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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So...

Chatting to a bloke today and going not too bad.

Then he says something all joking but a bit rude and that was me shutters down closed sign straight up!

Now I knew the guy said it tongue and cheek.

It wasn't rude sexually but rude in a stereotypical way.

So my question is...does it take nothing for someone to piss you off or are you easy ozy let things slide?

The guy was English and slated Scotland before I get pms asking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same tbh there’s a time and a place and not knowing when it’s appropriate to crack jokes etc is key to wether or not someone is going to piss me off and put me off, I’m fairly easy ozy but I don’t want to have to point out when folk are being a twunt but neither do I want to ignore it and let it pass if they are repeat offenders so the easy option is to just say goodbye there and then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He acknowledge what he done but was a no go after that.

Wasn't funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultra graphic descriptions of what they would like to do to me....references to "cock slut" and the likes.

Anybody attempting to tell me what to do or how to conduct myself on here.

To be fair, I've only came across one or two genuine arseholes on here. Most folk are ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'm not into sex talk

Even if they have cock or pussy on their profile it's a non starter for me lol

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By *nicorn on wheelsWoman
over a year ago

scotland

I have things that when said I just shut off, I get things can be misinterpreted in messages but I do think that if you can easily pee me off in here then likely good you’ll do it just as easy face to face therefore no point in wasting time.

And at same time I may say things that can be misinterpreted to others and wouldn’t blame them if they felt the same

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By *nicorn on wheelsWoman
over a year ago

scotland


"Ultra graphic descriptions of what they would like to do to me....references to "cock slut" and the likes.

Anybody attempting to tell me what to do or how to conduct myself on here.

To be fair, I've only came across one or two genuine arseholes on here. Most folk are ok."

Hate the hi slut I wanna blah blah blah. I just think if you said that in a bar you’d get a drink or worse across your face so why do it here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because we are on a sex site and all gagging for it 24/7

No? Me either lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Many things put me off..... particularly when folk ask to chat on the phone and I say nope they then ask again! If I say no I mean no!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But you do have a sexy accent Tracey Ken?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Loads piss me off and ive never spoken to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ultra graphic descriptions of what they would like to do to me....references to "cock slut" and the likes.

Anybody attempting to tell me what to do or how to conduct myself on here.

To be fair, I've only came across one or two genuine arseholes on here. Most folk are ok.

Hate the hi slut I wanna blah blah blah. I just think if you said that in a bar you’d get a drink or worse across your face so why do it here? "

I had a guy message me to say he wanted to impale me on his monster cock.

I replied that I'd like to impale him on my wrought iron gate.

The chat fizzled oot a wee bit after that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Ultra graphic descriptions of what they would like to do to me....references to "cock slut" and the likes.

Anybody attempting to tell me what to do or how to conduct myself on here.

To be fair, I've only came across one or two genuine arseholes on here. Most folk are ok.

Hate the hi slut I wanna blah blah blah. I just think if you said that in a bar you’d get a drink or worse across your face so why do it here?

I had a guy message me to say he wanted to impale me on his monster cock.

I replied that I'd like to impale him on my wrought iron gate.

The chat fizzled oot a wee bit after that "
was your name vlad in a previous life ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or has anyone just been put off with someone for no reason?

I think the more you chat to someone and not meet soon the moment gets lost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ultra graphic descriptions of what they would like to do to me....references to "cock slut" and the likes.

Anybody attempting to tell me what to do or how to conduct myself on here.

To be fair, I've only came across one or two genuine arseholes on here. Most folk are ok.

Hate the hi slut I wanna blah blah blah. I just think if you said that in a bar you’d get a drink or worse across your face so why do it here?

I had a guy message me to say he wanted to impale me on his monster cock.

I replied that I'd like to impale him on my wrought iron gate.

The chat fizzled oot a wee bit after that was your name vlad in a previous life ?"

It'a my middle name actually

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Or has anyone just been put off with someone for no reason?

I think the more you chat to someone and not meet soon the moment gets lost?"

Yes to this too .... I’m beginning to see why I don’t meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or has anyone just been put off with someone for no reason?

I think the more you chat to someone and not meet soon the moment gets lost?"

I also get annoyed at folk who apologise profusely. Ironically I think some men get such a hard time on here that they're willing to put up with any old shite and end up apologising for existing. Have some balls. If someone is being an arsehole call them out for it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t blame you goody, we allow naughty chat but only after a while and it must be respectful too... slut comments etc is an instant conversation ende

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The original reason I started the post the guy never said anything sexually lol was just a bit disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The original reason I started the post the guy never said anything sexually lol was just a bit disrespectful."

Think that’s a given too, total turn off

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Loads piss me off and ive never spoken to them "

Haha!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Being called babe, hun or hunni, hate it, find it really false and makes me want to go all spelling police on them

K x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Hate being told im beautiful by someone who has never seen my face before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey gorgeous

Same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The demanding profiles are the ones that get my goat as they come across as being better than the norm

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I remembered something else ....when they say put “pineapple” or some other nonsense in the heading when you mail us to show you read the profile .... how about no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are folk that thick that you can see the word "pineapple" and not need to read the rest?

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

If someone calls me a Jock or uses the word Rack in reference to a womans body shape.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Doesn't take much to put me off people unfortunately. Same could be said for me I'm sure though

R

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By *oolsGoldxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hate being told im beautiful by someone who has never seen my face before."

This drives me mad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tells me to fuck off in a message it kinda puts me off replying.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm not a fan of text talk or needless abbreviations in messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not that bothered with txt speak as long as I actually can work out what it says lol

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not that bothered with txt speak as long as I actually can work out what it says lol"

Actually, lol! That annoys me!

Sorry, I'm just an old fashioned grumpy bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone tells me to fuck off in a message it kinda puts me off replying.

"

I was doing sober October! Bad timing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the wind is blowing in the right direction...I'm fairly easy

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Being called babe, hun or hunni, hate it, find it really false and makes me want to go all spelling police on them

K x"

THIS absolutely agree makes my skin crawl.

I relate to a lot of this thread and agree with a lot of what’s been said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting told I have a tiny cock when I have never sent it where is ygd hidden cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting told I have a tiny cock when I have never sent it where is ygd hidden cam "

It's just in comparison to your freshly shaved and swollen Immac baws

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

There are loads of what I call ‘Kiost Keith’ moments. One wrong word and boom. Yer teas oot. I guess that’s the risk of only having the written word to go on. It’s all about interpretation and context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone tells me to fuck off in a message it kinda puts me off replying.

I was doing sober October! Bad timing "

I but it was August when you said it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate being told im beautiful by someone who has never seen my face before."

God I hate this.

Or the ones that ask if I’ll be wearing stocking when we meet for a coffee?

That’s like ‘boom’ end of conversation and defo no social meet after that!

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By *atcake1973Man
over a year ago

stoke on Trent

I'm open minded

Can talk about anything

Not easily offended

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

Cant stand it when people find out my job, so i tell them and they say oh i bet you get up to all sorts of naughty things in your shift..

Im like are you allowed to fuck mid shift at your place of work. Does being at work make you horny? Your bosses ok with you just taking someone over your desk or on the floor at work?

Drives me insane! I never feel horny at work anyway even when im gagging for it the rest of the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dodgy usernames. Instant delete!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All of the above also lol

Or when your chatting and the question every lady on here gets asked...Are you horny?

Aye mate I'm sat here in my joggys and t shirt watching the chase absolutely gagging for it

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"If someone tells me to fuck off in a message it kinda puts me off replying.

"

I said please

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"Or has anyone just been put off with someone for no reason?

I think the more you chat to someone and not meet soon the moment gets lost?"

This, often leaft feeling you’ve had a “virtual meet”. Idea has been exhausted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find the anticipation has gone and its a friends zone kinda thing

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"All of the above also lol

Or when your chatting and the question every lady on here gets asked...Are you horny?

Aye mate I'm sat here in my joggys and t shirt watching the chase absolutely gagging for it "

Lol and the what you wearing question this thread has made me giggle so much and glad I’m not only one

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Definitely the chat about ‘tell me what you’re wearing’ is a big turn off for me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone tells me to fuck off in a message it kinda puts me off replying.

I said please "

But a polite fuck off is still the same... Now stop begging to get me back in your inbox.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely the chat about ‘tell me what you’re wearing’ is a big turn off for me too x "

I'll try and ask when your wearing something next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting told I have a tiny cock when I have never sent it where is ygd hidden cam

It's just in comparison to your freshly shaved and swollen Immac baws "

They are still delicate this morning

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Getting told I have a tiny cock when I have never sent it where is ygd hidden cam

It's just in comparison to your freshly shaved and swollen Immac baws

They are still delicate this morning "

Get some sudocreme on them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting told I have a tiny cock when I have never sent it where is ygd hidden cam

It's just in comparison to your freshly shaved and swollen Immac baws

They are still delicate this morning

Get some sudocreme on them!"

You got any

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Doesn't take much to be sent to the naughty step on here, think guys are going to have to start hiring script writers just to get past a couple of messages before the huffs been taken over nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When there is evidently no intention to meet.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sending friend requests without even trying to have a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't take much to be sent to the naughty step on here, think guys are going to have to start hiring script writers just to get past a couple of messages before the huffs been taken over nothing. "

Agree.. Sense of humour failures are one instance of misplace punctuation away..

Many many many things are lost in translation text.. Perhaps choose not to be offended..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You try receiving maybe 5/10 dick pics a day and see if you don't get easily offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You try receiving maybe 5/10 dick pics a day and see if you don't get easily offended "

Lol.. Ok point taken..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's my face that turns Women off

either that or its the xdressing

maybe the being into strapons

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