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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

What is everyone judging you on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

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By *adbod_DaveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

His cover!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol "

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do u mean ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

About my cover btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially."

Most people dont even read it !

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it ! "

Oh we do !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it !

Oh we do ! "

Okay majority do , but had a good few who havnt read . Everyones simply here for fun ..

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it !

Oh we do !

Okay majority do , but had a good few who havnt read . Everyones simply here for fun .."

So are you tho so whats the issue? Says right at the bottom of your profile that you're here for fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it !

Oh we do !

Okay majority do , but had a good few who havnt read . Everyones simply here for fun ..

So are you tho so whats the issue? Says right at the bottom of your profile that you're here for fun!"

I am here for fun ? The issue i am gettin at is no one replys or even messages ? U must of sent that then hid ur profile ?

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it !

Oh we do !

Okay majority do , but had a good few who havnt read . Everyones simply here for fun ..

So are you tho so whats the issue? Says right at the bottom of your profile that you're here for fun!

I am here for fun ? The issue i am gettin at is no one replys or even messages ? U must of sent that then hid ur profile ? "

Actually no my profile has been hidden for a few days. Not sure why thats an issue either or anyones business actually!! Anyway...

Nobody can be to everyones taste. Nobody is entitled to a reply either if they message some. (In the site faqs) All anyone can do is state what they're looking for and hope for the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it !

Oh we do !

Okay majority do , but had a good few who havnt read . Everyones simply here for fun ..

So are you tho so whats the issue? Says right at the bottom of your profile that you're here for fun!

I am here for fun ? The issue i am gettin at is no one replys or even messages ? U must of sent that then hid ur profile ?

Actually no my profile has been hidden for a few days. Not sure why thats an issue either or anyones business actually!! Anyway...

Nobody can be to everyones taste. Nobody is entitled to a reply either if they message some. (In the site faqs) All anyone can do is state what they're looking for and hope for the best. "

Well thats true lol , thats true

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Theres virtually nothing to go on from your profile. Why should people make the effort to talk to you or meet you when you havnt made any effort with your profile. This is not a dig by the way just a possible reason for your lack of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it !

Oh we do !

Okay majority do , but had a good few who havnt read . Everyones simply here for fun .."

Yeah but people need to see who they want to choose to have fun with

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I think maybe you need to make your profile like your own personal advert .

Imagine you've just googled restaurants near you .

First ad says "good plain food reasonable prices ".

Second says " massive juicy steaks best prices around " with a pic of the best looking steak dinner it makes you salivate .

Which one are you going to go to first ?

Your profile is your shop window sell yourself .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't look twice at your profile as iv blocked profiles with no public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said with the profile being your shop window there isnt anything there to sell yourself

Also this is just a personal peeve of mine but the constant reference to wanting “fun” , twice on your profile and in your comments on here ... i take “fun” to mean quick shag zero effort required ... thats the impression it gives off to me where people are looking for essentially a free escort and excuse their behaviour as ok cause its all just fun ... i could be wrong but i generally swerve any profiles that say this

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

As soon as we see the black silhouette it just gets ignored

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I just mean from readin ur profile , sometimes people dont even read it etc and maybe that I point out im not skinny streight away lol

Your profile is all people have to judge you on initially.

Most people dont even read it !

Oh we do ! "

I do too.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With so much choice on here nothing about your profile s_ands out, personally I’m with you on the no pics but I’m in the minority, so best bet is to get yourself along to some socials or clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks points are taking updates shall be made .

Also on the picture subject as i said i dont have one on my profile because my job and im not going to do what the rest do and put a picture of my penis lol .

Thanks for the feed back ect

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Ok thanks points are taking updates shall be made .

Also on the picture subject as i said i dont have one on my profile because my job and im not going to do what the rest do and put a picture of my penis lol .

Thanks for the feed back ect "

Why does your public pictures have to be of your penis ? Is that the only body part you think women are after ?. Look around fab and you will see thousands of pictures of guys with neither a face pic or penis pic. Let me know if your able to identify anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok thanks points are taking updates shall be made .

Also on the picture subject as i said i dont have one on my profile because my job and im not going to do what the rest do and put a picture of my penis lol .

Thanks for the feed back ect

Why does your public pictures have to be of your penis ? Is that the only body part you think women are after ?. Look around fab and you will see thousands of pictures of guys with neither a face pic or penis pic. Let me know if your able to identify anyone. "

Lol . Sorry if that came across rude mate lol . Just mean sometimes u look on here and its just pictures of cocks as display picture i would rather have none than a picture of cock , sometimes people act like one dont have to have a picture of one lol . Sorry if it came across the wrong way the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks points are taking updates shall be made .

Also on the picture subject as i said i dont have one on my profile because my job and im not going to do what the rest do and put a picture of my penis lol .

Thanks for the feed back ect

Why does your public pictures have to be of your penis ? Is that the only body part you think women are after ?. Look around fab and you will see thousands of pictures of guys with neither a face pic or penis pic. Let me know if your able to identify anyone. "

Why does he have to have a pic at all I don’t have one and don’t ever expect one

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Ok thanks points are taking updates shall be made .

Also on the picture subject as i said i dont have one on my profile because my job and im not going to do what the rest do and put a picture of my penis lol .

Thanks for the feed back ect

Why does your public pictures have to be of your penis ? Is that the only body part you think women are after ?. Look around fab and you will see thousands of pictures of guys with neither a face pic or penis pic. Let me know if your able to identify anyone.

Why does he have to have a pic at all I don’t have one and don’t ever expect one "

Your a freak of nature though M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks points are taking updates shall be made .

Also on the picture subject as i said i dont have one on my profile because my job and im not going to do what the rest do and put a picture of my penis lol .

Thanks for the feed back ect

Why does your public pictures have to be of your penis ? Is that the only body part you think women are after ?. Look around fab and you will see thousands of pictures of guys with neither a face pic or penis pic. Let me know if your able to identify anyone.

Why does he have to have a pic at all I don’t have one and don’t ever expect one "
because your a woman and guys don't care talking to a blank profile

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc"
yes maybe they do judge a book by its cover but yours says cheat. Like it or lump it but a single guy who can't accommodate and has no pics will more than usually be classed as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc"

We’ve got pics and hopefully a reasonable profile but we can’t get meets with compatible people either.

We haven’t played with anyone new in about a year. It’s incredibly difficult and frustrating so we feel your pain.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I can arrange meets no problem but the guy always cancels before the meet date which is so annoying and makes me wonder if its just a waste of time planning anything in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only arranged one meet on here personally find it pointless messaging some people as timewasters n fake profiles have put them off even bothering with new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just go to the butcher section in tesco

No wait a minute x wrong sort sorry, just ignore that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe you need to make your profile like your own personal advert .

Imagine you've just googled restaurants near you .

First ad says "good plain food reasonable prices ".

Second says " massive juicy steaks best prices around " with a pic of the best looking steak dinner it makes you salivate .

Which one are you going to go to first ?

Your profile is your shop window sell yourself . "

Am hungry now thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Plenty of view since this lets hope we get somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I would change the spelling in your profile. I would replace ur with your etc

That way you will find that people may start to open up. Similarly I would send any outgoing messages with the actual spelling of a word not the short hand text version. Simple things really. Plus even a picture instead of the standard one would help. You can make that discrete too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc"

If you have joined Fab in the hope you will get laid after only 9 weeks then sorry to disappoint you but it ain't going to happen, best advice is go into chat rooms and get to know the regulars then hopefully they might chat to you, otherwise go to a social event at cos or after 8s but that still doesn't guarantee you will get laid either.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc

If you have joined Fab in the hope you will get laid after only 9 weeks then sorry to disappoint you but it ain't going to happen, best advice is go into chat rooms and get to know the regulars then hopefully they might chat to you, otherwise go to a social event at cos or after 8s but that still doesn't guarantee you will get laid either."

Loads of men have been 'laid' after 9 weeks or less on Fab! Of course it happens!

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I’m only here to lose my virginity and I’m still hoping it’ll happen soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc

If you have joined Fab in the hope you will get laid after only 9 weeks then sorry to disappoint you but it ain't going to happen, best advice is go into chat rooms and get to know the regulars then hopefully they might chat to you, otherwise go to a social event at cos or after 8s but that still doesn't guarantee you will get laid either.

Loads of men have been 'laid' after 9 weeks or less on Fab! Of course it happens! "

Name them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think if ye stand with yer dick out and hold the sky remote against it for size... You will be inundated with meet requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think if ye stand with yer dick out and hold the sky remote against it for size... You will be inundated with meet requests "

Ahhh so that's where I've been going wrong lol

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc

If you have joined Fab in the hope you will get laid after only 9 weeks then sorry to disappoint you but it ain't going to happen, best advice is go into chat rooms and get to know the regulars then hopefully they might chat to you, otherwise go to a social event at cos or after 8s but that still doesn't guarantee you will get laid either.

Loads of men have been 'laid' after 9 weeks or less on Fab! Of course it happens!

Name them lol"

Bob, Dave, steve, John, Muhammad, James, Michael.....

Statistically I must’ve got one of them.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Personally I think if ye stand with yer dick out and hold the sky remote against it for size... You will be inundated with meet requests

Ahhh so that's where I've been going wrong lol "

I mean if everyone does it. It must’ve worked at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc

If you have joined Fab in the hope you will get laid after only 9 weeks then sorry to disappoint you but it ain't going to happen, best advice is go into chat rooms and get to know the regulars then hopefully they might chat to you, otherwise go to a social event at cos or after 8s but that still doesn't guarantee you will get laid either.

Loads of men have been 'laid' after 9 weeks or less on Fab! Of course it happens!

Name them lol

Bob, Dave, steve, John, Muhammad, James, Michael.....

Statistically I must’ve got one of them.

"

PMSL @ Muhammad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a while on and off , was away and back but cant seen to get a meet ? Have a meet before on here picture verification etc done aswell .. everyone just judges a book by its cover ..

My pictures get sent on private because my job etc

If you have joined Fab in the hope you will get laid after only 9 weeks then sorry to disappoint you but it ain't going to happen, best advice is go into chat rooms and get to know the regulars then hopefully they might chat to you, otherwise go to a social event at cos or after 8s but that still doesn't guarantee you will get laid either.

Loads of men have been 'laid' after 9 weeks or less on Fab! Of course it happens!

Name them lol

Bob, Dave, steve, John, Muhammad, James, Michael.....

Statistically I must’ve got one of them.

"
Don't leave Martin out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With so much choice on here nothing about your profile s_ands out, personally I’m with you on the no pics but I’m in the minority, so best bet is to get yourself along to some socials or clubs "
what about mine some feedback would be great xx

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