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By *e Devil OP   Man
over a year ago

Blantyre

Yes the old battleaxe is staying overnight in preparation for watching the grandson tomorrow.

Problem is even though shes in another room and downstairs i can still hear her feckin snoring.

Whats the worst thing your mother or father in law has done to you ??.

Ps anyone suggests i go downstairs and pump her will find an immediate block and a strongly worded letter of complaint to admin for mental abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes the old battleaxe is staying overnight in preparation for watching the grandson tomorrow.

Problem is even though shes in another room and downstairs i can still hear her feckin snoring.

Whats the worst thing your mother or father in law has done to you ??.

Ps anyone suggests i go downstairs and pump her will find an immediate block and a strongly worded letter of complaint to admin for mental abuse.

"

Divorce your partner, simply n easy.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

1 . Late rooms .

2 . You’ve got to do a night shift .

3 . Go out in the car all night dogging .

4 . Sleep in the car .

5 . Get a meet that can accommodate .

Your just not putting enough effort into thinking of an alternative yourself .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your pillow tip toe down the stairs get to her head and..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Yes the old battleaxe is staying overnight in preparation for watching the grandson tomorrow.

Problem is even though shes in another room and downstairs i can still hear her feckin snoring.

Whats the worst thing your mother or father in law has done to you ??.

Ps anyone suggests i go downstairs and pump her will find an immediate block and a strongly worded letter of complaint to admin for mental abuse.

"
Be kind to her she might leave you a large inheritance lol

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By *ornylad2791Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

Earplugs would do the trick best way to block out the noise of snorers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In his wedding speech, my new father-in-law made a number of very pointed comments about not approving of the job I had been doing until (at that point) very recently, and how happy he was that I was pursuing a “proper career”. Many members of my family also did my old job and were plotting ways to kill him after that.

Sadly, that was not the worst thing my now ex-wife’s family did on that day and throughout our relationship. They were a large part of why the marriage didn’t last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother in law stopped coming to the door whenever I was dropping off or picking up the kids. She stopped saying hello whenever she saw me at Tesco etc. She now avoids my parents when they pass. I don't mind if I never clapped eyes on her again but I just wish she would keep it as normal as possible as there are going to be times when we will have to socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes the old battleaxe is staying overnight in preparation for watching the grandson tomorrow.

Problem is even though shes in another room and downstairs i can still hear her feckin snoring.

Whats the worst thing your mother or father in law has done to you ??.

Ps anyone suggests i go downstairs and pump her will find an immediate block and a strongly worded letter of complaint to admin for mental abuse.

"

How on earth did you even think anyone would suggest such a thing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well not to me but the kids

Because I wouldn’t put up and shut up with a bully she’s never seen then kids since or had any contact, I even offered to fly the kids to visit when me and the ex split up and drop them at the gate, visited London several times and the kids siblings even tried to make contact but she wasn’t interested, her son could do no wrong and I feel sorry for my kids older siblings who were cut off as well because they maintained a relationship with me. All this negativity even though she was alone and brought up two kids on her own she’s the kind of woman would have stayed with her ex to keep up appearances. Needless to say the ex doesn’t see his kids either when we were together was alway me buying his tickets sending him to visit his older kids it’s really quite sad actually. I hope I don’t get bitter and twisted when I get older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a wonderful mother in law I didn't appreciate at the time. Unlike my own mum she never interfered or showed favouritism to any particular grandkids. She died 14 years ago and I miss her. We had our moments but I did make my peace with her before she passed. A lot of it was daft jealousy on my part looking back

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By *e Devil OP   Man
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Yes the old battleaxe is staying overnight in preparation for watching the grandson tomorrow.

Problem is even though shes in another room and downstairs i can still hear her feckin snoring.

Whats the worst thing your mother or father in law has done to you ??.

Ps anyone suggests i go downstairs and pump her will find an immediate block and a strongly worded letter of complaint to admin for mental abuse.

How on earth did you even think anyone would suggest such a thing ! "

Its the forums violet, anythings possible.

Bit late but im wondering what doggys solution to my problen would have been. Most likely it would involve police and ambulance services anyway.

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By *e Devil OP   Man
over a year ago

Blantyre


"In his wedding speech, my new father-in-law made a number of very pointed comments about not approving of the job I had been doing until (at that point) very recently, and how happy he was that I was pursuing a “proper career”. Many members of my family also did my old job and were plotting ways to kill him after that.

Sadly, that was not the worst thing my now ex-wife’s family did on that day and throughout our relationship. They were a large part of why the marriage didn’t last. "

Were you a male nurse, ?

Im thinking meet the parents here and CIA Jack lol.

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By *rystalTipsandAlistairCouple
over a year ago

Barnard Castle

My MIL farts like an old Clydedale everytime she gets up out her seat when shes come round for chrimbo & new years dinner. Eats like a chimp, more dinner left on the table than her plate.

Told the Mrs that if she started turning into her i'd shoot her and the cat too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In his wedding speech, my new father-in-law made a number of very pointed comments about not approving of the job I had been doing until (at that point) very recently, and how happy he was that I was pursuing a “proper career”. Many members of my family also did my old job and were plotting ways to kill him after that.

Sadly, that was not the worst thing my now ex-wife’s family did on that day and throughout our relationship. They were a large part of why the marriage didn’t last.

Were you a male nurse, ?

Im thinking meet the parents here and CIA Jack lol. "

Hahaha, no. I’d worked in retail for a few years (at a management level) and he thought that was not good enough for his daughter. Less CIA, more CU... well you know where I’m going with that.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

My in laws were and still are the most kindest, nicest people you could meet. Still pop in for a coffee now and then.

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By *e Devil OP   Man
over a year ago

Blantyre

As far as Mother and Father in laws go i reckon we're quite chilled. Even though both son in laws are totally useless when it comes to DIY and the likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her pumped ! She would maybe enjoy it

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get her pumped ! She would maybe enjoy it "

You're willing to meet up to 99yrs old....why don't you step in? Take one for the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get her pumped ! She would maybe enjoy it "
pumped lmao not heard that word in years. Still makes me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get her pumped ! She would maybe enjoy it "

What cat is she though

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By *e Devil OP   Man
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Get her pumped ! She would maybe enjoy it

What cat is she though "

Dragon !!, very long ago ancestor of the cat family.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Well not to me but the kids

Because I wouldn’t put up and shut up with a bully she’s never seen then kids since or had any contact, I even offered to fly the kids to visit when me and the ex split up and drop them at the gate, visited London several times and the kids siblings even tried to make contact but she wasn’t interested, her son could do no wrong and I feel sorry for my kids older siblings who were cut off as well because they maintained a relationship with me. All this negativity even though she was alone and brought up two kids on her own she’s the kind of woman would have stayed with her ex to keep up appearances. Needless to say the ex doesn’t see his kids either when we were together was alway me buying his tickets sending him to visit his older kids it’s really quite sad actually. I hope I don’t get bitter and twisted when I get older "

My ex stopped seeing my son 6 months ago because my ex is narcissistic and my son stood up to him (bravely being aged 10 at the time) Because of this my ex, my MIL and all their family have stopped sending presents to my son and they blame me entirely. This doesn't surprise me as my ex fell out with his mum and family for almost 20 years and they continued to blame me even when we split 8 years ago!!

When we were first married my MIL would just chap the door and walk in if I was home alone which I didn't mind as it was her sons home but if her son was home she would chap the door and wait for him to answer it as she didn't want her son to think she was being forward!!

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By *e Devil OP   Man
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well not to me but the kids

Because I wouldn’t put up and shut up with a bully she’s never seen then kids since or had any contact, I even offered to fly the kids to visit when me and the ex split up and drop them at the gate, visited London several times and the kids siblings even tried to make contact but she wasn’t interested, her son could do no wrong and I feel sorry for my kids older siblings who were cut off as well because they maintained a relationship with me. All this negativity even though she was alone and brought up two kids on her own she’s the kind of woman would have stayed with her ex to keep up appearances. Needless to say the ex doesn’t see his kids either when we were together was alway me buying his tickets sending him to visit his older kids it’s really quite sad actually. I hope I don’t get bitter and twisted when I get older

My ex stopped seeing my son 6 months ago because my ex is narcissistic and my son stood up to him (bravely being aged 10 at the time) Because of this my ex, my MIL and all their family have stopped sending presents to my son and they blame me entirely. This doesn't surprise me as my ex fell out with his mum and family for almost 20 years and they continued to blame me even when we split 8 years ago!!

When we were first married my MIL would just chap the door and walk in if I was home alone which I didn't mind as it was her sons home but if her son was home she would chap the door and wait for him to answer it as she didn't want her son to think she was being forward!! "

See if im honest Cadbury girl, any grandparent that can treat a child like that is probably an adult influence that I'd be happy not being a part of my childs life. Regardless of background and parental differences the grandparents should stay completely neutral where a child is involved, there job in my opinion is someone the child can turn to for advice when they dont want to alienate a mother or father. Keep your chin up and just try not get involved in all their games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not to me but the kids

Because I wouldn’t put up and shut up with a bully she’s never seen then kids since or had any contact, I even offered to fly the kids to visit when me and the ex split up and drop them at the gate, visited London several times and the kids siblings even tried to make contact but she wasn’t interested, her son could do no wrong and I feel sorry for my kids older siblings who were cut off as well because they maintained a relationship with me. All this negativity even though she was alone and brought up two kids on her own she’s the kind of woman would have stayed with her ex to keep up appearances. Needless to say the ex doesn’t see his kids either when we were together was alway me buying his tickets sending him to visit his older kids it’s really quite sad actually. I hope I don’t get bitter and twisted when I get older

My ex stopped seeing my son 6 months ago because my ex is narcissistic and my son stood up to him (bravely being aged 10 at the time) Because of this my ex, my MIL and all their family have stopped sending presents to my son and they blame me entirely. This doesn't surprise me as my ex fell out with his mum and family for almost 20 years and they continued to blame me even when we split 8 years ago!!

When we were first married my MIL would just chap the door and walk in if I was home alone which I didn't mind as it was her sons home but if her son was home she would chap the door and wait for him to answer it as she didn't want her son to think she was being forward!!

See if im honest Cadbury girl, any grandparent that can treat a child like that is probably an adult influence that I'd be happy not being a part of my childs life. Regardless of background and parental differences the grandparents should stay completely neutral where a child is involved, there job in my opinion is someone the child can turn to for advice when they dont want to alienate a mother or father. Keep your chin up and just try not get involved in all their games. "

I’d agree. One of my sets of grandparents was similar. We wouldn’t see or hear from them for ages because they went in a huff over something my mum said or did, and then they’d come back into our lives when it suited them. It’s not emotionally healthy.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Well not to me but the kids

Because I wouldn’t put up and shut up with a bully she’s never seen then kids since or had any contact, I even offered to fly the kids to visit when me and the ex split up and drop them at the gate, visited London several times and the kids siblings even tried to make contact but she wasn’t interested, her son could do no wrong and I feel sorry for my kids older siblings who were cut off as well because they maintained a relationship with me. All this negativity even though she was alone and brought up two kids on her own she’s the kind of woman would have stayed with her ex to keep up appearances. Needless to say the ex doesn’t see his kids either when we were together was alway me buying his tickets sending him to visit his older kids it’s really quite sad actually. I hope I don’t get bitter and twisted when I get older

My ex stopped seeing my son 6 months ago because my ex is narcissistic and my son stood up to him (bravely being aged 10 at the time) Because of this my ex, my MIL and all their family have stopped sending presents to my son and they blame me entirely. This doesn't surprise me as my ex fell out with his mum and family for almost 20 years and they continued to blame me even when we split 8 years ago!!

When we were first married my MIL would just chap the door and walk in if I was home alone which I didn't mind as it was her sons home but if her son was home she would chap the door and wait for him to answer it as she didn't want her son to think she was being forward!!

See if im honest Cadbury girl, any grandparent that can treat a child like that is probably an adult influence that I'd be happy not being a part of my childs life. Regardless of background and parental differences the grandparents should stay completely neutral where a child is involved, there job in my opinion is someone the child can turn to for advice when they dont want to alienate a mother or father. Keep your chin up and just try not get involved in all their games. "

Absolutely agree and I am glad in a way my youngest can see them for what they are now rather than spend his childhood trying to please them as they will never be happy unless he is doing what they want.

My elder two were older when they saw their dad for what he is. My ex is getting married this year and none of our three sons will be there and I spent 5 years after we split trying to keep the bond between father and sons going but in the end I just let him make his mistakes and within 2/3 years of that they all stopped talking to him.

At the end of the day I can hold my head high as I did what was best for my sons.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


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I’d agree. One of my sets of grandparents was similar. We wouldn’t see or hear from them for ages because they went in a huff over something my mum said or did, and then they’d come back into our lives when it suited them. It’s not emotionally healthy. "

It's quite sad they are like that as they are the ones missing out but it's also confusing for the grandchildren wondering why they don't see the grandparents.

My parents treated my ex like a son even after we split because they felt sorry for him when he fell out with his family. When he started dating his newest/current gf he stopped visiting my mum as he no longer had a need for her. Totally narcissistic behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I’d agree. One of my sets of grandparents was similar. We wouldn’t see or hear from them for ages because they went in a huff over something my mum said or did, and then they’d come back into our lives when it suited them. It’s not emotionally healthy.

It's quite sad they are like that as they are the ones missing out but it's also confusing for the grandchildren wondering why they don't see the grandparents.

My parents treated my ex like a son even after we split because they felt sorry for him when he fell out with his family. When he started dating his newest/current gf he stopped visiting my mum as he no longer had a need for her. Totally narcissistic behaviour "

Oh, he sounds like a bit of a user - I’m so sorry you and your family had to put up with that. :/

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


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I’d agree. One of my sets of grandparents was similar. We wouldn’t see or hear from them for ages because they went in a huff over something my mum said or did, and then they’d come back into our lives when it suited them. It’s not emotionally healthy.

It's quite sad they are like that as they are the ones missing out but it's also confusing for the grandchildren wondering why they don't see the grandparents.

My parents treated my ex like a son even after we split because they felt sorry for him when he fell out with his family. When he started dating his newest/current gf he stopped visiting my mum as he no longer had a need for her. Totally narcissistic behaviour

Oh, he sounds like a bit of a user - I’m so sorry you and your family had to put up with that. :/"

It was certainly a learning curve and I have three sons to be grateful for so not all bad.

Him and his current gf are so insecure they have to constantly reassure each other of their love so much so that they have to full on kiss in front of my son (aged 10) and her daughter aged 8. Her daughter screams at them to stop and they don't they just say she is jealous.

My son is much better away from it although it's hard to know your dad can just walk away from you.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I’ve never spoken to mine !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I’d agree. One of my sets of grandparents was similar. We wouldn’t see or hear from them for ages because they went in a huff over something my mum said or did, and then they’d come back into our lives when it suited them. It’s not emotionally healthy.

It's quite sad they are like that as they are the ones missing out but it's also confusing for the grandchildren wondering why they don't see the grandparents.

My parents treated my ex like a son even after we split because they felt sorry for him when he fell out with his family. When he started dating his newest/current gf he stopped visiting my mum as he no longer had a need for her. Totally narcissistic behaviour

Oh, he sounds like a bit of a user - I’m so sorry you and your family had to put up with that. :/

It was certainly a learning curve and I have three sons to be grateful for so not all bad.

Him and his current gf are so insecure they have to constantly reassure each other of their love so much so that they have to full on kiss in front of my son (aged 10) and her daughter aged 8. Her daughter screams at them to stop and they don't they just say she is jealous.

My son is much better away from it although it's hard to know your dad can just walk away from you. "

I can empathise with your son. My dad and I have barely spoken in 15 years, and not at all in the last two. Was never a happy relationship, and it’s only degraded over time as I’ve realised how horrible a person he is. In one way though he’s been a great role model - because he’s shown me everything I *don’t* want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick your cock in her mouth ...that should stop the snoring

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