FabSwingers.com forum: Gangbang - women's recommendations?

By *Carver- OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

So, one of my partners (not currently on fab) has asked me to arrange a birthday gangbang for her!

I'm delighted, but as you know a good man is hard to find. If there's a respectful, trustworthy man you can vouch for, I'd love to hear about it in this thread.

Please note I do not want men volunteering themselves! These are nominations from f, mf and ff accounts only. Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the concept of others recommending sexual partners, although I guess this is quite particular circumstances.

Sorry, can't help

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By *Carver- OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I don't like the concept of others recommending sexual partners, although I guess this is quite particular circumstances.

Sorry, can't help"

Fair enough! I tend to find it feels a little safer than trying your luck with a complete unknown quantity. And this particular kink is a big responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same opinion as wellinever not really comfortable being a so called pimp lol

Plus not interested in guys that do gangbangs either lol

Maybe ask chicks to pm you rather that put names on an open forum?

Good luck tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check on your friends list, see if any of your fab friends met somebody your friend might be interested in. Write to that person and/or your friend.

It's anyway hard to give recommendations if we have no idea what your friend prefers. I would not and not on the public forum anyway.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Do a search for local females who have an interest in gangbangs and have a snoop through their veris x

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Ok ladies get my nominations going. Dont be shy , you know theres lots of you.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

OP as my nominations come flooding in just like my women, do you have a date in mind. ? Gotta check my social calendar.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"So, one of my partners (not currently on fab) has asked me to arrange a birthday gangbang for her!

I'm delighted, but as you know a good man is hard to find. "

Apparently a "hard" man is good to find too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll need someone to take the coats and get refreshments right enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im horrified by the thought of people 'nominating' in this way - I thought discretion was important to most?

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

When you think you have seen it all boom!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

One word .... discretion!! Great filter post though

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"When you think you have seen it all boom!

Lmao , its Fab , youve never seen it all .

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By *Carver- OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Im horrified by the thought of people 'nominating' in this way - I thought discretion was important to most?

I'm not looking to start an argument, but I'm not sure how this is substantively any different from public verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im horrified by the thought of people 'nominating' in this way - I thought discretion was important to most?

I'm not looking to start an argument, but I'm not sure how this is substantively any different from public verifications?"

Was kinda thinking that myself (ducks shit storm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you not just read people's verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea. You just want honest reliable guys. Good luck OP

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Gotta admit, I don't see the issue with the OP. Would obviously be best if people PM him but I don't see how recommending someone who has an ad on the site looking for meets would somehow be indiscreet or a breach of privacy in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just say I reccomend a guy...That guy turns out to be a complete knob...who's fault?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you think you have seen it all boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not see if there is any gangbang nights happening in any off the clubs and take her along as you usually hear the clubs are a very safe environment

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not see if there is any gangbang nights happening in any off the clubs and take her along as you usually hear the clubs are a very safe environment

I'm pretty sure the after 8 club posted a similar event recently.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So just say I reccomend a guy...That guy turns out to be a complete knob...who's fault?"

Yours of course Oldie! It effectively the swinging version of giving out a bad horse tip!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Gotta admit, I don't see the issue with the OP. Would obviously be best if people PM him but I don't see how recommending someone who has an ad on the site looking for meets would somehow be indiscreet or a breach of privacy in any way."

What if the “recommended” bloke does not want it publicly displayed that he has met certain people ? What if they don’t want others to know they take part in gangbangs? Nobody’s name should be given in an open forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So just say I reccomend a guy...That guy turns out to be a complete knob...who's fault?

Yours of course Oldie! It effectively the swinging version of giving out a bad horse tip!

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exactly!! Lol

What I think might be a great guy others may think a complete knobhead!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

That's why I said it would be best if they send a PM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could you not just read people's verifications "

Yea, because the ALWAYS reflect the truth.....sic

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By *Carver- OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

That's why I said it would be best if they send a PM."

Yeah, that's a fair point. PMs very welcome

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

That's why I said it would be best if they send a PM.

Yeah, that's a fair point. PMs very welcome

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

As an aside i find a guy setting things up for 'partner" "friend" "lover" dubious if a fem wants it a fem ahould set it up not somethibg that i would consider anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you kola

Hell I wouldn't even trust my husband of 20yrs to pick my victims

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By *pheliaWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I agree with you kola

Hell I wouldn't even trust my husband of 20yrs to pick my victims

Lol, your husband obviously knows what you like!

I think each to their own, if that's what she wants then fair enough

. Don't see the problem in PM recommendations

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Why not take her to a greedy girl event at CJs?

Plenty of willing guys to choose from and it’s still her choice or yours of who to play with.

Organising a gb isn’t as easy as it seems and many guys drop out. At least at CJs you’d be guaranteed guys and no worrying about where to have it.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Dont see the problem, luv the honesty in fact in terms of stating what they want and the idea they have in going about it.

Discretion?? Hows that in question? Its no worse than the weekly, "who's all goin to cjs, who else is goin to blah de blah".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I been put forward yet? ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not take her to a greedy girl event at CJs?

Plenty of willing guys to choose from and it’s still her choice or yours of who to play with.

Organising a gb isn’t as easy as it seems and many guys drop out. At least at CJs you’d be guaranteed guys and no worrying about where to have it. "

Maybe they don't want Hobson's choice though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have I been put forward yet? ??????"

You're on the reserve list with HeDevil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about your local rugby team think they might enjoy it .......

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Have I been put forward yet? ??????

You're on the reserve list with HeDevil

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Why not take her to a greedy girl event at CJs?

Plenty of willing guys to choose from and it’s still her choice or yours of who to play with.

Organising a gb isn’t as easy as it seems and many guys drop out. At least at CJs you’d be guaranteed guys and no worrying about where to have it.

Maybe they don't want Hobson's choice though....

There’s no obligation to play with anyone at CJs. I’m sure there are plenty of guys to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t really think it’s appropriate to give people’s profiles out hardly discrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont see the problem, luv the honesty in fact in terms of stating what they want and the idea they have in going about it.

Discretion?? Hows that in question? Its no worse than the weekly, "who's all goin to cjs, who else is goin to blah de blah".

Because the people going are offering you their own names, I’d be raging if anyone approached me and said such and such said you’re reliable and a great fuxk so would you be interested in a meet etc

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

"Dont see the problem, luv the honesty in fact in terms of stating what they want and the idea they have in going about it.

Discretion?? Hows that in question? Its no worse than the weekly, "who's all goin to cjs, who else is goin to blah de blah".

Totally different, this is a guy trying to find the best way to create a specific group meet, without the chaos of each and any guy claiming they can make it happen, which they would do,claim to, then probably realise they don’t actually know enough fellow solo males to put together anything. That’s just a familiar pattern I’m conveying, not everyone is the same, but generally is what happens.

As for the “leave it to her to do it”, that’ll be the surprise element gone then.

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By *liballyWoman
over a year ago

west dunbartonshire

If people think their friends would be upset by that dont put them forward, or tell them the situation and that you're happy to vouch for them if they want to be put forward.

From personal experience i tried to organise one without any recommendations-nobody showed and i felt rejected and depressed.

I ended up in an unplanned group thing at cjs and ended up torn so bleeding and with a guy who needed a shower sticking his dick in my mouth.

There's not a perfect way that works for everyone every time. If someone's approach isn't for you keep scrolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people think their friends would be upset by that dont put them forward, or tell them the situation and that you're happy to vouch for them if they want to be put forward.

From personal experience i tried to organise one without any recommendations-nobody showed and i felt rejected and depressed.

I ended up in an unplanned group thing at cjs and ended up torn so bleeding and with a guy who needed a shower sticking his dick in my mouth.

There's not a perfect way that works for everyone every time. If someone's approach isn't for you keep scrolling

That sounds horrific!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people think their friends would be upset by that dont put them forward, or tell them the situation and that you're happy to vouch for them if they want to be put forward.

From personal experience i tried to organise one without any recommendations-nobody showed and i felt rejected and depressed.

I ended up in an unplanned group thing at cjs and ended up torn so bleeding and with a guy who needed a shower sticking his dick in my mouth.

There's not a perfect way that works for everyone every time. If someone's approach isn't for you keep scrolling

That sounds horrific!

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should put that on the cj is fantastic thread

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

To be honest I'd imagine most guys on here would be delighted at someone advising people they're reliable and a great fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your point in not having complete randoms, i wouldn't, but is it also a difference between the queer world and the relatively straight world? We go by word of mouth, it's not offensive.

This whole scene is highly judgemental and lacking in full depth of exploration. Each to their own.

Yup, that's a judgement.

Good luck finding the right participants. I'll happily give you my recommendation. He's an amazing, pretty much perfect, guy who funnily enough is funding it hard on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A proper & safe gangbang takes a lot of organising. Porn doesn't reveal that. I feel a lot of 'dogging' videos are like that too. Pisses me off as it feeds into the unsafe expectations and practices.

Most of my queer friends, who are deeply involved in kink & more so, are actually horrified at the whole hetero-ish swinging scene/FS. The fact that you don't really know who you're fucking, how safe they are in terms of sexual health or in terms of actual violence etc, inviting relative strangers back/meeting them etc etc

I've said it repeatedly; there is a vast difference between queer sex and the hetero-world. Sucking bare cock isn't safe sex for instance....(yes, most do - but how many get tested for oral chlamydia for instance?) The reluctance to be honest about your test results or when you were last tested is frankly insane too. Also the lack of communication in general. Straight men don't really talk about sex much in a practical, explorative and intelligent way. A lot of that has to do with socialisation and education.

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