the same event. Nothing worse than self righteousness.....it’s vomit inducing

Lol what are you doing here ?

Your sermonising someones post . Lol. "

He is! And I'm so dreadfully cut up about it.. Ouch! Ha ha.. But I know exactly where his rant came from anyway.... Ah... Got it... He was on my blocked list..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**face palm moment**

Next thread....

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Health is very important safe sex only with condoms unless with your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Health is very important safe sex only with condoms unless with your partner "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always exciting in the Scotland Forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did I miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I miss "

It's kicked off again. I don't even know what about this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I miss

It's kicked off again. I don't even know what about this time."

Did you read everything this time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did I miss "

Jason it's ever so exciting here.... Just off to get the popcorn and put my feet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I miss

Jason it's ever so exciting here.... Just off to get the popcorn and put my feet up"

Are you actually going to eat popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did I miss

Jason it's ever so exciting here.... Just off to get the popcorn and put my feet up"

Oh... On seconds thoughts perhaps this thread should simply be wound up as I've got tons of things to organise for tomorrow... At the end of the day we are all entitled to open a thread and state our point of view-it shouldn't get personal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did I miss

Jason it's ever so exciting here.... Just off to get the popcorn and put my feet up

Are you actually going to eat popcorn? "

Hmmm.. Nope, just a cuppa and a choccie biscuit.. Popcorn left at home

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By *rjaffa33Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Woah.... bit of chilling out required on this thread.

Non safe sex at a party.... question asked if that was commonplace and what others do.

Answer - pretty much unanimous... avoid...dont get involved...safe sex a must.... occasionally seen elsewhere and avoided.

Super..all in agreement....

And relax.

Breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I miss

Jason it's ever so exciting here.... Just off to get the popcorn and put my feet up

Are you actually going to eat popcorn?

Hmmm.. Nope, just a cuppa and a choccie biscuit.. Popcorn left at home"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woah.... bit of chilling out required on this thread.

Non safe sex at a party.... question asked if that was commonplace and what others do.

Answer - pretty much unanimous... avoid...dont get involved...safe sex a must.... occasionally seen elsewhere and avoided.

Super..all in agreement....

And relax.

Breathe

Most sensible answer, agree with that

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Practice safe sex by using my picture to ward them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, the negativity here is staggering and disappointing. No need to speak that that of others

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow

I literally just had a meet where the guy tried to have sex with no condom. I said no way and than when he put condom on couldn't perform. Total waste of meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, the negativity here is staggering and disappointing. No need to speak that that of others"

So true. A bit of respect and kindness goes a long way

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Dropped my crutch at some of the comments ,no good for my rehab this thread ha

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Been studying all afternoon and missed most of this.

Trying to work out which comment would have been followed by the doof doof doof of the eastenders theme tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I miss "

Some folk like to use condoms.

Some don't.

Some folk get upset that folk on the forum don't think the same as them and then it all goes a bit tits up.

Same shit, different day.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Posts removed.

Play nice people

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Posts removed.

Play nice people"

And so it should be. Some folk have a vile way with words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I miss

Some folk like to use condoms.

Some don't.

Some folk get upset that folk on the forum don't think the same as them and then it all goes a bit tits up.

Same shit, different day."
exactly.yawn

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Some people use condom some not use them but if host private party make sure plenty of condoms for people to use or not use

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