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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
"Everything you just said!
It's amazing how touchy and pissed off people get when you tell them exactly why you've no interest in chatting to them!
Imagine having the cheek to be on here and not want to chat to some woman who's been round the block and expects you to shag her just as virtually every other guy she messaged did!  | |||
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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
"All of the above! I knew there was a reason I liked you other than your dry wit
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"I agree with everything that's been mentioned. Also if someone has loads of verifications from the same person I wouldn't go there. They obviously have something going on and I wouldn't want to get in the middle of it " I don't see the point in that. It's a verification, surely one is enough to verify that the person is real. If it was a logbook of meets or a sex diary it wouldn't come under the term verification and that would be different. Verify - to demonstrate that something is true, accurate or justified. I.e. One veri for the same person should suffice. | |||
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"I agree with everything that's been mentioned. Also if someone has loads of verifications from the same person I wouldn't go there. They obviously have something going on and I wouldn't want to get in the middle of it I don't see the point in that. It's a verification, surely one is enough to verify that the person is real. If it was a logbook of meets or a sex diary it wouldn't come under the term verification and that would be different. Verify - to demonstrate that something is true, accurate or justified. I.e. One veri for the same person should suffice. " For the purpose of proving people are real one veri is enough you're right... for a change
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"I agree with everything that's been mentioned. Also if someone has loads of verifications from the same person I wouldn't go there. They obviously have something going on and I wouldn't want to get in the middle of it I don't see the point in that. It's a verification, surely one is enough to verify that the person is real. If it was a logbook of meets or a sex diary it wouldn't come under the term verification and that would be different. Verify - to demonstrate that something is true, accurate or justified. I.e. One veri for the same person should suffice. For the purpose of proving people are real one veri is enough you're right... for a change
Each to their own and all that. It doesn't bother me, I just wouldn't want to get in the middle of it "Agreed in part but also it also shows someone’s reliable and potential to be regular, but if it looks like it’s super regular then it’s like someone’s staking their claim and wants everyone to know | |||
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"Also if someone has loads of verifications from the same person I wouldn't go there. They obviously have something going on and I wouldn't want to get in the middle of it " Partly disagree with this. People can have regular meets with someone without there being something going on. Although they don't need to verify every single time they meet | |||
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"Oh me oh my would you look at all the judgemental people here "Dude, it's a casual sex site. People can judge what's right for them and what's not and have an opinion on it! Or did I miss something in the rules? | |||
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"Also if someone has loads of verifications from the same person I wouldn't go there. They obviously have something going on and I wouldn't want to get in the middle of it Partly disagree with this. People can have regular meets with someone without there being something going on. Although they don't need to verify every single time they meet " agreed | |||
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"I agree with everything that's been mentioned. Also if someone has loads of verifications from the same person I wouldn't go there. They obviously have something going on and I wouldn't want to get in the middle of it I don't see the point in that. It's a verification, surely one is enough to verify that the person is real. If it was a logbook of meets or a sex diary it wouldn't come under the term verification and that would be different. Verify - to demonstrate that something is true, accurate or justified. I.e. One veri for the same person should suffice. For the purpose of proving people are real one veri is enough you're right... for a change
Each to their own and all that. It doesn't bother me, I just wouldn't want to get in the middle of it
Agreed in part but also it also shows someone’s reliable and potential to be regular, but if it looks like it’s super regular then it’s like someone’s staking their claim and wants everyone to know "Yes this is what I meant | |||
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Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
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"Oh me oh my would you look at all the judgemental people here
Dude, it's a casual sex site. People can judge what's right for them and what's not and have an opinion on it!
Or did I miss something in the rules? "nope im all for folk making judgements i just find it hilarious the folk making judgements who are often preaching nobody should judge anyone | |||
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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
"Yeah that's not my bag either, puts me off a profile but different strokes for diffenrt folks. As a side issue, how many verifications start along the lines of "Well what can I say about this person......" I just read that and think to myself, Jesus Christ say something origional or have you no mind of your own. I know I'm judgemental, i don't care, people can judge me too for all I care! | |||
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"I dont show mine but still get judged lol Id never not meet someone because they had met others id rather meet people and make up my own mind about them . Its like people who badmouth others then you find x has blocked you because y had said something to them to put them off meeting you which I guess says more about them than you
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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
"I agree with most of what you have said, and you said it so eloquently...but I am gonna add that I also won't meet anyone who has a verification from a certain "club"...And I dont really give a flying F about the abuse I get because of that. | |||
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"I dont show mine but still get judged lol Id never not meet someone because they had met others id rather meet people and make up my own mind about them . Its like people who badmouth others then you find x has blocked you because y had said something to them to put them off meeting you which I guess says more about them than you
" one thing to say that there are individuals who you don’t get along with but another when you start slagging folk off, I always say good or bad how I feel about someone make your own mind up, I get along with folk my friends don’t like and they get along with folk I don’t like but that’s what makes us different, the bigger person is the one who can still smile, be polite and act like an adult in company of people they don’t like to avoid making other people uncomfortable, it’s easy to act appropriately while still ignoring someone. My pet peeve is people who try to make others choose | |||
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"I dont show mine but still get judged lol Id never not meet someone because they had met others id rather meet people and make up my own mind about them . Its like people who badmouth others then you find x has blocked you because y had said something to them to put them off meeting you which I guess says more about them than you
one thing to say that there are individuals who you don’t get along with but another when you start slagging folk off, I always say good or bad how I feel about someone make your own mind up, I get along with folk my friends don’t like and they get along with folk I don’t like but that’s what makes us different, the bigger person is the one who can still smile, be polite and act like an adult in company of people they don’t like to avoid making other people uncomfortable, it’s easy to act appropriately while still ignoring someone. My pet peeve is people who try to make others choose "This & Ive had it done to me several time where people have been told to block me some have some havent thankfully | |||
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""oh, I won't meet someone if they've met so an so on here,cos he or she is a right..., or if they've too many veris" Honestly, far too many school weans on here. " | |||
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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
"Verifications don't really put me off. Everybody has the potential to be an utter fud despite glowing verifications suggesting otherwise. Status updates do though. Constant ranty ones which suggest the person is a moany cunt who I will most likely want to stiletto between the eyes if I ever met them. Or folk who are constantly looking for a meet and always have a hotel room booked somewhere. Just makes me think they're desperate and would shag the crack of dawn if it had hair on it. | |||
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
Verifications don't really put me off. Everybody has the potential to be an utter fud despite glowing verifications suggesting otherwise.
Status updates do though. Constant ranty ones which suggest the person is a moany cunt who I will most likely want to stiletto between the eyes if I ever met them. Or folk who are constantly looking for a meet and always have a hotel room booked somewhere. Just makes me think they're desperate and would shag the crack of dawn if it had hair on it."Whats wrong with Dawns crack...she might be a lovely lady.  | |||
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
"The threatening others veri’s are weird, agreed. Who am I kidding though wouldn’t phase me. | |||
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
Yeah territorial veris are a turn off for me. "Me too, been caught up in the backlash after meeting someone who had lots of Veri’s from one person (didn’t see them till much later) and it wasn’t nice got threatened and then when I did meet them they turned up! Nae pleasant at all | |||
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
Yeah territorial veris are a turn off for me.
Me too, been caught up in the backlash after meeting someone who had lots of Veri’s from one person (didn’t see them till much later) and it wasn’t nice got threatened and then when I did meet them they turned up! Nae pleasant at all "Appalling behaviour!! I think the women on here are worse than the guys and sure they've got about 15-20 to pick from for every one of them! Noticed a few jealous snidey status posts to a similar effect on my updates recently. | |||
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
Yeah territorial veris are a turn off for me.
Me too, been caught up in the backlash after meeting someone who had lots of Veri’s from one person (didn’t see them till much later) and it wasn’t nice got threatened and then when I did meet them they turned up! Nae pleasant at all
Appalling behaviour!!
I think the women on here are worse than the guys and sure they've got about 15-20 to pick from for every one of them!
Noticed a few jealous snidey status posts to a similar effect on my updates recently. "I totally agree with you | |||
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
Yeah territorial veris are a turn off for me.
Me too, been caught up in the backlash after meeting someone who had lots of Veri’s from one person (didn’t see them till much later) and it wasn’t nice got threatened and then when I did meet them they turned up! Nae pleasant at all "thats shocking!! Can folk not realise it's a sex site and folk have the right to meet whoever they choose? | |||
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"Or if they say stay away he/She's mine!!
Loads of stuff put me off the whole 'owned'stuff I don't get as in you need to message A To meet B as they decide who i meet.
Yeah territorial veris are a turn off for me.
Me too, been caught up in the backlash after meeting someone who had lots of Veri’s from one person (didn’t see them till much later) and it wasn’t nice got threatened and then when I did meet them they turned up! Nae pleasant at all
Appalling behaviour!!
I think the women on here are worse than the guys and sure they've got about 15-20 to pick from for every one of them!
Noticed a few jealous snidey status posts to a similar effect on my updates recently. "If I spotted them it’s an instant no ta lol | |||
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"I should maybe clarify. when I say I'll avoid someone due to who they may have met on occasion… its not in anyway because someone has told me their to be avoided. I make my own mind up about people, if im avoiding someone because they have met a 3rd party, its because |I know from my own dealings that the 3rd party is a toxic piece of shite and It's not a circle I wish to be part of... no drama, bitching or feelings of superiority, just CHOICE." Nah, I get that. Folks mates and the circles they mix in are often (but not always) a reflection of who they are. Never thought of you as being easily led or influenced | |||
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"I should maybe clarify. when I say I'll avoid someone due to who they may have met on occasion… its not in anyway because someone has told me their to be avoided. I make my own mind up about people, if im avoiding someone because they have met a 3rd party, its because |I know from my own dealings that the 3rd party is a toxic piece of shite and It's not a circle I wish to be part of... no drama, bitching or feelings of superiority, just CHOICE. Nah, I get that. Folks mates and the circles they mix in are often (but not always) a reflection of who they are. Never thought of you as being easily led or influenced "indeed x | |||
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"I dont show mine but still get judged lol Id never not meet someone because they had met others id rather meet people and make up my own mind about them . Its like people who badmouth others then you find x has blocked you because y had said something to them to put them off meeting you which I guess says more about them than you
Exactly. Too many shit stirers on here who should mind their own business"Yep, my bf was warned off me when we first met, was told a complete lot of shite by someone I’ve never met or spoken to. I honestly don’t know if it’s a mistaken identity thing or she’s just weird | |||
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"So does anyones veri trail put you off for whatever reason? It does Me at times, and for numerous reasons including having met... Barebackers. People you cant stand. People you know are poison so im unwilling to enter that circle and all the drama that goes with it. Absolute mingers, which lets you see this person will literally fuck anything with a pulse and possibly without. Nothing but cam veris and none by meet, makes me think their even less likely to meet anyone. Another one that has me scratching my head is the person who contacts you, seems ok but the veri trail shows a string of veris not far apart but the members who left them are all on hidden profiles... i wonder... 1, are they fake profiles created just to boost veris? 2, is this cunt a total fruitloop who has driven these people to hide their profiles,
"It’s really hard as a single guy to get veris for meets. Surely at least a cam veri proves that they’re human? Though there are some that have verifications in the hundreds, which is daunting. | |||
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" Dude, it's a casual sex site. ) At last he realises "And you left you the rest of that paragraph! | |||
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"I agree with everything that's been mentioned. Also if someone has loads of verifications from the same person I wouldn't go there. They obviously have something going on and I wouldn't want to get in the middle of it " Agree totally. Im never too sure of people who i know are very busy bees on here and hide all veri's either.And yes i know the "its my profile i can do what i want with it" thing,im just saying it trips me up generally. | |||
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" Dude, it's a casual sex site. ) At last he realises
And you left you the rest of that paragraph! "Yes as it was only that part that made me think hallelujah - at least he won’t be too disappointed now when he can’t find his elusive virgin but horny unicorn | |||
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"Oh me oh my would you look at all the judgemental people here "We all judge others to some extent. It’s human nature. | |||
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" Dude, it's a casual sex site. ) At last he realises
And you left you the rest of that paragraph!
Yes as it was only that part that made me think hallelujah - at least he won’t be too disappointed now when he can’t find his elusive virgin but horny unicorn
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Have you read the rest of this forum about inappropriate behaviour?
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"Definitely! I cross reference, scrutinise profiles & add notes frequently. R "This is us if someone get an odd veri or a veri from the bareback crew straight into the notes section  | |||
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"Yes. Often I see them from more attractive women I am instantly telling myself they wouldn't want me . Sometimes I follow the trail. "
I am quite self conscious about my lumps, bumps etc so I look at who they have met previously and if they tend to go with slim people I feel they wouldn’t be interested in me.
I bet people see your veri on someone’s profile and think the same as you as we all put ourselves down more than we should x
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