FabSwingers.com forum: Being Pedantic

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure if I'm being pedantic but want to know what other users think equates to being disrespectful to other site users:

If there were men or women on cam and a woman or man said openly in the room 'There's no talent on cam' would you take offence if you were on cam or do you see that as being disrespectful to the other women or men on cam at the time and site users and should this member be cautioned or banned if they said it (if only their opinion or not) and should this kinda comment be left out of the rooms as it's pretty disrespectful of other folks on cam at the time as it suggests they're not attractive as such?

Just curious about your response.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

It wouldn't really bother me as they always have the choice not to look at my cam ,but I was brought up with the "can't say something nice don't say anything at all" rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jst 2 say funk ur aimin thiz at me az ppl will knw that wur in the room at the time, but ppl who knw me knw wat camz i watch, hence the the talent comment! az in the onez i watch so not being dis respectful 2 oanyby else who waz oan cam! jst think u hav taken offence 2 wat i said, dnt see u kickin oaf at oanybdy else who sayz same thingz in the room! n anotha fem said similar in the room rite afta me n u didnt attack her so wat iz ur prob?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"jst 2 say funk ur aimin thiz at me az ppl will knw that wur in the room at the time, but ppl who knw me knw wat camz i watch, hence the the talent comment! az in the onez i watch so not being dis respectful 2 oanyby else who waz oan cam! jst think u hav taken offence 2 wat i said, dnt see u kickin oaf at oanybdy else who sayz same thingz in the room! n anotha fem said similar in the room rite afta me n u didnt attack her so wat iz ur prob?"

It's not just you katz or aimed directly at you as I've seen before a few times but actually did something about it by putting it in here rather than go on and on about it in the room but looks like my opinion wasn't warmly greeted in the room by your friend either yet she'd have said something to a guy if he had said that in the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she already told u in the room she wid hav laughd n said here mate naebdy holdin a gun 2 ya heid 2 watch ma cam! n she widnae b postin thiz in a forum! seemz u hav a prob wiv me so why dnt u jst block me? az at end o day u wur the only person 2 hav taken offence at wat i said! nae hard feelinz hav fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The room has changed. Used to be a right laugh but now not so much. A comment like that wouldn't fuss me tbh. Heard and seen worse lol. x

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

I have said before that comments like that drastically reduces a persons chances in the room as people do talk about stuff like this in private.

I don't think its anything worth banning over tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it's not meant to be a personal thing as no names were mentioned and it was just to gauge a reaction rather than be anything personal but that's it fucked completely now really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you say that in english please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scott, i wouldnt take it personally no , if everyone liked the same things/kind of people it would be a hell of a boring place , and people who go on looks alone are shallow anyway , personally i think you are a wee cutie but more than that i think you are a lovely person xxxx

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

just take it as pesonal perference . you cant be everyones cup of tea !

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Agree with sensual

everyone likes different things, i personally would'nt be bothered if someone said that to me or in the room. We can't be liked by everyone

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"but that's it fucked completely now really

Quality

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure what half was said in this thread as I hopeless at text speak .....but I am guessing it depends on which way the comment is headed as to what reaction you will get.

If it is a male saying it about the women on cam there would be uproar...I am guessing if it was a female saying it there would be a lot of people saying " oh man up "

To the OP...I thought you had a straw hat on at first when I looked at your avatar

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

couldnt care less if somebody says no talent in here or on cam. Too many people take things too seriously on here.

I could write a book on some of the really insulting things said about me - water off a duck's back and wouldnt want them banned as wouldnt waste the time it took to report them

Am a bovvered?????? no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't like what they see then they don't have to look.

To be honest couldn't really care less whether people on cam think I'm gorgeous or pot ugly.

My hubby thinks I'm gorgeous and thats all that matters to me, however I do believe if you can't say anything nice then say nothing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people don't like what they see then they don't have to look.

To be honest couldn't really care less whether people on cam think I'm gorgeous or pot ugly.

My hubby thinks I'm gorgeous and thats all that matters to me, however I do believe if you can't say anything nice then say nothing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wouldn't really bother me as they always have the choice not to look at my cam ,but I was brought up with the "can't say something nice don't say anything at all" rule."
+ 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id read it as 'there is no talent (to my taste) on cam' rather than 'your all ugly fuckers on cam tonight'

I have seen it said before while not been on cam, so quickly turn the cam on so there is talent on cam

lol

Steve xx

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By *rs_staffy_hotcunto67Woman
over a year ago

my mums hole

well said t n t x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin Up Funky M8

Buboo

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Iz di Glezwegian a canny unerston hawf o it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id read it as 'there is no talent (to my taste) on cam' rather than 'your all ugly fuckers on cam tonight'

I have seen it said before while not been on cam, so quickly turn the cam on so there is talent on cam

lol

Steve xx"

Ever the diplomat steve lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well said t n t x "

What you mean to say is you would have laughed the comment off but still knocked the boy doon a peg or two? lol

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By *rs_staffy_hotcunto67Woman
over a year ago

my mums hole

no i wid have lauffed n told him no one forcing him to watch or been in a room with no talent others going off there head at sumthing like this i would have lauffed at too this is all been taken the wrong way i dont knock no one down unless its abuse there giving me personaly but hey ho thats just life as t n t said water of a ducks bk

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By *unybunyWoman
over a year ago

Living in a Scottish office somewhere

To be honest, everything said in the room has to be taken with a rather large pinch of salt I think. Different if its a direct attack though this is the point I usually get my ass booted out the room for rising to it but hey ho we cant float everyone's boat. We've all been there at some point or another and whilst slightly narked at some comments I normally just retort with "I'll just go sit in munters corner then".. ....... munters corner is where all the cool people are anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"she already told u in the room she wid hav laughd n said here mate naebdy holdin a gun 2 ya heid 2 watch ma cam! n she widnae b postin thiz in a forum! seemz u hav a prob wiv me so why dnt u jst block me? az at end o day u wur the only person 2 hav taken offence at wat i said! nae hard feelinz hav fun "

Sorry to requote a quote that's already been quoted pussyneeds, I must be being pedantic about the whole matter

lol

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Having been on cam in chatrooms over the two years or so i have been on the site , i have been called stunning and gorgeous and also been told i am too old to be on site never mind on cam .

What people see on a cam is either to their liking or not, everyone sees different things in peoples appearance , we arent optically pleasing to everyone and our personalities arent everyones cup of tea. I personally dont run peoples appearance down nor would i be intentionally rude or abusive but there are those who get some kind of satisfaction about being horrible , it takes all sorts.

I am with the people who think if you cant say something nice , dont say anything at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wasnt runnin oanybdy dwn, i jst said awe nae talent oan cam 4 me 2 watch meanin the one'z i watch.... wasnt meant 2 b takin the way funky haz taken it, but nw itz oot o porportion. so if oanybdy haz taken it az offensive so sorry but wasnt meant 2 b! n considerin a wasnt watchin pplz camz a cnt see why funk haz decided 2 post it, but then again mayb he haz a problem wiv me n should mayb mail me privately abt thiz!!!! hav a nice day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me at all . It's their opinion and they are entitled to it . No one forces them to watch a camera , my only issue is if they expect people to go on cam just to please them then it's wrong . I am often on cam when i am in chat and dont mind who is watching or what they say . I am there because i choose to be not to entertain other people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me at all . It's their opinion and they are entitled to it . No one forces them to watch a camera , my only issue is if they expect people to go on cam just to please them then it's wrong . I am often on cam when i am in chat and dont mind who is watching or what they say . I am there because i choose to be not to entertain other people .

i agree 2 wat u say well said x but i nva ask oanybdy 2 go oan cam 4 me itz there choice if they want 2 sit oan cam or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in the room and whilst not part of the conversation I have to say it never bothered me. I agree with mizz you can't be everyone's cup of tea and feel like its a flippant comment that has/is being blown out of proportion. Just my opinion of course but would suggest the subject is closed and we all move on and play nice lol at the end of the day we are here for fun, a good laugh and maybe meet some genuine people on the way. I for one would not meet or watch a cam if that person did not do it for me and likewise would not expect someone to watch me etc if I was not theirs....surely honesty is the best policy case closed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm have i missed something ? did something happen ? i just thought it was a general question ?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just take it as pesonal perference . you cant be everyones cup of tea ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in the room and whilst not part of the conversation I have to say it never bothered me. I agree with mizz you can't be everyone's cup of tea and feel like its a flippant comment that has/is being blown out of proportion. Just my opinion of course but would suggest the subject is closed and we all move on and play nice lol at the end of the day we are here for fun, a good laugh and maybe meet some genuine people on the way. I for one would not meet or watch a cam if that person did not do it for me and likewise would not expect someone to watch me etc if I was not theirs....surely honesty is the best policy case closed lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your going to be disrespectful to any one then you shouldnt be on this site !!! that and i dont give a feck what people think i look like etc etc... im usually the one sitting in the kitchen at parties playing with the dog... though not literaly...

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Katz , I just want to point out my comment on this post was made in a general sense and on a personal level , wasnt meant towards you or anyone else, live and let live is definitely my policy . xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no surprises to what our reaction would be.... block then they miss all the good bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Katz , I just want to point out my comment on this post was made in a general sense and on a personal level , wasnt meant towards you or anyone else, live and let live is definitely my policy . xxxx"

didnt think ur comment waz thongz xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

will jst state the nw if oanybdy haz a prob wiv me jst block me plz thankz x

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By *rs_staffy_hotcunto67Woman
over a year ago

my mums hole

funky wot katz said was not aimed at u in anyway she does not watch ur cam even i know that there for she hadnt seen ur cam to comment on it tbh i think its just went way over the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couldnt care less if somebody says no talent in here or on cam. Too many people take things too seriously on here.

I could write a book on some of the really insulting things said about me - water off a duck's back and wouldnt want them banned as wouldnt waste the time it took to report them

Am a bovvered?????? no"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"funky wot katz said was not aimed at u in anyway she does not watch ur cam even i know that there for she hadnt seen ur cam to comment on it tbh i think its just went way over the top "

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By *rs_staffy_hotcunto67Woman
over a year ago

my mums hole

well said katz the whole thing should have been kept to a pm or a pravite mail not full topic of converstion in the room or fourms xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said katz the whole thing should have been kept to a pm or a pravite mail not full topic of converstion in the room or fourms xxx"

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By *rs_staffy_hotcunto67Woman
over a year ago

my mums hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right think this topic has got outta hand now stop it all of you xx play nice lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"right think this topic has got outta hand now stop it all of you xx play nice lol

I agree

The End.

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