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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

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By *implyfun1Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I wish I had listened and stuck in a bit more at school but I left school as soon as I could cause I knew better.......... clearly don’t think that now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God so many things

Kept a gf longer than I did lol

Had kid or kids

Learned to play an instrument

Not put on so much weight

Kept smiley outlook on life instead of making lists like these

Then again prob wish I hasn't made this list

I'm away to cry in the corner lol

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I wish I had been strong when I called off my engagement as I knew I shouldn’t have married my ex but I have 3 kids I adore so there is always a plus side

I wish I didn’t love dairy milk so much but or relieves my stress so it’s got a lid side too

Wish I had went to college instead of working but I am now in a job I love and qualify this year!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"God so many things

Kept a gf longer than I did lol

Had kid or kids

Learned to play an instrument

Not put on so much weight

Kept smiley outlook on life instead of making lists like these

Then again prob wish I hasn't made this list

I'm away to cry in the corner lol

"

If you had kids you maybe wouldn’t be as great an uncle as you are as you wouldn’t have the same time

If you kept your girlfriend longer you would have been miserable as you probably weren’t right for each other

You wouldn’t be as cuddly without the weight

Your photos suggest you do have a smiley attitude you are just destressing by doing this list so now you have you can go forget about the negatives and have a good day!!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I wish I had listened and stuck in a bit more at school but I left school as soon as I could cause I knew better.......... clearly don’t think that now lol "

I’m sure it was fun at the time and nothing to stop you learning something now

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?"

You still could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I had listened and stuck in a bit more at school but I left school as soon as I could cause I knew better.......... clearly don’t think that now lol "

I am the exact same by the way!

A big dream of mine when I was wee was to become a fighter pilot! Never stuck so didn’t have a chance.

Things happen for a reason though I suppose! I probably wouldn’t have been able to study and play football in America if I had joined the RAF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You still could "

Thought about it....maybe when the kids are a bit older...And once Mr moves out He already has PTSD from the amount of plates I drop and smash....don't think he could handle the drums too!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You still could

Thought about it....maybe when the kids are a bit older...And once Mr moves out He already has PTSD from the amount of plates I drop and smash....don't think he could handle the drums too!"

Damn kids always get in the way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took better care of my body as a teenager hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?"

I have never met you Doggy, but that all makes perfect sense. Unfortunately or possibly fortunately in my mind you look like animal from the Muppets!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

I have never met you Doggy, but that all makes perfect sense. Unfortunately or possibly fortunately in my mind you look like animal from the Muppets! "

He had crackin' hair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God so many things

Kept a gf longer than I did lol

Had kid or kids

Learned to play an instrument

Not put on so much weight

Kept smiley outlook on life instead of making lists like these

Then again prob wish I hasn't made this list

I'm away to cry in the corner lol

If you had kids you maybe wouldn’t be as great an uncle as you are as you wouldn’t have the same time

If you kept your girlfriend longer you would have been miserable as you probably weren’t right for each other

You wouldn’t be as cuddly without the weight

Your photos suggest you do have a smiley attitude you are just destressing by doing this list so now you have you can go forget about the negatives and have a good day!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You still could "

Yip you still could! Go on do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

I have never met you Doggy, but that all makes perfect sense. Unfortunately or possibly fortunately in my mind you look like animal from the Muppets!

He had crackin' hair!"

When your bald like me, all hair is cracking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You still could

Yip you still could! Go on do it! "

I'll invite you all to my first gig!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took more chances and not been so sensible all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You still could

Yip you still could! Go on do it!

I'll invite you all to my first gig!"

Will you be dressed like animal?

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?"

I've got a moothie, Doggy, fancy starting a band?

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You still could

Yip you still could! Go on do it!

I'll invite you all to my first gig!"

I’m up for that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had stood up to the bully when I was twelve.. I wouldn't have had a fourty five minute walk to the shops so I didn't get beaten up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i remembered that doughnut yesterday before having to throw it out not 5 mins ago...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I’d taken that job in the US....

Or stayed longer in Oz

Wish I’d explored more with that girlfriend who was wild and free and full of naughtiness

Addressed marriage issues sooner....

Had more kids (although my boy is my world)

Spent a little more time on my fab profile and initial messages ha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

I've got a moothie, Doggy, fancy starting a band? "

Mon then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had respected the boundaries and I wouldn't have gotten stuck on the rollercoaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I had respected the boundaries and I wouldn't have gotten stuck on the rollercoaster"

Life has its ups and downs....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I wish I had stood up to the bully when I was twelve.. I wouldn't have had a fourty five minute walk to the shops so I didn't get beaten up."

Poor soul. That sounds awful.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had been true to myself and referred to gender clinic years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?"

I’m still doing things now I always wanted to, currently getting my bike licence, changed my career at 26 whilst being a single mum, learned to ski on my own at 32 and often still got the slopes myself, learned to fly at 37, you’re never too old to try something new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

I’m still doing things now I always wanted to, currently getting my bike licence, changed my career at 26 whilst being a single mum, learned to ski on my own at 32 and often still got the slopes myself, learned to fly at 37, you’re never too old to try something new "

100% this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

I’m still doing things now I always wanted to, currently getting my bike licence, changed my career at 26 whilst being a single mum, learned to ski on my own at 32 and often still got the slopes myself, learned to fly at 37, you’re never too old to try something new "

Guess who's handing in her notice tomorrow

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I like where I am and life is good I might have taken the time to travel more before kids maybe... Taken a job up north... Stayed at school for 6th year and done medicine instead... But then everything would be different and I wouldn't want that.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I hadn’t been such a horrible person in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son is going to Australia for a year next year and it's made me realise I wish I had went to either Australia or New Zealand in my late teens early 20s

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Wish I had listened to my running coaches.

I coulda been a contender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

I’m still doing things now I always wanted to, currently getting my bike licence, changed my career at 26 whilst being a single mum, learned to ski on my own at 32 and often still got the slopes myself, learned to fly at 37, you’re never too old to try something new "

Fantastic!! Full of admiration. Never done things conventionally or taken well trodden the paths others take myself. Never be afraid to break the mould.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I wish Id giving my wife the gift of 3sum as a wedding present lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like where I am and life is good I might have taken the time to travel more before kids maybe... Taken a job up north... Stayed at school for 6th year and done medicine instead... But then everything would be different and I wouldn't want that.

V x"

The butterfly effect!

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?"

Omg this could have been written by me! The same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

Omg this could have been written by me! The same "

Honest? Fancy doing a double act for Britain's Got Talent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?"

You can get Air drums. It's a virtual drum kit with the glasses and ear phones. I don't have it but I know someone who does and they love it. To be fair he looks like he's having a fit when he's playing it......ssssoooo funny. You should look into it though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You can get Air drums. It's a virtual drum kit with the glasses and ear phones. I don't have it but I know someone who does and they love it. To be fair he looks like he's having a fit when he's playing it......ssssoooo funny. You should look into it though. "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

You can get Air drums. It's a virtual drum kit with the glasses and ear phones. I don't have it but I know someone who does and they love it. To be fair he looks like he's having a fit when he's playing it......ssssoooo funny. You should look into it though.

Cheers

"

Fuck, I think we would all chip in to buy that if we could all watch!

Start a go find me page!

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Doggy, I would implore you to copy and paste this link and give it a watch.

This boy has made it! So the world is your oyster!

https://youtu.be/KRoiqgz-08M

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've got a yellow hard hat....all I need is the steel bins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a yellow hard hat....all I need is the steel bins."

Why do you have a yellow hard hat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got a yellow hard hat....all I need is the steel bins.

Why do you have a yellow hard hat?"

Cause the shop was out of red ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a yellow hard hat....all I need is the steel bins.

Why do you have a yellow hard hat?

Cause the shop was out of red ones."

Aye, very good!

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

Omg this could have been written by me! The same

Honest? Fancy doing a double act for Britain's Got Talent? "

Two Animals? I’m not giving up the role

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but didn't?

Me, I always wished I had learned to play the drums. I have a good sense of rhythm, am a noisy wee bastard and Animal was always my favourite character on The Muppets.

What about you?

Omg this could have been written by me! The same

Honest? Fancy doing a double act for Britain's Got Talent?

Two Animals? I’m not giving up the role "

Who would you have as Gonzo with the big....... Nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a yellow hard hat....all I need is the steel bins.

Why do you have a yellow hard hat?

Cause the shop was out of red ones.

Aye, very good! "

I’ve got a pink one and pink steelies

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not sure I’d change anything. If I changed anything I wouldn’t have met the people I have as friends from Fab and had the great experiences.

In a parallel universe I’m living the dream.

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Stuck in at midwifery had a wee angel born asleep & couldn't cope with the studies.

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath

Married the first 2 guys that asked me (I would have been rich) young proud and stupid back then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not listen to someone's bullshit which cost me the best relationship I ever had so they could use me for their own gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i had the support network to let me go to Art school had to make do with art as a hobby instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish that I had cared less about others opinions of me.

Had less adventurous dalliances as a teen. (It’s sort of spoiled my idea of relationships. It also leaves little left to explore.)

Studied theology.

Stuck in at learning instruments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

I dont believe in these types of posts. Regrets and wishing you had done something or not done something. I believe in the ripple effect and especially when it comes to people with kids. You change any part of your past and possibly you or your kids might not be here.

Lets take Doggys example of learning the drums, simple wish she had done item, lets say she did learn the drums and joined a band playing in nightclubs, now she may never have met Mr Doggy, whole knew timeline. Or maybe driving home from a gig , d*unk driver takes her car out and shes left paralysed, whole new timeline. The ripple effect is very real thats why i would not change my past or have regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a yellow hard hat....all I need is the steel bins.

Why do you have a yellow hard hat?

Cause the shop was out of red ones.

Aye, very good!

I’ve got a pink one and pink steelies "

I'm boring white hat and black boots. Although I do look stunning in orange hi-viz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont believe in these types of posts. Regrets and wishing you had done something or not done something. I believe in the ripple effect and especially when it comes to people with kids. You change any part of your past and possibly you or your kids might not be here.

Lets take Doggys example of learning the drums, simple wish she had done item, lets say she did learn the drums and joined a band playing in nightclubs, now she may never have met Mr Doggy, whole knew timeline. Or maybe driving home from a gig , d*unk driver takes her car out and shes left paralysed, whole new timeline. The ripple effect is very real thats why i would not change my past or have regrets "

Yeah I'm with you there. I also believe in the multiverse, so everything is happening at the same time.

But I do have some weird beliefs.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity "

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!! "

New career? Sex therapists?

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!!

New career? Sex therapists? "

My shit marriage certainly didn’t give me the skills to be a sex therapist!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!! "

You can't be a real woman then as you think your only nearly always right.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!!

You can't be a real woman then as you think your only nearly always right. "

True but I did say I had learned to be more compassionate so sometimes I like to let another person be right but only very occasionally!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!!

You can't be a real woman then as you think your only nearly always right.

True but I did say I had learned to be more compassionate so sometimes I like to let another person be right but only very occasionally!! "

Let them be right.. Or think they are right.. I do the latter, because I know I'm always right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!!

You can't be a real woman then as you think your only nearly always right.

True but I did say I had learned to be more compassionate so sometimes I like to let another person be right but only very occasionally!!

Let them be right.. Or think they are right.. I do the latter, because I know I'm always right. "

Even when I'm wrong, I'm right.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I love this thread

I’ve spent the past few years regretting things and wishing I could go back and change thing but recently I’ve realised I can’t and I need to look forward and learn from my mistakes...it’s working out well so far and life’s good

Cadbury girl I love your positivity

Life makes us who we are and a shit marriage to a narcissist for 17yrs has made me a more compassionate person and given me the skills for the new career I am almost qualified for.

I should add that I am still crabbit and think I’m nearly always right but nobody is perfect!!

You can't be a real woman then as you think your only nearly always right.

True but I did say I had learned to be more compassionate so sometimes I like to let another person be right but only very occasionally!!

Let them be right.. Or think they are right.. I do the latter, because I know I'm always right.

Even when I'm wrong, I'm right."

I’m never wrong only ever misinformed by someone else so technically they are wrong not me

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over a year ago

Apologies doggy for taking this way off topic.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Apologies doggy for taking this way off topic.

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Yes it was wrong of you to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies doggy for taking this way off topic.

Yes it was wrong of you to do this "

Kiss and pint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies doggy for taking this way off topic.

Yes it was wrong of you to do this "

Is that not your raison d'êtra!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies doggy for taking this way off topic.

Yes it was wrong of you to do this

Is that not your raison d'êtra! "

Nah.. It's just my reason for being though.

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over a year ago


"I dont believe in these types of posts. Regrets and wishing you had done something or not done something. I believe in the ripple effect and especially when it comes to people with kids. You change any part of your past and possibly you or your kids might not be here.

Lets take Doggys example of learning the drums, simple wish she had done item, lets say she did learn the drums and joined a band playing in nightclubs, now she may never have met Mr Doggy, whole knew timeline. Or maybe driving home from a gig , d*unk driver takes her car out and shes left paralysed, whole new timeline. The ripple effect is very real thats why i would not change my past or have regrets

Yeah I'm with you there. I also believe in the multiverse, so everything is happening at the same time.

But I do have some weird beliefs."

Oh I believe that too. I wouldn't change a thing in my life. It's been pretty damn amazing though. I'm lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont believe in these types of posts. Regrets and wishing you had done something or not done something. I believe in the ripple effect and especially when it comes to people with kids. You change any part of your past and possibly you or your kids might not be here.

Lets take Doggys example of learning the drums, simple wish she had done item, lets say she did learn the drums and joined a band playing in nightclubs, now she may never have met Mr Doggy, whole knew timeline. Or maybe driving home from a gig , d*unk driver takes her car out and shes left paralysed, whole new timeline. The ripple effect is very real thats why i would not change my past or have regrets "

Only just saw this.....you're a cheery cnut you, ain't ye?! D*unk driver takes me out....fucking hell....aye...Happy Thursday folks!

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Sliding doors, ain’t it eh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sliding doors, ain’t it eh. "

Knowing my luck, I'd have woke up in a hospital bed next to HeDevil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sliding doors, ain’t it eh.

Knowing my luck, I'd have woke up in a hospital bed next to HeDevil "

Hahahaha this made me snort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sliding doors, ain’t it eh.

Knowing my luck, I'd have woke up in a hospital bed next to HeDevil "

You're offspring would have been the much maligned devil dogs then.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Sliding doors, ain’t it eh.

Knowing my luck, I'd have woke up in a hospital bed next to HeDevil

Hahahaha this made me snort "

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over a year ago


"Sliding doors, ain’t it eh.

Knowing my luck, I'd have woke up in a hospital bed next to HeDevil

You're offspring would have been the much maligned devil dogs then. "

*Your* dann.. Bad start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sliding doors, ain’t it eh.

Knowing my luck, I'd have woke up in a hospital bed next to HeDevil

You're offspring would have been the much maligned devil dogs then.

*Your* dann.. Bad start. "

*Damn*. I see where this is heading.. I should head back to bed.

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