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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have a preference, in either chat, sex talk or the act itself? Maybe you like both depending on the person or situation or is one mans (or woman’s) erotic another’s lewd? Is there something that’s an immediate “off put” in speech or act for you re a sex partner on here?

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button. "

Lolol and there you have it... so is it men and women view things differently???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erotic ends up sounding like a scripted cheese fest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erotic ends up sounding like a scripted cheese fest

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And your preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who it's with and how they respond.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on who it's with and how they respond. "

I think that’s how it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erotic ends up sounding like a scripted cheese fest

And your preference? "

Is for neither

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button.

Lolol and there you have it... so is it men and women view things differently??? "

Myself? As long as it isn't text speak or written in slang, (am Scottish n al rite wit a waant) then she can be as lewd as she likes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button.

Lolol and there you have it... so is it men and women view things differently???

Myself? As long as it isn't text speak or written in slang, (am Scottish n al rite wit a waant) then she can be as lewd as she likes. "

Geeze a swatch o yer boaby - chewin the fat style??? I hear ya

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button.

Lolol and there you have it... so is it men and women view things differently???

Myself? As long as it isn't text speak or written in slang, (am Scottish n al rite wit a waant) then she can be as lewd as she likes.

Geeze a swatch o yer boaby - chewin the fat style??? I hear ya "

I think you'll find the correct spelling is 'gies'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button.

Lolol and there you have it... so is it men and women view things differently???

Myself? As long as it isn't text speak or written in slang, (am Scottish n al rite wit a waant) then she can be as lewd as she likes.

Geeze a swatch o yer boaby - chewin the fat style??? I hear ya

I think you'll find the correct spelling is 'gies'

"

I stand corrected

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button.

Lolol and there you have it... so is it men and women view things differently???

Myself? As long as it isn't text speak or written in slang, (am Scottish n al rite wit a waant) then she can be as lewd as she likes.

Geeze a swatch o yer boaby - chewin the fat style??? I hear ya

I think you'll find the correct spelling is 'gies'

I stand corrected "

One of my friends from my time in college would text her pals using this slang, it always annoyed me, (I know, it shouldn't) wondering why, as it'd surely take a little longer due to spelling the words out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word boaby always makes me think about the episode of still game with the penis in a jar.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Totally subjective and cant be pinned down i find alot of the antics on fab lewd which i find manky. Others would see it as erotic the long and short of it is its down to the participants and an even bigger part tbeir understanding of those present.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don’t find that type of chat with virtual strangers as erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of either.

Once a guy start talking like that shutters are down and closed sign is put up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fan of either.

Once a guy start talking like that shutters are down and closed sign is put up!"

Noted!!

New strategy required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fan of either.

Once a guy start talking like that shutters are down and closed sign is put up!

Noted!!

New strategy required "

Yeah..must try harder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a fecking minefield, one wrong word and it's block button.

Lolol and there you have it... so is it men and women view things differently???

Myself? As long as it isn't text speak or written in slang, (am Scottish n al rite wit a waant) then she can be as lewd as she likes.

Geeze a swatch o yer boaby - chewin the fat style??? I hear ya

I think you'll find the correct spelling is 'gies'

I stand corrected

One of my friends from my time in college would text her pals using this slang, it always annoyed me, (I know, it shouldn't) wondering why, as it'd surely take a little longer due to spelling the words out. "

Who knows why certain wee things irritate us, they just do lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The word boaby always makes me think about the episode of still game with the penis in a jar."

I think I missed that one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally subjective and cant be pinned down i find alot of the antics on fab lewd which i find manky. Others would see it as erotic the long and short of it is its down to the participants and an even bigger part tbeir understanding of those present.

"
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Agreed Mr Kubes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t find that type of chat with virtual strangers as erotic "

Very much so... a crude introduction is never welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a fan of either.

Once a guy start talking like that shutters are down and closed sign is put up!"
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If I can ask? Which one oldy? Or do you find both off putting???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did say either lol

Don't like sex talk or messages telling a sexy scenario.

Always reply I think they get more out of writing it than o do read I g it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did say either lol

Don't like sex talk or messages telling a sexy scenario.

Always reply I think they get more out of writing it than o do read I g it lol"

Oh I get that, yes!!! Thank ya lovely lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about you Jane?

You a fan?

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By *lex0880Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't see the point of going into a first contact on here with either of those types of messages. When I first signed up I would try different approaches but you have to gauge the person your chatting with to see the kind of chat they like to have. I can be quite wordy in my messages too which some people like and I guess other people don't.

My preference for sex messages and the act itself is eroticism to start with and depending on how things progress it might get a little bit lewd by the end. I enjoy the tease of eroticism, it allows lust and anticipation to build but then again, that's not for everybody.

All fabsters are different, it's just a case of finding those that are on the same wavelength as yourself and having some fun, be it sensual and erotic or lewd and filthy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it does nothing for me, once I know someone intimately after a long period of time the odd sexy phone call can be good, otherwise I just find it all fake and can’t visualise it, when I know someone’s body and know how they feel taste and smell then it’s far easier to visualise and even feel their touch as they tell you over the phone what they want to do to you, but don’t do name calling ever that’s an instant your sacked Cheerio delete my number lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word boaby always makes me think about the episode of still game with the penis in a jar."

Reminds me of the song who loves the boaby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about you Jane?

You a fan?"
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As a rule that’s a firm NO, really dislike crudity, I love the flirtatious teasing leading to whatever that is... on occasion tho “whatever that is” has been surprising... . Initial contact crudeness is always a no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see the point of going into a first contact on here with either of those types of messages. When I first signed up I would try different approaches but you have to gauge the person your chatting with to see the kind of chat they like to have. I can be quite wordy in my messages too which some people like and I guess other people don't.

My preference for sex messages and the act itself is eroticism to start with and depending on how things progress it might get a little bit lewd by the end. I enjoy the tease of eroticism, it allows lust and anticipation to build but then again, that's not for everybody.

All fabsters are different, it's just a case of finding those that are on the same wavelength as yourself and having some fun, be it sensual and erotic or lewd and filthy!! "

Sounds about right to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me it does nothing for me, once I know someone intimately after a long period of time the odd sexy phone call can be good, otherwise I just find it all fake and can’t visualise it, when I know someone’s body and know how they feel taste and smell then it’s far easier to visualise and even feel their touch as they tell you over the phone what they want to do to you, but don’t do name calling ever that’s an instant your sacked Cheerio delete my number lol "

Agreed don’t get the phone thing either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The word boaby always makes me think about the episode of still game with the penis in a jar.

Reminds me of the song who loves the boaby "

There’s a song!!! Off to google lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like either when I'm getting to know someone. Erotic would make me cringe and lewd just isn't my style.

I have to say though once we make it to the bedroom a bit of dirty talk can be a real turn on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't like either when I'm getting to know someone. Erotic would make me cringe and lewd just isn't my style.

I have to say though once we make it to the bedroom a bit of dirty talk can be a real turn on "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fan of either.

Once a guy start talking like that shutters are down and closed sign is put up!"

That painted quite a mental image!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word boaby always makes me think about the episode of still game with the penis in a jar.

Reminds me of the song who loves the boaby "

Pmsl never heard that before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word boaby always makes me think about the episode of still game with the penis in a jar.

Reminds me of the song who loves the boaby

Pmsl never heard that before."

Omg seriously it’s great wee tune

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