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Is there something wrong with my profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of the messages I send out are ignored or deleted. I understand that women are usually flooded with messages so can’t reply and I also understand that some women just won’t be into me. That’s fair and understandable.

However, I’m literally at a 0% success rate and I’ve been on the site for a fair while now so I’m wondering if my profile has anything to do with this and if there’s any way I could improve my profile and increase my chance of getting responses.

Thanks in advance! (would prefer tips from Women and TV/CD as they’re the groups I am looking to meet but I welcome any tips!)

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath

You'll find loads of tips if you look through previous posts, your age will be a factor for some and mentioning your parents probably doesn't help, I would suggest attending a club or social to meet people

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By *amsay BoltonMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Hate to break it to you mate but real straight men don’t fuck trannies

If it’s yer thing great but be honest and at least put bi curious dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked the same thing 10 weeks ago.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the above..if your looking to meet Tv's your at the very least bi curious so maybe try changing your profile to bi that way folk will know your open to try different things.

Also your age is very young but hey you never know.

Good luck in your search.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

You've not taken on much of the advice from your last thread...

As said then, try to add more about you and if you're looking for tv/cd then you're more in the bicurious category. It's more pansexual really but that's not an option on here...

At 21 most will assume you have flatmates or live with parents so no need to put that, just leave it as can't accommodate. Putting that you live with your parents makes you sound even younger and then the can occasionally accommodate bit is just creepy. Doubt you'll find many willing to jump out the window if your parents come home unexpectedly

As for all your sent messages being deleted or unread... Just delete all your sent messages and don't look at the status of them. If someone replies then that's a win. Try to make sure your messages are relevant to the person you're messaging too, not just a cut and paste.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above advice

But being completely honest your age will make it very difficult for you on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay that’s very true and it is good advice. I’ll take it this time hahah, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Hate to break it to you mate but real straight men don’t fuck trannies

If it’s yer thing great but be honest and at least put bi curious dude"

The correct and non offensive terminology you're looking for is "trans"

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

Well you've never messaged me so I can't say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to put a profile pic on - doesn’t need to be a face (I find a body pic works well)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to put a profile pic on - doesn’t need to be a face (I find a body pic works well) "

Ah sorry, I generally do have a profile pic and some photos. I put my account on “hide” last night. My profile as current is what I have most of the time and always when I message people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also just remember that 1 girl you thought about messaging about 500 other guys have also thought about messaging

If your message is ignored(unread)I don't see an issue with sending another a couple weeks later.

However if it's been read and ignored just accept they don't see you as someone out of the other 500 messages they have as suitable.

It's not an offence to you but it's a waiting game I guess ! Also.. i am now learning that being active in the forums gets you noticed a bit more ! So buff up your profile and just get chatting!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also just remember that 1 girl you thought about messaging about 500 other guys have also thought about messaging

If your message is ignored(unread)I don't see an issue with sending another a couple weeks later.

However if it's been read and ignored just accept they don't see you as someone out of the other 500 messages they have as suitable.

It's not an offence to you but it's a waiting game I guess ! Also.. i am now learning that being active in the forums gets you noticed a bit more ! So buff up your profile and just get chatting!

Good luck "

That’s true, thanks man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you've never messaged me so I can't say "

I think you should send a message here mate!!!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find your profile at tad boring , no personality. The 2nd public pic is a disaster you look grumpy no eye contact and the heavy beard is damn off putting . Cam you smile I'd have to guess can't see mouth to tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say too young, go to the pubs, clubs or go different places too young to be on here at your age.

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