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"Ok so talking to someone on here for a week and she says she can organize an orgy but then get a message from someone saying £25 to single guys to be part of it but hopefully they'll have more females. ?? I'm confused this is fab and not craigslist. This is a site for like minded people to explore sexual fantasies and get to meet people ?????? " Walk away from it mate if I was you as you already said not Craigslist and this site is about meeting ie social and if connect all the better for you but nobody should be asking for cash what so ever , had it a couple of times ladies asking for cash tell them to bolt mate and move on and have free fun and laughs with other genuine ladies and couples if that’s your thing unless everybody involved in orgy paying for share in a venue or hotel that’s fine | |||
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"Ok so talking to someone on here for a week and she says she can organize an orgy but then get a message from someone saying £25 to single guys to be part of it but hopefully they'll have more females. ?? I'm confused this is fab and not craigslist. This is a site for like minded people to explore sexual fantasies and get to meet people ?????? Walk away from it mate if I was you as you already said not Craigslist and this site is about meeting ie social and if connect all the better for you but nobody should be asking for cash what so ever , had it a couple of times ladies asking for cash tell them to bolt mate and move on and have free fun and laughs with other genuine ladies and couples if that’s your thing unless everybody involved in orgy paying for share in a venue or hotel that’s fine "  | |||
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"I'm dipping my toes in here so not sure how things go. Yes I'm shy to start with so don't know how to go about it but not stupid enough to pay for sex lol " Live and learn mate , no rights or wrongs as long as respectful on Fab .99 percent of people on this are genuine folks sadly the 1% in my opinion, but dont let it ruin Fab for you mate , be other genuine stuff that does come along but don’t part with cash unless all pay equal shares hotel , venue hire , hope all goes well for you mate | |||
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"This is what happens these days guys pay let it be to get into a club etc look at the shoebox same thing guys are paying not sure if the Ladies get any money from it they certainly don't in the clubs. Guys who set them up in flats stand to make a few quid ether way it costs!" | |||
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"I think it's wrong. If I want to pay for sex then I would go to a hooker " 25 quid ? Its a feckin bargain mate. Try getting married 
You dont just pay cash in that deal , jesus , they want ya to decorate the same room every 3 years , 3 bed semi , trust me yer decorating all yer friggan life. I came on Fab to meet a lady that lives in a shed .   | |||
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"Ok so talking to someone on here for a week and she says she can organize an orgy but then get a message from someone saying £25 to single guys to be part of it but hopefully they'll have more females. ?? I'm confused this is fab and not craigslist. This is a site for like minded people to explore sexual fantasies and get to meet people ?????? " yup and their fantasy is rolling in cash | |||
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"This is what happens these days guys pay let it be to get into a club etc look at the shoebox same thing guys are paying not sure if the Ladies get any money from it they certainly don't in the clubs. Guys who set them up in flats stand to make a few quid ether way it costs!" who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses | |||
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"This is what happens these days guys pay let it be to get into a club etc look at the shoebox same thing guys are paying not sure if the Ladies get any money from it they certainly don't in the clubs. Guys who set them up in flats stand to make a few quid ether way it costs!who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses"
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"This is what happens these days guys pay let it be to get into a club etc look at the shoebox same thing guys are paying not sure if the Ladies get any money from it they certainly don't in the clubs. Guys who set them up in flats stand to make a few quid ether way it costs!who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses
You forgot all the free advertising on here lol"oh its not advertising been told many times its about being sociable lol even though in the past the mear mention of a club got the thread pulled for advertising a buisness. Should push asda aisle 4 hookups on sundays socials in no way advertising a buisness. | |||
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"This is what happens these days guys pay let it be to get into a club etc look at the shoebox same thing guys are paying not sure if the Ladies get any money from it they certainly don't in the clubs. Guys who set them up in flats stand to make a few quid ether way it costs!who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses" Clubs are regulated by the councils and police and pay rent/water/electric/gas/public liability/staff/buying equipment etc and have to comply with all sorts of red tape and be open to inspection and scrutiny which is a bit different from someone guaranteeing a shag if you turn up at a flat and pay your way in. I used to pay more for my private membership annually for a private club in city centre and apart from members only bar the only other perk you got was discounted room hire and meals in the restaurant, thought it would be good for networking turned out it was just full of snobs | |||
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Folk on fab will always find a way to make money.
Wether it's selling knickers
Socials
Gangbangs or plain entry fees to clubs
Won't ever stop.
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"This is what happens these days guys pay let it be to get into a club etc look at the shoebox same thing guys are paying not sure if the Ladies get any money from it they certainly don't in the clubs. Guys who set them up in flats stand to make a few quid ether way it costs!who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses
You forgot all the free advertising on here loloh its not advertising been told many times its about being sociable lol even though in the past the mear mention of a club got the thread pulled for advertising a buisness. Should push asda aisle 4 hookups on sundays socials in no way advertising a buisness.
"Technicalities, it’s all about how things are worded, unless somewhere was specifically advertising sex was guaranteed then it’s not illegal therefore fab wouldn’t be seen to be supporting illegal activities, I’m pretty sure moderators still monitor the posts to make sure people don’t post anything that could be misconstrued as solicitation, previously with fewer mods or software to pick out these types of comments it was just easier to remove the posts completely | |||
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"Yup a social in a pub dosn't cost anything either lol
Folk on fab will always find a way to make money.
Wether it's selling knickers
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Gangbangs or plain entry fees to clubs
Won't ever stop.
At least be upfront about it."I don’t drink personally so wouldn’t want to sit in a pub all night and don’t like offending random folk so wouldn’t really fancy discussing my sex life/stories and kinks with random vanillas in earshot in a quiet environment(I’m loud and bubbly is well you need ear defenders with her inside voice), bad enough going to church for two hours and trying not to swear | |||
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"who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses" Well i say as a regular club goer that there has never been a female approach me offering sex so where are all these " paid females" you speak of . There has been many a time the only females in the club has been Mrs She Devil and another female friend of ours. Are you claiming either of them are the resident hooker ? Your second point kola. You claim "plenty" of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in clubs, well thats kinda funny because on my time on Fab ive only seen 1 , you bud, and funnily enough you aint even been to a club . An entry fee is different from guaranteeing your nat king cole. If it was a the case id be a rich man every time i paid into Hamilton races id be gauranteed to be on a winner by your logic . Lastly nobody is saying they are not a business , of course they make money , but they make it on the door not by paying women to have fun. Get a grip of yerself bud its an old drum you keep banging . | |||
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"This is what happens these days guys pay let it be to get into a club etc look at the shoebox same thing guys are paying not sure if the Ladies get any money from it they certainly don't in the clubs. Guys who set them up in flats stand to make a few quid ether way it costs!who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses Clubs are regulated by the councils and police and pay rent/water/electric/gas/public liability/staff/buying equipment etc and have to comply with all sorts of red tape and be open to inspection and scrutiny which is a bit different from someone guaranteeing a shag if you turn up at a flat and pay your way in. I used to pay more for my private membership annually for a private club in city centre and apart from members only bar the only other perk you got was discounted room hire and meals in the restaurant, thought it would be good for networking turned out it was just full of snobs "you sure ...... im not on previous thingz that have been posted. The simple thing is with these clubs your paying for its usp that otber places dont have .......sex in public places for those who cant think what it is. Ive nothing against clubs but you cant dress a monkey and call it a supermodel there are far better more affordable places to socialise. None of the clubs guarentee a shag same as joe in his flat aint gurenteeing a shag | |||
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"I think it's wrong. If I want to pay for sex then I would go to a hooker 25 quid ? Its a feckin bargain mate. Try getting married
You dont just pay cash in that deal , jesus , they want ya to decorate the same room every 3 years , 3 bed semi , trust me yer decorating all yer friggan life. I came on Fab to meet a lady that lives in a shed . "Hahaha | |||
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"who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses Well i say as a regular club goer that there has never been a female approach me offering sex so where are all these " paid females" you speak of . There has been many a time the only females in the club has been Mrs She Devil and another female friend of ours. Are you claiming either of them are the resident hooker ? Your second point kola. You claim "plenty" of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in clubs, well thats kinda funny because on my time on Fab ive only seen 1 , you bud, and funnily enough you aint even been to a club . An entry fee is different from guaranteeing your nat king cole. If it was a the case id be a rich man every time i paid into Hamilton races id be gauranteed to be on a winner by your logic . Lastly nobody is saying they are not a business , of course they make money , but they make it on the door not by paying women to have fun. Get a grip of yerself bud its an old drum you keep banging . "not your "bud" i will write what i want when i want plenty could confirm what i say has been said before the thing is many wont for fear of upsetting the forum gods. You dont like what im writing tough.... sick of reading it again tough. i need to rea yours and others imo nonsense cjs after eigbt the ahoebox all have plenty of posts about evading taxes prostitution crime that cant be written on premises and a whole host of other negatives. No idea if true or false but the allegations were made about all at one time or another | |||
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Its as old as fab itself folk charging on here.
If folk are dumb enough to do it crack on but at least be upfront about it. | |||
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"who says they dont in the other clubs plenty of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in all clubs the attempt to make one club appear good is crazy they all follow the same way of doing things and bottom line tbey are buisnesses Well i say as a regular club goer that there has never been a female approach me offering sex so where are all these " paid females" you speak of . There has been many a time the only females in the club has been Mrs She Devil and another female friend of ours. Are you claiming either of them are the resident hooker ? Your second point kola. You claim "plenty" of folk have posted about paid prostitutes in clubs, well thats kinda funny because on my time on Fab ive only seen 1 , you bud, and funnily enough you aint even been to a club . An entry fee is different from guaranteeing your nat king cole. If it was a the case id be a rich man every time i paid into Hamilton races id be gauranteed to be on a winner by your logic . Lastly nobody is saying they are not a business , of course they make money , but they make it on the door not by paying women to have fun. Get a grip of yerself bud its an old drum you keep banging . not your "bud" i will write what i want when i want plenty could confirm what i say has been said before the thing is many wont for fear of upsetting the forum gods.
You dont like what im writing tough.... sick of reading it again tough.
i need to rea yours and others imo nonsense cjs after eigbt the ahoebox all have plenty of posts about evading taxes prostitution crime that cant be written on premises and a whole host of other negatives. No idea if true or false but the allegations were made about all at one time or another"Your ranting here bud. All you speak of is gossip and hearsay, try using a little common sense or even using a little concept of either , personal experience or proof. Your rantings are just another example of gossip and rumours. You try to embelish your point by using terms like "the forum gods" to strengthen your point and belittle others points ,what you mean is people like yourself who use the forums on a regular basis. Do you see yourself as a forum god i wonder ?? Lastly. Again nowhere in my post states you cannot say what you want in the forums, its absolutely your right to. But when challenged on your unfounded gossip , plz dont get all ranty. Not because your not allowed to get ranty but its just more like the toys are out the pram as someone dared challenge your gossip column. | |||
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"If you were having an all day/night party and there were a group of you booking an apartment/hotel room and the costs justifies the rental/condoms/food and drinks, then I’d say yeah go for it, but if it’s just a case of you going along for a few hours to someone’s flat or hotel room to get your hole and then you’re getting kicked out, that’s prostitution, which isn’t illegal, solicitation which is the advertisement of sex for money however is ! Can easily get a room at a premier inn for £32 and you’ve got that for at least 20hours !! " | |||
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"If you were having an all day/night party and there were a group of you booking an apartment/hotel room and the costs justifies the rental/condoms/food and drinks, then I’d say yeah go for it, but if it’s just a case of you going along for a few hours to someone’s flat or hotel room to get your hole and then you’re getting kicked out, that’s prostitution, which isn’t illegal, solicitation which is the advertisement of sex for money however is ! Can easily get a room at a premier inn for £32 and you’ve got that for at least 20hours !! " lol but cj charges you £40 to take your own booze to walk through her door and your still not guaranteed sex? | |||
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"If you were having an all day/night party and there were a group of you booking an apartment/hotel room and the costs justifies the rental/condoms/food and drinks, then I’d say yeah go for it, but if it’s just a case of you going along for a few hours to someone’s flat or hotel room to get your hole and then you’re getting kicked out, that’s prostitution, which isn’t illegal, solicitation which is the advertisement of sex for money however is ! Can easily get a room at a premier inn for £32 and you’ve got that for at least 20hours !! lol but cj charges you £40 to take your own booze to walk through her door and your still not guaranteed sex? " This is my point here oldie, im only taking exception to the comments that clubs pay girls to have sex with attendees, nothing else. Socials and other events i make no comment on as we have organised events twice now and can 100 % guarantee we lost a little money on both events but it was about us and others having a good time so was worth a few quid out of pocket. Kola has stated he has heard this or that about girls being paid for sex in scottish clubs ie , after 8 or cjs thats a load of rubbish in our numerous experiences from both clubs. Thats my point of gossip and hearsay. | |||
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"But devil if you don't run the club..you can't guarantee they do or don't. Nobody but the owner will know that. It's all very competitive ..put rumours out from 1 to slate another blah blah as you see it with the amount if shit I get for daring to say anything negative with cjs...iv nothing against it if you like it great! But don't think it's doing something the others are not that would be very nieve.they are all out to make money at the end of the day." Ahh but cmon, im not blind either, we have attended after 8 easily 30 plus times, and have never heard or seen regular or new girls ever even look like they have been paid or get paid to have sex. Even on nights where there are lots of single guys , most go home disappointed. Probably where most of the rumours start because they NEVER got their hole. Also after 8 lounge is not much bigger than my lounge so it would be hard not to see soliciting going on. Paying girls would have the opposite effect on a club, guys would be going , and offering cash to every female or asking are you one of the paid girls . Very soon all the unpaid girls that attended would stop going as why would they want to be associated with a club that had hookers in attendance. Think about it ! Either they are ALL hookers or there is no hookers . It is the only common sense argument. | |||
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"If you were having an all day/night party and there were a group of you booking an apartment/hotel room and the costs justifies the rental/condoms/food and drinks, then I’d say yeah go for it, but if it’s just a case of you going along for a few hours to someone’s flat or hotel room to get your hole and then you’re getting kicked out, that’s prostitution, which isn’t illegal, solicitation which is the advertisement of sex for money however is ! Can easily get a room at a premier inn for £32 and you’ve got that for at least 20hours !! lol but cj charges you £40 to take your own booze to walk through her door and your still not guaranteed sex? This is my point here oldie, im only taking exception to the comments that clubs pay girls to have sex with attendees, nothing else. Socials and other events i make no comment on as we have organised events twice now and can 100 % guarantee we lost a little money on both events but it was about us and others having a good time so was worth a few quid out of pocket. Kola has stated he has heard this or that about girls being paid for sex in scottish clubs ie , after 8 or cjs thats a load of rubbish in our numerous experiences from both clubs. Thats my point of gossip and hearsay. "so you should perhaps read what is written instead of try to pick an argument what is it has tits cant be wrong ? So what your saying is we should take your word for it? See the problem i never said any of it was true or false mearly that they have had it leveled at them and certain elements are documented in media sources ie crime reports. Long tall and short of it if joe wants a gangbang in his govanhill flat at 20 quid a bang and a fiver a bj so what imo a fool and tbeir money are easy parted | |||
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"Surely paying escorts to attend a club would diminish the majority of their profits? I’m sure that the overheads already cost a bob or two. " speculate to acumulate again no idea if true but all clubs have had dirt thrown at them | |||
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"Surely paying escorts to attend a club would diminish the majority of their profits? I’m sure that the overheads already cost a bob or two. " Clubs make their money from single guys who (rightly or wrongly) pay a premium to attend. Ergo - you need sufficient playing females to attract sufficient cash pigs....sorry single guys. | |||
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"Surely paying escorts to attend a club would diminish the majority of their profits? I’m sure that the overheads already cost a bob or two. " or let a few chicks in for free to make it look busy? | |||
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"Surely paying escorts to attend a club would diminish the majority of their profits? I’m sure that the overheads already cost a bob or two. Clubs make their money from single guys who (rightly or wrongly) pay a premium to attend. Ergo - you need sufficient playing females to attract sufficient cash pigs....sorry single guys. " That would make the inflated entrance fee an absolute bargain  I cant say that I’ve ever hired a sex worker though, I’m sure they’re a lot more than £40. | |||
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" That would make the inflated entrance fee an absolute bargain I cant say that I’ve ever hired a sex worker though, I’m sure they’re a lot more than £40. "Bingo. Supply and demand. Many guys can't get their Nat King on here so even the thought of a chance in a club has them opening their wallets. The economic law known as 'flies round shite'. | |||
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"The diffrence between emotionally invested and sujective viewing right there "I gotta ask you to explain this post , i havnt played the last 5 or 6 visits to a club and MSD is probably on about her 8th non playing visit to a club so no emotional investment i would say. As for subjective viewing , we people watch constantly to see if we like someone so spotting hookers or people throwing themselves at other patrons i think subjectively we might have noticed that type of behaviour. But hey you have your rumours and newspaper headlines, we have personal experience, you choose to believe what you believe and we shall continue being emotionally involved ( not ) in the club scene. | |||
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"The diffrence between emotionally invested and sujective viewing right there
I gotta ask you to explain this post , i havnt played the last 5 or 6 visits to a club and MSD is probably on about her 8th non playing visit to a club so no emotional investment i would say. As for subjective viewing , we people watch constantly to see if we like someone so spotting hookers or people throwing themselves at other patrons i think subjectively we might have noticed that type of behaviour. But hey you have your rumours and newspaper headlines, we have personal experience, you choose to believe what you believe and we shall continue being emotionally involved ( not ) in the club scene. "rather than see it as a possibility you flat out reject it sure ive seen you write no smoke without fire. Why is it not acceptable for the clubs you like ? Thats emotional investment imo. What behaviour are you expecting to see? prostitutes paid beforehand to attend the club have sex or dont have sex just make folk happy but your deerstalker will ferret that out. Cant explain as words aint allowed though a user on here made it plain security were not doing there job this was confirmed by other attendees before the post was pulled. But hey everyones making it up. because you like the clubs im sure you keep yourselves very safe as do many others it dosnt change the fact these things have been said and probably an element of truth to them. Hope that explains what i ment for you | |||
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"Sorry devil I agree with kola on this 1. It's not gossip He as I have been around fab and the socials for long enough to know money is being pocketed in the pretence of a 'social It's fabs worst kept secret! As iv said previous I'd have more respect for folk that organise 1 as yes I know it's a tough job.. to come out say and I'm adding £3 on top of each ticket for my time.but to come up with venue charges and prizes with costs and other guff it's laughable. Think back to the day a great social cost £5-£10 for a good venue no buffet and a good dj.and they were waiting list to get involved.then they all got too carried away with charity contributions and raffles..honestly the steady decline on a good fab social is sad as too many folk on the take. That's why i and many of my fab friends never be at another as they are getting used for pure greed.be upfront and it might get back to them being full and enjoyable again." Back in the good old days when milk was 10p a pint and you could get a loaf of bread for 20p or was it shillings back then | |||
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"I’m kinda feeling that way how do you go about having a meet" Contrary to some of the comments getting along to a social is good, we have a walking group and I go out with a group of guys on the bikes and a lovely lady once her leg heals will be joining us, posting a meet in the meet me section is another way and don’t rule out meeting a guy for a coffee there’s as many regular Male members willing to meet for a drink etc too  just don’t whatever you do post updates about the place being a waste of time and woe is me or that very quickly put folk off | |||
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"Sorry devil I agree with kola on this 1. It's not gossip He as I have been around fab and the socials for long enough to know money is being pocketed in the pretence of a 'social It's fabs worst kept secret! As iv said previous I'd have more respect for folk that organise 1 as yes I know it's a tough job.. to come out say and I'm adding £3 on top of each ticket for my time.but to come up with venue charges and prizes with costs and other guff it's laughable. Think back to the day a great social cost £5-£10 for a good venue no buffet and a good dj.and they were waiting list to get involved.then they all got too carried away with charity contributions and raffles..honestly the steady decline on a good fab social is sad as too many folk on the take. That's why i and many of my fab friends never be at another as they are getting used for pure greed.be upfront and it might get back to them being full and enjoyable again. Back in the good old days when milk was 10p a pint and you could get a loaf of bread for 20p or was it shillings back then "wouldn't know I'm not that old to remember shillings? But as if said previously many times iv had city centre venues for birthdays ect and paid no venue for hire if you have the numbers for the bar?. Really hate repeating myself on this. But you crack on with your raffles and charity contributions | |||
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"The diffrence between emotionally invested and sujective viewing right there
I gotta ask you to explain this post , i havnt played the last 5 or 6 visits to a club and MSD is probably on about her 8th non playing visit to a club so no emotional investment i would say. As for subjective viewing , we people watch constantly to see if we like someone so spotting hookers or people throwing themselves at other patrons i think subjectively we might have noticed that type of behaviour. But hey you have your rumours and newspaper headlines, we have personal experience, you choose to believe what you believe and we shall continue being emotionally involved ( not ) in the club scene. rather than see it as a possibility you flat out reject it sure ive seen you write no smoke without fire.
Why is it not acceptable for the clubs you like ?
Thats emotional investment imo.
What behaviour are you expecting to see?
prostitutes paid beforehand to attend the club have sex or dont have sex just make folk happy but your deerstalker will ferret that out.
Cant explain as words aint allowed though a user on here made it plain security were not doing there job this was confirmed by other attendees before the post was pulled. But hey everyones making it up.
because you like the clubs im sure you keep yourselves very safe as do many others it dosnt change the fact these things have been said and probably an element of truth to them.
Hope that explains what i ment for you "Why do they have couples and single female only nights then. If there target market is guys and paying girls to make these guys happy surely thats way more profitable than banning the target market on potentially lucrative weekend nights. That makes no sense to me. All i can say is , we have never witnessed it and if it was ever witnessed by us i will happily come back on this or any other thread and say you guys were right as we would never be back in that club anyways. Cant say fairer than that , im sure we can agree on that. | |||
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I gotta ask you to explain this post , i havnt played the last 5 or 6 visits to a club and MSD is probably on about her 8th non playing visit to a club so no emotional investment i would say. As for subjective viewing , we people watch constantly to see if we like someone so spotting hookers or people throwing themselves at other patrons i think subjectively we might have noticed that type of behaviour. But hey you have your rumours and newspaper headlines, we have personal experience, you choose to believe what you believe and we shall continue being emotionally involved ( not ) in the club scene. rather than see it as a possibility you flat out reject it sure ive seen you write no smoke without fire.
Why is it not acceptable for the clubs you like ?
Thats emotional investment imo.
What behaviour are you expecting to see?
prostitutes paid beforehand to attend the club have sex or dont have sex just make folk happy but your deerstalker will ferret that out.
Cant explain as words aint allowed though a user on here made it plain security were not doing there job this was confirmed by other attendees before the post was pulled. But hey everyones making it up.
because you like the clubs im sure you keep yourselves very safe as do many others it dosnt change the fact these things have been said and probably an element of truth to them.
Hope that explains what i ment for you
Why do they have couples and single female only nights then. If there target market is guys and paying girls to make these guys happy surely thats way more profitable than banning the target market on potentially lucrative weekend nights. That makes no sense to me. All i can say is , we have never witnessed it and if it was ever witnessed by us i will happily come back on this or any other thread and say you guys were right as we would never be back in that club anyways. Cant say fairer than that , im sure we can agree on that. "why wouldnt the pros be at a cpls and single fems night? Plenty cpls only wanting a fem which im sure you know. Your determination to say they are legit (even though they have all been shut down at some point) is crazy to me. End of the day joe setting up a shagging party in his flat he could have the kitchen as a safe area | |||
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"The diffrence between emotionally invested and sujective viewing right there
I gotta ask you to explain this post , i havnt played the last 5 or 6 visits to a club and MSD is probably on about her 8th non playing visit to a club so no emotional investment i would say. As for subjective viewing , we people watch constantly to see if we like someone so spotting hookers or people throwing themselves at other patrons i think subjectively we might have noticed that type of behaviour. But hey you have your rumours and newspaper headlines, we have personal experience, you choose to believe what you believe and we shall continue being emotionally involved ( not ) in the club scene. rather than see it as a possibility you flat out reject it sure ive seen you write no smoke without fire.
Why is it not acceptable for the clubs you like ?
Thats emotional investment imo.
What behaviour are you expecting to see?
prostitutes paid beforehand to attend the club have sex or dont have sex just make folk happy but your deerstalker will ferret that out.
Cant explain as words aint allowed though a user on here made it plain security were not doing there job this was confirmed by other attendees before the post was pulled. But hey everyones making it up.
because you like the clubs im sure you keep yourselves very safe as do many others it dosnt change the fact these things have been said and probably an element of truth to them.
Hope that explains what i ment for you
Why do they have couples and single female only nights then. If there target market is guys and paying girls to make these guys happy surely thats way more profitable than banning the target market on potentially lucrative weekend nights. That makes no sense to me. All i can say is , we have never witnessed it and if it was ever witnessed by us i will happily come back on this or any other thread and say you guys were right as we would never be back in that club anyways. Cant say fairer than that , im sure we can agree on that. why wouldnt the pros be at a cpls and single fems night? Plenty cpls only wanting a fem which im sure you know.
Your determination to say they are legit (even though they have all been shut down at some point) is crazy to me.
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"Ha!! Multiple who's going to cj posts every day but IM obsessed?
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"Think that's called exploitation,but if there's a market for it then fair play to all concerned." No one's made to go So it's not exploitation x | |||
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"Think that's called exploitation,but if there's a market for it then fair play to all concerned. No one's made to go So it's not exploitation x"Good point,all down to individual choice.Think I'd enjoy it in a club,not some random gaff. | |||
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"Think that's called exploitation,but if there's a market for it then fair play to all concerned. No one's made to go So it's not exploitation x
Good point,all down to individual choice.Think I'd enjoy it in a club,not some random gaff."Exactly!! And in all fairness a night in the town will probably cost a lot more than spending your night in a swingers club. My last night out in Glasgow cost me about £70 and that was just the drinks. Or how much is it to watch a football game for a few hours? It's just a shame there has to be quite a big difference in entrance fees at the clubs, so for some people (the clueless ones imo), females who go are automatically prostitutes x | |||
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"Why can't everyone pay the same but have a cut of point of single guys? Instead of guys paying way more than single fems? Say once 10 single guys pay..then 10 fems then 10 cpls.all paying the same." That's what I would like to see as well. But everywhere, possibly even swingers clubs worldwide, do guys seem to pay a lot more x | |||
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"I heard so yes. I'm only going by if single fems don't meet cpls or are straight single guys is all they are looking for...limit those guys and chicks would have nothing to go for? Single guys seem to be an after thought in clubs." They shouldn't be. I certainly wouldn't go if it wasn't for the single guys. Who knows, maybe one day it'll change.... I hosted a party once where a couple just couldn't make sense of me asking to chip in £5 per person towards the venue. They never have to pay more than single guys!!! And just couldn't get through to them how it's really more fair to do it this way, with 2 people living together, 2 incomes, easier living when with their 2 incomes they have just the 1 mortgage / rent to pay etc. And it's not like I was asking for £40, what they would pay at a club. They didn't come to the party | |||
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"Iv no problem folk chipping in going as a cpl. If a social is say £5-£10 of course a cpl pays twice as it's 2 people so it makes no sense to me to have a pyramid cost scale for clubs. Hey ho I'd have paid a £5 for a social that's not a problem as it's more like a deposit so folk will show up. Used to be that then you got a ticket for a free drink so you get it back sort of thing. But that was back on the day lol as in 4/5 yrs ago lol" We take deposit to stop people putting their name down and not turning up all the time, we charge the same per person and the deposit covers a free drink and rest goes towards the buffet. We only do raffles at the bigger socials and the cash from that goes to charity I get clubs charging more for guys even if it's fair or not, same as nightclubs let's groups of girls in for free(and sometimes a free round of drinks) to entice more guys in Most swingers clubs down south limit the guys based on verifications so the guys are more suited to the couples etc but not sure if they charge them more or not John | |||
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"I think some ppl need to stop bleating about how much socials cost and how they are run. If they don’t like it then don’t go or try organising one themselves seen as they have sooo many good ideas and they seem to know better.
Don't think anyone denying the work that goes into SOME but doesn't shy away from fact that a number are run for profit. It would be naive to think otherwise. As long as folk are up front then that's fine. "this
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Don't think anyone denying the work that goes into SOME but doesn't shy away from fact that a number are run for profit. It would be naive to think otherwise. As long as folk are up front then that's fine. "Is that in the rules? | |||
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Don't think anyone denying the work that goes into SOME but doesn't shy away from fact that a number are run for profit. It would be naive to think otherwise. As long as folk are up front then that's fine. this
Actually it was more of a discussion but if some folk can't separate the 2 that's their problem."A discussion? Heck you bring it up and throw accusations about every chance you get and on every thread you can. That’s not a chip on your shoulder, it’s a potato! | |||
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Don't think anyone denying the work that goes into SOME but doesn't shy away from fact that a number are run for profit. It would be naive to think otherwise. As long as folk are up front then that's fine. this
Actually it was more of a discussion but if some folk can't separate the 2 that's their problem.
A discussion? Heck you bring it up and throw accusations about every chance you get and on every thread you can.
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"Excuse Me? We were actually discussing why guys pay more to get into clubs? Wait...what's that saying?..Not interested in the topic..just scroll on by " I’m scrolling I’m scrolling.
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"Excuse Me? We were actually discussing why guys pay more to get into clubs? Wait...what's that saying?..Not interested in the topic..just scroll on by
I’m scrolling I’m scrolling.
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