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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you have a meet is it purely just full on sex or do you like a cuddle and a chat inbetween rounds?

Do you like a giggle throughout or is it serious play the whole time?

Is kissing a must or something just for your partner?.

Curious to know what others think?

Me personally I'm not fit enough for going at it 4hrs solid lol .need a wee breather inbetween for a better lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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"When you have a meet is it purely just full on sex or do you like a cuddle and a chat inbetween rounds?

Do you like a giggle throughout or is it serious play the whole time?

Is kissing a must or something just for your partner?.

Curious to know what others think?

Me personally I'm not fit enough for going at it 4hrs solid lol .need a wee breather inbetween for a better lol"
i meet for a laugh amd joke and enjoy some time with folk sex is a tiny part of it.

I know lots meet just for sex that lifestyle aint for me

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Kissing , chatting, cuddling , laughing and also sexy fun too. Its part of the full package surely , is it not. ? Turning up doing the deed and leaving would leave you thinking you've been used, especially from the females perspective, in my opinion.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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"Kissing , chatting, cuddling , laughing and also sexy fun too. Its part of the full package surely , is it not. ? Turning up doing the deed and leaving would leave you thinking you've been used, especially from the females perspective, in my opinion.

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i wouldnt say especially from a fems perspective fems are just as guilty as men for using folk for their own means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chat, flirting, banter and laughs would have to be part of the build up for me as I've got to know someone. And this would create the attraction required for me to want to meet them.....so I'd expect it to be the same with them in person.

Plus I'm very tactile once I know someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

99% of my meets go the way I like lol

Whether it's full on passion from start to finish with a few breaks and chats in between or the more slow passionate kind with still the giggles and chat.

Only maybe once have I felt a guy came got what he wanted then left which I admit did make me feel kinda used if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of my meets go the way I like lol

Whether it's full on passion from start to finish with a few breaks and chats in between or the more slow passionate kind with still the giggles and chat.

Only maybe once have I felt a guy came got what he wanted then left which I admit did make me feel kinda used if I'm honest."

I'd be raging at that. I'd have my cross bow out before he made it to the hotel room door!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"When you have a meet is it purely just full on sex or do you like a cuddle and a chat inbetween rounds?

Do you like a giggle throughout or is it serious play the whole time?

Is kissing a must or something just for your partner?.

Curious to know what others think?

Me personally I'm not fit enough for going at it 4hrs solid lol .need a wee breather inbetween for a better lol"
cuddle ,chat, have a laugh and yes kissing is a must

My meets are usually very relaxed & involve some food and a wee tipple too

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am not here for meets where the man uses me like a piece of gym equipment and leaves me feeling like an unpaid hooker. I dont meet often but when i do it is always very laid back and chilled with plenty of chat and laughs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"99% of my meets go the way I like lol

Whether it's full on passion from start to finish with a few breaks and chats in between or the more slow passionate kind with still the giggles and chat.

Only maybe once have I felt a guy came got what he wanted then left which I admit did make me feel kinda used if I'm honest.

I'd be raging at that. I'd have my cross bow out before he made it to the hotel room door!

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lol yip fixed his hair in the mirror too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of my meets go the way I like lol

Whether it's full on passion from start to finish with a few breaks and chats in between or the more slow passionate kind with still the giggles and chat.

Only maybe once have I felt a guy came got what he wanted then left which I admit did make me feel kinda used if I'm honest.

I'd be raging at that. I'd have my cross bow out before he made it to the hotel room door!

lol yip fixed his hair in the mirror too

What a fud.

I'll hide in the cupboard next time until you say the word

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"99% of my meets go the way I like lol

Whether it's full on passion from start to finish with a few breaks and chats in between or the more slow passionate kind with still the giggles and chat.

Only maybe once have I felt a guy came got what he wanted then left which I admit did make me feel kinda used if I'm honest.

I'd be raging at that. I'd have my cross bow out before he made it to the hotel room door!

lol yip fixed his hair in the mirror too

What a fud.

I'll hide in the cupboard next time until you say the word

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lol oh there was no next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have a meet is it purely just full on sex or do you like a cuddle and a chat inbetween rounds?

Do you like a giggle throughout or is it serious play the whole time?

Is kissing a must or something just for your partner?.

Curious to know what others think?

Me personally I'm not fit enough for going at it 4hrs solid lol .need a wee breather inbetween for a better lol"

Well get yourself to the gym! Get fitter and when you can go for 4 hours get back to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you have a meet is it purely just full on sex or do you like a cuddle and a chat inbetween rounds?

Do you like a giggle throughout or is it serious play the whole time?

Is kissing a must or something just for your partner?.

Curious to know what others think?

Me personally I'm not fit enough for going at it 4hrs solid lol .need a wee breather inbetween for a better lol

Well get yourself to the gym! Get fitter and when you can go for 4 hours get back to me!

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nah...I'd rather eat cakes

But cheers for the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have a meet is it purely just full on sex or do you like a cuddle and a chat inbetween rounds?

Do you like a giggle throughout or is it serious play the whole time?

Is kissing a must or something just for your partner?.

Curious to know what others think?

Me personally I'm not fit enough for going at it 4hrs solid lol .need a wee breather inbetween for a better lol

Well get yourself to the gym! Get fitter and when you can go for 4 hours get back to me!

nah...I'd rather eat cakes

But cheers for the offer

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By *um4AllAndAll4CumMan
over a year ago

The Shire

To me it depends one the person the situation ect. I do like a nice kiss and lots of wandering hands and lips to get things going. A bit of fun and banter goes along way to getting relaxed and comfortable with someone and im not comfortable with someone nothing else is going to happen.

On saying that ive had regular playmates in the past where we've got to know each other and as a result everytime we got together was a diferent experiance sometimes casual chat, drink with fun imbetween. Sometimes we basically just got straight down to it and quite simply fucked in its most base definition.

So yeh, it all depends who, where, when and what both (or all) parties mood is at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think most agree kissing is a must tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a nice relaxed meet. Chatting, laughing, plenty of naked cuddling and kissing.. Hokey kokey in out, shake it all about and then put the telly on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think folk get a bit touchy when you say you have a wee cuddle inbetween sessions lol Its not all lovely dovey it's a natural thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think folk get a bit touchy when you say you have a wee cuddle inbetween sessions lol Its not all lovely dovey it's a natural thing?"

If you're going to be exchanging bodily fluids then a cuddle isn't too much to ask for.

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By *um4AllAndAll4CumMan
over a year ago

The Shire

"Think most agree kissing is a must tho?"

Absolutely even with a quicky you need a bit of a smooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely!!! It’s all part of the fun. Kissing for me is a huge part.

I wouldn’t arrange a meet with someone who was a fuck and go type person.

The same with when you arrange a meet, then they suddenly go quiet and then message you on the day..... there is zero chance I’m meeting xx

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Kissing is a big part of it for me, if they can't kiss then I'm not interested.

I like to have a laugh I couldn't be doing with banging away for two minutes all serious then done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kissing is a big part of it for me, if they can't kiss then I'm not interested.

I like to have a laugh I couldn't be doing with banging away for two minutes all serious then done. "
2 minutes? Ffs fem you do you meet??

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

The same with when you arrange a meet, then they suddenly go quiet and then message you on the day..... there is zero chance I’m meeting xx

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This is my pet hate too or if you have met then they go quiet continuity goes a long way as far as conversations go

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex x"
gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that before or after you put out your 15 candles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Is that before or after you put out your 15 candles?

Hahahahaha you know me so well

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved."

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved."
kinky fecker!!!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?"

I thought you were a simple man....with simple tastes?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?"

Nobody watches you participate or don’t come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always met for a social first and then make arrangements for fun, I much prefer to find a fwb and have a good afternoon and overnight although I have just fucked and left before as well depends on the mood and the guy lol

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Kissing is a big part of it for me, if they can't kiss then I'm not interested.

I like to have a laugh I couldn't be doing with banging away for two minutes all serious then done. 2 minutes? Ffs fem you do you meet??

Message me and I'll tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kissing is a big part of it for me, if they can't kiss then I'm not interested.

I like to have a laugh I couldn't be doing with banging away for two minutes all serious then done. 2 minutes? Ffs fem you do you meet??

Message me and I'll tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?

I thought you were a simple man....with simple tastes?

I am a simple man!! No need to mock!!' That's just nasty!

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over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?

Nobody watches you participate or don’t come

Woohoo! Quite the pun!!

I would be honnored to participate and will def cum!

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

We kiss and a cuddle between, we blether and a chuckle..enjoy the experience.

Fools rush in

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?

Nobody watches you participate or don’t come

Woohoo! Quite the pun!!

I would be honnored to participate and will def cum!

I’m sure you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?

Nobody watches you participate or don’t come

Woohoo! Quite the pun!!

I would be honnored to participate and will def cum!

I’m sure you will

Think I'm the one who's going to be watching through the shower door!

....wee nose pressed up against the glass.

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over a year ago

"Defo kissing or no meet! I like the banter don’t want full on serious sex it’s all about the fun. I’m not a cuddly person though so would not lie in someone’s arms after sex xgutted

I had her down as a wee cuddle monster too

no I’m a much more right I’m in the shower now kinda person

Surely the shower is just going at it again!

Slip hazzard I would need to carry out a risk assessment

Both sitting down....introduce the shower head to the party

...problem solved.

Come along and demonstrate what you mean I am a visual learner

Do you have turbo power on your shower head?

Emmm I have never checked

Only one way to find out

Hey I suggested shower fun? Surely I at least get to watch?

Nobody watches you participate or don’t come

Woohoo! Quite the pun!!

I would be honnored to participate and will def cum!

I’m sure you will

Think I'm the one who's going to be watching through the shower door!

....wee nose pressed up against the glass."

Aye that'd prob have something to do with this turbo power setting you referred to rather than watching

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Il just wait for the plumber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Il just wait for the plumber

You've been watching too much porn again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone's gotta

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