FabSwingers.com forum: Snapchat outing us

By *amaraBeaverbank OP Woman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Spotted yesterday there was an article on snapchat. It was one of those expose articles trying to make us all look a bit sex maniac and rude to people exploring the lifestyle. It seemed to shame women mostly and I was wondering who saw it and what thoughts on it were.

My worry on reading it was more we'll end up with more fakes and journos trying to catfish us into chats.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a journalist would be all that interested in my sex life

By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

There's a lot on here already who are rude to people exploring the lifestyle.

By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Lots of people on here are extremely rude and judgemental to be on honest and as a society we do shame women who enjoy sex. It happens a lot on here too. Right now we're at a place where women can enjoy sex but only with one set partner, preferably a husband. Anything else is completely deviant and shameful. Maybe in another 10 or 20 years that'll be different.

V x

By *amsay BoltonMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Anything out of the norm will always be judged. Just look at how long it took for tattoos to stop being referred to as only criminals having them. Now everyone and their granny has a sleeve lol

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... as a society we do shame women who enjoy sex. It happens a lot on here too. Right now we're at a place where women can enjoy sex but only with one set partner, preferably a husband. Anything else is completely deviant and shameful. Maybe in another 10 or 20 years that'll be different.

V x"

Absolutely agree. Me and my wife have a very open yet honest sexual relationship. Romantically we only want each other.. But sex and sexuality we see as very different and open. Thing is, as you say, the place society is at just now means we can't tell anyone we want about our lifestyle as folk will act like they the right to judge us sadly. Websites likes this one with forums like this means we can interact with like minded accepting people thankfully.