FabSwingers.com forum: Horror of turning into your parent(s)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I found myself lecturing/advising my youngest the other day and I sounded just like everything I hated about my old dead Da , I apologised and now fixated that it’s beyong my control .....anyone else , ( though don’t think ma Da was on a sex site ......)

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely to sound like my Dad than my Mum. Wee Maw is a total OCD neat freak, forever moaning about the mess and plumping up cushions.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I’ll develop OCD trying not to be like him

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found myself lecturing/advising my youngest the other day and I sounded just like everything I hated about my old dead Da , I apologised and now fixated that it’s beyong my control .....anyone else , ( though don’t think ma Da was on a sex site ......)

You are you. You may have taken bits of your parents teachings during your up bringing. But it is you and your own methods and learnings that you pass down to the next generation.

How you express this is probably the most important job you will ever have as a parent.

By *uburban_kinkCouple
over a year ago

Motherwell

"I'm more likely to sound like my Dad than my Mum. Wee Maw is a total OCD neat freak, forever moaning about the mess and plumping up cushions."

That sounds exactly like my mum. Don’t think even dust has the chance to settle in her house!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was only thinking this morning that I opened my mouth, and my mother fell out.