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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I find that its men mostly who describe themselves as attractive/handsome

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I find that its men mostly who describe themselves as attractive/handsome"

I’m handsome

You’re attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are looks not subjective I am just wondering how I know if I can message them

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I think it's far too subjective to say.

V x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I find that its men mostly who describe themselves as attractive/handsome

I’m handsome

You’re attractive "

I would never describe myself as attractive in my profile. Thats for others to desribe when they see a face pic

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

The ones that say they are picky and you know they've been with horrors, makes you wonder who they will shag when they aren't being picky

John

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"Are looks not subjective I am just wondering how I know if I can message them "

Read the profile fully, twice , if you fit the criteria , then message as it says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple if it's only been your mother that has told you you're handsome then you know you're the hideous creature from the swamp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't say that.

But what I do say is there must be An attraction.

There's a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple if it's only been your mother that has told you you're handsome then you know you're the hideous creature from the swamp."

Feck even my mum hasn't said it

That explains alot

I best go get some brown paper bags and a mask for my heid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly "

Describe yourself as an ugly bassa and then they'll be pleasantly surprised.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would avoid the profiles that say you must be attractive, for some strange reason I'm never attracted to them, funny that eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones that say they are picky and you know they've been with horrors, makes you wonder who they will shag when they aren't being picky

John "

Hahahahaha

I find this hilarious

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown


"I find that its men mostly who describe themselves as attractive/handsome"

I wouldn't say I was attractive just a straight down the line kind of guy what you seek is what you get lol a picture can make you gauge there personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often chat away and when get to face swap pic time the message comes back, sorry not my/our type, so always a bit of a worry sending one, but last few times got positive feedback, just goes to show that everyone has their own type of person they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Describe yourself as an ugly bassa and then they'll be pleasantly surprised."

I tell them that and when they see me they agree... What's your advice then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. "

Or beerholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a male friend on here who has a play mate. They wanted a threesome. She is super attractive. We met for coffee. I was not her type.

A couple of weeks later - i reciprocated.

Introduced my male friend to one of my fab friends. He wasnt her type.

We aren’t androids. Some times something just triggers the chemicals in us.

Sometimes positive. Sometimes negative.

Be confident, well mannered and inquisitive. That is the best chance of doing yourself justice.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"The ones that say they are picky and you know they've been with horrors, makes you wonder who they will shag when they aren't being picky

John "

Thats so true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly "

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8"

To some I'm a 2 and others I'm an 8... I think I'm somewhere in between and don't worry too much about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8"

I am a - 8

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By *um4AllAndAll4CumMan
over a year ago

The Shire

Persinally as soon as I see any mention of "Must be attractive" or describing themselves as attractive I tend to switch of as it tells me alot about their personality which is more important to me than looks (personally I find various body types, styles etc. attractive. Ive never had a type)

What not to get confused with is those that state that there must be a mutual attraction now thats given and the only way you'll know is checking a profile to see what they are looking for and iv you seem to fit then take your chance

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

It's in the eye of the beholder ,one persons idea of attractive will also be one persons idea of not attractive,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8"

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I purposely tell people I'm a fugly

This means they are either pleasantly surprised or well prepared

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness."

They know deep down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness.

They know deep down "

Ugly bastard and proud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness.

They know deep down

Ugly bastard and proud! "

But seriously.... I remember watching a documentary a while ago and people were asked to rate their appearance and attractiveness. Then a load of strangers, after having met them, were asked to pick a photo which most resembled them. The pics had been altered, some to accentuate nose size, or eyes, features which are traditionally held to be more or less attractive.

In every instance the stranger rated the person as being more attractive than they thought they were themselves......so I guess some folk on here are fucked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness.

They know deep down

Ugly bastard and proud!

But seriously.... I remember watching a documentary a while ago and people were asked to rate their appearance and attractiveness. Then a load of strangers, after having met them, were asked to pick a photo which most resembled them. The pics had been altered, some to accentuate nose size, or eyes, features which are traditionally held to be more or less attractive.

In every instance the stranger rated the person as being more attractive than they thought they were themselves......so I guess some folk on here are fucked! "

At least I've got my health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness.

They know deep down

Ugly bastard and proud!

But seriously.... I remember watching a documentary a while ago and people were asked to rate their appearance and attractiveness. Then a load of strangers, after having met them, were asked to pick a photo which most resembled them. The pics had been altered, some to accentuate nose size, or eyes, features which are traditionally held to be more or less attractive.

In every instance the stranger rated the person as being more attractive than they thought they were themselves......so I guess some folk on here are fucked!

At least I've got my health "

Put that on your profile then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness.

They know deep down

Ugly bastard and proud!

But seriously.... I remember watching a documentary a while ago and people were asked to rate their appearance and attractiveness. Then a load of strangers, after having met them, were asked to pick a photo which most resembled them. The pics had been altered, some to accentuate nose size, or eyes, features which are traditionally held to be more or less attractive.

In every instance the stranger rated the person as being more attractive than they thought they were themselves......so I guess some folk on here are fucked!

At least I've got my health

Put that on your profile then "

Going to. am that ugly I played face friday and got blocked the poor lass is on the phone to the Samaritans the now

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

You think? I think people tend to under appreciate or over appreciate their attractiveness.

They know deep down

Ugly bastard and proud!

But seriously.... I remember watching a documentary a while ago and people were asked to rate their appearance and attractiveness. Then a load of strangers, after having met them, were asked to pick a photo which most resembled them. The pics had been altered, some to accentuate nose size, or eyes, features which are traditionally held to be more or less attractive.

In every instance the stranger rated the person as being more attractive than they thought they were themselves......so I guess some folk on here are fucked!

At least I've got my health

Put that on your profile then

Going to. am that ugly I played face friday and got blocked the poor lass is on the phone to the Samaritans the now "

Haha same send a face pic and I’m blocked, works everytime.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"It's simple if it's only been your mother that has told you you're handsome then you know you're the hideous creature from the swamp."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8"

I'd agree with this.

In between can be subjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

I'd agree with this.

In between can be subjective "

It's all subjective..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

I'd agree with this.

In between can be subjective

It's all subjective.. "

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It's less subjective if you're a 2 or an 8!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you are delusional, you know where you are on the scale plus or minus 1 point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

I'd agree with this.

In between can be subjective

It's all subjective.. .

It's less subjective if you're a 2 or an 8! "

Auch td.. Don't be so hard on yourself.. I'm sure you're not a two.. Maybe four or five. But then that's kinda subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly "

I've sent chats previous to and got simply read and deleted I have waited a week or so then sent exact same chat to same person but added a body picture (worked out a lot then, not now don't give a shit now lol) and got into arrange meets ect ect.

Point is I'm me body is only a outward part of me they never got a face picture so I don't see what changed from being deleted to getting into arranging meets I could still look like I've hit every branch on the ugly tree as I was falling lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

I'd agree with this.

In between can be subjective

It's all subjective.. .

It's less subjective if you're a 2 or an 8!

Auch td.. Don't be so hard on yourself.. I'm sure you're not a two.. Maybe four or five. But then that's kinda subjective. "

Solid 8 big guy. Pushing 9, but then that's the subjective bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

I've sent chats previous to and got simply read and deleted I have waited a week or so then sent exact same chat to same person but added a body picture (worked out a lot then, not now don't give a shit now lol) and got into arrange meets ect ect.

Point is I'm me body is only a outward part of me they never got a face picture so I don't see what changed from being deleted to getting into arranging meets I could still look like I've hit every branch on the ugly tree as I was falling lol

"

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It's fickle, it's a sex site, people are entitled to like what they like and want what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Persinally as soon as I see any mention of "Must be attractive" or describing themselves as attractive I tend to switch of as it tells me alot about their personality which is more important to me than looks (personally I find various body types, styles etc. attractive. Ive never had a type)

What not to get confused with is those that state that there must be a mutual attraction now thats given and the only way you'll know is checking a profile to see what they are looking for and iv you seem to fit then take your chance "

Same I’ve met dated guys who are gorgeous and fit and then they go open their mouths and spout crap about looks and worse they’re sitting commenting on folk in restaurant or passing by and I’m like instantly turned off sorry shallow types and me don’t mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

I'd agree with this.

In between can be subjective

It's all subjective.. .

It's less subjective if you're a 2 or an 8!

Auch td.. Don't be so hard on yourself.. I'm sure you're not a two.. Maybe four or five. But then that's kinda subjective.

Solid 8 big guy. Pushing 9, but then that's the subjective bit! "

Have you got one of those funny mirrors in your flat that they have at the circus and fairgrounds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been doing some browsing(perving) of some profiles and see must be attractive but how do you know if you are? I mean I think am fugly but some people find me attractive (I did say some fabfem before you comment ) so do you just send a message and if it's deleted you know you were right and your fugly

Most people know if they are a 2 or an 8

I'd agree with this.

In between can be subjective

It's all subjective.. .

It's less subjective if you're a 2 or an 8!

Auch td.. Don't be so hard on yourself.. I'm sure you're not a two.. Maybe four or five. But then that's kinda subjective.

Solid 8 big guy. Pushing 9, but then that's the subjective bit! "

Sounds like number two to me.

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