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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Things for me on fab having been going rather slow.

I started this profile roughly a year ago and used it for around 2 weeks and had no luck. Only reason I came off was due to meeting a girlfriend.

Now that i am single again, I've been back on again for rougly 2 weeks with still no sign of any luck.

Where am I going wrong?

All advice appreciated and taken on board

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There’s loads more single guys than there are women.

Just takes time to meet people. Go to socials.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Being honest and I think I'd speak for many people here. It would be the fact you're unverified after over a year.

Potential meets won't know what you've just described in your post, just what they see and read...

Not critiscising or judging, just answering your question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s loads more single guys than there are women.

Just takes time to meet people. Go to socials. "

I don't know the 1st thing about attending socials. Where can I get more info on this? Wouldn't I look weird turning up on my own lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being honest and I think I'd speak for many people here. It would be the fact you're unverified after over a year.

Potential meets won't know what you've just described in your post, just what they see and read...

Not critiscising or judging, just answering your question "

Exactly what you said had crossed my mind. Although it's trying to get that 1st verification that's a stumbling block.

No criticism taken

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By *itznBobz2018Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Socials are always posted in the forums and there is loads of single guys attend. Also try attended clubs. It’s a great way to meet people.

Bobz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Socials are always posted in the forums and there is loads of single guys attend. Also try attended clubs. It’s a great way to meet people.

Bobz "

Cheers, I will look into this further

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

If you have only used Fab for 2 weeks a year ago and 2 weeks recently, what makes you think you are doing anything wrong?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Being honest and I think I'd speak for many people here. It would be the fact you're unverified after over a year.

Potential meets won't know what you've just described in your post, just what they see and read...

Not critiscising or judging, just answering your question "

So I should keep creating new profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have only used Fab for 2 weeks a year ago and 2 weeks recently, what makes you think you are doing anything wrong?"

The reason I think I'm not doing things correct is because I'm struggling to spark up conversations or even get a reply never mind the chance of getting a meet or verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have only used Fab for 2 weeks a year ago and 2 weeks recently, what makes you think you are doing anything wrong?

The reason I think I'm not doing things correct is because I'm struggling to spark up conversations or even get a reply never mind the chance of getting a meet or verified"

Don't you know how to chat to people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have only used Fab for 2 weeks a year ago and 2 weeks recently, what makes you think you are doing anything wrong?

The reason I think I'm not doing things correct is because I'm struggling to spark up conversations or even get a reply never mind the chance of getting a meet or verified

Don't you know how to chat to people?"

Unfortunately it's the initial conversation starting I struggle with sometimes. I'm fine once the banter is flowing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have only used Fab for 2 weeks a year ago and 2 weeks recently, what makes you think you are doing anything wrong?

The reason I think I'm not doing things correct is because I'm struggling to spark up conversations or even get a reply never mind the chance of getting a meet or verified

Don't you know how to chat to people?

Unfortunately it's the initial conversation starting I struggle with sometimes. I'm fine once the banter is flowing lol "

I went to my first social on Sunday flying solo and the host introduced me to everyone that was there convo started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have only used Fab for 2 weeks a year ago and 2 weeks recently, what makes you think you are doing anything wrong?

The reason I think I'm not doing things correct is because I'm struggling to spark up conversations or even get a reply never mind the chance of getting a meet or verified"

Try the chat rooms and get your arse along to a social as already suggested.

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