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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its so difficult to think of something to say that stands out without sounding like a creep Haha.

I mean hi how are you so standard and just meh.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Get inspiration from the profile you're perving over before sending them a message

"Hi, how are you" most likely won't spark a reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a reference to the profile your contacting helps.

Proves you have read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so difficult to think of something to say that stands out without sounding like a creep Haha.

I mean hi how are you so standard and just meh. "

It's too much grief....honest...just have a wank.

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate


"Get inspiration from the profile you're perving over before sending them a message

"Hi, how are you" most likely won't spark a reply x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a reference to the profile your contacting helps.

Proves you have read it."

Yeah I always look for something in the bio to avoid that hi how are you. Worst when folk have like no to little bio

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I think a reference to the profile your contacting helps.

Proves you have read it.

Yeah I always look for something in the bio to avoid that hi how are you. Worst when folk have like no to little bio "

In that case why bother sending a message , if they cant put effort into a bio , why you putting effort into a message. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a reference to the profile your contacting helps.

Proves you have read it.

Yeah I always look for something in the bio to avoid that hi how are you. Worst when folk have like no to little bio

In that case why bother sending a message , if they cant put effort into a bio , why you putting effort into a message. ?"

Quite right He Devil! "Work for it biatches!....'cause I'm worth it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said it before if i was a guy on here I'd just wink.

Leave it to the chick to look at the profile to see if she's interested lol.

I'm lazy like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so difficult to think of something to say that stands out without sounding like a creep Haha.

I mean hi how are you so standard and just meh. "

Never had that issue. Why are you trying to stand out? Comment on someone's status or pics or forum posts if there's something you like.

I've chatted to most people on here who I've genuinely wanted to chat to at some point or another.

Some I like, and still chat too, others, we both realise they're a twat and it's probably better we don't contine chatting so they don't message no more!

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

To be fair I dont think there is anything wrong with "hi how are you".

Simple ice breaker especially when you are a cyber entity on a swinger site messaging random faceless profiles.

It's the "are you looking for a fuck" first messages that get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get inspiration from the profile you're perving over before sending them a message

"Hi, how are you" most likely won't spark a reply x"

Or just correct then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I dont think there is anything wrong with "hi how are you".

Simple ice breaker especially when you are a cyber entity on a swinger site messaging random faceless profiles.

It's the "are you looking for a fuck" first messages that get blocked."

I'm with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found this forum very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a coco pic, that usually gets people interested.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Get inspiration from the profile you're perving over before sending them a message

"Hi, how are you" most likely won't spark a reply x

Or just correct then "

Sifting through our messages... I didn't, did I?!??!?

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like when people mention things from my profile. Tells me thy have read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First message?

“High I’m sitting here with my warty cock in my hand beating it like it owes me money and salivating over your photos. I’m having difficulty focusing on your pictures what with my squint and all but you’ve got cracking tits and an amazing fanny. I know you’re married, happily so and aren’t really looking to meet with single guys but how do you fancy me picking you up in my Transit van, taking you to a remote car park and putting the suspension to the test as I pump you rotten...bareback of course. If you’re a right dirty I could kick your back door in and then blow my load in her gub. Promise I’ll have you back in time to put the kids to bed and do all the other things you’ve got to do.

Yours Respectfully

Shagger

P.S if you could go out your way to give me a right good pegging whilst we’re out and about that would be amazeballs!”

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just had a message from a guy saying " Do you fancy a game of hide the truncheon". This made me laugh and felt it a clever message to stick out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send first messages the woman come to me I didn't believe it either

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