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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here is the scenario.....You arrange a meet ,possibly after sending a fair amount of messages (well single guys do lol) When another 'offer' pops into your in box. The 2nd offer is nearer to home,better looking and been on your 'hotlist'.

Do you politely refuse second offer ,explaining you have made plans. OR make your excuses to the first ?

Personally,i think i'd keep my word and go with the first arranged meeting but not had that dilemma (yet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had the scenario but if you made arrangements you should stick to them as you will only be called a time waister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to both if possible lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never had the scenario but if you made arrangements you should stick to them as you will only be called a time waister"

I concur, those plans have already been made where as the second offer can always be taken up at a later date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo go to first one!!!!!! You gotta keep your word!! But, try and get both parties together....now yer talking!!!!!

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By *umboarderMan
over a year ago

east lothian

Just give me a shout and I will sub for you in the one you least want to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most def go with the plans already made, no if , buts, or maybes about it.!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the plans already made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the others...go to the first but let me sub in for the other! Lol. Have fun

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By *ussman1Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Always keep your word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me personally...if id arranged a meet with the first...i would stick with that and then arrange another time for the second thats just me though xxx

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Well i spent time getting to know my first meet for over a month, even though i was constantly asked to meet others as well, but to me i was interested in getting to to know my first more, and so i always promised to meet my next meet once i met, in which i did...and to me it makes it much nicer that you have hopefully gained friendships in the process and then fulfil the promises of those you hope to meet next.

But then thats just me i dont like pushy folk as well and if you wish to meet then please have the patience as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always keep your word.

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By *auluk87Man
over a year ago

glasgow

honestly I think most guys would go for the most attractive one unless they had built up a good relationship through mailing each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would keep to my word and stick to the first one. at the end of the day you treat people how you want to be treated back, in real life and swinging life still the same

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Here is the scenario.....You arrange a meet ,possibly after sending a fair amount of messages (well single guys do lol) When another 'offer' pops into your in box. The 2nd offer is nearer to home,better looking and been on your 'hotlist'.

Do you politely refuse second offer ,explaining you have made plans. OR make your excuses to the first ?

Personally,i think i'd keep my word and go with the first arranged meeting but not had that dilemma (yet) "

jk rowling,could not have come up with this outlandish scenario.

well done.

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By *PerfectGentMan
over a year ago

Dumfries

The phrase one in the hand is worth two in the bush springs to mind.

Take the first offer, its probably more reliable, and you can still go back to the second couple and explain that you are seeing someone else.

This is a swinger site, no one expects you to be monogamous, but you are expected to keep your word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 offers to meet? Party?

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Keep to your word and enjoy the lovely lady who you confirmed with first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would keep the plans we made first xxx

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

always the first.

If dont then would feel lost my integrity and shouldnt be on here after that.

just how I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple treat others as you would like to be treated!

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Simple treat others as you would like to be treated! "

Very good point and something people often forget

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