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"Good luck OP, it’s great to see people putting themselves out there and trying to arrange Socials x" Thanks. I hope we get the numbers! | |||
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"Thank you. Would be Great to see you there! " We don’t usually venture far from Glasgow or Edinburgh for Socials to be honest unless it’s for a weekend away so if we ever find ourselves planning one in Aberdeen we might just gatecrash yours. All the best with it though x | |||
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"Hope your night is a success Jake. I would have come along but not in Aberdeen that weekend x" Awww Ger that's a shame. X | |||
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"Hope it goes well! R Would love you to come R. X" Sounds like an invitation | |||
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"Hope it goes well! R Would love you to come R. X" I always enjoy socials, but Aberdeen isn't exactly handy unfortunately. R | |||
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"Hope it goes well! R Would love you to come R. X I always enjoy socials, but Aberdeen isn't exactly handy unfortunately. R " I travel to Edinburgh and Glasgow regularly for the rugby..... it's not that far R. It's not like the "NORTH" in Game of Thrones! | |||
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"Hope it goes well! R Would love you to come R. X I always enjoy socials, but Aberdeen isn't exactly handy unfortunately. R I travel to Edinburgh and Glasgow regularly for the rugby..... it's not that far R. It's not like the "NORTH" in Game of Thrones! " Ha! I've never seen Game of Thrones R | |||
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"I'd be up for it if you'd let me come along? I'm unverified so was unable to attend the last one ??" Some hosts will offer to meet for a coffee prior to an event to verify people that want to attend. R | |||
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"I’d be up for this ????" Excellent Peachy. Finally managed to reply to post. X | |||
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"I’d possibly come" More than welcome, the more (fab ladies) the merrier! | |||
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"Hope it goes well! R Would love you to come R. X Sounds like an invitation " Of course! | |||
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"Hope it goes well! R Would love you to come R. X Sounds like an invitation Of course! " Thank you. R | |||
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"A simple tip , don't invest in a venue select a pub a time you will be there and if people wish to come along on the day they contact you and you tell them what pub your in and how long your there for , Seems to work for socials South off Dundee " Yeah that was the plan but looking to reserve at least a wee area too. | |||
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"A simple tip , don't invest in a venue select a pub a time you will be there and if people wish to come along on the day they contact you and you tell them what pub your in and how long your there for , Seems to work for socials South off Dundee Yeah that was the plan but looking to reserve at least a wee area too. " Would you be reserving a place in every pub you wish to go too or just the First one .Make it as simple and as open as can be and if you have had fall outs with others who wish to attend just allow that as we are all meant to be Adults , because they come along doesn't mean you have to chat too them and I am sure they would leave if they felt unwelcome . | |||
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"A simple tip , don't invest in a venue select a pub a time you will be there and if people wish to come along on the day they contact you and you tell them what pub your in and how long your there for , Seems to work for socials South off Dundee Yeah that was the plan but looking to reserve at least a wee area too. Would you be reserving a place in every pub you wish to go too or just the First one .Make it as simple and as open as can be and if you have had fall outs with others who wish to attend just allow that as we are all meant to be Adults , because they come along doesn't mean you have to chat too them and I am sure they would leave if they felt unwelcome . " My thoughts were just one place. No point pub crawling, just gets complicated. People can come and go as they please. Don't need to be there from start to finish. Easy ozy atmosphere to chat and chill out. | |||
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"A simple tip , don't invest in a venue select a pub a time you will be there and if people wish to come along on the day they contact you and you tell them what pub your in and how long your there for , Seems to work for socials South off Dundee Yeah that was the plan but looking to reserve at least a wee area too. Would you be reserving a place in every pub you wish to go too or just the First one .Make it as simple and as open as can be and if you have had fall outs with others who wish to attend just allow that as we are all meant to be Adults , because they come along doesn't mean you have to chat too them and I am sure they would leave if they felt unwelcome . My thoughts were just one place. No point pub crawling, just gets complicated. People can come and go as they please. Don't need to be there from start to finish. Easy ozy atmosphere to chat and chill out. " various pubs would add variety and then it would give people options to which pub they fancy going along too if they happen to be out n about that day / night . But best see what the guy thinks as it is his baby after all | |||
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"A simple tip , don't invest in a venue select a pub a time you will be there and if people wish to come along on the day they contact you and you tell them what pub your in and how long your there for , Seems to work for socials South off Dundee All fine details yet to be decided, am taking onbaord the feedback, and am in discussion in the background with a FAB lady who has offered to help arrange! Will get back to you all as soon as more details available! Really looking to establish interest / numbers at present! Cheers all. Yeah that was the plan but looking to reserve at least a wee area too. Would you be reserving a place in every pub you wish to go too or just the First one .Make it as simple and as open as can be and if you have had fall outs with others who wish to attend just allow that as we are all meant to be Adults , because they come along doesn't mean you have to chat too them and I am sure they would leave if they felt unwelcome . " | |||
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"A simple tip , don't invest in a venue select a pub a time you will be there and if people wish to come along on the day they contact you and you tell them what pub your in and how long your there for , Seems to work for socials South off Dundee Yeah that was the plan but looking to reserve at least a wee area too. Would you be reserving a place in every pub you wish to go too or just the First one .Make it as simple and as open as can be and if you have had fall outs with others who wish to attend just allow that as we are all meant to be Adults , because they come along doesn't mean you have to chat too them and I am sure they would leave if they felt unwelcome . My thoughts were just one place. No point pub crawling, just gets complicated. People can come and go as they please. Don't need to be there from start to finish. Easy ozy atmosphere to chat and chill out. " That sounds good red. | |||
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"Would be up for social, and also enjoy the rugby, down for all Scotland games at B.T. Murrayfield " Me too pal, never miss a game! | |||
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"It’s the nature of the site though - more men than females or couples. Socials I’ve been involved with its guys who are the no shows - or they’re lurking in the background lol " Now this is how all the Aberdeen social threads turn,the females + couples always blame the single guys rather than just getting on with it. Why not just take a leaf out off the Glasgow ,Edinburgh + Dundee book and turn up | |||
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"It’s the nature of the site though - more men than females or couples. Socials I’ve been involved with its guys who are the no shows - or they’re lurking in the background lol Now this is how all the Aberdeen social threads turn,the females + couples always blame the single guys rather than just getting on with it. Why not just take a leaf out off the Glasgow ,Edinburgh + Dundee book and turn up " I don't think she's blaming single guys. Chill | |||
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"This is why this site annoys me. You can’t have an opinion without someone misconstruing it. I was stating a fact as were other folk Thanks @objectiveguy" Did you happen to read the post 2 above your first post where no females turned up . Now all I am saying is turn up then it might balance itself out . | |||
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"This is why this site annoys me. You can’t have an opinion without someone misconstruing it. I was stating a fact as were other folk Thanks @objectiveguyDid you happen to read the post 2 above your first post where no females turned up . Now all I am saying is turn up then it might balance itself out . " Maybe the fact how full on creepy some of the guys on this site are is what put women off. I know two of the girls who were ment to attend the same social and got put off by assholes private mailing them and speaking to them like there playthings. Guys attitudes that the women on here should fuck them because they asked is the main issue. All couples and single females half always been respectfull on here and its single guys who tend to be dicks and that's why we have them blocked | |||
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"Well I've not managed to get on for a couple of days, and come back tonight to find opiniated posts, and remarks that are NOT required or justified!!!! I am more than happy to try and arrange an Aberdeen social, and YES, the hope is a good mix of all sexes, BUT I can assure you I will arrange fook all if it becomes a big hassle, due to peoples opinions etc. Play fair, respect everyone and REMEMBER a social is NOT simply to ensure you get your hole that night, it's about meeting people, having a laugh, sharing stories and having a dram! Anyone got any issues with my above comments can do one! Jake" Were all entitled to our opinions and share our experiences. If you have an issue with that you can also do one. Same old attitude from single guys acting hard done by as usual | |||
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"Well I've not managed to get on for a couple of days, and come back tonight to find opiniated posts, and remarks that are NOT required or justified!!!! I am more than happy to try and arrange an Aberdeen social, and YES, the hope is a good mix of all sexes, BUT I can assure you I will arrange fook all if it becomes a big hassle, due to peoples opinions etc. Play fair, respect everyone and REMEMBER a social is NOT simply to ensure you get your hole that night, it's about meeting people, having a laugh, sharing stories and having a dram! Anyone got any issues with my above comments can do one! Jake" P.S. I forgot to say - thanks for all the positive comments and interest in attending! Jake. | |||
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"Well I've not managed to get on for a couple of days, and come back tonight to find opiniated posts, and remarks that are NOT required or justified!!!! I am more than happy to try and arrange an Aberdeen social, and YES, the hope is a good mix of all sexes, BUT I can assure you I will arrange fook all if it becomes a big hassle, due to peoples opinions etc. Play fair, respect everyone and REMEMBER a social is NOT simply to ensure you get your hole that night, it's about meeting people, having a laugh, sharing stories and having a dram! Anyone got any issues with my above comments can do one! Jake P.S. I forgot to say - thanks for all the positive comments and interest in attending! Jake. " Yes I second both of these. The social is about chatting to like minded people and making friends. If people get on and are attracted to each other and they would like to make their own arrangements that's their deal. This social is not a means to an end. Yes we are swingers but that does not mean we want to have sex with everyone we meet. We hope this social is the start of a great wee community where people feel relaxed and can attend with no pressure. Even if we do have a reasonably even number of single guys, girls and couples everyone has different sexualities and are looking for different things. | |||
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"Well I've not managed to get on for a couple of days, and come back tonight to find opiniated posts, and remarks that are NOT required or justified!!!! I am more than happy to try and arrange an Aberdeen social, and YES, the hope is a good mix of all sexes, BUT I can assure you I will arrange fook all if it becomes a big hassle, due to peoples opinions etc. Play fair, respect everyone and REMEMBER a social is NOT simply to ensure you get your hole that night, it's about meeting people, having a laugh, sharing stories and having a dram! Anyone got any issues with my above comments can do one! Jake Were all entitled to our opinions and share our experiences. If you have an issue with that you can also do one. Same old attitude from single guys acting hard done by as usual" Totally entitled to your opinion, I encourage it, but keep it off this forum post please! ...... o BTW, I'm am in no way a hard done by single guy! Single, yes..... but I happen to be a very happy and respectful person, with no delusions of shagging the whole site etc ! | |||
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"Two ingredient's missing from this post , Single Fems + Couples . " My point exactly. You'll end up with a group of lads and not much else. Lead to believe the op in having nothing to do with planning this "social" either now. Glad we are going to serve it. Always has and always will be a disaster in Aberdeen. Small town mentality | |||
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"Two ingredient's missing from this post , Single Fems + Couples . My point exactly. You'll end up with a group of lads and not much else. Lead to believe the op in having nothing to do with planning this "social" either now. Glad we are going to serve it. Always has and always will be a disaster in Aberdeen. Small town mentality " Christ aren't you a bundle of joy? Socials can be done, I helped a single guy organise one, just a reserved area in a bar, no fuss. There were couples and females there, if anything a shortage of guys. Was a good night, no drama and ended with some dancing in Cheers. Every time I have seen someone try and arrange anything since then, the shit and drama starts on the forum post, often prompted by the same person. I believe that's what puts people off from the very start and it is such a shame. | |||
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"Two ingredient's missing from this post , Single Fems + Couples . My point exactly. You'll end up with a group of lads and not much else. Lead to believe the op in having nothing to do with planning this "social" either now. Glad we are going to serve it. Always has and always will be a disaster in Aberdeen. Small town mentality Christ aren't you a bundle of joy? Socials can be done, I helped a single guy organise one, just a reserved area in a bar, no fuss. There were couples and females there, if anything a shortage of guys. Was a good night, no drama and ended with some dancing in Cheers. Every time I have seen someone try and arrange anything since then, the shit and drama starts on the forum post, often prompted by the same person. I believe that's what puts people off from the very start and it is such a shame. " Totally agree Jen - sadly the same male person under new profile names always manages to stir it up. I’m no longer going to be attending this one due to this fact, single ladies do attend these nights but I personally can’t be arsed with the drama caused by these comments and I’m sorry OP for this | |||
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"I believe this social has been cancelled - however I'm sure for the next one the organiser can just uninvite anyone causing trouble " The problem is the ones causing trouble have no intention of even going. They just like to stir it up. Sad times really they have nothing better to do. Wish everyone could just ignore them and not rise to it. Make Aberdeen socials great again! (sorry for the trump-ism haha) | |||
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"I believe this social has been cancelled - however I'm sure for the next one the organiser can just uninvite anyone causing trouble The problem is the ones causing trouble have no intention of even going. They just like to stir it up. Sad times really they have nothing better to do. Wish everyone could just ignore them and not rise to it. Make Aberdeen socials great again! (sorry for the trump-ism haha) " J has left site again, but she is right the same person ruined her social to the point she had to cancel. Jenwren, I met u at the social u spoke of and it was an enjoyable evening with a good group of people and also was at the birthday social the year b4. U can't like everyone but there is no need for the nasty comments; just don't talk to people u dont like. It's an adult site not a nursery x | |||
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"Sorry are we under the assumption this particular social will not be going ahead?" It would be nice if the op would let people know, What is going on by posting on there forum post. If the venue is happening or not. | |||
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"were interested ,can you let us know times etc" Please see my newest post a few messages up! | |||
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"Any updates on this event,, am very keen on going " Please see my newest post a few messages up! | |||
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"briliant, funnily enough I'm in Aberdeen that night. Might have time to pop in xx" That is ace Gail! Would be great if you could make it for a wee bit, you seem like great fun! | |||
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"briliant, funnily enough I'm in Aberdeen that night. Might have time to pop in xx That is ace Gail! Would be great if you could make it for a wee bit, you seem like great fun! " Thanks will try x im going to a 70th bday party ill bring them along | |||
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"briliant, funnily enough I'm in Aberdeen that night. Might have time to pop in xx" There maybe damsels in distress that you need to rescue! I will be forever grateful for that in Dundee! | |||
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"briliant, funnily enough I'm in Aberdeen that night. Might have time to pop in xx There maybe damsels in distress that you need to rescue! I will be forever grateful for that in Dundee! " lol it's aberdeen you might need to come save me xx | |||
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"briliant, funnily enough I'm in Aberdeen that night. Might have time to pop in xx There maybe damsels in distress that you need to rescue! I will be forever grateful for that in Dundee! lol it's aberdeen you might need to come save me xx" Haha!! I’d be your knight in shining pvc x | |||
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"We can't wait " Awesome! I can't either. I really hope it is a success and we have a great time! | |||
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"Heya guys were here at ma Cameron's but not sure where to go " Dont think you should have commented on here where it was getting held, messages were sent out yesterday of where to head and how to recognise the organiser. | |||
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"Heya guys were here at ma Cameron's but not sure where to go " Good meeting you two last night hope you enjoyed your night out | |||
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