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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so.. is anyone ( like myself) totally put off by the state of some ones house in the background of there photos??

the women looking lovely,well presented etc but there house looks like its been hit by a missile ... god,at least clean your house before taking photos to put on the internet.. it makes you wonder how clean are there personal hygiene is there house is in that state ..

id be so ashamed and embarrassed to post photos of my house in that nick.

just my personal thoughts.... anyone feel the same ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't look good and keep the house clean.

How would we fit in the sex too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so.. is anyone ( like myself) totally put off by the state of some ones house in the background of there photos??

the women looking lovely,well presented etc but there house looks like its been hit by a missile ... god,at least clean your house before taking photos to put on the internet.. it makes you wonder how clean are there personal hygiene is there house is in that state ..

id be so ashamed and embarrassed to post photos of my house in that nick.

just my personal thoughts.... anyone feel the same ??"

Yeah seems to be a real bugbear of yours. You've written about it on your profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other side of that coin somebody could have an immaculate house but still have scrot rot so a perfect household doesn't guarentee perfect hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the other side of that coin somebody could have an immaculate house but still have scrot rot so a perfect household doesn't guarentee perfect hygiene "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a great image to view but gets the point across lol

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath


"so.. is anyone ( like myself) totally put off by the state of some ones house in the background of there photos??

the women looking lovely,well presented etc but there house looks like its been hit by a missile ... god,at least clean your house before taking photos to put on the internet.. it makes you wonder how clean are there personal hygiene is there house is in that state ..

id be so ashamed and embarrassed to post photos of my house in that nick.

just my personal thoughts.... anyone feel the same ??"

We feel the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well if your on a site looking to meet people.. and say you can accomodate.at least tidy up your accomodation ... a couple of times ive went to meet some one and made my excuses and left because of the filthy mess of the house..

a few with the smell alone!! ffs..

no need for it " in my opinion"

if u cant be bothered to clean your house then its a total put off for me... and yep,.. ive put it on my profile also...its obviously "my opinion" thats why i asked if anyone else feels the same ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so at least its not just me being a dick then. lol. when u see ash trays piled up with fag ends.empty beer cans and bottles or glasses and cups plates etc sitting about the room..even worse bucky etc bottles on there window sills .. barfff... .worn underwear etc strewn all over the room.. stuff looking like its been there for weeks maybe months... ffs.. mould growing in cups.. biohazard alert.. lol

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath


"so at least its not just me being a dick then. lol. when u see ash trays piled up with fag ends.empty beer cans and bottles or glasses and cups plates etc sitting about the room..even worse bucky etc bottles on there window sills .. barfff... .worn underwear etc strewn all over the room.. stuff looking like its been there for weeks maybe months... ffs.. mould growing in cups.. biohazard alert.. lol "

Your making me feel ill just thinking about our house needs decorating badly only moved in a few month ago but it gets cleaned every day how can you relax in an untidy house

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

So dont meet them.

are you trying to highlight these people to shame them ........are you trying to convince all prospective meets how amazingly clean you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no, indeed i am not. or i would have named and shamed those..which i would never ever do.... dont make of it something its not meant to be or insinuating so either.... im not that type of person.... ive been on and off this site since the very beginning around 20 years or so ago.. and have seen it all... if you read my post..

as i said its in "my personal opinion" and asking if anyone feels the same...were all entitled to our opinion.. especially the poster who actually took the time to ask others how they feel about it.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"no, indeed i am not. or i would have named and shamed those..which i would never ever do.... dont make of it something its not meant to be or insinuating so either.... im not that type of person.... ive been on and off this site since the very beginning around 20 years or so ago.. and have seen it all... if you read my post..

as i said its in "my personal opinion" and asking if anyone feels the same...were all entitled to our opinion.. especially the poster who actually took the time to ask others how they feel about it. "

20 years ago you were 15

R

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By *lasgowSocialButterfliesCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

[Removed by poster at 23/02/19 00:28:27]

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"no, indeed i am not. or i would have named and shamed those..which i would never ever do.... dont make of it something its not meant to be or insinuating so either.... im not that type of person.... ive been on and off this site since the very beginning around 20 years or so ago.. and have seen it all... if you read my post..

as i said its in "my personal opinion" and asking if anyone feels the same...were all entitled to our opinion.. especially the poster who actually took the time to ask others how they feel about it.

20 years ago you were 15

R "

The site isn’t 20 years old

K x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"no, indeed i am not. or i would have named and shamed those..which i would never ever do.... dont make of it something its not meant to be or insinuating so either.... im not that type of person.... ive been on and off this site since the very beginning around 20 years or so ago.. and have seen it all... if you read my post..

as i said its in "my personal opinion" and asking if anyone feels the same...were all entitled to our opinion.. especially the poster who actually took the time to ask others how they feel about it.

20 years ago you were 15

R

The site isn’t 20 years old

K x"

I didn't want to be too picky

R

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Im saying it as i see it.

the question has no point i see no person saying oh i love meeting a clatty mare nor will i.

So its not really a question its more akin to a statement disguised as a question.

Its the motivation behind that statement im trying to get a hold of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and i said,,, "around" 20 years or so ago... back in dial up internet days, when it took u about 20 mins to click a website through AOL. back at faceparty days before the bebo and facebook twitter and all that.. so over 15 yrs ago anyways..

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"and i said,,, "around" 20 years or so ago... back in dial up internet days, when it took u about 20 mins to click a website through AOL. back at faceparty days before the bebo and facebook twitter and all that.. so over 15 yrs ago anyways..

"
nope not 15 either digging a hole with those who have been here since the start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the motivation "behind " the statement??

so the "motivation" behind the statement is that some people dont clean there houses and are happy to post pictures of them onto the internet of them all

"tarted" up and there houses are a shite tip... its not only people on the site.. and a lot of people dont have much money these days in the current financial climate..but thats nothing to do with cleanliness and tidying up your house before taking photos and putting them online to dating sites etc...

and some of my best pals and family have unruly messy houses.. we all have sometimes a bit of a mess in the house and dishes in our sinks.. but there not posting pictures of it on the internet looking to attract someone to there home for sex.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

And there you go the motivation behind your statement was one of the two options i mentioned thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your welcome. each to there own opinions.. and the post was in my "personal thoughts"

if you read it back....

but it as not to "shame " others or to make "myself" look cleaner than others... but just an observation...

im not getting into your nit picking on personal thoughts or opinions, trying to drag something into the light that isnt actually what the post was about..

in my own "experience" men are "usually" more messy than women..and women are "usually" from what ive seen in my life...are more house proud than men are... the fact is there are some right messy fuckers men and women who put pictures of themselves with total mess in the background and looking to meet and accomodate people to there homes....

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"the motivation "behind " the statement??

so the "motivation" behind the statement is that some people dont clean there houses and are happy to post pictures of them onto the internet of them all

"tarted" up and there houses are a shite tip... its not only people on the site.. and a lot of people dont have much money these days in the current financial climate..but thats nothing to do with cleanliness and tidying up your house before taking photos and putting them online to dating sites etc...

and some of my best pals and family have unruly messy houses.. we all have sometimes a bit of a mess in the house and dishes in our sinks.. but there not posting pictures of it on the internet looking to attract someone to there home for sex. "

You have duplicated a recent similar forum ask on same subject, you look great for being so particular but not so cool by duplicating same subject really.

I browsed recent topics on scots forums before creating a new one,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and what is the other post so i can check it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is that the post called messy houses?? i just searches scottish forum for it there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just noticed .. that messy house post was over a year ago...and ones with dirty house are also over a year old.... im sure there are other people with the same questions and opinions on the site.. just saying..

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Sounds like a shaming thread to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some the things ive read on here, people like to be pissed on and even poo ?????? madness. it will not save the ocean ??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate and will put me off meeting.

Toilet in back round

Dirty clothes on floor.

General mess

Kids toys

Jees have a look before you put it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so at least its not just me being a dick then. lol. when u see ash trays piled up with fag ends.empty beer cans and bottles or glasses and cups plates etc sitting about the room..even worse bucky etc bottles on there window sills .. barfff... .worn underwear etc strewn all over the room.. stuff looking like its been there for weeks maybe months... ffs.. mould growing in cups.. biohazard alert.. lol "

Aye, awrite "kim and aggy" we get the picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would and has put me off.

But the OP has hidden his profile so maybe away to tidy his house up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Dirty fingernails are also a turn off.

With phones etc you can at least crop the mess out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont tend to judge people by their homes

we concern ourselves more by the person when we meet them and their cleanliness then.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"so.. is anyone ( like myself) totally put off by the state of some ones house in the background of there photos??

the women looking lovely,well presented etc but there house looks like its been hit by a missile ... god,at least clean your house before taking photos to put on the internet.. it makes you wonder how clean are there personal hygiene is there house is in that state ..

id be so ashamed and embarrassed to post photos of my house in that nick.

just my personal thoughts.... anyone feel the same ??"

I dont feel the same,people are good sports in the first place for making the effort to create and allow us to see pics (how many, cant be arsed style pictureless profiles are on here fr example).

Could be many reasons why a house is not up to scratch,we dont prye and we dont ask why or judge,which is a general swinging attitude also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Absolutely. Also people (men) who have dirty fingernails.

Disgusting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

pmsl..my house and person are nice clean and tidy thanks :P i turn my pe to private when im not online

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

How terribly judgmental!

I work between 40 and 70 hours in my main job and usually a further 10 or so in the second. My personal hygiene is not up for debate as I am barely home 10 minutes without showering and scrubbing myself.

My house however is a midden!!! It’s clean but beyond messy. I also have played in the sink for two or three days because I get home at 4am and cook but usually too knackered to clean them right away. That’s assumjng I’ve not ordered a takeaway to arrive soon after I get home

I don’t post pics of my home but have pics on my profile. All of which were taken in my home.

So how dare you judge another persons lifestyle.

I thought we were a less judgmental lot given how our lifestyles are judged by others.

*sigh*

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Plates in the sink. I’m a little old to play in the sink haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live, love, laugh on their walls. Unforgivable

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"pmsl..my house and person are nice clean and tidy thanks :P i turn my pe to private when im not online"

I get that its quite fun to create a forum thread and get some agreement on the subject.Being voyueristic myself i like nothing more than clicking on what i think is the perfect sexy picture.

But thats all i do,i dont scrutinise pics to the point i decide on details of decor and how tidy it all is.

Hoarding for example is a recognised disorder,an obsessive compulsive thing.

Browsing other threads,i see most members show lovely patience and understanding of things like or similar to this.

If i were to be suffering from it,i would hate to think how troubling clicking on here and seeing a thread that just made me feel worse about it all would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pmsl..my house and person are nice clean and tidy thanks :P i turn my pe to private when im not online

I get that its quite fun to create a forum thread and get some agreement on the subject.Being voyueristic myself i like nothing more than clicking on what i think is the perfect sexy picture.

But thats all i do,i dont scrutinise pics to the point i decide on details of decor and how tidy it all is.

Hoarding for example is a recognised disorder,an obsessive compulsive thing.

Browsing other threads,i see most members show lovely patience and understanding of things like or similar to this.

If i were to be suffering from it,i would hate to think how troubling clicking on here and seeing a thread that just made me feel worse about it all would do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How terribly judgmental!

I work between 40 and 70 hours in my main job and usually a further 10 or so in the second. My personal hygiene is not up for debate as I am barely home 10 minutes without showering and scrubbing myself.

My house however is a midden!!! It’s clean but beyond messy. I also have played in the sink for two or three days because I get home at 4am and cook but usually too knackered to clean them right away. That’s assumjng I’ve not ordered a takeaway to arrive soon after I get home

I don’t post pics of my home but have pics on my profile. All of which were taken in my home.

So how dare you judge another persons lifestyle.

I thought we were a less judgmental lot given how our lifestyles are judged by others.

*sigh*"

Well said

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Well said Tony X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Live, love, laugh on their walls. Unforgivable "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you and I'm the same if anyone posts pics looking like they have just been dragged through a bush backwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be quite untidy at home but keep my workplace immaculate because it impinges on others.

Untidy is one thing but grotty is another and we as a couple would give a wide berth to anyone who's not whizzed a Hoover round in months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite house proud.

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