FabSwingers.com forum: New members

By *yrshirelad5987 OP Man
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

How difficult have new male members found it to interact with other members?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely difficult, difficult to get a meet no matter what , was easier on kik and tinder than fab , but saying that think their is certain ladies that do sexy pics and talk the talk but clearly no intention of meeting which is a shame for us guys as just a pure tease and should not be allowed. Mind you KIk is the same on chat women just wind us guys up and we fall for it sadly and after all it’s just pics that we see which I found out not so long ago on kik the woman eventually I meet was nowt like her pic

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Extremely difficult, difficult to get a meet no matter what , was easier on kik and tinder than fab , but saying that think their is certain ladies that do sexy pics and talk the talk but clearly no intention of meeting which is a shame for us guys as just a pure tease and should not be allowed. Mind you KIk is the same on chat women just wind us guys up and we fall for it sadly and after all it’s just pics that we see which I found out not so long ago on kik the woman eventually I meet was nowt like her pic "

Fabs is an investment. Pleasurable at that. Not instant gratification. Humans here. Not holes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why you on Fab _imbobalish? Fab is a sex site , Kik is chat and date sometimes and so is tinder .I don’t go o. Fab to get my hole as you claim I love ladies and love sex like everyone else does . So you are no better than me as I check your profile to so clearly you are on this for getting your hole as well as you stated to me ! Pot boiling the kettle black as they say !

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So why you on Fab _imbobalish? Fab is a sex site , Kik is chat and date sometimes and so is tinder .I don’t go o. Fab to get my hole as you claim I love ladies and love sex like everyone else does . So you are no better than me as I check your profile to so clearly you are on this for getting your hole as well as you stated to me ! Pot boiling the kettle black as they say !"

If that’s how you read my comment that’s on you. I found my hole. Like it. Very much in fact. But still see this crazy place as a fun joint.

Rarely never the instant gratification solution. And it’s technically not a sex site. It’s a swingers site Tho the former happens too.

Good luck bud.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a pecking order going on . I've stopped trying to talk with ladies on fab . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's hard for all guys on fab, woman don't have it easy either.

I am no expert on fab but can tell you what has worked for me.

Join in the chat in forums and the chat rooms this will show your personality and may generate interest in your profile.

Keep your profile fresh upload new pictures no and again and change your profile picture every few days or so attend club events or socials,there is a couple going on on Sunday.

I have a different view to the guys above I now have 3 or 4 ladies who message me on here who have stated that I am not the droid they are looking for but I enjoy there chat so helps pass the day

As I say am no expert but in 7 or 8 months I have had a few meets and generally get reply when I send a message

Welcome to fab and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone fancies you

They will meet you.

It really is that simple.

If you have nothing on your profile or it's full of dick pics how's that gonna interest anyone?

If your profile comes across angry or disrespectful again what chick is gonna meet you?.

Good luck tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone fancies you

They will meet you.

It really is that simple.

If you have nothing on your profile or it's full of dick pics how's that gonna interest anyone?

If your profile comes across angry or disrespectful again what chick is gonna meet you?.

Good luck tho"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of points.

Firstly, these kind of threads are often self defeating.

Secondly, do remember that there are probably 100 males for every female on here. And a good percentage of those females are really male. Plus a lot of people are here for attention only with no intention of meeting. Whilst others are only interested in honey traps for business.

As others have said, get known. Be it through forums, clubs etc. There is a free pub social in Glasgow on Sunday. Why not go there for an hour?

All I can say is that just because it's a sex/swing site, don't expect everyone to drop their knickers.

Good luck.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I think it's hard for all guys on fab, woman don't have it easy either.

I am no expert on fab but can tell you what has worked for me.

Join in the chat in forums and the chat rooms this will show your personality and may generate interest in your profile.

Keep your profile fresh upload new pictures no and again and change your profile picture every few days or so attend club events or socials,there is a couple going on on Sunday.

I have a different view to the guys above I now have 3 or 4 ladies who message me on here who have stated that I am not the droid they are looking for but I enjoy there chat so helps pass the day

As I say am no expert but in 7 or 8 months I have had a few meets and generally get reply when I send a message

Welcome to fab and good luck"

Don’t put yourself down you are an expert at being banned from forums

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If someone fancies you

They will meet you.

It really is that simple.

If you have nothing on your profile or it's full of dick pics how's that gonna interest anyone?

If your profile comes across angry or disrespectful again what chick is gonna meet you?.

Good luck tho"

Oldie is correct. If someone fancies you and likes your chat, you're in.

If they don't, it's not on.

Same as the rules off the site in every day situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's hard for all guys on fab, woman don't have it easy either.

I am no expert on fab but can tell you what has worked for me.

Join in the chat in forums and the chat rooms this will show your personality and may generate interest in your profile.

Keep your profile fresh upload new pictures no and again and change your profile picture every few days or so attend club events or socials,there is a couple going on on Sunday.

I have a different view to the guys above I now have 3 or 4 ladies who message me on here who have stated that I am not the droid they are looking for but I enjoy there chat so helps pass the day

As I say am no expert but in 7 or 8 months I have had a few meets and generally get reply when I send a message

Welcome to fab and good luck

Don’t put yourself down you are an expert at being banned from forums

Just the once

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I think it's hard for all guys on fab, woman don't have it easy either.

I am no expert on fab but can tell you what has worked for me.

Join in the chat in forums and the chat rooms this will show your personality and may generate interest in your profile.

Keep your profile fresh upload new pictures no and again and change your profile picture every few days or so attend club events or socials,there is a couple going on on Sunday.

I have a different view to the guys above I now have 3 or 4 ladies who message me on here who have stated that I am not the droid they are looking for but I enjoy there chat so helps pass the day

As I say am no expert but in 7 or 8 months I have had a few meets and generally get reply when I send a message

Welcome to fab and good luck

Don’t put yourself down you are an expert at being banned from forums

Just the once

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's hard for all guys on fab, woman don't have it easy either.

I am no expert on fab but can tell you what has worked for me.

Join in the chat in forums and the chat rooms this will show your personality and may generate interest in your profile.

Keep your profile fresh upload new pictures no and again and change your profile picture every few days or so attend club events or socials,there is a couple going on on Sunday.

I have a different view to the guys above I now have 3 or 4 ladies who message me on here who have stated that I am not the droid they are looking for but I enjoy there chat so helps pass the day

As I say am no expert but in 7 or 8 months I have had a few meets and generally get reply when I send a message

Welcome to fab and good luck

Don’t put yourself down you are an expert at being banned from forums

Just the once

It's OK I had lots of sexy company that 48hrs I even shared my wine gums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to everyone....more than a few Tom Hardy look alikes have turned out to be fucking Laurel & Hardy!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I think it's hard for all guys on fab, woman don't have it easy either.

I am no expert on fab but can tell you what has worked for me.

Join in the chat in forums and the chat rooms this will show your personality and may generate interest in your profile.

Keep your profile fresh upload new pictures no and again and change your profile picture every few days or so attend club events or socials,there is a couple going on on Sunday.

I have a different view to the guys above I now have 3 or 4 ladies who message me on here who have stated that I am not the droid they are looking for but I enjoy there chat so helps pass the day

As I say am no expert but in 7 or 8 months I have had a few meets and generally get reply when I send a message

Welcome to fab and good luck

Don’t put yourself down you are an expert at being banned from forums

Just the once

It's OK I had lots of sexy company that 48hrs I even shared my wine gums"

See always a positive in every situation!

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Fabs is an investment. Pleasurable at that. Not instant gratification. Humans here. Not holes. "

Exactly! Just because it's a swingers site (not a sex site) doesn't mean the women will drop their knickers for just anyone. If she's not attracted to you then she doesn't have to say or do anything. Also if you come across as a dickhead, she isn't talking to you because she's "stuck up" or "all talk no action" and doesn't like you. She's not talking to you because you are a dickhead, simple as!

As it's been said before communication should be respectful and how it is in real life.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

You might have better luck if you change your public pics, for a start!

Be original with a first message. Make sure you have read that persons profile, you may find a relevant or interesting opening line to start a conversation. We like personality before socks on cocks.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I oplogies to Jimbobalish .Sorry mate think I was reading to much into what you said and may have myself said wrong thing to .

In general I find it hard to meet when I say meet I mean for a social at first and see how the chemistry is if no good both parties walk away still happy .

I love chatting to ladies and couples on this but not with impression I’m gonna click and never assume anything.i respect everyone on Fab .Im single guy looking for fun however if I meet right lady on this I would settle down .

Sorry mate again hope I’m making sense

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

I think if you see fab as a sex site and not a swingers site that's the first mistake you made ppl on here are looking for more than a swipe right on tinder u may get a one night stand but I tend to find on fab ppl who connect meet multiple times but you cant connect with everyone get yourself out there go 2 social or clubs or even just in chat with ya face cam on and integrate yourself in to the community cus that's kinda what it is a little sub section of society that's formed it's own community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

K40ff I agree with you on that .I made a mistake when I first opened my account thinking sex site but it’s an swingers site but have learned now it’s about chatting and not purely sex and harmless banter and if I click so be it and admit in early days if I got a knockback I was guttered but not now .lot of decent people on Fab community so all good for chatting and having a laugh so more relaxed with it now

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I oplogies to Jimbobalish .Sorry mate think I was reading to much into what you said and may have myself said wrong thing to .

In general I find it hard to meet when I say meet I mean for a social at first and see how the chemistry is if no good both parties walk away still happy .

Sorry mate again hope I’m making sense

Apology accepted. Thick skinned and not fussed here. Partly thanks to the immunity built up here on Fabs. Have fun

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone fancies you

They will meet you.

It really is that simple.

If you have nothing on your profile or it's full of dick pics how's that gonna interest anyone?

If your profile comes across angry or disrespectful again what chick is gonna meet you?.

Good luck tho

Oldie is correct. If someone fancies you and likes your chat, you're in.

If they don't, it's not on.

Same as the rules off the site in every day situations.

Agree with most of it!

Though you can have an angry profile and it doesn't matter one bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from experience are you?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"How difficult have new male members found it to interact with other members? "

Ask me in another 7 years might have managed a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking from experience are you?"

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

It comes down to attraction at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true Tands , it’s getting that perfect selfie that’s the difficult bit and conversation flowing at beginning stages as after we are all strangers to one another and sometimes message could be misconstrued for something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How difficult have new male members found it to interact with other members?

Ask me in another 7 years might have managed a conversation."

Good comment, if people join here expecting eyes wide shut then it’s not happening, I like the challenge but It’s funny more than anything, if you want sex go on something g else, you might be lucky but you could be lucky in a pub also

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

I think the initial mindset for most guys that join the site is they assume because there are couples and females on here they must be gagging for it.

It's simply not the case.

The general rules when physically socialising in real life still apply when using this site and others.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Not difficult to interact, a little. More difficult to arrange a meet but patience is key

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