FabSwingers.com forum: Cant accom, cant travel

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have seen a few profile that say they cant accom or travel but are looking for fun. Just wondering how said fun happens if you don't travel or accom?

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of life's mysteries

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's one of life's mysteries "

Its has us both stumped??

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By *wazuluMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

They expect a chauffeur to collect them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They expect a chauffeur to collect them?

But they cant travel so wouldn't that rule out a chauffeur haha

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel.

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By *uburban_kinkCouple
over a year ago

Motherwell

Ha good point, hadn’t actually thought of that before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel."

Then wouldn't you say you could travel if you're willing to bus,train walk ect?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ha good point, hadn’t actually thought of that before

We've seen it loads and thought it must be a thing so thought we would ask

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel.

Then wouldn't you say you could travel if you're willing to bus,train walk ect?"
Is why i said generally, and why i said if really connect, doubt anyone would spur of the moment jump on a train or bus to maybe meet after one message, got that T-shirt years ago, 2 trains to dundee and learnt the timewaster lesson,

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

I've got that on my profile.

Reasons are I will accommodate / travel for the right person.

If you have accommodate guys think they can pop over empty their load & go after a few messages.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

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By *ffyEffWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel."

This.

I have both can't accom due to flatmate and can't travel due to not having a car, but can still get the bus or a taxi. It's also why I have "only Edinburgh" on my profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have seen a few profile that say they cant accom or travel but are looking for fun. Just wondering how said fun happens if you don't travel or accom?

Thanks x"

Haha took the words right out my mouth! I'd also be to hear the logistics explained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel.

This.

I have both can't accom due to flatmate and can't travel due to not having a car, but can still get the bus or a taxi. It's also why I have "only Edinburgh" on my profile too."

You can still get the bus or taxi..... doesn't that mean that you can indeed travel? I'm lost

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel.

This.

I have both can't accom due to flatmate and can't travel due to not having a car, but can still get the bus or a taxi. It's also why I have "only Edinburgh" on my profile too."

Buses, trains and taxis do run outside Edinburgh.

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"It's one of life's mysteries "

I believe it’s a code for Harthill services car park.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I guess that's a reasonable explanation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel.

This.

I have both can't accom due to flatmate and can't travel due to not having a car, but can still get the bus or a taxi. It's also why I have "only Edinburgh" on my profile too."

Wouldn't using a bus or taxi be classed as travelling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at"

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

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By *ooddoggyMan
over a year ago

town

its magic

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By *ffyEffWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel.

This.

I have both can't accom due to flatmate and can't travel due to not having a car, but can still get the bus or a taxi. It's also why I have "only Edinburgh" on my profile too.

You can still get the bus or taxi..... doesn't that mean that you can indeed travel? I'm lost "

Well, in the literal sense, sure, you're traveling.

But I'm pretty sure the options weren't given with the thought that people would just stay home and expect others to get them.

Way I understand it, "can't travel" just means you can't pick up and go anywhere you like at any time since you don't have your own travel. You're restricted to schedules, availability and whether or not you got that spare change in yer pocket. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering "

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??"

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though

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By *ffyEffWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Constantly other people in the house means accom is out.

Travel, no car but if really connect they may make the effort to,bus,taxi, train it, but generally cant travel.

This.

I have both can't accom due to flatmate and can't travel due to not having a car, but can still get the bus or a taxi. It's also why I have "only Edinburgh" on my profile too.

Buses, trains and taxis do run outside Edinburgh."

Very true, but I live on a budget.

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though "

We kind of have been getting the right answers though ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though "

It is an open forum. Thankfully you don't speak for all forum users.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??"
Explained it pretty well i thought,and you kind of did not recognise the logic. Bit like askin sumone for directions and sat nav is telling you how to get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though

It is an open forum. Thankfully you don't speak for all forum users.

Were not trying to speak for all forum users

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though

It is an open forum. Thankfully you don't speak for all forum users.

Were not trying to speak for all forum users"

I don’t think that reply was for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??Explained it pretty well i thought,and you kind of did not recognise the logic. Bit like askin sumone for directions and sat nav is telling you how to get there

What the logic in people asking for meets but cant accom or travel, or the logic in making your profile discreet or saying you don't travel or accom because your not meeting at the moment? Two different scenarios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though

It is an open forum. Thankfully you don't speak for all forum users.

Were not trying to speak for all forum users"

That wasn't directed at you. I think it's a perfectly valid question to ask. I just dont see the need for the negativity in response for nothing more than the sake of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though

It is an open forum. Thankfully you don't speak for all forum users.

Were not trying to speak for all forum users

I don’t think that reply was for you

Hard to tell who is replying to who sometimes

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

They might take travelling as over an hour or two. Could mean they only meet at clubs. Could mean they're just here to perv!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

I can understand that. It's the people asking or posting about wanting meets but cant travel or accom is more what were getting at

Have you ever asked these people?

It might save you wondering

We don't see the point in mailing profiles we have no interest in.

Also isn't this a forum to ask questions when you're wondering about something??

Sure it is

You'll probably never get the right answer though

It is an open forum. Thankfully you don't speak for all forum users.

Were not trying to speak for all forum users

That wasn't directed at you. I think it's a perfectly valid question to ask. I just dont see the need for the negativity in response for nothing more than the sake of it!

No problem, hard to tell who is responding to who when the thread gets busy

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Cant accom = no privacy in house.

Cant travel = can if they decide who they are talking to is worth the effort, assured they wont be leaft standing in a strange place after committing to go by public transport. But its best to say cant due to amount of dross messaging them and tempting them to go by public transport.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cant accom = no privacy in house.

So cant travel actually means you can travel. Youre making stuff up?? and pulling our leg. That's the most backwards way of saying you do travel

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

"Cant accom = no privacy in house.

So cant travel actually means you can travel. Youre making stuff up?? and pulling our leg. That's the most backwards way of saying you do travel"

Met a couple that had "cant accom,cant travel",picked them up in my car, they were not makin it up, they could not accomodate and they could not travel,untill i picked them up.

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By *obert JohnMan
over a year ago

London

A Shag in the front garden or the back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is this just a way for folk to get free travel?

Surely folk can get a bus or a train?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FB changed her profile to this as shes not wanting to mert anyone new. She told me it means she doesnt show up in peoples searches now and doesnt get a ton of mails now

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is this just a way for folk to get free travel?

Surely folk can get a bus or a train?

It's a handy way to confuse folk

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

It does appear that there are sometimes genuine reasons for posting can't accommodate, can't travel. Maybe it's just the same with any other profiles when we have to determine who is actually genuine. With chatting, circumstances can be explained. If it doesn't sound plausible, it probably isn't!!!

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Do you go to a TRAVEL agent to go to you local shops or nearby locations destinations ? Of course not . When people say they cant travel in my opinion they are saying they wont go far for a meet or maybe just meet in a club or at a social event. The PC brigade can obviously say well they are travelling blah de blah . But who wants to be a part of the PC brigade instead of using a bit of common sense on the issue. No doubt some people i guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you go to a TRAVEL agent to go to you local shops or nearby locations destinations ? Of course not . When people say they cant travel in my opinion they are saying they wont go far for a meet or maybe just meet in a club or at a social event. The PC brigade can obviously say well they are travelling blah de blah . But who wants to be a part of the PC brigade instead of using a bit of common sense on the issue. No doubt some people i guess. "

No I don't go to a travel agents when I want to go to the shops. But I do TRAVEL when I get the bus to work or walk to the shops or drive in the car. Thanks for the input though

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

No I don't go to a travel agents when I want to go to the shops. But I do TRAVEL when I get the bus to work or walk to the shops or drive in the car. Thanks for the input though "

Thats commuting to work and as i say you can call it travelling and you are obviously correct in the basics of the word travel. But if you want to go to another level then you could call bullshit right from the outset, we are ALL travelling through life and the final destination is death . So wont or cant travel is an instantly lie as clearly we are all travelling. Like i say a common sense approach should be applied at times and in a way that is relevant to the circumstances that the wording is used. In these circumstances it probably means , wont go far for a meet.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

No I don't go to a travel agents when I want to go to the shops. But I do TRAVEL when I get the bus to work or walk to the shops or drive in the car. Thanks for the input though

Jeez too deep for a simple question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I don't go to a travel agents when I want to go to the shops. But I do TRAVEL when I get the bus to work or walk to the shops or drive in the car. Thanks for the input though

You're just speaking shite now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never say in a conversation, "hi, I'm good, just travelling to Asda " or, "that's me, travelling back from Buchanan Galleries" I live in Glasgow, for avoidance of doubt. I would say I travel to Edinburgh. Travelling in general refers to a trip, a journey. I take a bus. I travel with a coach. But that's me.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

No I don't go to a travel agents when I want to go to the shops. But I do TRAVEL when I get the bus to work or walk to the shops or drive in the car. Thanks for the input though

You're just speaking shite now"

Haha i cant argue with that

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I would never say in a conversation, "hi, I'm good, just travelling to Asda " or, "that's me, travelling back from Buchanan Galleries" I live in Glasgow, for avoidance of doubt. I would say I travel to Edinburgh. Travelling in general refers to a trip, a journey. I take a bus. I travel with a coach. But that's me. "

Exactly my point, put much more eloquently.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I drive but there are limits to the distances I’ll drive. I’ll drive further to meet someone I know and won’t waste my time. For a social meet though I’ll limit how fat I travel.

I can’t accommodate at mine as my kids live with me but I’ll happily split the cost of a hotel.

Surely most people can get a hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have seen a few profile that say they cant accom or travel but are looking for fun. Just wondering how said fun happens if you don't travel or accom?

Thanks x"

Messaged someone who had there profile like that and got blocked x

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I like this. Well put

I'm going to Glasgow vs I'm travelling through to Edinburgh

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Not wanting to be a grammar twat about it (ha!), but in many cases “won’t” is probably the more appropriate modal verb.

I have them on so that I appear in searches, and it lets people know what I might consider. It doesn’t mean I’ll travel halfway round the country, or ship my family out to facilitate a coming together of wet bits.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Not wanting to be a grammar twat about it (ha!), but in many cases “won’t” is probably the more appropriate modal verb.

Agreed but take it up with fab

Can't is more homeless or housebound

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr

I have tried asking this to a few people who have had it in their profiles

INSTANT BLOCK

So i suppose they are either fake or here for a wee ego boost and/or to read all the pervy messages they get so they can get theirselves off on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen this too but in some cases ppl use fab to chat or use webcams rather than travel or accom it seems for some it’s their thing , remember fab brings all sorts of ppl to the fore .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some folks are just on to use chat rooms have a nose etc. for me fab is a boredom killer these days. and every so often i might venture into the chat rooms to catch up with friends i have made on here over the years

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't accommodate and found if I said I travelled, people from the arse end of nowhere near me would expect me to pop around to theirs because they fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't accommodate and found if I said I travelled, people from the arse end of nowhere near me would expect me to pop around to theirs because they fancy me. "

I only said "IF" you ever came to Glasgow.. Ffs.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don't accommodate and found if I said I travelled, people from the arse end of nowhere near me would expect me to pop around to theirs because they fancy me.

I only said "IF" you ever came to Glasgow.. Ffs.

I did think about saying "I know this is in the Scotland forum, I actually didn't mean anywhere in Scotland"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Title of thread reminds me of Adam Ant Goody Two Shoes.

Can't travel, can't accom, what do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't accommodate and found if I said I travelled, people from the arse end of nowhere near me would expect me to pop around to theirs because they fancy me.

I only said "IF" you ever came to Glasgow.. Ffs.

I did think about saying "I know this is in the Scotland forum, I actually didn't mean anywhere in Scotland"! "

And now my infamy spreads to Manchester hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have seen a few profile that say they cant accom or travel but are looking for fun. Just wondering how said fun happens if you don't travel or accom?

Thanks x"

Personally I think it’s a bit like won’t travel more than to the nearest pub or go out my way to travel just for a meet however if we happen to be I. Same place at same time them happy to meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to meet new people

Looking for fun

Can’t accommodate can’t travel

Could mean I’m looking to meet new people online with no intention of leaving my armchair

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Bumping this for a similar post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have seen a few profile that say they cant accom or travel but are looking for fun. Just wondering how said fun happens if you don't travel or accom?

Thanks x"

Always thought this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m one of the guilty ones who has this on my profile. I don’t accommodate as I live with my daughter and don’t want to take random folk into our home. In saying that I’ve had people here but that’s at my discretion and I’m always open when I’m asked why it’s on my profile- as I ask if someone has it on theirs

As for travelling I really don’t want to be driving all over the country to meet folk who may not turn up or are not what I was expecting when we meet.

Again it’s not a hard set rule but my discretion

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