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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone, I am here searching for help! I know this is not the sort of thing you would mention on a swinging site but I honestly deep down feel like I got a problem, i am just constantly horny and always want to get down to business or always looking for someone! I have had partners and my constant hard on seems to be a problem, what do I do? Would love some honest advice and answers! I am young guy, I am quite fit aswell, maybe it's just my hormones or something? Regardless, it is affecting me now because I want to be able to do things with my life and instead i just want to shag! If anyone has any solutions apart from finding someone with the same se dual appetite as myself, would be much appreciated

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sounds as if you have a sex addiction which is controlling your life. Best speak to a doctor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have that and I refuse to be medicalised for it. I'm lucky to be self employed, work has sex related research, and able to work from any location. Handy as I have an issue finding sexual equals here. I can also happily just see one person but still like a lot of sex with them....which is now my current position.

It's hard. I know.

Work on your skills when not fucking is my advice, and get to know the human body in greater depth. Aim to be a great lover!

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Hello everyone, I am here searching for help! I know this is not the sort of thing you would mention on a swinging site but I honestly deep down feel like I got a problem, i am just constantly horny and always want to get down to business or always looking for someone! I have had partners and my constant hard on seems to be a problem, what do I do? Would love some honest advice and answers! I am young guy, I am quite fit aswell, maybe it's just my hormones or something? Regardless, it is affecting me now because I want to be able to do things with my life and instead i just want to shag! If anyone has any solutions apart from finding someone with the same se dual appetite as myself, would be much appreciated "

Sounds like someone needs a girlfriend. I doubt very much you have a " constant" hard on. So get yourself a hobby, perhaps take up rugby. Trust me when i say , after a few tackles on a rugby field your hard on will soon be the last thing on your mind. But again trust me , after the game and going on a few rugby tours with team mates your hormones will have plenty of time to come into play with lots of young females. You dont need help you need to get a balance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does not really control my life but due to my job I always spend time away for long periods and it is frustrating at times! Just need to know what to do and preferably some advice on how to control it, the doctor is not really the solution I am looking for atm! Want to work on sorting it myself before seeking medical advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sort of in same position I guess, only difference is my work consists on spending long periods of time away from home, so a lot of the time I can be frustrated as I am not with my partner, but agreed! Work on my skills when not fucking, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a partner, just no commitment and obviously not always a hard on, but I think you get the point I was trying to get across! I do play rugby and tbh I have a job which keeps my mind off things, but still doesn't help much when I am not on the job or doing my hobbies! But agreed, balance seems like a better solution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a partner, just no commitment and obviously not always a hard on, but I think you get the point I was trying to get across! I do play rugby and tbh I have a job which keeps my mind off things, but still doesn't help much when I am not on the job or doing my hobbies! But agreed, balance seems like a better solution "

When my ex-girlfriend went through a period of no sex I ended up building a house. Haha. That's the extreme though! I've a silly amount of skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a partner, just no commitment and obviously not always a hard on, but I think you get the point I was trying to get across! I do play rugby and tbh I have a job which keeps my mind off things, but still doesn't help much when I am not on the job or doing my hobbies! But agreed, balance seems like a better solution

When my ex-girlfriend went through a period of no sex I ended up building a house. Haha. That's the extreme though! I've a silly amount of skills"

Amazing modesty too!

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I love sex I need a girlfriend too change my life it might help you as well I constantly think about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a partner, just no commitment and obviously not always a hard on, but I think you get the point I was trying to get across! I do play rugby and tbh I have a job which keeps my mind off things, but still doesn't help much when I am not on the job or doing my hobbies! But agreed, balance seems like a better solution "

Do you watch a lot of porn? If so cut back.

I avoid The Great British Bake Off when I'm on a diet. Same idea

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I have a partner, just no commitment and obviously not always a hard on, but I think you get the point I was trying to get across! I do play rugby and tbh I have a job which keeps my mind off things, but still doesn't help much when I am not on the job or doing my hobbies! But agreed, balance seems like a better solution

Do you watch a lot of porn? If so cut back.

I avoid The Great British Bake Off when I'm on a diet. Same idea "

Ahahahaha , i love this analogy. Comparing watching porn to the great british bake off.

Im the same when i dont have any holidays abroad booked, i binge watch air crash investigations, thinking , thank fuck ive no got a holiday booked.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

What about come dine with me naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a partner, just no commitment and obviously not always a hard on, but I think you get the point I was trying to get across! I do play rugby and tbh I have a job which keeps my mind off things, but still doesn't help much when I am not on the job or doing my hobbies! But agreed, balance seems like a better solution

Do you watch a lot of porn? If so cut back.

I avoid The Great British Bake Off when I'm on a diet. Same idea

Ahahahaha , i love this analogy. Comparing watching porn to the great british bake off.

Im the same when i dont have any holidays abroad booked, i binge watch air crash investigations, thinking , thank fuck ive no got a holiday booked. "

It's works both ways though....if I do happen to catch an episode and they're making a big Swiss roll then my mind wanders to Mr's package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a partner, just no commitment and obviously not always a hard on, but I think you get the point I was trying to get across! I do play rugby and tbh I have a job which keeps my mind off things, but still doesn't help much when I am not on the job or doing my hobbies! But agreed, balance seems like a better solution

When my ex-girlfriend went through a period of no sex I ended up building a house. Haha. That's the extreme though! I've a silly amount of skills

Amazing modesty too! "

Oh it's *you again!

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