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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatting to a girl on fab via in here and txt and what's app , arranged to meet in a hotel ,muggins here went halfs on the room and put it in here acount,now she not on fab not answering phone or txt

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

That must be so annoying! I guess it’s a lesson learned though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful OP, a lesson learned though I imagine. All a hotel needs is card details, they won't take anything from it unless you don't turn up and a non refundable deposit was made clear or there's damage to the room. My rule is that you only book a hotel that lets you cancel right up to the day and share the cost when meeting. Some folk are just downright rude!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you transfer the funds. If PayPal or even banking PayM you'll have her real details.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Hard way to learn but hopefully lesson learned but must be so infuriating

People are heartless and it will make you more cautious at arranging a meet like this again.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"How did you transfer the funds. If PayPal or even banking PayM you'll have her real details."

True might be an idea to check

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

How low can you go. Sadly this happens but hopefully you will learn from your mistakes.x

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sorry to hear this OP, but happy birthday anyway. Hope your day gets better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have her bank account and sort code but nothing else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guessing she had a different account

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By *rjaffa33Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Guessing she had a different account"

Sounds like you have been scammed. Look on the bright side... it presumably wasnt very much and you havent trusted her with your life savings. The fact you sent her anything without meeting her or really knowing her would suggest you are very susceptible to being scammed.

Learn .... and dont let anyone do it to you again.

Thanks for sharing though. Its good to know that sort of thing is happening on here so we can all keep an eye out for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely but just proves it's not all guys are ass holes or fakes

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Definitely but just proves it's not all guys are ass holes or fakes "

Maybe she was a he. Did u actually speak to each other or just text?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fool you for doing anything with money...ok you could say you can pay for a room then at least you get to stay in it..But being silly enough to transfer money to a random. Chick on a sex sites bank account?

Really?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Il never understand why people are so trusting on here.

Unless uve met the person several times then just dont do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch, personally I book my own room and don’t rely on anyone else doing it unless it’s someone I know well, I don’t tend to split the room I just pay for it and if they want to book next time then so be it. Means if we don’t get along so well I can kick them out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She had verification spoke on the phone

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven

And on your birthday aswell that's shit!!

Cant believe someone would let you pay for a room they have no intention of turning up too, then not have the decency to even message to say x

Hope your day gets better X

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee

so easy to get caught up in the moment and get carried away

big man cuddle for the op.

chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hopefully something has come up and she will message and apologise and send your money back and isn’t ripping puss things can happen

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By *azzle DazzleCouple
over a year ago

strathaven


"Been chatting to a girl on fab via in here and txt and what's app , arranged to meet in a hotel ,muggins here went halfs on the room and put it in here acount,now she not on fab not answering phone or txt "
I smell shite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As in what

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Been chatting to a girl on fab via in here and txt and what's app , arranged to meet in a hotel ,muggins here went halfs on the room and put it in here acount,now she not on fab not answering phone or txt I smell shite.

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why ?

Its happend to many over the years on fab hes not the 1st & Sadly he wont be the last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor show,single guys are viewed as a cash cow on here and exploited at every turn,get a hard time which ok is fair enough because most of us are raging hormones,but even clubs take the piss etc then there's those front pages directing you elsewhere.

Don't let it knock you bud and tread carefully.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Officer Dibble

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

It is a shit thing to happen.as always theres a 'but' with me.

You have been fradulently cinned out of money, regardless of site or where you met , she has recieved funds through deception. Inform your bank and see if there is a way of getting the money back and if not ask the banks investigators to intervene. Im sure she wont be some high notch criminal , they will easily get her details fron the account number. More fool you bud if you let her away with it. Ps Happy birthday.

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By *ottie_and_the_HoundWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Been chatting to a girl on fab via in here and txt and what's app , arranged to meet in a hotel ,muggins here went halfs on the room and put it in here acount,now she not on fab not answering phone or txt I smell shite.

"
thought there was a smell

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Are folks really that gullible that not even having met in person they transfer money into a strangers account ,then complain that they been had .or maybe I'm just very very cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are folks really that gullible that not even having met in person they transfer money into a strangers account ,then complain that they been had .or maybe I'm just very very cynical "
agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was silly handing money over a stranger .

As for getting it back , i really cant see that happening . The bank or the police arent going to waste their time when you voluntary handed the money over.

Next time use the proper head and not the mini one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well hopefully something has come up and she will message and apologise and send your money back and isn’t ripping puss things can happen "

I suspect she's off buying a new shoes and matching handbag.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Well hopefully something has come up and she will message and apologise and send your money back and isn’t ripping puss things can happen

I suspect she's off buying a new shoes and matching handbag."

Or paid her half of a hotel meet to have fun with another guy

Now that would be harsh but probably true ,the poor OP has paid for her to have fun

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well that was silly handing money over a stranger .

As for getting it back , i really cant see that happening . The bank or the police arent going to waste their time when you voluntary handed the money over.

Next time use the proper head and not the mini one."

A short letter from the bank stating they might need to pass on details of possible fraud to the police and stating if it was a misunderstanding and the money was returned no further action would be taken , watch how quick he gets his money back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, maybe not. She might have previous form for it and knows fine well nothing is gonna happen . We dont know the context of the messages . Police probs laugh him out the door . Lesson learned the hard way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a shit thing to happen.as always theres a 'but' with me.

You have been fradulently cinned out of money, regardless of site or where you met , she has recieved funds through deception. Inform your bank and see if there is a way of getting the money back and if not ask the banks investigators to intervene. Im sure she wont be some high notch criminal , they will easily get her details fron the account number. More fool you bud if you let her away with it. Ps Happy birthday. "

Even if the bank agrees to investigation if it is found that there was negligence on the part of the claimant he will be liable for the loss. The money wasn't taken from his account, he sent it. It's best to keep your hand on your ha'penny really when dealing with any unknown quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the hit... And choose more wisely, meet first etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are folks really that gullible that not even having met in person they transfer money into a strangers account ,then complain that they been had .or maybe I'm just very very cynical agree with this. "

The lure of the fanny is such a potent draw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate is a private investigator If you put £100 in my account I will ask him to look into it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate is a private investigator If you put £100 in my account I will ask him to look into it for you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im sure you have learned your lesson there surely u still have her details

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

What shame your lost your money that why if meet up with any on fab for first time meet at after eight club it safe both party and if time waster or fake still have good night

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why did u pay for hotel ehen your profile states you can accomodate

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Book the room yourself next time. I’ve been let down before but someone came to my rescue and we’ve been meeting for two years. There is an upside at times. Damsels in distress do get rescued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Book the room yourself next time. I’ve been let down before but someone came to my rescue and we’ve been meeting for two years. There is an upside at times. Damsels in distress do get rescued. "

Aye....but....he's no a damsel.

Worst case scenario he's got a comfy bed for the night I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I told her I acom but ohh no but it's in the past her loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told her I acom but ohh no but it's in the past her loss"

It wasn't her who lost money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told her I acom but ohh no but it's in the past her loss

It wasn't her who lost money "
....always there with a comforting word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told her I acom but ohh no but it's in the past her loss

It wasn't her who lost money ....always there with a comforting word "

I like balance

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Classic case of thinking with you dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ehhh no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told her I acom but ohh no but it's in the past her loss

It wasn't her who lost money ....always there with a comforting word

I like balance "

This made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Book the room yourself next time. I’ve been let down before but someone came to my rescue and we’ve been meeting for two years. There is an upside at times. Damsels in distress do get rescued.

Aye....but....he's no a damsel.

Worst case scenario he's got a comfy bed for the night I suppose. "

A dame?! Haha x

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