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 when chatting away to a lady or guy in the past.
Some friends might know you have a few toys or in HW case been to a few Ann summers parties lol but how many think that you like in our case to have fun with others and be on a site like fabs ??
For us , NO ....although most , not family know I’m a boob man  and HW likes bearded fellows  but all would certainly not place us on here having extra fun 
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"I don't think my friends or family would be entirely surprised. I might get banned from the church for a bit though! " Is that church - the pub  | |||
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"Absoloutly no!! It's our secret and I'm keeping it that way! "I echo this sentiment. This is my little escape from real life and I plan to keep it this way. Can’t think of a better bunch of delinquents to share it with. | |||
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"Absoloutly no!! It's our secret and I'm keeping it that way! "Totally agree with the secrecy , would anyone guess you are on we are meaning  | |||
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"I don't think my friends or family would be entirely surprised. I might get banned from the church for a bit though! Is that church - the pub "Haha, how dare you!  | |||
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"I don't think my friends or family would be entirely surprised. I might get banned from the church for a bit though! Is that church - the pub
Haha, how dare you! "Had to ask  | |||
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"Place you as being on a swinging site?? We can all chat naughty with certain friends, workmates etc when out or some in family (prob same sex) know your not quiet when chatting away to a lady or guy in the past.
Some friends might know you have a few toys or in HW case been to a few Ann summers parties lol but how many think that you like in our case to have fun with others and be on a site like fabs ??
For us , NO ....although most , not family know I’m a boob man and HW likes bearded fellows but all would certainly not place us on here having extra fun
Obv answers will be different due to singles and cpl aspects but interesting anyway "Depends what your definition of swinger is it's kind of lost what it used to represent. The word swinger used to refer to couple swapping Previous to that it referred to folk in the 60s and 70s who lived as I see it the carefree lifestyle of sexual liberation lived life to the full. | |||
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"Workmates.....definitely not as sex is not something I would discuss with Male or female colleagues in the environment I work in. Family? Don’t think my sister would be overly shocked as my ex wife blabbed to her during our divorce about my “tendencies” (COW) and I think my wee mammy would have me down at the Pineapple for an exorcism if she knew half the stuff I had engaged in over the years. " Lol when reading that last bit | |||
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"Absoloutly no!! It's our secret and I'm keeping it that way!
Totally agree with the secrecy , would anyone guess you are on we are meaning "nope.im very prudish in real life | |||
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"Everyone I know would be shocked because I look sweet and innocent. And I do a good disgusted face when anyone mentions anything sexual! ‘Wolf in sheep’s clothing...’ "They haven’t saw you eating a star bar then lol | |||
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"Everyone I know would be shocked because I look sweet and innocent. And I do a good disgusted face when anyone mentions anything sexual! ‘Wolf in sheep’s clothing...’
They haven’t saw you eating a star bar then lol"I wouldn’t eat any such phallic shaped food stuffs in public! | |||
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"Everyone I know would be shocked because I look sweet and innocent. And I do a good disgusted face when anyone mentions anything sexual! ‘Wolf in sheep’s clothing...’
They haven’t saw you eating a star bar then lol
I wouldn’t eat any such phallic shaped food stuffs in public! "Not even a banana? | |||
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"No way would my family and friends guess I am on here! I just laugh when a guy chats me up at nights out so even joining fab was pushing my boundaries. I’m a church goer and helper, school volunteer for 20 yrs, motherly type who had only been with one guy till I was 45 so think many people would be shocked but to be honest I have the type of family and friends that they wouldn’t judge if it was discovered. Quite a few of them would be glad I’m doing it as long I’m being safe "That’s it 100% , good safe fun for all involved | |||
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"Everyone I know would be shocked because I look sweet and innocent. And I do a good disgusted face when anyone mentions anything sexual! ‘Wolf in sheep’s clothing...’
They haven’t saw you eating a star bar then lol
I wouldn’t eat any such phallic shaped food stuffs in public!
Not even a banana? "Haha I’d break bits off and eat it that way! | |||
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"Everyone I know would be shocked because I look sweet and innocent. And I do a good disgusted face when anyone mentions anything sexual! ‘Wolf in sheep’s clothing...’
They haven’t saw you eating a star bar then lol
I wouldn’t eat any such phallic shaped food stuffs in public!
Not even a banana?
Haha I’d break bits off and eat it that way! "Pack of wolves in sheep’s clothing lol | |||
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"Everyone I know would be shocked because I look sweet and innocent. And I do a good disgusted face when anyone mentions anything sexual! ‘Wolf in sheep’s clothing...’
They haven’t saw you eating a star bar then lol
I wouldn’t eat any such phallic shaped food stuffs in public!
Not even a banana?
Haha I’d break bits off and eat it that way!
Pack of wolves in sheep’s clothing lol " | |||
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Family though would never guess lol
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"We have a select few friends that know, and they were not surprised at all
Family though would never guess lol
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"Having said that, my friends think it's highly unsafe. Queers are used to knowing who they are fucking, having discussions about safe sex beforehand, knowing a persons past lovers/hookups etc. FS is like russian roulette to them, as is the straight world." Spat my juice out reading that!!
Statistics still prove otherwise! | |||
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"I don't think my friends or family would be entirely surprised. I might get banned from the church for a bit though! " If church hasn't fell on you you yet then i think your safe! Or preist/minister is also a member. | |||
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"Workmates.....definitely not as sex is not something I would discuss with Male or female colleagues in the environment I work in. Family? Don’t think my sister would be overly shocked as my ex wife blabbed to her during our divorce about my “tendencies” (COW) and I think my wee mammy would have me down at the Pineapple for an exorcism if she knew half the stuff I had engaged in over the years. " Im sure priest would be overjoyed to find another member! | |||
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"I was just talking about this with someone this morning No way could I share this with most of my close friends or family although I think some are getting suspicious I only have 1 person I can talk to about it and that's because I have took him to meets with me before if someone has requested it. We had done mmf in the past in our younger days long before fab so I know I can trust him" It’s good too when you meet in here and have that similar interest to chat about... social but is huge | |||
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suppose it’s having something in common lol
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"Don’t get me wrong even though our friends know, it’s not something that comes up in conversation a lot, would rather have more likeminded friends to chat about it with suppose it’s having something in common lol
"That’s exactly it, can talk about anything especially fun | |||
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"Having said that, my friends think it's highly unsafe. Queers are used to knowing who they are fucking, having discussions about safe sex beforehand, knowing a persons past lovers/hookups etc. FS is like russian roulette to them, as is the straight world. Spat my juice out reading that!!
Statistics still prove otherwise! "What stats are you referring to? The longer I spend here it's obvious it's a lot of the same folk fucking each other in an extended circle. You still have the random element though. The queer world is still pretty small. Usually 2/3 degrees of separation if you've certain interests. It's also partially rooted in a distrust of straight men and the bullshit they sometimes spout just for sex. | |||
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"I think my wife might be "
My ex hubby wouldn’t believe it!
But he would go round telling people and bad mouthing me while being secretly jealous that I enjoy sex with someone that wasn’t him!!  | |||
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"Don’t get me wrong even though our friends know, it’s not something that comes up in conversation a lot, would rather have more likeminded friends to chat about it with suppose it’s having something in common lol
That’s exactly it, can talk about anything especially fun "it’s just finding those likeminded people lol | |||
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"Don’t get me wrong even though our friends know, it’s not something that comes up in conversation a lot, would rather have more likeminded friends to chat about it with suppose it’s having something in common lol
That’s exactly it, can talk about anything especially fun
it’s just finding those likeminded people lol "Very true guys , last year we had a convo with a cpl at a bar in Edinburgh (beer garden) where we knew nearby people could hear what we were planning... was hot as | |||
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"Don’t get me wrong even though our friends know, it’s not something that comes up in conversation a lot, would rather have more likeminded friends to chat about it with suppose it’s having something in common lol
That’s exactly it, can talk about anything especially fun
it’s just finding those likeminded people lol
Very true guys , last year we had a convo with a cpl at a bar in Edinburgh (beer garden) where we knew nearby people could hear what we were planning... was hot as "Were you talking really loudly? | |||
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"Don’t get me wrong even though our friends know, it’s not something that comes up in conversation a lot, would rather have more likeminded friends to chat about it with suppose it’s having something in common lol
That’s exactly it, can talk about anything especially fun
it’s just finding those likeminded people lol
Very true guys , last year we had a convo with a cpl at a bar in Edinburgh (beer garden) where we knew nearby people could hear what we were planning... was hot as
Were you talking really loudly?"No just openly , was really comfy doing so too , no whispering or anything. We arent from Edinburgh too so nobody knew us. | |||
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"Don’t get me wrong even though our friends know, it’s not something that comes up in conversation a lot, would rather have more likeminded friends to chat about it with suppose it’s having something in common lol
That’s exactly it, can talk about anything especially fun
it’s just finding those likeminded people lol
Very true guys , last year we had a convo with a cpl at a bar in Edinburgh (beer garden) where we knew nearby people could hear what we were planning... was hot as "Every so often we can’t help but mention small things lol the husband of the couple seems a tad excited....like the thought his wife’s prob got a good f**k due to our little snippets ( of course nothing too personal) | |||
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"Managed to kill yet another thread you dickhead. " I’m quite good at that too | |||
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"Managed to kill yet another thread you dickhead. I’m quite good at that too "Resurrected. Maybe but you’re no dickhead. x | |||
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"Managed to kill yet another thread you dickhead. I’m quite good at that too
Resurrected.
Maybe but you’re no dickhead. x"True | |||
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