FabSwingers.com forum: Age Filters : A Different Perspective (I Hope)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people have age because I seem to be outside the filter of people who I find attractive... PSYCH. Now the serious bit.

If a couple contacts you either by message or wink or you see a profile you that appeals.. But one of the couple is outside your age would you meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Why do people have age because I seem to be outside the filter of people who I find attractive... PSYCH. Now the serious bit.

If a couple contacts you either by message or wink or you see a profile you that appeals.. But one of the couple is outside your age would you meet them? "

Age limits are for me a general preference however it’s based on experience that’s not to say there aren’t exceptions to the rule, I’ve always had a thing for older men but lately I’m finding myself becoming more attractive to younger men and it’s not even as I’m broody and looking for virile male lol so it’s not a subconscious thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age obviously plays some part in attraction but if I found someone attractive, age wouldn't bother me much.

Younger would we bother me more than older. Just because of maturity. But it's the total package that attracts me. We should all be greater than the sum of our parts.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I've met out with my preferred age range. I have my filters on to cut back on messages really x

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Avoid discriminating against anyone by simply reverting to the 18 - 99 year age range!

(Actually had to check my own age filter there before posting!)

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Avoid discriminating against anyone by simply reverting to the 18 - 99 year age range!

(Actually had to check my own age filter there before posting!) "

What's this got to do with discrimination? I think it's a bit concerning for someone in their 40s or older to be on the look out for 18-19 year olds.

I would never ever meet up with a teenager, or an OAP. People who have no preferences and would shag whoever comes across their way are ones I stay well clear off as well x

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Avoid discriminating against anyone by simply reverting to the 18 - 99 year age range!

(Actually had to check my own age filter there before posting!)

What's this got to do with discrimination? I think it's a bit concerning for someone in their 40s or older to be on the look out for 18-19 year olds.

I would never ever meet up with a teenager, or an OAP. People who have no preferences and would shag whoever comes across their way are ones I stay well clear off as well x"

It was just a wee jokey lighthearted comment.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Avoid discriminating against anyone by simply reverting to the 18 - 99 year age range!

(Actually had to check my own age filter there before posting!)

What's this got to do with discrimination? I think it's a bit concerning for someone in their 40s or older to be on the look out for 18-19 year olds.

I would never ever meet up with a teenager, or an OAP. People who have no preferences and would shag whoever comes across their way are ones I stay well clear off as well x

It was just a wee jokey lighthearted comment.

Ah ok!!! Sorry. Too often discrimination is mixed up with personal preference. So I figured, here's another one, can't have personal preference on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmm...dunno.

Mibbes.... But I'd be more likely to go a bit older, I think. Recently saw a couple where the female was 19 and absolutely stunning but never in a million years would I pursue that. Would just feel like a silly old woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have age filters as such but age preferences on my profile. No need for filters as might surprise people to know I'm not inundated with messages!

But I rarely chat to anyone outside my age preferences as a bit like doggy said, I'm aware of my own age and I would never want to be that creepy middle aged guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't have age filters as such but age preferences on my profile. No need for filters as might surprise people to know I'm not inundated with messages!

But I rarely chat to anyone outside my age preferences as a bit like doggy said, I'm aware of my own age and I would never want to be that creepy middle aged guy. "

Filters /preferences tomato/tomatoe.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

If I liked their face and the chat was good then, yes. A couple of my favourite fabbers are slightly outside of ours.

V x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

It would depend how they looked, if they were a yr or two over the preference possibly, 10 years over ... nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I liked their face and the chat was good then, yes. A couple of my favourite fabbers are slightly outside of ours.

V x"

Just checked...still inside by 5 yrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I liked their face and the chat was good then, yes. A couple of my favourite fabbers are slightly outside of ours.

V x

Just checked...still inside by 5 yrs

Some of her least favourite are inside though.. Come join me in the doghouse..

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Age preferences are simply that, preferences. We have them however if the occasion arises that we meet someone outwith our preferred ages then we have a wee chat and if one of us isn’t too keen to take things further then we respect that as we both have to be comfortable. I’m a nightmare at guessing someone’s age when meeting socially so sometimes it’s a bit of a shock to realise how young or old they may be when you don’t know in advance.

Preferences are not set in stone and ours certainly change regularly x

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By *oolsGoldxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Prefer older men, just a preference

It’s not a hard and fast rule tho.. I’d have no problem deviating from it if I liked them.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"If I liked their face and the chat was good then, yes. A couple of my favourite fabbers are slightly outside of ours.

V x

Just checked...still inside by 5 yrs

Some of her least favourite are inside though.. Come join me in the doghouse..

The block list isn't long but I think most on it are within our preferences... Wouldn't say anyone who's on my friends list was in the doghouse! Doggy is more of a lap dop anyway I think

just with a killer bite on her!

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I liked their face and the chat was good then, yes. A couple of my favourite fabbers are slightly outside of ours.

V x

Just checked...still inside by 5 yrs

Some of her least favourite are inside though.. Come join me in the doghouse..

The block list isn't long but I think most on it are within our preferences... Wouldn't say anyone who's on my friends list was in the doghouse! Doggy is more of a lap dop anyway I think

just with a killer bite on her!

V x"

*thinks to himself.. Doggy and or Vanessa may hop on my lap anytime they want. *

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