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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see alot of profiles that say similar to "send a face pic or i won't reply". Very often from a profile with no facepic themself

What are peoples' thoughts on that? While i know people can do what they want to out wasted time, surely for the sake of privacy and discretion its a tad harsh? I'd rarely send a facepic 1st message but gladly would after an initial reply

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see alot of profiles that say similar to "send a face pic or i won't reply". Very often from a profile with no facepic themself

What are peoples' thoughts on that? While i know people can do what they want to out wasted time, surely for the sake of privacy and discretion its a tad harsh? I'd rarely send a facepic 1st message but gladly would after an initial reply

Thoughts?"

People can ask for what they like...up to you whether you want to pander to it or not. Some folk like to cut straight to the chase and fair play to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to send 1 do

If not don't

Simple

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don’t give it any thought tbh I just wouldn’t do it end of ....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I never ask for one and never send one until several messages have bn exchanged and we appear to have a connection.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I can understand the reason why they want to see early on, it saves chatting to someone for a while then you see their face and you aren't attracted to them but this isn't really the kind of place most people want to show everyone.

It's not something I would demand straight away and I wouldn't send a picture so quickly.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don’t send one till I’m comfortable. It’s a bit meh when someone sends one with initial message and pretty much demands one back they usually just get deleted. No where on my profile does it say must send face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I ask for a face pic, and usually will send it back straight off. It just is a way to sort out who I'm connecting with and who to invest time in. If you don't want to send one then no skin off my nose, just move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send them until we know the profile is 100% genuine and we def going to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After due diligence on a profile that catches my eye I’m happy to attach a face pic.

Some reciprocate, some patch me.

I tend to swerve the “must do” “must send” *must jump” profiles.

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