FabSwingers.com forum: How long?

By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

How long did it take you to receive your first verification on Fab or are you still waiting patiently to get a verification?

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

About 2 weeks I think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 2 weeks I think?

That long.. Did you make it one day and not log on for a week.

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr

Still waiting

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

24...maybe 48 hours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for my first meet!!

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I actually got 6 veris the day i joined as knew folk on here from the swingers clubs i had been to.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Cunty Durham

Within the 1st week. A couple of people i had met already elsewhere veri'd Me

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"About 2 weeks I think?

That long.. Did you make it one day and not log on for a week.

Haha! As a single girl it is very overwhelming when you first join the sheer amount of messages! I ended up picking a damp squid to have my first social with so have never actually shown it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months first time I joined a week this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 2 weeks I think?

That long.. Did you make it one day and not log on for a week.

Haha! As a single girl it is very overwhelming when you first join the sheer amount of messages! I ended up picking a damp squid to have my first social with so have never actually shown it....

Why did you pick a damp squid. Were you that desperate to meet someone?

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"About 2 weeks I think?

That long.. Did you make it one day and not log on for a week.

Haha! As a single girl it is very overwhelming when you first join the sheer amount of messages! I ended up picking a damp squid to have my first social with so have never actually shown it....

Why did you pick a damp squid. Were you that desperate to meet someone?"

Miaow! No I wasn’t actually just a poor choice!

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

My first meet on Fab stood me up. I told my friend i thought i was maybe too old for Fab and should close my account. So glad i did'nt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 2 weeks I think?

That long.. Did you make it one day and not log on for a week.

Haha! As a single girl it is very overwhelming when you first join the sheer amount of messages! I ended up picking a damp squid to have my first social with so have never actually shown it....

Why did you pick a damp squid. Were you that desperate to meet someone?

Miaow! No I wasn’t actually just a poor choice!"

I suppose you never know what someone wil be like until you meet them. That's why socials are a good idea. I think it took me about two months to get my first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting this time as my couple of meets are not verified either, been on before and was verified within a week and had a few verifications but no old friends on here now.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I followed the time honoured advice of the forum and got myself along to a social fairly early on. It's the best way to get verified and known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first meet on Fab stood me up. I told my friend i thought i was maybe too old for Fab and should close my account. So glad i did'nt."

You are not to old looking at your pics. If you feel healthy and still enjoy sex stay on .

Going by the lack of meets this time around I think others have decided that I am too old lol, not leaving though as I enjoy the banter and stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ages!!!

Me n the hubby took our time selecting our 1st meet so not to rush into things

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By *esssDanMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Was lucky, I guess, and got my first meet offer pretty quick after joining. Bit of a wait for the second, and patiently awaiting more

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

About a month or so. Maybe 2 months? They've left the site now so hard to work out.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 months I think. It was worth the wait tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Round bout 2 months.. Amazing guy was worth sticking with it till time was right

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

4 months from a group social

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

We were lucky on my couples profile we found a lovely couple and met up within 2 weeks. Met with them for a good while.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Two months. I skulked about a bit before arranging anything. I got 2 veris on my first meet.

One of the guys is still on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year but I am here for the banter so was a social meet

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

My first time on fab last year I got a very the first night.

I had arranged to meet a guy from pof and he told me to have a look on fab so I did. That evening he let me down at the last minute and when I mentioned to a guy on fab I was chatting to that I had been let down we ended up meeting for a drink since I was already to go out!

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

"How long did it take you to receive your first verification on Fab or are you still waiting patiently to get a verification?"
it took a full day after the meet but to be fair it must have taken you a while to get your breath back Bluebell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very naive at the start and I set up my profile and had a nosey then left it for months so it must have been about 3-4 months before I plucked up the courage to give it another bash.

The first guy I met was lovely but nothing like his pics.

I’m older and wiser now.

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

My very first profile 8 years ago it was about 3 months before I met anyone.

Initially joined because I found fab on my husband's search history so I was on to see what it was about.

He mailed me face pic the lot I had the pleasure of telling him he wasn't my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well over a year. Didnt care if there was a verification or not... still don't..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined it was a fwb who told me about the site and verified me that night

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

"How long did it take you to receive your first verification on Fab or are you still waiting patiently to get a verification?"

Still waiting for one from you

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By *azzle99Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Verified within a week. Then 2 days later got exactly what I joined for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my first meet about 2 weeks after I joined and have met four really nice ladies since an chatted with others. First verification came from my second meet. All been positive.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Not a veri hunter so it was a couple of months b4 my first. Only about a tenth of the Fabbers i know have actually verified me, dont know if thats a good thing or a bad thing .

If you know me and not yer veried me, just stick down "stud" , no need for details as i cant be ersed reading it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember exactly but it took a while,partly because I was a bit scared to start with

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I can't remember exactly but it took a while,partly because I was a bit scared to start with"

Scared of what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took us a few months went to one of miss dynamites drinks nights met lots of lovely ppl got verified off a few

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By *ad bod000Man
over a year ago

Evanton

3 days a meet for a couple of drinks & off for some fun

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Kintore

Still pondering lol

I am confident but a tad shy tbh.

Que sera sera

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Kintore

"How long did it take you to receive your first verification on Fab or are you still waiting patiently to get a verification?"

Would you like to pop my veri cherry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't remember exactly but it took a while,partly because I was a bit scared to start with

Scared of what?"

Maybe scared was the wrong word but I was really nervous.

I still get a bit nervous now but treat the nerves the same way I do as when going to run in a race,if I wasn't nervous it would be like I wasn't really interested in what I was doing so would be no point going through with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was as long as I chose it to be.

I genuinely struggle to understand why people complain that they have been on forever and can't get a meet or a verification.

On this site there is something and someone for everyone but not everyone is looking for the same things.

If some is struggling for either of the above they need to take a look at themselves or adjust their expectations accordingly.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

About 3 months, got a veri from a dogging night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting but I'm not that concerned or in a rush for such things.

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By *H91Man
over a year ago

Ruislip

Think it was about 4 months

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

A veri?

Mythical thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than a month

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
over a year ago

IRVINE

took about two weeks

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Not long at all maybe just a day or two I had met CJ through another site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first day I joined. But I knew what I saw joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long did it take you to receive your first verification on Fab or are you still waiting patiently to get a verification?"

Still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good few months! She was worth the wait, lovely lady. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i was a came back and met an old friend it was pretty quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to be ages bybthe looks, but only because im a bit more fussy about who ill meet. Ill meet anybody for a drink but if im not attracted and cant see sex happening, no point in a social meet really.. So it makes you look unfairly unsociable or a time waster which isn't the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting. Everyone I message either doesn’t reply, gives shit replies or says “you’re not verified, I’m not talking to you”. Someone give me a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month.

Hard to build, find, trust on this place - which given some of the chats and hearing some of the stories..I can see why.

Patience and luck..

Now have a regular thing with my only veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it was after a week ...So long ago now ..it was a webcam veri my first meet was a week after that ...with somone who didn't even look at my Profile just went for it as soon as we got to the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No verifications yet. First one will definately be by video call

Not ready for meet yet haha #shitebag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First night I went on the webcam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No verifications yet. First one will definately be by video call

Not ready for meet yet haha #shitebag"

*offers extra soft andrex*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a nightmare.. I was thinking of giving up and just deleting the app, but I reckon maybe a clubs the way to go

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By *uyforyouMan
over a year ago

irvine

Few months, but finally I have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Over a year but then I did make the account up when me and hubby first chatted about it then forgot all about it, until I got an email.

Went back on and went to social got verified not long after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think two weeks? I’m onto my 5th account in two months. We shall see how long I last, until I get struck down again

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