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By *sirisLothian OP   Man
over a year ago

east lothian

Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes looks matter very much to me. Thats not because i am shallow its because i dont want to shag somebody i am not physically attracted to. I feel sorry for the folk who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter. "
agree with doggy on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet women I am attracted to, I have turned down meets as they just don't do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter. agree with doggy on this "

What they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter. agree with doggy on this

What they said "

Oh love the new profile pic

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

If having sex with someone you are physically attracted to is shallow then that’s me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter. agree with doggy on this

What they said

Oh love the new profile pic "

Well thank you kind sir, A rose by any other name n all that jazz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah looks matter but so does personality. It's a whole package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter. agree with doggy on this

What they said

Oh love the new profile pic

Well thank you kind sir, A rose by any other name n all that jazz "

No problem my fair lady

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Of course looks matter. But looks are also subjective, what some people think is good looking or sexy others may find repulsive. For you OP you gotta lose the poor me attitude and find the people that find you attractive. Most guys and gals on here probably feel the same thing about ourselves, whether it be our looks , body shapes or something else, but we wont let it hold us back going out and meeting and finding people who likes us and accepts us the way we are. Everyone is different, including you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course looks matter. But looks are also subjective, what some people think is good looking or sexy others may find repulsive. For you OP you gotta lose the poor me attitude and find the people that find you attractive. Most guys and gals on here probably feel the same thing about ourselves, whether it be our looks , body shapes or something else, but we wont let it hold us back going out and meeting and finding people who likes us and accepts us the way we are. Everyone is different, including you OP"

I'll agree with you on this one devil.. Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read. "

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly. "

If he is fat what does that make me

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly. "

Miss Marple's assistant here - the photo is 10 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly.

If he is fat what does that make me "

No stranger to a steak bake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly.

If he is fat what does that make me

No stranger to a steak bake "

You had me a steak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly.

Miss Marple's assistant here - the photo is 10 years ago "

Thank you for pointing that out. Missed it ....that'll teach me not to be a smart arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, Physical attraction is not determined by weight, shape, age or looks- it’s about that special indefinable thing that’s personality and mutual attraction. I’m not that desperate that I’d restrict my choices by such base qualities as the first five

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter. agree with doggy on this "

It's a weird one I agree with doggy and the old bird.

That's never happens before!

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly. "

Aww he’s hid his profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes have sex with ugly people for a rush. I then go home and cry in a corner..........until the next time I get frisky

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Anyone on here looking to have a good time with someone simply because they are genuine, clean, kind, funny and know what they are doing between the sheets?

Even if they are overweight with a beer belly?

If anyone is looking for a good time and looks aren't at the top of the list of things they worry about drop me a message.

Be nice to even interact with members without them replying with "NO YOUR FAT" before swiftly blocking you so you can't reply. Not that I'd be interested in shallow folk like that anyway.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

Miss Marple here but your public pic is not of an over weight, ample guy with a beer belly.

Miss Marple's assistant here - the photo is 10 years ago

Thank you for pointing that out. Missed it ....that'll teach me not to be a smart arse!"

That's what assistants are for

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"I'd be never respond to a polite message by insulting someone's appearance but equally I couldn't be sexually intimate with someone who I had absolutely physical attraction to. Doesn't need to be a Greek God....but the looks do matter. agree with doggy on this "

Get a room you two please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning it around slightly..

I'd be gutted to discover someone had sex with me but didn't fancy me..I'm sure I'm not the only one.

Its got to be a mutual attraction

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Why would I meet up with someone I’m not attracted to?

I have met with people large and small so body size isn’t an issue. Having a personality and a spark with someone helps. I wouldn’t play with anyone I didn’t like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction is equal with a great personality & intelligence, as are sexual skills. Great hair, teeth and style. The right pheromones.

Body wise, I prefer athletic to dad bods. I'm quite particular really.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yea can attest no one would shag me. So they do matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turning it around slightly..

I'd be gutted to discover someone had sex with me but didn't fancy me..I'm sure I'm not the only one.

Its got to be a mutual attraction "
good point. Same

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes looks definitely matter to me... So does a nice figure and personality tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it some looks come into it but it's what's in the inside that counts ,gsoh personality skills in bedroom and how you treat the opisate party,

You could be a complete stunner or a body to die for,then they are vain no personality and have no good trait's,the way I see it gives everyone a chance

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