FabSwingers.com forum: Sex site?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so a very young pup messaged me all nice and unfortunately when I pointed out he's too young and didn't appreciate the dick pic and maybe refrain from sending them in a 1st message...only trying to help get him laid lol I was sharply told it's a sex site so he will because that's what this site is for.

So peeps.

Sex site or swingers site?

Me personally think he might actually have a point now as back in the day was way more cpls than singles so id say it's reversed and now more singles looking for hook ups or actual dates?

Are they any real swingers left or is it a dying breed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a real swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a social Platform for like minded people to connect and have fun, that might be sex, chat friendship or whatever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is a real swinger?"
many diffrent takes on it now but I'd think it's mostly cpls meeting other cpls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing that's swinging these days are my boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me 2 days to get the angles and lighting just right for that image OP. It was truly perfect, I done it all for you. Yet you reject me? And on a sex site? What kind of place is this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It took me 2 days to get the angles and lighting just right for that image OP. It was truly perfect, I done it all for you. Yet you reject me? And on a sex site? What kind of place is this!

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ah I'm sorry but I needed the pose to be just perfect!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sadly is more of a sex site than a swingers site now. As there are more singles than couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sadly is more of a sex site than a swingers site now. As there are more singles than couples."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It took me 2 days to get the angles and lighting just right for that image OP. It was truly perfect, I done it all for you. Yet you reject me? And on a sex site? What kind of place is this!

ah I'm sorry but I needed the pose to be just perfect!!

I always neglect the little things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a fem part of a swinging cpl who meet together and along I'd actually say its a sex site and not to sound all cliche...it really is what you make it yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It took me 2 days to get the angles and lighting just right for that image OP. It was truly perfect, I done it all for you. Yet you reject me? And on a sex site? What kind of place is this!

ah I'm sorry but I needed the pose to be just perfect!!

I always neglect the little things

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it's not THAT little

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sadly for some its just that a sex site .Some people use it to just get knotches on their bed posts After a total embarrassment at a recent night out ,where i was approached by a group of men whom had all been told i was a swinger as was everyone in the company.It's really opened my eyes to this .Changed days sadly ,gone are the good old days of swinging

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

To be honest I've used fab as an educational site!!

I joined over a year ago as a very naive 45 yr old and constantly used google to know what people were talking about

So it is individual what people use it for however having said that you cannot presume that if you are using it for sex that it is a given that others are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here for sometime no over 7yrs and have been part of a cpl and now as a Single and can honestly say I have never found it a swinging site , even the person who introduced me to this site ( female ) even said it was more off a sex site than a swinging site so in my opinion I would say it's more off a sex site and will stay that way as it's free to join and is getting more widely recognised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a real swinger?many diffrent takes on it now but I'd think it's mostly cpls meeting other cpls?"

So why do couples look for single males or females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the web:

Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping, is sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in such activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1] Swinging is a form of non-monogamy and is an open relationship. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Many cite an increased quality and quantity of sex. Some people may engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or due to their curiosity. Some couples see swinging as a healthy outlet and means to strengthen their relationship.[1][2]

The phenomenon of swinging, or at least its wider discussion and practice, is regarded by some as arising from the freer attitudes to sexual activity after the sexual revolution of the 1960s, the invention and availability of the contraceptive pill, and the emergence of treatments for many of the sexually transmitted diseases that were known at that time. The adoption of safe sex practices became more common in the late 1980s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off fab and other various “swinging” sites oh shit for 17!!! Years fab 11 years omg lol and tbh I don’t think attitudes have really changed that much there’s just more variety

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because it's a sex site?

Ibthink if you look swinging up it would mention cpls and if you said to the avarage Joe in the street they would say it's cpls and car keys in a bowl lol

But as many have said

Its many diffrent things now.

Me myself meet as a single because it's actually easier than cpls meeting cpls now.back in the day it was mostly a cpls site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what most have said on here. It's more a sex site and has been for a long time now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been here on and off since 2010 so understand what you mean oldy, I think there was a social, fun and friendly aspect to the site then that is gradually being changed. Perhaps this is due to the internet and changing sexual attitudes (freer). Swinging used to entail a more social aspect but still nsa, now, perhaps more fuck and go??? I think the attitude you received was wrong in that even if it’s a sex site - he asked a question, you are therefore entitled to answer it, if he doesn’t like it then take it on the chin, he instigated it not you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Och i wasn't bothered by his reply it was more a wonder if what he said was actually right in what he was saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s male... how could he be right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so a very young pup messaged me all nice and unfortunately when I pointed out he's too young and didn't appreciate the dick pic and maybe refrain from sending them in a 1st message...only trying to help get him laid lol I was sharply told it's a sex site so he will because that's what this site is for.

So peeps.

Sex site or swingers site?

Me personally think he might actually have a point now as back in the day was way more cpls than singles so id say it's reversed and now more singles looking for hook ups or actual dates?

Are they any real swingers left or is it a dying breed?"
I always send a face pic with first message but would never send a dick pic unless asked for one x

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By *igman40123Man
over a year ago

travelling

More a sex site I would say unless you swing both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loads do tho...even when it's stated on profiles not too.but could maybe switch that to chicks sending pics of their baps out too tho

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By *aulgeorge212Man
over a year ago

Clydebank

"He’s male... how could he be right

We can be right most times you know lol,perhaps when we are right yous don't admit it never lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

So peeps.

Sex site or swingers site?

Me personally think he might actually have a point now as back in the day was way more cpls than singles so id say it's reversed and now more singles looking for hook ups or actual dates?

Are they any real swingers left or is it a dying breed? I always send a face pic with first message but would never send a dick pic unless asked for one x "

I would never or have ever asked for a cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Me either but some chicks do.

Apparently lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More a sex site I would say unless you swing both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re forever asking for my cock. It’s getting really disheartening, I just want love and bagels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although some people perception of fab is a sex site personally I think it’s a site for like minded people of can chat about experiences and lack of

I wouldn’t put it down as a sex site but would say it’s a swinging site.. but someone are rude when they message and unfortunately rubs off on us , as I’m still trying to get a reply back even though Iv put a little glitter on my profile

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"They’re forever asking for my cock. It’s getting really disheartening, I just want love and bagels. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s male... how could he be right

We can be right most times you know lol,perhaps when we are right yous don't admit it never lol"

We do... we just don’t tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They’re forever asking for my cock. It’s getting really disheartening, I just want love and bagels. "
Philadelphia cheese?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re forever asking for my cock. It’s getting really disheartening, I just want love and bagels. "

Bagel love... is that why they have a hole...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex site.. You have to be kidding. Sex is way more prevalent on tinder bumble and the like!! Id wager a LOT of people just use the site as free pseudo real porn or wank fodder (hate that expression but it is accurate)..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can tell the messages I get that guys are just looking for a quick tug lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re forever asking for my cock. It’s getting really disheartening, I just want love and bagels. Philadelphia cheese?

Boursin

Also, Jane, indeed it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say.. as a now single guy.. but previously a couple.. the site has changed.. the chat room has changed and indeed the forum has changed.. I think for some.. male and female alike.. it's become a bit of a sex site.. but I would also venture that now on the lesser recieving end.. couples and females have the command..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it’s a swingers site, for others it’s a sex site. Who truly gives a flying feck as long as you’re getting what you want from the site and aren’t being abusive or hurting anyone?

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By *dgirlxxTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well said MECURIO.

And I tend to agree with OP about the dick pics. But at least that's all he sent you. Unlike the threatening messages I received..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the site is what it is and there’s something on here for everyone. Whether that’s swinging, sex, socialising or just chatting.

You just have to set your boundaries and find what you’re looking for, it’s a hard slog at times but on the whole I think the good outweighs the bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And fab will grant each person new hope...

It's like life. It's what you make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever messaged a woman or couple to compliment them on their pictures, or to give them some praise if they have had shitty messages from aggressive ppl..

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I think the site is what it is and there’s something on here for everyone. Whether that’s swinging, sex, socialising or just chatting.

You just have to set your boundaries and find what you’re looking for, it’s a hard slog at times but on the whole I think the good outweighs the bad.

Totally agree with this

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

It may have started out as what is known as a swinger site and when i say swinger i mean the traditional meaning of the word ie couples sharing fun with other couple. It has evolved just like society has with the attitudes towards sex and the fact its not the big taboo it once was. To call it a sex site does not sit well with me at all and it is definitely NOT a sex site. If it was a clothing site you could order clothes , an electronics site you could order a laptop, Nobody can instantly contact someone else on Fab and order thier nookie so it aint a sex site.

As for abusive messages , its a minority of individuals that do it, simply report, block and move on. If everyone did this the perpetrators would get tired of constantly creating new accounts to continue their pish because admin would keep closing their accounts. If you respond to abuse you are simply fuelling the fire and helping it continue.

Thats my tuppence worth anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably primarily one but to me it's what you want it to be

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think it's being used as both. Personally I've used it as a swingers and sex site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I'm the same as you _ab fem

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I think I'm the same as you _ab fem

Fab twinsies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's being used as both. Personally I've used it as a swingers and sex site"

Ya mad hoor ye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm the same as you _ab fem

Pair of mad hoors

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I think I'm the same as you _ab fem

It’s just looking at the apple from different angles.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I think it's being used as both. Personally I've used it as a swingers and sex site

Ya mad hoor ye.

Living it up!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I'm the same as you _ab fem

Pair of mad hoors

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that makes 3 of us then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm the same as you _ab fem

Pair of mad hoors

that makes 3 of us then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm the same as you _ab fem

Pair of mad hoors

that makes 3 of us then

I aspire to be a mad hoor. I have the mad bit sorted.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

I have no idea if this is a sex or swinging site, I'll let you know my answer as soon as I get some.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I have no idea if this is a sex or swinging site, I'll let you know my answer as soon as I get some.

Aww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon that the forum is what keeps this website afloat now. I’ve been sat in the bath for two hours posting trash. I’ve not even washed my balls yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it wasn't for the forums I wouldn't be on here half as much so yip I'd say that's true lol

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So peeps.

Sex site or swingers site?

Me personally think he might actually have a point now as back in the day was way more cpls than singles so id say it's reversed and now more singles looking for hook ups or actual dates?

Are they any real swingers left or is it a dying breed?"

Tbh, I'm not a swinger I'm into kink. But many men arrive here thinking it is a sex site, they chat shit and get rejected, sometimes they find someone with low enough self esteem but usually not and they whinge and leave soon after.

The ones who stay long term usually learn fast or actually are human and respect other humans.

I'm as patient as I can be but I'm also honest with the fuckbois, theirs is love I'd never want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a swingers site, but I haven't seen one person talk about swings yet!

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By *dgirlxxTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think the site is what it is and there’s something on here for everyone. Whether that’s swinging, sex, socialising or just chatting.

You just have to set your boundaries and find what you’re looking for, it’s a hard slog at times but on the whole I think the good outweighs the bad.

I agree the good definitely outweighs the bad.

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