FabSwingers.com forum: Bi guys

By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

So I’m assuming if a guy puts bi on his profile it’s not a mistake and there is no way he won’t be getting messages from guys that will therefore alert him to the fact he’s ‘accidentally’ said he is bi

This site makes me smile more than frown x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some guys definition of bi is different from others but I've got a feeling bi guys get less messages that "straight" guys from other guys

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who did you catch out?

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Who did you catch out?

Think he wants me to name him as he says he will have more luck

Not sure if he means with guys though

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Some guys definition of bi is different from others but I've got a feeling bi guys get less messages that "straight" guys from other guys

John

Why they trying to convert lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best 1 is when a guy messages me and I politely point out I don't meet bi guys and they come back with I'm not bi?

Well why have you got bi on your profile and veris from Tv's? Yes I look at profiles before I open your message .

Or the oh I wondered why I keep getting messages from guys.thanks for pointing that out il go change it right now.

Aye..ok mate crack on

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Some guys definition of bi is different from others but I've got a feeling bi guys get less messages that "straight" guys from other guys"

Naw I'd say TVs get less messages than anyone else.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get plenty of views from men who state on their profile they are straight.

Go figure.

I get the same amount of messages as I did before i put I was bicurious.....ie none

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By *ye rolls matter!!Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Pretty sure mine says... never done anything with another guy but possibly would in the right situation. Probably makes no sense right enough but it's just me

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I get more messages and views from straight than bi guys.

Fab is a strange place

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I have viewed a couple of straight guys profiles as they have verified ladies who have contacted me and I’m just getting some background on the women.

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Have to smile at the bi females who refuse to meet bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have viewed a couple of straight guys profiles as they have verified ladies who have contacted me and I’m just getting some background on the women.

Seriously!!

That's rich coming from someone not verified! I would never meet anyone that I thought did that.

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Have to smile at the bi females who refuse to meet bi guys

Why ?

The highest risk of passing on STDs is anal sex

I’m sorry that this maybe will offend some people but bi and gay guys are a very risky group

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Why ? Can’t they buy condoms ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine who always had "straight" on his profile since he came back on Fab over a year ago and who meets TV'S as well, only just changed his sexuality to "bi curious" just several weeks ago but I had always known he must be bi curious. He knows me being the only female verification on his profile will probably make things difficult for him to meet another female again as his other veri's are from TV'S. It's difficult to say but I know he hasn't had a meet with anyone since me and there are a lot of women who just won't meet bi guys on here. Good topic for discussion though

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Forewarned (and educated on the risks) is forearmed.

I wonder how many straight women have meets with guys who have bareback hetero sex, or take drugs, or get d*unk and forget to use a condom? Or have d*unken, unprotected sex themselves?

I get tested regularly and there is no shortage of females among the clientele at the Chalmers sex clinic.

Maybe a very careful bi guy is a safer bet than a hetero one, as well as being more fun!

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The highest risk of contracting STD's comes from unprotected sex outwith a monogamous relationship.

Hardly anyone on here meets that description.

So, do all of you (and those you have sex with) always use a condom?

As swingers (by definition involved in risky activity, to various degrees), do you - and all your sexual contacts - get tested regularly?

Have you all had a course of anti-hepatitis vaccinations?

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By *dglasgow30TV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

The amount of guys that profile says they are straight message me more than any other type.

Just because they don't show the verification doesn't mean they haven't been with another guy. There are certain gay guys on here that say they only meet straight guys. And there are straight guys on here that have profiles on fabguys. So I don't think you can be 100% sure of what people say they are but you can be 100% precautious and have safe sex with everyone your not sure of.

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"The highest risk of contracting STD's comes from unprotected sex outwith a monogamous relationship.

Hardly anyone on here meets that description.

So, do all of you (and those you have sex with) always use a condom?

As swingers (by definition involved in risky activity, to various degrees), do you - and all your sexual contacts - get tested regularly?

Have you all had a course of anti-hepatitis vaccinations?

Yeah I totally get all this

I just think limit risks where you can

You can’t eliminate all chance of risk and be a swinger I get that

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"The amount of guys that profile says they are straight message me more than any other type.

Yeah I get what you are saying and don’t disagree

It’s impossible to know who is lying

I just try to eliminate risks where I can

Perhaps I’ll change my profile to meeting no one as then no risk - not sure it would be as much fun though

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By *orthern DelightsCouple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire/fife

Good reading all the posts as most make sense. To Littlemissknowitall, I am bi-curious but it’s not for anal. My thoughts are that I would possibly like to play/suck a guy in a specific scenario with my partner. Unfortunately on here you can’t state that you are only orally bi-curious.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"Have to smile at the bi females who refuse to meet bi guys

Why ?

The highest risk of passing on STDs is anal sex

I’m sorry that this maybe will offend some people but bi and gay guys are a very risky group "

If protected theres less risk than bareback hetro sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi and there are at least 7 or 8 so called straight guys each week contact me asking for a meet. There are a lot of them about.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Any sex carries risk even so called safe sex has risk.

Just because a female is bi dosnt mean she loses personal choice in whether she wants sexual contact with a bi guy. The same goes for the reverse.

To many folk seem to want to feel slated for others choices im not against bi or gay folk they just dont intrest me sexually (this includes fems find fems going at it boring)

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Good reading all the posts as most make sense. To Littlemissknowitall, I am bi-curious but it’s not for anal. My thoughts are that I would possibly like to play/suck a guy in a specific scenario with my partner. Unfortunately on here you can’t state that you are only orally bi-curious.

Xx"
anal dosnt make bi sexual attraction to both sexes is what makes you bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any sex carries risk even so called safe sex has risk.

Just because a female is bi dosnt mean she loses personal choice in whether she wants sexual contact with a bi guy. The same goes for the reverse.

To many folk seem to want to feel slated for others choices im not against bi or gay folk they just dont intrest me sexually (this includes fems find fems going at it boring)"

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By *tarmix2020Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Women who are bi, but “won’t meet bi guys”.

Supreme levels of hypocrisy.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Have to smile at the bi females who refuse to meet bi guys

Why ?

The highest risk of passing on STDs is anal sex

I’m sorry that this maybe will offend some people but bi and gay guys are a very risky group "
& women dont partake in anal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who are bi, but “won’t meet bi guys”.

Supreme levels of hypocrisy.

Why?

We (folk on Fab) can ask for whatever we like on here and specify who we do or do not want to meet. There are BBWs who only want to meet guys who are ripped to fuck, gym bunnies who only want to meet other folk with six packs, women who only want BBCs, men who state on their profiles "no fatties". Are they narrowing their chances of getting a meet? Quite possibly. Are they perfectly within their rights to be picky about who they have sex with? Abso fucking lutely.

Folk are here, first and foremost, to fulfil their own sexual fantasies. Not to please other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have viewed a couple of straight guys profiles as they have verified ladies who have contacted me and I’m just getting some background on the women.

Seriously!!

That's rich coming from someone not verified! I would never meet anyone that I thought did that.

Oh I’ve always did this, a little hierarchy or trail of whose been where damn right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of guys that profile says they are straight message me more than any other type.

Had a guy message me who had straight on his profile but all his verifications were hidden. I asked to read a few which he reluctantly agreed to and then promptly hid them after I read them. They were all from bi guys/tvs and he had fucked a few of them.

So why the hell didn't he just put bi on his profile??

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